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By *amster1210 OP   Man
over a year ago

Haslingden

Is it only me that thinks way to many people are on here just to perv at photos. I usually come on because I am looking to meet people and will chat to friends who are on line. But you see load's of people with no verifications, and people who reply with no can't meet, drives me mad

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

You get replies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m here for the boobies ( . Y . )

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I’m here for the boobies ( . Y . )"

I'm here for pictures of his ^^ cock.

I'll wear him down one day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Picture collectors J x

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Some do, some don't. Everyone has their reasons x

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By *ormorantMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I think way to many people bother about why others come on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it only me that thinks way to many people are on here just to perv at photos. I usually come on because I am looking to meet people and will chat to friends who are on line. But you see load's of people with no verifications, and people who reply with no can't meet, drives me mad"

Maybe it's just you they don't want to meet.

Exhibitionists need voyeurs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm here for the forums and chatting back and forth to Fab friends. If they didn't exist, I wouldn't log on as much because meeting by just using the site is pretty tough going.

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts


"I’m here for the boobies ( . Y . )"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some do, some don't. Everyone has their reasons x"

I couldn't agree more. Also, some of us are just very horny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Picture collectors J x"

It's true, I've blown up yours and stuck them all over my room. Romantic, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m here for the boobies ( . Y . )"

I’m also here for the boobies

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By *heNerdyFembyWoman
over a year ago

Eastbourne (she/they)


"Picture collectors J x

It's true, I've blown up yours and stuck them all over my room. Romantic, right? "

Are we talking "Eccentric Murder Board Meme" or "Teenage Room Poster" style?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Picture collectors J x

It's true, I've blown up yours and stuck them all over my room. Romantic, right?

Are we talking "Eccentric Murder Board Meme" or "Teenage Room Poster" style?"

Yes

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Because I feel at home here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use the site for lots of reasons. Pictures is one of them, but also organising club visits and meets.

Each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because I feel at home here"

Perve

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By *heNerdyFembyWoman
over a year ago

Eastbourne (she/they)


"Because I feel at home here

Perve "

I am worried about people who are not in any way a perve... can't trust them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because I feel at home here

Perve

I am worried about people who are not in any way a perve... can't trust them!"

You make an excellent point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm here to steal pics OP. I put them all in a scrap book with my toe nails and receipts that I got out of the bin at Morrisons.

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Boobs, mostly boobs

And the delightful forumites, obvs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it only me that thinks way to many people are on here just to perv at photos. I usually come on because I am looking to meet people and will chat to friends who are on line. But you see load's of people with no verifications, and people who reply with no can't meet, drives me mad"

With many thousands of people here you'll have a varied range of how people use the site.

In all honesty my use of fab often varies and that will be the same for many other people.

I think the best advice I can offer would be to not expect anything from fab, because sometimes a little gem appears when you least expect it to.

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm here to steal pics OP. I put them all in a scrap book with my toe nails and receipts that I got out of the bin at Morrisons. "

It's my hobby

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"Because I feel at home here

Perve "

Coming from you I take that as a compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm here for the forums and chatting back and forth to Fab friends. If they didn't exist, I wouldn't log on as much because meeting by just using the site is pretty tough going."

I like looking at what you've got in between your legs

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I reply no I can't meet at the moment because I'm not doing any new meets for the foreseeable future.I pop on and off the forum's when I am on. If that bothers others I don't care cos I'm doing fab my way and it's no one else's business what I do bar these who are involved in my journey.I even have it written in my profile so people if they read it don't waste their time messaging me asking to meet,if they do message and ask then it's only their own time they wasted.

I don't see why what others do on here is such a big deal for people.Concentrate on your own journey and on people who want the same thing as you.

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By *heVoyeur75Man
over a year ago

Jarrow

I'm here purely for the dietary and nutrition advice

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I’m here for the forums and occasional cam , I’ll show myself out then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm here purely for the dietary and nutrition advice"

Lol! Slow cooker recipes?

