FabSwingers.com forum: I've always wanted to know this about fab...

By *eviant Knight OP Man
over a year ago

Norton

Have you got a burning question about fab you've always wanted to know the answer to?

Perhaps another forumite might be able to help you out with the answer or perhaps a nice moderator might come along and answer them for us

Mine is, how many total active members are there? E.g in the last month

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By *ryan...Man
over a year ago

1950's Original

How did the first person get verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How did the first person get verified

After meeting the original fab site owners

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"How did the first person get verified

Admin were very active

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How did the first person get verified

Hahahaha brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was going to ask that

I’d love to see the stats like you can on some forums

Most ever online

Most threads created by..

Most posts made by..

Total members

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How did the first person get verified

Hahahaha brilliant

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lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My question would be why doesn't Fab answers enquiries that you have even though they have a contact link?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is the actual ratio of each gender/relationship status category

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By *eviant Knight OP Man
over a year ago

Norton

Why do people appear online and then when you message they have then been offline for a few minutes minimum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does a

fight a

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

How many single men are there compared to women and couples?

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"Why do people appear online and then when you message they have then been offline for a few minutes minimum?"

Because reasons

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Considering this to be an adult site, why are there no erect penis and gaping bumhole emoji’s?

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"How many single men are there compared to women and couples?"

20:1 minimum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people appear online and then when you message they have then been offline for a few minutes minimum?"

The refresh rate is about 5 minutes out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people appear online and then when you message they have then been offline for a few minutes minimum?

The refresh rate is about 5 minutes out "
lol longer in the states I had some men get irate because I didn't instantly respond.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people appear online and then when you message they have then been offline for a few minutes minimum?

The refresh rate is about 5 minutes out lol longer in the states I had some men get irate because I didn't instantly respond."

Worse with watts app… blue double tick and then left hanging lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many single men are there compared to women and couples?

20:1 minimum"

How many off those women are in an way look to meet up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why on a swinging site do they let woman flaunt their naked bodies for not actually participate in swinging in any form so in effect of clickbait to get men to pay up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does having a moan on the forums about lack of meets ever get anyone a meet?

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By *ustauseerTV/TS
over a year ago

Sedgemoor

"Does having a moan on the forums about lack of meets ever get anyone a meet? "

No it doesn’t

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Why on a swinging site do they let woman flaunt their naked bodies for not actually participate in swinging in any form so in effect of clickbait to get men to pay up? "

Nobody needs to pay to see photos, how can women's photos be clickbait to get men to sign up?

Women do not have to participate bin swinging to post photos.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

https://www.fabswingers.com/articles/FAQ

Reading the above will answer some questions e.g. Why don't admin respond

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Why on a swinging site do they let woman flaunt their naked bodies for not actually participate in swinging in any form so in effect of clickbait to get men to pay up? "

Wtf are you chuntering about?

So by that logic every woman that displays photos has to start shagging or she's clickbait.

So no chance for her to find the right match for her desires, time to decide if this is the path amd community she genuinely wants to be a part of?

She just has to fulfil her duty as the owner of a vag and spread em, coz if she doesn't she's clickbait? Man, that's messed up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why on a swinging site do they let woman flaunt their naked bodies for not actually participate in swinging in any form so in effect of clickbait to get men to pay up? "

Are we not get any by chance??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people appear online and then when you message they have then been offline for a few minutes minimum?"

It's an algorithm update time. To keep the number instantly up to date would require a lot of server processing time and slow the site down for everyone so things like that get updated periodically every 5,6 10minutes etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many single men are there compared to women and couples?

20:1 minimum"

Someone's pinched my share.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"How many single men are there compared to women and couples?

20:1 minimum

How many off those women are in an way look to meet up? "

I would think it's way more than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you get banned why can’t they give you a screenshot and a proper explanation?

I’m almost certain that I’ve been banned for something I didn’t do in the past.

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By *ryan...Man
over a year ago

1950's Original

"Why does a

fight a

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.. and how do you get the

in an

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"When you get banned why can’t they give you a screenshot and a proper explanation?

I’m almost certain that I’ve been banned for something I didn’t do in the past. "

Yes... So you don't make the same mistake again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you get banned why can’t they give you a screenshot and a proper explanation?

I’m almost certain that I’ve been banned for something I didn’t do in the past.

Yes... So you don't make the same mistake again!"

I can’t guarantee that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why can’t I get a meet?

Answer me THAT, Admin!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was as admin put it at the time given a break from the forums for 48 hours a while ago,I had no means of challenging or discussing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you get banned why can’t they give you a screenshot and a proper explanation?

