FabSwingers.com forum: Ladies do you ever film yourselves... You know?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If I can't ask the question here I won't be able to ask it anywhere

so here goes...

I want to send my lovely fwb a video of me, ahem, pleasuring myself (we are long distance at the moment so it's the next best thing). Historically I've kinda just done the deed with one hand and then zoomed in on the action with the other, but apparently he is not too much a fan of disembodied genitals (I know right, what a diva

I am not opposed to capturing more of my body (sans face, obvs) but the reason I usually don't is because I just look awkward? Like a trussed up turkey. During sex I tend to be too preoccupied to think about it but when you're watching footage back there's nothing else to focus on, you know?

I've tried watching female masturbation videos on porn sites for inspiration but they're usually filmed by another person and from above, so the angle is more flattering. So yeah if anyone could give me pointers on how to film an Oscar-winning solo sesh I'd be forever indebted to you

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Selfie stick?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't ever film, I'd over perform.

Can you do it while video calling? Point camera at your face and watch/listen to him. That's more natural, apparently...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got images of you looking a trussed up turkey now

How about lying on your side?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they do or at least they used to

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Or put your phone on the dresser, then he can see more you, but less detail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a ring doorbell for your bedroom place it in a flattering area and just crop the parts from the footage that you do like

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Well...

Amber.

Focus on the face. The good stuff. He wants to see you enjoying yourself, the little gasps, the smiles when you're getting closer. Men like hearing you, so make sure you've got good audio. Include a slower shot showing your full body if you want but don't just focus on you finger blasting yourself/dildoing yourself to hell.

Think about how he feels, what it's like when he's with you. Remember that and smile and just enjoy it.

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton

I have done it in front of a mirror and propped my phone up to film the image in the mirror

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Selfie stick?"

LMAO wow it's so obvious when you say it. I hadn't even thought of that

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Also trussed up turkey is amazing. 100% going to film myself tonight and see if I have that look.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Or put your phone on the dresser, then he can see more you, but less detail

This. Prop it up somewhere. I didn’t realise until recently but you can crop videos so if you did want to remove your face you could.

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

Invite a sexy lady round to be your camera person. I'm sure your FWB would appreciate it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I couldn't ever film, I'd over perform.

Can you do it while video calling? Point camera at your face and watch/listen to him. That's more natural, apparently..."

We have very different schedules and are never free at the same time (also we are in different time zones for the next few weeks)

Also that would involve me tidying my room. In case I accidentally flip the camera or something

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've got images of you looking a trussed up turkey now

How about lying on your side? "

HA it doesn't take much tbh

Omg have you ever seen like, a seal lying on a rock and trying to turn on its side and its entire belly flops over? Because that is basically what you're proposing I send my fwb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a go pro and do it Francis Bourgeois style.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes they do or at least they used to "

Source: trust me bro

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Or put your phone on the dresser, then he can see more you, but less detail

Yeah this is usually how I take pics. I'm just wondering about body positions, whether my thighs and belly will cover too much of the view if I'm lying down from that angle etc. It all seems far too complicated tbh

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Get a ring doorbell for your bedroom place it in a flattering area and just crop the parts from the footage that you do like

That's quite an investment and a lot of effort

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well...

Amber.

Think about how he feels, what it's like when he's with you. Remember that and smile and just enjoy it. "

Thank you Meli, this is beaut advice

I wasn't planning on putting my face in it though. I trust him, but... I'm just wary of these things.

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

No idea, I just couldn't and wouldn't.

Selfie stick or a tripod on the bedside table? Ask the audience? Phone a friend...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have done it in front of a mirror and propped my phone up to film the image in the mirror "

Time to clear my floordrobe...

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

We have a remote control selfie stick that converts to a tripod. If sending cheeky vids to T I normally cut out the beginning & end so be only gets the best bit

J x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Also trussed up turkey is amazing. 100% going to film myself tonight and see if I have that look.

Haha make sure you report back

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Or put your phone on the dresser, then he can see more you, but less detail

This. Prop it up somewhere. I didn’t realise until recently but you can crop videos so if you did want to remove your face you could. "

Ooh I didn't know this! Do you use a special app?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Urgh i hate doing this.. The camera falls over, everything is out of focus, the sound is wrecked by the bedsheets crushing the mic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually done one today. I prop the phone up on a pillow in front of me, legs spread and enjoy

J x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Invite a sexy lady round to be your camera person. I'm sure your FWB would appreciate it.

Haha I don't need to put anyone through having to experience the raw unedited form

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Or put your phone on the dresser, then he can see more you, but less detail

This. Prop it up somewhere. I didn’t realise until recently but you can crop videos so if you did want to remove your face you could.

Ooh I didn't know this! Do you use a special app? "

No. I did a boob drop video and wanted my face out of it. Just normal camera. Never posted it. They dropped too far for my liking

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

"Selfie stick?