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By *heVoyeur75Man
over a year ago

Jarrow


"I'm here purely for the dietary and nutrition advice

Lol! Slow cooker recipes? "

Those too

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By *ero_for_funMan
over a year ago

cardiff

Originally I came here to meet new people (couples and singles) and explore new things, but since the going is slow, ive moved more to the forums.

More fun here now!

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By *ero_for_funMan
over a year ago

cardiff


"I'm here purely for the dietary and nutrition advice

Lol! Slow cooker recipes? "

Shh, theyre trying their best!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm here for the forums and chatting back and forth to Fab friends. If they didn't exist, I wouldn't log on as much because meeting by just using the site is pretty tough going.

I like looking at what you've got in between your legs "

I forgot you could see those pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m here as I thought it was a site about fabulous dancers, haven’t found any yet but I keep looking.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Some uploaders are actually pervs! It's fairly easy to control you looks at you here anyway.

Thinking in terms of "too many" on Fab is rarely worth it imo. The ratios here may not be perfect at various different times, but it what it is. Even if they could control and restrict fab somehow, it would be at the expense of getting the individuals through who are looking just for us, I'd expect. --pt

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside


"Is it only me that thinks way to many people are on here just to perv at photos. I usually come on because I am looking to meet people and will chat to friends who are on line. But you see load's of people with no verifications, and people who reply with no can't meet, drives me mad"

We come to meet people and found it really helpful.

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By *amster1210 OP   Man
over a year ago

Haslingden

So how many meetings have you had, no verification which was my point

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Boobs, mostly boobs

And the delightful forumites, obvs "

Suck up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm here for the forums and chatting back and forth to Fab friends. If they didn't exist, I wouldn't log on as much because meeting by just using the site is pretty tough going.

I like looking at what you've got in between your legs

I forgot you could see those pictures "

They're in my scrapbook now

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Mainly to see if it's acceptable to whack Pineapple on Pizza

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Picture collectors J x

It's true, I've blown up yours and stuck them all over my room. Romantic, right? "

Charmer J x

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Mainly to see if it's acceptable to whack Pineapple on Pizza "

Get in the bin.

With your pizza

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I just read the articles

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

I just assumed everyone followed the light here just like me

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By *lljambarMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I like the pictures, I like the stories, and have been lucky to meet some great people

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By *amster1210 OP   Man
over a year ago

Haslingden

Done the same yours are on my bedroom ceiling x

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Definitely not here for the dick pics.

I'm here to meet people in real life, and enjoy their company.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To look at the pictures and find genuine people to have sex with

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Mainly to see if it's acceptable to whack Pineapple on Pizza "

It most certainly is.

Sorry Posh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm here for the forums and chatting back and forth to Fab friends. If they didn't exist, I wouldn't log on as much because meeting by just using the site is pretty tough going.

I like looking at what you've got in between your legs

I forgot you could see those pictures

They're in my scrapbook now"

I'm glad, they're a collector's item

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Done the same yours are on my bedroom ceiling x"

Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you use the Reply + quote button we know which post you are replying to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because I feel at home here

Perve

Coming from you I take that as a compliment "

Totally is

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By *amster1210 OP   Man
over a year ago

Haslingden


"If you use the Reply + quote button we know which post you are replying to. "

Thanks didn't know that ??

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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I like to perv

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By *heNerdyFembyWoman
over a year ago

Eastbourne (she/they)


"I'm here for the forums and chatting back and forth to Fab friends. If they didn't exist, I wouldn't log on as much because meeting by just using the site is pretty tough going.

I like looking at what you've got in between your legs

I forgot you could see those pictures

They're in my scrapbook now

I'm glad, they're a collector's item "

I mean I am not really looking for single men, but those photos make me inclined to make an exception

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By *amster1210 OP   Man
over a year ago

Haslingden


"Definitely not here for the dick pics.

I'm here to meet people in real life, and enjoy their company."

That is what I am here for to meet sexy like minded people

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Mainly to see if it's acceptable to whack Pineapple on Pizza

Get in the bin.

