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What makes mature lady’s so hot

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok I’m a guy in my late40s but I’ve always fancied the slightly older lady as I’ve some one off experiences with them, I’ve recent been looking at our wonderfull Uk women off late and staring to fancy that silver look. Tbh the figures of our older members are 10/10

I’d love your input on this. Thank you

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

The menopause

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The confidence they ooze.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s their confidence, a sexually confident woman is extremely attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a real soft spot for mature women

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't think age has much to do with attractiveness but then I would say that.

I see young women who are stunningly attractive and older women too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s the older you get the less fucks you give.

As in say as it is / more confidence. Not less sex! Well, less sex in my case, but you know what I mean

It’s a confidence and knowing exactly what they want. It’s not unique to more mature people but it is something I’ve seen a lot of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact that if they can't get their mouth around your cock, they can take their teeth out to make room

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"The fact that if they can't get their mouth around your cock, they can take their teeth out to make room "

its a handy ability

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

I hate being called mature... I ent bloody cheese! I like younger men, I am an older woman... Although, just woman, is best

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

We, l am, are past caring wether people find me attractive or not. Therefore that creates confidence.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"We, l am, are past caring wether people find me attractive or not. Therefore that creates confidence. "

I think *some* older women don't depend on men finding them attractive for their confidence and self worth, this ironically makes them more attractive to men

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"We, l am, are past caring wether people find me attractive or not. Therefore that creates confidence.

I think *some* older women don't depend on men finding them attractive for their confidence and self worth, this ironically makes them more attractive to men "

I've never depended on men

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By *uke-de-PleasureMan
over a year ago

Leeds

its the "je ne sais quoi" you are attracted to. That mysterious allure women tend to have, especially when older. What causes it and why some have it and others don't I have NO idea. I just that when I meet a lady with "je ne sais quoi" I am instantly captivated.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

When someone says older ladies I always think of someone in their 80’s and then I realise I’m also in that category.

I do think us ladies are more confident and know what we like and want

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Loving your answers guys and dolls , do any ladies prefer a more mature gent???

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By *andc1972Couple
over a year ago

Northants

I’m always confused by the young lads who get turned on by older ladies (myself included) why aren’t they interested in the young waifs they see out and about?

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tw eed and a two bar electric fire.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The menopause "
belter

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"The menopause "

Was the answer I was going to give. I think I'm about the age that mine will be coming along very soon. Then I'll be hot

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The menopause

Was the answer I was going to give. I think I'm about the age that mine will be coming along very soon. Then I'll be hot "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe because they look like Real Womanly females

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis


"I’m always confused by the young lads who get turned on by older ladies (myself included) why aren’t they interested in the young waifs they see out and about?"

Same here!!!

It baffles me too. I fully appreciate that Fab attention isn't the same as someone taking a shine to me in real life, so I never let it inflate my ego but I'll never get used to it.

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Their experience, self-confidence and maturity means that they bring a lot to any relationship, and therfore require confident experienced mature reciprocation from their partner(s) too.

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

Mature women have a confidence over younger men that we just find enticing. I have a crush on Annabelsadventure1 on IG. She says all the right things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe because they look like Real Womanly females "

Spot on...mature women dont seem to have the 'ego'and have more body confidence than alot (not all) of young women. But thats just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've certainly got more confident as I've got older both in and out of the bedroom. I'm also more accepting of the body I have, so I relax more with people.

Being attracted to the way someone looks, does not mean that they're the right person for you though. For me, it's can they hold a conversation, can they make me smile and laugh, do they have more to offer than looks, do they talk to and look at me like they would actually choose me rather than me being just a body that is there for sex? If it's no to any of this, a great body isn't enough and I'll not be having sex with them.

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis


"I hate being called mature... I ent bloody cheese! I like younger men, I am an older woman... Although, just woman, is best "

I feel the same- I like a younger man but not if I'm just a novelty or a tick off the bucket list! Some men who look for an older woman almost turn it into a fetish! Keep mentioning 'older or mature woman' too often & I lose all interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've certainly got more confident as I've got older both in and out of the bedroom. I'm also more accepting of the body I have, so I relax more with people.

Being attracted to the way someone looks, does not mean that they're the right person for you though. For me, it's can they hold a conversation, can they make me smile and laugh, do they have more to offer than looks, do they talk to and look at me like they would actually choose me rather than me being just a body that is there for sex? If it's no to any of this, a great body isn't enough and I'll not be having sex with them. "

Nail on the head

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Social conditioning based around when we first became sexually aware.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've certainly got more confident as I've got older both in and out of the bedroom. I'm also more accepting of the body I have, so I relax more with people.

Being attracted to the way someone looks, does not mean that they're the right person for you though. For me, it's can they hold a conversation, can they make me smile and laugh, do they have more to offer than looks, do they talk to and look at me like they would actually choose me rather than me being just a body that is there for sex? If it's no to any of this, a great body isn't enough and I'll not be having sex with them.

Nail on the head"

Ouchy, that's gonna hurt. Can I have a cuddle instead?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They know what they want!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Maybe because they look like Real Womanly females "

every age women is a real, womanly female

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I’m always confused by the young lads who get turned on by older ladies (myself included) why aren’t they interested in the young waifs they see out and about?"

most men are, when I'm out and about the number of younger men with considerably older women is very, very few usually zero.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m always confused by the young lads who get turned on by older ladies (myself included) why aren’t they interested in the young waifs they see out and about?

most men are, when I'm out and about the number of younger men with considerably older women is very, very few usually zero."

Yup good point

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've certainly got more confident as I've got older both in and out of the bedroom. I'm also more accepting of the body I have, so I relax more with people.

Being attracted to the way someone looks, does not mean that they're the right person for you though. For me, it's can they hold a conversation, can they make me smile and laugh, do they have more to offer than looks, do they talk to and look at me like they would actually choose me rather than me being just a body that is there for sex? If it's no to any of this, a great body isn't enough and I'll not be having sex with them.

Nail on the head

Ouchy, that's gonna hurt. Can I have a cuddle instead?"

Thank you

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I’m always confused by the young lads who get turned on by older ladies (myself included) why aren’t they interested in the young waifs they see out and about?

most men are, when I'm out and about the number of younger men with considerably older women is very, very few usually zero.

Yup good point"

I think its useful on a site like this to keep realistic and I tend to think actions speak louder than words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The fact that if they can't get their mouth around your cock, they can take their teeth out to make room "

Mmm gummy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They know what they want! "

That’s the main reason I have a soft spot for a slightly older woman. No games no messing around

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"The menopause "

lol the answer 1st post

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