I’m almost certain that I’ve been banned for something I didn’t do in the past. "

100% this. I had a 24 hour forum time out a week or so ago and I didn’t have a clue what I did wrong, the message reason was vague and generic and I couldn’t for the life of me remember doing anything that matched the reason.

If I *knew* what I’d done wrong I could hold my hand up and say “ah yeah, fair enough I can see why” and know not to do it again.

As it was I’m still clueless…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you get banned why can’t they give you a screenshot and a proper explanation?

I’m almost certain that I’ve been banned for something I didn’t do in the past.

If I *knew* what I’d done wrong I could hold my hand up and say “ah yeah, fair enough I can see why” and know not to do it again.

As it was I’m still clueless…

The JFK files will be unsealed before you ever get that answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you get banned why can’t they give you a screenshot and a proper explanation?

I’m almost certain that I’ve been banned for something I didn’t do in the past.

If I *knew* what I’d done wrong I could hold my hand up and say “ah yeah, fair enough I can see why” and know not to do it again.

As it was I’m still clueless…

The JFK files will be unsealed before you ever get that answer. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you get banned why can’t they give you a screenshot and a proper explanation?

I’m almost certain that I’ve been banned for something I didn’t do in the past.

If I *knew* what I’d done wrong I could hold my hand up and say “ah yeah, fair enough I can see why” and know not to do it again.

As it was I’m still clueless…

My last one they gave a reason. I won’t go into detail but I know for a fact I didn’t break that particular rule.

I’m sure I do enough for them to ban me without making up reasons

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

"When you get banned why can’t they give you a screenshot and a proper explanation?

I’m almost certain that I’ve been banned for something I didn’t do in the past. "

Same they should at least show proof! Surely it would be easy enough to produce it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you get banned why can’t they give you a screenshot and a proper explanation?

I’m almost certain that I’ve been banned for something I didn’t do in the past.

If I *knew* what I’d done wrong I could hold my hand up and say “ah yeah, fair enough I can see why” and know not to do it again.

As it was I’m still clueless…

My last one they gave a reason. I won’t go into detail but I know for a fact I didn’t break that particular rule.

I’m sure I do enough for them to ban me without making up reasons

You know we’ll all cop one for daring to put this out there for all to see.

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

Why isn't there such thing as a married,single or height filter if there is an age filter and other filters? Would save alot of time ...

Ohhh and a thread with named and shamed rude and ignorant people to stay away from!

Ohh and ppl who are timewasters and don't show up....

Would be nice to be given the heads up and save time ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why isn't there such thing as a married,single or height filter if there is an age filter and other filters? Would save alot of time ...

Ohhh and a thread with named and shamed rude and ignorant people to stay away from!

Ohh and ppl who are timewasters and don't show up....

Would be nice to be given the heads up and save time .... "

Things like that can be abused. That’s why they’ve never allowed it.

Littlekinks38 never showed up for our meet. She’s a timewaster to stay away from.

Now we both know that’s not true, but see how easy such a thing could be used by someone you reject/piss off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you get banned why can’t they give you a screenshot and a proper explanation?

I’m almost certain that I’ve been banned for something I didn’t do in the past.

If I *knew* what I’d done wrong I could hold my hand up and say “ah yeah, fair enough I can see why” and know not to do it again.

As it was I’m still clueless…

My last one they gave a reason. I won’t go into detail but I know for a fact I didn’t break that particular rule.

I’m sure I do enough for them to ban me without making up reasons

You know we’ll all cop one for daring to put this out there for all to see. "

I’m waiting for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you get banned why can’t they give you a screenshot and a proper explanation?

I’m almost certain that I’ve been banned for something I didn’t do in the past.

Same they should at least show proof! Surely it would be easy enough to produce it!"

Just the URL to the thread where the rule was broken would be easy enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do any of the complaints for abusive behaviour or picture stealing actually go anywhere and result in warnings or bans?

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

"Why isn't there such thing as a married,single or height filter if there is an age filter and other filters? Would save alot of time ...

Ohhh and a thread with named and shamed rude and ignorant people to stay away from!

Ohh and ppl who are timewasters and don't show up....

Would be nice to be given the heads up and save time ....

Things like that can be abused. That’s why they’ve never allowed it.

Littlekinks38 never showed up for our meet. She’s a timewaster to stay away from.

Now we both know that’s not true, but see how easy such a thing could be used by someone you reject/piss off?

That's so true but then I've never cancelled or not showed up so I'd be OK then lol do it like a rating system 1 to 10 likely you'd show up for agree coffee or meet! I dunno but would beery helpful! I mean if you can verify them genuine surely you can verify them not genuine .... but yeh I know what ya mean! Cj xx

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