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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are dad bods attractive?

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By *rs D.Woman
over a year ago

Tyne And Wear


"Are dad bods attractive? "

Definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At last a thread for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People will say they are on the forums .. but look at top male pics. Not a chubster in sight.

We’re doomed!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One for me also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big membership of this club!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are dad bods attractive?

Definitely "

Yayyyy lol. I finally have a chance hehe

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

Dad bod here too, all 14st 7 of me

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

If they belong to men I am attracted to

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By *hroatitboyMan
over a year ago

GLA

Love a dad bod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol im a dad and got a body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope so i have one lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If they belong to men I am attracted to "

So you wouldn’t be turned off by a dad bod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 2 18 stone hands like spades

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


"If they belong to men I am attracted to

So you wouldn’t be turned off by a dad bod "

No, body type is irrelevant

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Don't know about dad bod, there's an OAP one here!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If they belong to men I am attracted to

So you wouldn’t be turned off by a dad bod

No, body type is irrelevant "

Not enough women like you around these days unfortunately

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"People will say they are on the forums .. but look at top male pics. Not a chubster in sight.

We’re doomed!! "

Tru dat.

And there are BBW nights at swingers clubs that are packed to the rafters with male admirers......but where are all the BBM nights?

Just because some things are said on the forums it doesn't necessarily reflect the general population of Fab, given that 99% of the site don't use them.

Some women won't care. Some will like dad bods. Some will want gym fit six packs.

There's no one size fits all unfortunately.

A

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


"If they belong to men I am attracted to

So you wouldn’t be turned off by a dad bod

No, body type is irrelevant

Not enough women like you around these days unfortunately "

There are plenty of women... We can't help whose face we like though and when someone isn't doing well, on here, we get the blame for being shallow or other such nonsense ... There are some beautiful bodies on here... Male top pics are still mostly fabbed by other men... Be patient... Attraction is a funny thing and better to be fucked by someone that definitely finds you attractive than someone just fucking you because they can, no?

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


"If they belong to men I am attracted to

So you wouldn’t be turned off by a dad bod

No, body type is irrelevant

Not enough women like you around these days unfortunately

There are plenty of women like me... We can't help whose face we like though and when someone isn't doing well, on here, we get the blame for being shallow or other such nonsense ... There are some beautiful bodies on here... Male top pics are still mostly fabbed by other men... Be patient... Attraction is a funny thing and better to be fucked by someone that definitely finds you attractive than someone just fucking you because they can, no? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes definitely. Much prefer a dad bod over rippling muscles

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If they belong to men I am attracted to

So you wouldn’t be turned off by a dad bod

No, body type is irrelevant

Not enough women like you around these days unfortunately

There are plenty of women... We can't help whose face we like though and when someone isn't doing well, on here, we get the blame for being shallow or other such nonsense ... There are some beautiful bodies on here... Male top pics are still mostly fabbed by other men... Be patient... Attraction is a funny thing and better to be fucked by someone that definitely finds you attractive than someone just fucking you because they can, no? "

I make you right. I hope I didn’t sound like I was being shallow or putting all women In the same category because I genuinely didn’t mean it like that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes definitely. Much prefer a dad bod over rippling muscles "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes definitely. Much prefer a dad bod over rippling muscles "

Wpuld love tp hsow u mine see what u fink

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By *_Love_CandyWoman
over a year ago

Greater London

I love a dad bod!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love a dad bod!"

It’s nice to see that women do find a dad bid attractive

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING


"I love a dad bod!"
but I'm now a great grand bod,am I damned?

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By *hisStagsVixenCouple
over a year ago

peterborough

I like all different types of body’s got to be attracted to the whole Package though x

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

what is a dad bod.. what does it look like,, im a dad

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By *onnyABCMan
over a year ago

tain

I’m more a grandad bod with a big cock lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you!!!! My confidence has been low recently as I’ve put some timber on (covid, injures and bloody antidepressants turned me into zombie) this thread has really perked me up

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I hope so.

Had a fair few compliments since joining fab, so I feel they must be to some, despite what the media show us.

Which I'm very glad about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love a dad bod!but I'm now a great grand bod,am I damned? "

You look pretty damn good grandpa x

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By *illloganMan
over a year ago

Essex

In my experience, women I have personally been with always claimed to have no issues with a dad bod, until they experienced a more defined physique, they then seem to change their minds.