With your pizza"

I hate Pineapple

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By *amster1210 OP   Man
over a year ago

Haslingden


"I'm here for the forums and chatting back and forth to Fab friends. If they didn't exist, I wouldn't log on as much because meeting by just using the site is pretty tough going.

I like looking at what you've got in between your legs

And which photos are you on about x

I forgot you could see those pictures

They're in my scrapbook now

I'm glad, they're a collector's item

I mean I am not really looking for single men, but those photos make me inclined to make an exception "

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"I like to perv at Grumps "

Aww ta

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By *amster1210 OP   Man
over a year ago

Haslingden


"I'm here for the forums and chatting back and forth to Fab friends. If they didn't exist, I wouldn't log on as much because meeting by just using the site is pretty tough going.

I like looking at what you've got in between your legs

And which photos are you on about x

I forgot you could see those pictures

They're in my scrapbook now

I'm glad, they're a collector's item

I mean I am not really looking for single men, but those photos make me inclined to make an exception "

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Mainly to see if it's acceptable to whack Pineapple on Pizza

It most certainly is.

Sorry Posh."

I let you off. You're in suspenders after all

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We come on to look for connections for friendships and more.

We respect that everyone is here for different reasons.

If they aren’t here for the same reasons as ourselves then it’s not an issue.

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here for the forums mainly

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Mainly to see if it's acceptable to whack Pineapple on Pizza

Get in the bin.

With your pizza

I hate Pineapple "

But you don't have olives. Weirdo

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By *bwgirlygirlWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I would say about 50% are all talk and no substance

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

I come on here for a distraction from the shit going on in the rest of my life.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Mainly to see if it's acceptable to whack Pineapple on Pizza

Get in the bin.

With your pizza

I hate Pineapple

But you don't have olives. Weirdo"

You've crossed a line now .. This is war

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Mainly to see if it's acceptable to whack Pineapple on Pizza

It most certainly is.

Sorry Posh.

I let you off. You're in suspenders after all "

Only for you!

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Mainly to see if it's acceptable to whack Pineapple on Pizza

Get in the bin.

With your pizza

I hate Pineapple

But you don't have olives. Weirdo

You've crossed a line now .. This is war "

Remember the last one. You were soundly defeated

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Mainly to see if it's acceptable to whack Pineapple on Pizza

It most certainly is.

Sorry Posh.

I let you off. You're in suspenders after all

Only for you!"

I'm honoured, milady

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Mainly to see if it's acceptable to whack Pineapple on Pizza

Get in the bin.

With your pizza

I hate Pineapple

But you don't have olives. Weirdo

You've crossed a line now .. This is war

Remember the last one. You were soundly defeated"

You actually remembered that ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've postponed meeting new people on this site for a few months because I've been going through some things and I've been busy etc. So I've been here mainly to chat meet new people and sus out who's serious and who might waste my time.

Looking to resume meeting people from July (first or second week) but I can only speak for myself obviously. Met a few people before that though

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Mainly to see if it's acceptable to whack Pineapple on Pizza

Get in the bin.

With your pizza

I hate Pineapple

But you don't have olives. Weirdo

You've crossed a line now .. This is war

Remember the last one. You were soundly defeated

You actually remembered that ffs "

I always remember my victories...

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

What's wrong with having a good perve? People don't have to use this site to make you happy.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Social aspect, chat in forum and cam rooms.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I like the pictures

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Someone to play Monopoly with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm here because I don't watch the news and this place seems to be the better option for what's going on in the world. I'm not saying it's accurate I just like that at least everyone jumps in with an opinion so it's less one sided than watching the news !

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By *he FAB Social - MCRCouple (FF)
over a year ago

manchester

I can’t remember why I joined. I’ve been here for yearrsssss.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"I can’t remember why I joined. I’ve been here for yearrsssss. "

Except for we never know which one of you this is

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By *he FAB Social - MCRCouple (FF)
over a year ago

manchester


"I can’t remember why I joined. I’ve been here for yearrsssss.

