FabSwingers.com forum: At what age..?

By *ickshawed OP Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Did you look your worst?

When you look through the photo album, at what point do you cringe?

I'm going to avoid my childhood as the choice of clothes and haircut I blame firmly on my mother, along with the fact that the early 90s we're not kind to anyone fashion wise.

But I think I looked pretty awful around the age of 18. Very short, bleached blonde hair, which honestly did not suit me. A pretty rubbish choice of clothes as I really hadn't worked out what made me look good. Still spotty. Plus I weighed more than I ever have outside of being pregnant.

How about you, and why?

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Right this minute!!

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

My early twenties I look well I don't know how to describe it. Actually I looked pretty shocking most of my twenties. Definitely as my mam puts it grown into my looks

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Around 26.

I was a lot bigger than I am now and its only by looking at the photos I realise how big I was.

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton

About 25-26 I hate looking at pics of me then.

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By *heNerdyFembyWoman
over a year ago

Eastbourne (she/they)

September 2021... then I looked my best in October 2021

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

2014-2017. I just gave birth to my youngest son and had clinical postnatal depression.

Much better now and forever thankful for support I was given.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Late 20’s just after I had my daughter. I had no idea how to dress for my new larger figure, basically tried to be invisible, stupidly thought a short haircut would be easier to manage with a newborn - I was so wrong both style and time wise!

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

Now. I’ve put weight on and live in comfy clothes or clothes that suck me in.

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Teenager - awkward, rubbish hair, grumpy fucker

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Teenager. I was a typical sporty tomboy in trackies

I blossomed at 18 and and found my club babe years and swapped those trackies for hotpants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably when I was a young child I don't know what my mother was thinking dressing me in awful clothes

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Probably when I was a young child I don't know what my mother was thinking dressing me in awful clothes "

Tbf this too -it was the 70’s but she chose the worst from that era!

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

Probably about 14 when I had an unfortunate (and thankfully short-lived) experiment with curtains.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did you look your worst?

This one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably when I was about 9. Baggy clothes, bowl cut hair, Total 90 trainers. Typical kid's fashion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basically 18-41 was a write off for looking good. Since then I’ve found my identity/look/body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was about 23. I put on loads of weight after a bad breakup and hated the way I looked.

I look after myself a bit more these days and I think I look alright now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was bad from younger

I’m probably think I’m worse now

Sister said something strange the other day

She said I had got better with age

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

No specific age, just consistently vile throughout

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No specific age, just consistently vile throughout"

You’re like the male version of JAG. Only she’s cut a cracking butt no matter what she says…

Be kind to yourself dude. And your butt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 19

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I'd say now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mid-20s!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About early 30s

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Pretty much 0 to 42 years old and hear me out now…it’s not a looking for compliments thing. I just genuinely rarely think I ever look good especially in photos. Maybe it’s a childhood of bullying that’s made my brain think that way…I dunno. Brains are stupid like that. Anyway I just don’t think of myself as anything but fairly ordinary and no more attractive than the next person. I’m ok with that because if people like me, they like me however I look (or think I look) and if they don’t then ah well their loss right?

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland

26ish, died my hair dark and looked like one of those angry women that has a big dog that shits all over the yard, tries to fight their neighbours and has loads of kids with no teeth. I looked so bloody miserable too and I really was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

25 to 31 I think.

And I prefer how I look now I'm in my forties.

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By *ickshawed OP Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Probably about 14 when I had an unfortunate (and thankfully short-lived) experiment with curtains."

Ah yes, I remember that era. I had some cousins go through the same thing

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By *otsMan
over a year ago

Higham

Now!

Over weight fed up broken...

But..I'm doing something about it and have a target.

Unfortunately can't fix broken bits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now.

I'd say 17-30 was my best.

It kinda started going down hill mid 30's.

Hand on heart, there is no photos of me from last few years. Apart from the ones on here, which I always end up deleting anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

13/14. So geeky and teachers pet lol

New girl started school and became best friend. Changed my life x

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By *imontemplerMan
over a year ago

Padbury

20, I decided to colour my hair red. Why oh why did I do that. There is still a family picture that exists with me like that. I look like a startled Weasley boy.

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