Part of me feels like women just say these things because they feel insecure with a man in good shape, being with a dad bod makes them feel at ease and sometimes better than the man if the woman is in better shape.

Controversial comment no doubt, but I have discussed this with female friends and they have admitted it

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"People will say they are on the forums .. but look at top male pics. Not a chubster in sight.

We’re doomed!! "

Yeah, but who voted for those pics and are they the people you are interested in?

As most users are male, and going by my own fabs, I'd say most of top pics are voted for by men. So it's meaningless to me.

Now if hotpics only had a 'as voted for by...' option, that would be interesting.

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By *_Love_CandyWoman
over a year ago

Greater London


"In my experience, women I have personally been with always claimed to have no issues with a dad bod, until they experienced a more defined physique, they then seem to change their minds.

Part of me feels like women just say these things because they feel insecure with a man in good shape, being with a dad bod makes them feel at ease and sometimes better than the man if the woman is in better shape.

Controversial comment no doubt, but I have discussed this with female friends and they have admitted it"

I can't agree with this, but then, that is my personal preference lol

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING


"I love a dad bod!but I'm now a great grand bod,am I damned?

You look pretty damn good grandpa x"
mwah..I think I'm in love. lol

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"In my experience, women I have personally been with always claimed to have no issues with a dad bod, until they experienced a more defined physique, they then seem to change their minds.

Part of me feels like women just say these things because they feel insecure with a man in good shape, being with a dad bod makes them feel at ease and sometimes better than the man if the woman is in better shape.

Controversial comment no doubt, but I have discussed this with female friends and they have admitted it"

It's not really controversial, it's just confirmation bias in action.

Women who have said they have 'no problem' with a dad bod, then meet you (who hasn't got one) then say they prefer a defined body?

Well, that's pretty obvious, as that's likely one of the reasons they met up with you.

How about the ones that haven't met up with you, because they 'prefer' a dad bod?

I've met plenty of women that have preferences either way, which is what I'd expect. Same as some guys like slim women and some like larger women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love a dad bod!but I'm now a great grand bod,am I damned?

You look pretty damn good grandpa xmwah..I think I'm in love. lol"

It's true, you look great x

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

i think will stop keeping fit and get a dads bod,,

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING


"I love a dad bod!but I'm now a great grand bod,am I damned?

You look pretty damn good grandpa xmwah..I think I'm in love. lol

It's true, you look great x"
you're making me tempted to visit my home town. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love a dad bod!but I'm now a great grand bod,am I damned?

You look pretty damn good grandpa xmwah..I think I'm in love. lol

It's true, you look great x you're making me tempted to visit my home town. Lol "

Are you originally from Scotland?

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By *irthytoolMan
over a year ago

dover

Unfortunately I’m out of the age range

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"If they belong to men I am attracted to

So you wouldn’t be turned off by a dad bod

No, body type is irrelevant

Not enough women like you around these days unfortunately

There are plenty of women like me... We can't help whose face we like though and when someone isn't doing well, on here, we get the blame for being shallow or other such nonsense ... There are some beautiful bodies on here... Male top pics are still mostly fabbed by other men... Be patient... Attraction is a funny thing and better to be fucked by someone that definitely finds you attractive than someone just fucking you because they can, no? "

Completely agree with what Ariel said there...

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING


"I love a dad bod!but I'm now a great grand bod,am I damned?

You look pretty damn good grandpa xmwah..I think I'm in love. lol

It's true, you look great x you're making me tempted to visit my home town. Lol

Are you originally from Scotland?"
born and raised Glasgow south side.

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By *irthytoolMan
over a year ago

dover

Same here sunny Govan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love a dad bod!but I'm now a great grand bod,am I damned?

You look pretty damn good grandpa xmwah..I think I'm in love. lol

It's true, you look great x you're making me tempted to visit my home town. Lol

Are you originally from Scotland?born and raised Glasgow south side. "

Interesting. I'm originally from East Renfrewshire x

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"In my experience, women I have personally been with always claimed to have no issues with a dad bod, until they experienced a more defined physique, they then seem to change their minds.

Part of me feels like women just say these things because they feel insecure with a man in good shape, being with a dad bod makes them feel at ease and sometimes better than the man if the woman is in better shape.