Except for we never know which one of you this is "

Keeps you guessing.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

I came here to meet with women as I was fed up of men. Turns out it not easy to get a meet with a woman even if you are one so I met men for casual sex instead. And then I decided to marry one of them and now I'm back, still chasing my dreams and trying to meet women :D

K

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

For the sheer entertainment......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What people want from the site probably changes over time. There will be times when the sane person wants meets, doesn’t want meets, on here to chat etc. what’s with the self appointed site police lately dictating how people use a site? You want to tell people how to use a site go start one set your own rules.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Is it only me that thinks way to many people are on here just to perv at photos. I usually come on because I am looking to meet people and will chat to friends who are on line. But you see load's of people with no verifications, and people who reply with no can't meet, drives me mad"

Not everyone shows verifications, doesn’t mean they don’t meet!

Some might just like the forums

Some might have enough people they meet.

Some might never want to meet.

Why does it matter? Doesn’t affect you. I don’t know what these posts really achieve apart from lowering the ops chances of interactions!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came here to find Tom Hardy

someone told me he was here

though that was over 10 years ago

mainly I come on to perve photos to find him!

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By *yourselfMan
over a year ago

Heworth

I'm starting to wonder why I'm on.This site is basically getting ignored and rejected by woman you wouldn't even chat up in the kebab queue after you've failed to pull that evening. Can look at boobies though, so every cloud.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it only me that thinks way to many people are on here just to perv at photos. I usually come on because I am looking to meet people and will chat to friends who are on line. But you see load's of people with no verifications, and people who reply with no can't meet, drives me mad

Not everyone shows verifications, doesn’t mean they don’t meet!

Some might just like the forums

Some might have enough people they meet.

Some might never want to meet.

Why does it matter? Doesn’t affect you. I don’t know what these posts really achieve apart from lowering the ops chances of interactions!

"

I just had a flash back of Rhona in I’m A Celebrity J x

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Is it only me that thinks way to many people are on here just to perv at photos. I usually come on because I am looking to meet people and will chat to friends who are on line. But you see load's of people with no verifications, and people who reply with no can't meet, drives me mad

Not everyone shows verifications, doesn’t mean they don’t meet!

Some might just like the forums

Some might have enough people they meet.

Some might never want to meet.

Why does it matter? Doesn’t affect you. I don’t know what these posts really achieve apart from lowering the ops chances of interactions!

I just had a flash back of Rhona in I’m A Celebrity J x "

Aw don’t watch it . So no idea x

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

What do you suggest then?

Everyone meet anyone who asks?

Those not currently wanting to meet for whatever reason (including personal problems, medical issues etc) leave because it doesn't fit in with what you expect from members?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a few meets actually but need more chemistry.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I'm starting to wonder why I'm on.This site is basically getting ignored and rejected by woman you wouldn't even chat up in the kebab queue after you've failed to pull that evening. Can look at boobies though, so every cloud. "

Why would you contact those women you wouldn't even chat up in a kebab queue after you've failed to pull, for them to be able to reject you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We come here mainly to show pictures, read club reviews and the forums.

Love to chat too.

We don't meet from here because, well, we are just too far away and we prefer spontaneous meets when out or on holiday anyway.

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By *illy1555Woman
over a year ago

Derby

Not just me then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I have said before, I only come here for the jokes.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I'm starting to wonder why I'm on.This site is basically getting ignored and rejected by woman you wouldn't even chat up in the kebab queue after you've failed to pull that evening. Can look at boobies though, so every cloud. "

Good grief

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

Some people are just waiting to pluck up courage to actually meet & fulfil a few fantasies. I do a bit of everything on here forums, meets, socials, perving!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm starting to wonder why I'm on.This site is basically getting ignored and rejected by woman you wouldn't even chat up in the kebab queue after you've failed to pull that evening. Can look at boobies though, so every cloud. "

I can’t believe you typed this, read it through, and still thought ‘yep I’ll post it’

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester


"I'm starting to wonder why I'm on.This site is basically getting ignored and rejected by woman you wouldn't even chat up in the kebab queue after you've failed to pull that evening. Can look at boobies though, so every cloud.