LMAO wow it's so obvious when you say it. I hadn't even thought of that

It was my short answer lol the long one from personal experience, front facing camera so you can see the screen, lean the phone against a wall or steady surface and start filming, lay back and try to see if the angle is flattering but showing what you want to show, adjust slightly if needed with books or something else and then just go for it. I always used to edit it and cut the beginning and end off when faffing about getting set up and finished but maybe he likes that sorta detail if he doesn’t like close up

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

"Invite a sexy lady round to be your camera person. I'm sure your FWB would appreciate it.

Haha I don't need to put anyone through having to experience the raw unedited form

If you did want extra hands I’ll offer to help, I quite like filming people

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Thank you Meli, this is beaut advice

I wasn't planning on putting my face in it though. I trust him, but... I'm just wary of these things. "

Thank you for feeding my praise kink.

Being wary is understandable, could you do just your mouth and lower? Also, it's always good to have a little warm up so you don't just go into it cold - need to get the engine revved up a bit before you take it for a ride.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes they do or at least they used to

Source: trust me bro

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it was very enjoyable especially talking them into cummin too as they filmed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rosie does most of her pictures/vids herself using a tripod, clicker for mobile camera, and a cheap ring light. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do it under your knickers so he can just see your friction not ya flaps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do it under your knickers so he can just see your friction not ya flaps."
spunked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tripod or man with giant cock to film you

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I tend to place the phone on bedside table and film it from behind as it were has been the easiest way I can find plus it suits how I like to masturbate but I agree it’s very tricky doing it yourself and lots of editing is needed

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By *la87Man
over a year ago

acton

"If I can't ask the question here I won't be able to ask it anywhere

so here goes...

Not a woman but you can invest in a tripod. Takes a bit of practice to get the position just right, but that's the key to free your hands and allow new angles.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Well...

Amber.

Think about how he feels, what it's like when he's with you. Remember that and smile and just enjoy it. "

What _eli said ...the reaction shots are what gives the video a story

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Follow a feather moving over and exploring your body

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

"Invite a sexy lady round to be your camera person. I'm sure your FWB would appreciate it.

Haha I don't need to put anyone through having to experience the raw unedited form

If you did want extra hands I’ll offer to help, I quite like filming people

May I watch you doing the filming?

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

I was in a long distance thing for a long time and we swapped videos too, so from the mans perspective of what I enjoyed getting and that worked for her, firstly, let him hear you, especially if you don’t want to show your face, being vocal about your pleasure is a huge turn on, also, try different positions, like kneeling up, or laying on your side, it doesn’t need to just be you on your back. And how about in the shower? that can be very erotic too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all the great suggestion everyone! Looking forward to trying some out

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By *entlemanFoxMan
over a year ago

North East / London

"Well...

Amber.

Think about how he feels, what it's like when he's with you. Remember that and smile and just enjoy it. "

I don't think this advice can be bettered. I think we all look forward to seeing the Meli Productions version on her profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you travel to his a sit on his face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve played on camera a few times in the chat rooms and I’d definitely say it helps to have a a camera setup so you can just get on with it hands free so to speak.

If you’ve got a laptop or webcam it might be worth recording on that so that you don’t have to worry about holding a phone whilst you’re doing the business

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

You can buy a small phone tripod from Amazon for £15. Put your phone into it, put on video mode and use the selfie camera. Put the camera at the end of the bed, lie back and open wide. You'll be able to see what's on the screen of your phone. Press record, lie back and enjoy yourself. If there are any bits of the recording you want editing out of your face blurring there's plenty of apps available on Google or Apple. Good luck and enjoy, he's a lucky man!

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

"You can buy a small phone tripod from Amazon for £15. Put your phone into it, put on video mode and use the selfie camera. Put the camera at the end of the bed, lie back and open wide. You'll be able to see what's on the screen of your phone. Press record, lie back and enjoy yourself. If there are any bits of the recording you want editing out of your face blurring there's plenty of apps available on Google or Apple. Good luck and enjoy, he's a lucky man!"

Some tripods come with Bluetooth remote controls too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Y'all I am watching back some stuff I made and I had no idea I was overdoing it so much with the heavy breathing during sexy times. I sound like Darth fucking Vader

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

My ex loved a video I sent him of me riding a dildo

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My ex loved a video I sent him of me riding a dildo

I need to buy some new ones... I didn't touch mine for months and when I finally got them out of storage I think the latex went funny and everything was kinda sticky? And then one of the flesh coloured ones like absorbed colours off the other toys and went all blotchy. Who knew there was an art to storing sex toys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He should be grateful that you send them to him I could never complain about what I was seeing

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"My ex loved a video I sent him of me riding a dildo

My best one is from godemiche and they come in their own pouch so I just keep it in that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ikea sell pine mobile phone holders, which are just the right angle to capture yourself playing, standing up.

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