Controversial comment no doubt, but I have discussed this with female friends and they have admitted it"

I completely feel inadequate, insecure and self conscious with someone with a better physique than mine. But that's a pretty large percentage of people. But when that person does their best to make me feel desired, desirable and sexy, that feeling hides deep whether they've got a rock hard six pack and killer thighs, a "dad bod", a "rugby build", a "jelly belly", are slim, or any other label or description.

I tend to be attracted to a certain build of man, but I'm not unattracted to other builds of man, because attraction, for me, isn't that black and white.

It is possible that there are more women like me out there than your statement would suggest.

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING


"I love a dad bod!but I'm now a great grand bod,am I damned?

You look pretty damn good grandpa xmwah..I think I'm in love. lol

It's true, you look great x you're making me tempted to visit my home town. Lol

Are you originally from Scotland?born and raised Glasgow south side.

Interesting. I'm originally from East Renfrewshire x"
the world is like my willy in a cold shower it's getting smaller

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When is a dad bod no longer a dad bod ? I like to think it's what I have, depends where we draw the line!

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


"In my experience, women I have personally been with always claimed to have no issues with a dad bod, until they experienced a more defined physique, they then seem to change their minds.

Part of me feels like women just say these things because they feel insecure with a man in good shape, being with a dad bod makes them feel at ease and sometimes better than the man if the woman is in better shape.

Controversial comment no doubt, but I have discussed this with female friends and they have admitted it"

I don't understand why it has to be one or the other... I like both, as long as they are part of a man I am attracted to, facially and mentally... Without those, neither is attractive

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In my experience, women I have personally been with always claimed to have no issues with a dad bod, until they experienced a more defined physique, they then seem to change their minds.

Part of me feels like women just say these things because they feel insecure with a man in good shape, being with a dad bod makes them feel at ease and sometimes better than the man if the woman is in better shape.

Controversial comment no doubt, but I have discussed this with female friends and they have admitted it

I don't understand why it has to be one or the other... I like both, as long as they are part of a man I am attracted to, facially and mentally... Without those, neither is attractive "

You would be surprised how important it is on here tbh

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden


"Dad bod here too, all 14st 7 of me"

Lightweight

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By *intybadgerWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire


"Are dad bods attractive? "

I'd rather a dad bod than a 6 pack anyday!

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

It has taken me decades to get a dad bod like mine.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


"In my experience, women I have personally been with always claimed to have no issues with a dad bod, until they experienced a more defined physique, they then seem to change their minds.

Part of me feels like women just say these things because they feel insecure with a man in good shape, being with a dad bod makes them feel at ease and sometimes better than the man if the woman is in better shape.

Controversial comment no doubt, but I have discussed this with female friends and they have admitted it

I don't understand why it has to be one or the other... I like both, as long as they are part of a man I am attracted to, facially and mentally... Without those, neither is attractive

You would be surprised how important it is on here tbh "

Then only concern yourself with those that aren't looking for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same here sunny Govan"

Is it ever sunny in Govan?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love a dad bod!but I'm now a great grand bod,am I damned?

You look pretty damn good grandpa xmwah..I think I'm in love. lol

It's true, you look great x you're making me tempted to visit my home town. Lol

Are you originally from Scotland?born and raised Glasgow south side.

Interesting. I'm originally from East Renfrewshire xthe world is like my willy in a cold shower it's getting smaller "

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Are dad bods attractive? "

--Not to me. Why? I know it's fun and it's all about getting laid here guys, and I may really like the appearance of many of them tbh, but I just don't quite go for the mentality behind it all. It's like 'dad dancing' and 'dad jokes'. I just don't want to be there I think! There's something so 'given up' about it all that it gives me the collywobbles (I don't mean fitness I mean sharpness in some kind of way). I can certainly understand it all in the context of family life (children essentially), but not as any kind of boast outside of that tbh, esp from some of the 'single' (ahem) male chancers on here...

Also, the idea that being a dad somehow effects the body the way being a mum does (didn't 'mummy tummy' come first?), well that's just slightly 'off' for me too. Pooh, I know. We are all just getting older, that's the truth of it. Most people on Fab find their 'types' attractive in a pretty general sense I've found anyway. --pt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m partial to a dad bod x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a 'fatty' too

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By *lue NoteMan
over a year ago

Chertsey

I'm a dad in my 50s, but I'm no chubster! Get more active!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a dad in my 50s, but I'm no chubster! Get more active!"

Erm, did you just shame me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No harm for us big belly folk

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