I can’t believe you typed this, read it through, and still thought ‘yep I’ll post it’ "

I’m avoiding all kebab queues from now on !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm starting to wonder why I'm on.This site is basically getting ignored and rejected by woman you wouldn't even chat up in the kebab queue after you've failed to pull that evening. Can look at boobies though, so every cloud. "

This could be a "two bowls of popcorn" post.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I'm starting to wonder why I'm on.This site is basically getting ignored and rejected by woman you wouldn't even chat up in the kebab queue after you've failed to pull that evening. Can look at boobies though, so every cloud.

I can’t believe you typed this, read it through, and still thought ‘yep I’ll post it’

I’m avoiding all kebab queues from now on !!! "

Aye, fuck it, I ain't going out again. Rather be a hermit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm starting to wonder why I'm on.This site is basically getting ignored and rejected by woman you wouldn't even chat up in the kebab queue after you've failed to pull that evening. Can look at boobies though, so every cloud.

I can’t believe you typed this, read it through, and still thought ‘yep I’ll post it’

I’m avoiding all kebab queues from now on !!!

Aye, fuck it, I ain't going out again. Rather be a hermit."

Ubereats to the rescue

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I'm starting to wonder why I'm on.This site is basically getting ignored and rejected by woman you wouldn't even chat up in the kebab queue after you've failed to pull that evening. Can look at boobies though, so every cloud.

I can’t believe you typed this, read it through, and still thought ‘yep I’ll post it’

I’m avoiding all kebab queues from now on !!!

Aye, fuck it, I ain't going out again. Rather be a hermit.

Ubereats to the rescue "

Gimme a couple of years and I'll be like Pearl from Blade

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I came here to find Tom Hardy

someone told me he was here

though that was over 10 years ago

mainly I come on to perve photos to find him!"

Username checks out

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I never perv and regularly meet so yes some of us do.

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By *orthmanMan
over a year ago

Kendal

Why do people come on this site?

I don't know. It's really messy to clean it off the screen and if it gets inside you'll probably fry the electronics. Seems a risky pastime to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I come on here to reject creeps who I wouldn't even look twice at in the kebab queue

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"I'm starting to wonder why I'm on.This site is basically getting ignored and rejected by woman you wouldn't even chat up in the kebab queue after you've failed to pull that evening. Can look at boobies though, so every cloud. "

And another fabacide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The keep alive the unlikely flame of hope also to put smiles on the faces of the deserving with laughter and light flirting after a terrible couple of years and lastly to waste my free time and distract me so i do nothing too daft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nsa fun fun fun...

with plenty cock and pussy for all to enjoy

takes all sorts - is what’s great about fabswingers

something for everyone to enjoy (even the flakes)...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kebab queues will never be the same for me again.

I usually only have one thing on my mind at that time. Chilli or Garlic sauce?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I come on here to reject creeps who I wouldn't even look twice at in the kebab queue "

I can tell you're a bit of a Zinger

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By *idnight RamblerMan
over a year ago

Pershore

To do their Sydney University thesis?

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By *yourselfMan
over a year ago

Heworth


"I'm starting to wonder why I'm on.This site is basically getting ignored and rejected by woman you wouldn't even chat up in the kebab queue after you've failed to pull that evening. Can look at boobies though, so every cloud.

Why would you contact those women you wouldn't even chat up in a kebab queue after you've failed to pull, for them to be able to reject you?

"

I wouldn't and don't. But that's the reality of this site. The odd time I've messaged someone, it's been unread and deleted. And I get that woman get hundreds of messages because some guys will chase anything with a pulse. Also full of time wasters who just chat shite. So I'm just using the site to look at pics and videos.

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By *yourselfMan
over a year ago

Heworth


"I'm starting to wonder why I'm on.This site is basically getting ignored and rejected by woman you wouldn't even chat up in the kebab queue after you've failed to pull that evening. Can look at boobies though, so every cloud.

This could be a "two bowls of popcorn" post."

