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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m not good talking about myself has anyone got advice they could give

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice? Talk less about yourself and more about them.. people tend to like it if you show a genuine (not fake or false) interest in them.

And if anyone asks you about you … just be honest! Bingo!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have tried that but it’s no getting me anywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without knowing how you message or what you say it’s difficult to give advice.

I’m fortunate enough to have a few people I chat with on here but it’s mostly total bobbins about the weather, what they’re up to, how they’re coping with the heat etc

Do you try to go too sexual too early?

Remember the women here are normal, everyday people (well, most of them are ) so talk to them like you would if you saw them in a supermarket or pub or in the street, rather than a brothel.

It sounds obvious but it works..

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"My advice? Talk less about yourself and more about them.. people tend to like it if you show a genuine (not fake or false) interest in them.

And if anyone asks you about you … just be honest! Bingo!"

This advice nails it OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Without knowing how you message or what you say it’s difficult to give advice.

I’m fortunate enough to have a few people I chat with on here but it’s mostly total bobbins about the weather, what they’re up to, how they’re coping with the heat etc

Do you try to go too sexual too early?

Remember the women here are normal, everyday people (well, most of them are ) so talk to them like you would if you saw them in a supermarket or pub or in the street, rather than a brothel.

It sounds obvious but it works.. "
well said Dan I like you even more now men being respectful to women means everything x

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By *he_Last_TitanMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"Without knowing how you message or what you say it’s difficult to give advice.

I’m fortunate enough to have a few people I chat with on here but it’s mostly total bobbins about the weather, what they’re up to, how they’re coping with the heat etc

Do you try to go too sexual too early?

Remember the women here are normal, everyday people (well, most of them are ) so talk to them like you would if you saw them in a supermarket "

Yeah, ask how ripe their peach is and whether they have juicy melons?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He,s gone after giving advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice is to be polite and say goodbye before you leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Acknowledge that there are some people that simply won't be interested in you because of something you're not eg being black, being tall, being well endowed, being good looking or fat... Whatever it is. Then just take the rest from there

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Join in with forum/cam chat op. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh bugger, he left.

Just as I was about to give him the cheat code to fab, that would have guaranteed him being balls deep before sundown.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh bugger, he left.

Just as I was about to give him the cheat code to fab, that would have guaranteed him being balls deep before sundown."

Up, up, down, down, left, right, left, right, B, A, Start

This one right?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Go UNLOS

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley


"Oh bugger, he left.

Just as I was about to give him the cheat code to fab, that would have guaranteed him being balls deep before sundown."

I’ll pass it on

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"Oh bugger, he left.

Just as I was about to give him the cheat code to fab, that would have guaranteed him being balls deep before sundown."

I hope you don't give that code out to just any Tom, Dick or Harry?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh bugger, he left.

Just as I was about to give him the cheat code to fab, that would have guaranteed him being balls deep before sundown.

Up, up, down, down, left, right, left, right, B, A, Start

This one right?"

Try it. Either it will work or you'll.......!!FINISH HIM!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh bugger, he left.

Just as I was about to give him the cheat code to fab, that would have guaranteed him being balls deep before sundown.

I hope you don't give that code out to just any Tom, Dick or Harry?! "

I sell it more these days. Times are tough n all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh bugger, he left.

Just as I was about to give him the cheat code to fab, that would have guaranteed him being balls deep before sundown.

I hope you don't give that code out to just any Tom, Dick or Harry?!

I sell it more these days. Times are tough n all that"

I can offer you £1.35??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh bugger, he left.

Just as I was about to give him the cheat code to fab, that would have guaranteed him being balls deep before sundown.

I hope you don't give that code out to just any Tom, Dick or Harry?!

I sell it more these days. Times are tough n all that

I can offer you £1.35??"

Cash?

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