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By *exyPirate OP   Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

So I’ve been excitedly chatting to a hottie on match.com all week, we have a date arranged, she asked to see my body, and immediately told me that we would have to shave me!!!

And went on to say, she likes her men to have shaved armpits… so the question is….

Hairy or smooth?!

Personally men with hair free armpits remind me of boys… would I get more love if I lost the belly fuzz?

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland

Oof! Trying to change someone before you've even met them .

Hairy, but not too much for me. When people shave the stubble is really uncomfortable when it's starting to grow back in. It's a proper turn off rubbing against you like a brillo pad, feel like it's going to take some skin off.

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By *tarkersandcrutchCouple
over a year ago

TELFORD

Its your body. Shes not worth it if shes trying to change you before youve even met. She wouldnt dye her hair because you said you prefer a colour. Why should you shave?? Stay away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's your body not hers...end of

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City

Tell her to make like an elephants cock and hit the road

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to shave to try and fit in around here.

It was expensive, time consuming, played havoc with my skin and ultimately pointless.

Don't feel pressured to change yourself for unimportant reasons. Only do it if it's what YOU want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I “manscape” as I hate that I have body hair…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't sit right with me personally, wanting to change someone before you've met them

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester


"I “manscape” as I hate that I have body hair…"

Morning perving complete ^^

I understand a trim but no armpit hair??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't sit right with me personally, wanting to change someone before you've met them "

Had that very recently when dating - I think after /during first date infact. “Get rid of the stubble” (which was on all photos she’d seen..!

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I say whatever you're comfortable with. It's your body after all. If she can't accept you for being you, maybe she's not the right one for you. A few minor changes I get that, it could be a good change but too much and that's not on really

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By *omethingDifferent4FunWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh-ish

I tend to prefer less hair (on both face and body) but I would absolutely never tell or expect anyone to change on behalf of my preferences! That's a bit of a red flag.

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By *ack 500Man
over a year ago

stafford

I’ve been contemplating a trim up of the chest hair but I just don’t know if I could do it or if it would look better ?

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By *1bttmMan
over a year ago

Shoreditch east London


"So I’ve been excitedly chatting to a hottie on match.com all week, we have a date arranged, she asked to see my body, and immediately told me that we would have to shave me!!!

And went on to say, she likes her men to have shaved armpits… so the question is….

Hairy or smooth?!

Personally men with hair free armpits remind me of boys… would I get more love if I lost the belly fuzz?"

You've arranged a date and gonna shave yr armpits on that basis alone. Aren't u being a bit presumptuous that it will lead to more? What about if u shave and she cancels?

Did she say the date is only on the "condition" u shave them? Personally if u feel u could be tempted to shave them Id wait n see how the date goes. Surely if u hit it off and she's that interested she'll want to see u again and u can do it then if u really wanna go down that road.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its your body. Shes not worth it if shes trying to change you before youve even met. She wouldnt dye her hair because you said you prefer a colour. Why should you shave?? Stay away. "

Tell her she has to dye her head hair and grow her armpit hair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who checks on armpits on a first date anyway???

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By *uckyNineMan
over a year ago

prescot

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By *uckyNineMan
over a year ago

prescot

Does she want to do the shaving herself, is it a bit of a kink for her?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I like my men to have some hair, but then if I stripped Jason Mamoa off and found he was as smooth as a cucumber, I’d not throw a hissy fit. I’d suck it up and crack on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have smooth armpits and pubic area… I love it smooth!

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By *exyPirate OP   Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

She didn’t demand shaved armpits before a date!

She said she doesn’t fancy men with chest hair, and if I wanted to be “her man” I would have to deal with it, regularly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I’m hair chest and for some reason hairy back don’t know htf that happened

Would not change who I am what I am

Take it or leave it

Most leave it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More red flags than a carnival

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By *estgalwayguyMan
over a year ago

Galway

Hi hippy

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley


"She didn’t demand shaved armpits before a date!

She said she doesn’t fancy men with chest hair, and if I wanted to be “her man” I would have to deal with it, regularly."

Wow, specific demands and not even met. Does that not raise any red flags for you?

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By *exyPirate OP   Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

She’s a gonner!

I woke up to a goodbye message from her! Stating my confidence issues as the main reason!!!

I took your advice, told her to make like an elephant trunk and hit the road

Got a new thread topic now tho!

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