Absolutely, shame there's no hook and fishing emoji

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

To find lovers for my wife

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By *yourselfMan
over a year ago

Heworth


"I come on here to reject creeps who I wouldn't even look twice at in the kebab queue "

An excellent response, I laughed at that one lol

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

I'm here for the thighs

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

Here to meet people form connections and fulfil my desires , giving and receiving pleasure x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm here for the thighs "

I think you're blessed in that department already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I come on here to reject creeps who I wouldn't even look twice at in the kebab queue "

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By *hompyMan
over a year ago

sheffield

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As many different reasons as there are members

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are on here to find another girl to join us for our first 3some

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By *amster1210 OP   Man
over a year ago

Haslingden


"Is it only me that thinks way to many people are on here just to perv at photos. I usually come on because I am looking to meet people and will chat to friends who are on line. But you see load's of people with no verifications, and people who reply with no can't meet, drives me mad -- it does matter when you spend hours contacting people who never want to meet, put it on your profile if you don't

Not everyone shows verifications, doesn’t mean they don’t meet!

Some might just like the forums

Some might have enough people they meet.

Some might never want to meet.

Why does it matter? Doesn’t affect you. I don’t know what these posts really achieve apart from lowering the ops chances of interactions! "

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By *amster1210 OP   Man
over a year ago

Haslingden


"What do you suggest then?

Everyone meet anyone who asks?

Those not currently wanting to meet for whatever reason (including personal problems, medical issues etc) leave because it doesn't fit in with what you expect from members?

"
say on your profile you not looking to meet, instead of looking to meet guys, couples etc. I am no god's gift but met people, yet ladies and couples no verifications after a year, are they real people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The beauty of the site is so many people looking for different things. I go through phases of not meeting right now just using the forums

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By *amster1210 OP   Man
over a year ago

Haslingden


"Some people are just waiting to pluck up courage to actually meet & fulfil a few fantasies. I do a bit of everything on here forums, meets, socials, perving! "

And I totally agree with what you are doing x

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By *heonixrising500Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

I here for meets and cam fum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have not been on for to long but find peeps on forums fun ladys and gents suppose it is what you want it to be

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By *icole 123Woman
over a year ago

Baildon,West Yorkshire

I’ve made some amazing friends on here,friends for life,and I love being a naughty minx x

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By *amster1210 OP   Man
over a year ago

Haslingden


"I’ve made some amazing friends on here,friends for life,and I love being a naughty minx x"

That is what the site should be about, it's about time they only allowed on photo verified people etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im here for the free flange

Not got any yet...but

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

Because I can remember my password....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mainly to see if it's acceptable to whack Pineapple on Pizza "

Fabsolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I reply no I can't meet at the moment because I'm not doing any new meets for the foreseeable future.I pop on and off the forum's when I am on. If that bothers others I don't care cos I'm doing fab my way and it's no one else's business what I do bar these who are involved in my journey.I even have it written in my profile so people if they read it don't waste their time messaging me asking to meet,if they do message and ask then it's only their own time they wasted.

I don't see why what others do on here is such a big deal for people.Concentrate on your own journey and on people who want the same thing as you. "

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By *hirleyMan
over a year ago

somewhere

It indulges my people watching fetish and working them out without putting in much effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to find a lady to chat to and see what flows from there, but yeh, I'm resigned to the fact this mostly seems like a perving site. But hey, that's ok, can still chat in forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m here for the bants, possible the pants too if I get anyone local interested. It’s a space to be me and explore who ‘me’ actually is in terms of sexual adventures. Without the pressures of needing to form romantic partnerships

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By *urious_Female89Woman
over a year ago

great yarmouth

I joined out of curiousity, stayed as I love reading (and sometimes posting) in the forums. Talk to some lovely people too! No expectations. My ideal would be to meet a fwb, build a connection with no commitments. Would love to explore sexually but still feeling a bit shy and not so ready to try a club yet - its lovely knowing I have all this to look forward to when/if I'm ready

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By *tead88Man
over a year ago

nine elms


"I joined out of curiousity, stayed as I love reading (and sometimes posting) in the forums. Talk to some lovely people too! No expectations. My ideal would be to meet a fwb, build a connection with no commitments. Would love to explore sexually but still feeling a bit shy and not so ready to try a club yet - its lovely knowing I have all this to look forward to when/if I'm ready "
i was similar, was told about this site through a friend, checked it out over time and became more comfortable. Had a few meets now and its always been a great experience

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By *urious_Female89Woman
over a year ago

great yarmouth


"I joined out of curiousity, stayed as I love reading (and sometimes posting) in the forums. Talk to some lovely people too! No expectations. My ideal would be to meet a fwb, build a connection with no commitments. Would love to explore sexually but still feeling a bit shy and not so ready to try a club yet - its lovely knowing I have all this to look forward to when/if I'm ready i was similar, was told about this site through a friend, checked it out over time and became more comfortable. Had a few meets now and its always been a great experience "

I found it via Mumsnet! I'm glad there's such a community here as used to feel like I didn't belong as I'm quite shy about meeting etc. Its why I need a connection! Its good to get comfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I joined out of curiousity, stayed as I love reading (and sometimes posting) in the forums. Talk to some lovely people too! No expectations. My ideal would be to meet a fwb, build a connection with no commitments. Would love to explore sexually but still feeling a bit shy and not so ready to try a club yet - its lovely knowing I have all this to look forward to when/if I'm ready i was similar, was told about this site through a friend, checked it out over time and became more comfortable. Had a few meets now and its always been a great experience

I found it via Mumsnet! I'm glad there's such a community here as used to feel like I didn't belong as I'm quite shy about meeting etc. Its why I need a connection! Its good to get comfortable "

Same. Love to connect with like minded. Also don't mind admitting, its nice to meet people as sometimes feels a bit lonely

Also love hearing what turns people on and seeing if we can make it happen, in person or remotely

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City


"I joined out of curiousity, stayed as I love reading (and sometimes posting) in the forums. Talk to some lovely people too! No expectations. My ideal would be to meet a fwb, build a connection with no commitments. Would love to explore sexually but still feeling a bit shy and not so ready to try a club yet - its lovely knowing I have all this to look forward to when/if I'm ready i was similar, was told about this site through a friend, checked it out over time and became more comfortable. Had a few meets now and its always been a great experience

I found it via Mumsnet! I'm glad there's such a community here as used to feel like I didn't belong as I'm quite shy about meeting etc. Its why I need a connection! Its good to get comfortable "

Mums the word, eh!

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By *tead88Man
over a year ago

nine elms

Mumsnet! Hahah! Yeah this place is nice, you can control the tempo of your interactions which is really important, for the most part everyone is lovely
"I joined out of curiousity, stayed as I love reading (and sometimes posting) in the forums. Talk to some lovely people too! No expectations. My ideal would be to meet a fwb, build a connection with no commitments. Would love to explore sexually but still feeling a bit shy and not so ready to try a club yet - its lovely knowing I have all this to look forward to when/if I'm ready i was similar, was told about this site through a friend, checked it out over time and became more comfortable. Had a few meets now and its always been a great experience

I found it via Mumsnet! I'm glad there's such a community here as used to feel like I didn't belong as I'm quite shy about meeting etc. Its why I need a connection! Its good to get comfortable "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use this site to look for people that I cannot find in everyday life. There are not many pale, skinny, tattooed, ginger, Alt boys in my neighbourhood. I also use it to chat with people I know from clubs and find out about new events. I dont have can issue with those just are having a perv. It's the ones that pretend they want to meet but have no intention of doing so that do my head in.

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By *tead88Man
over a year ago

nine elms

Tbf having just looked through your pics i dont think theres many people like you in my town either, i wish there was though ??

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By *amster1210 OP   Man
over a year ago

Haslingden

So yet again chatting with people, who say they want to meet but ask if you free today and always find excuse, so why are you on here each day, drives me mad

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"So yet again chatting with people, who say they want to meet but ask if you free today and always find excuse, so why are you on here each day, drives me mad "

Op, maybe they don't want to meet you. Wanting to meet doesn't mean wanting to meet that very day. There might be all kind of reasons, little point getting annoyed as generally people do what is best for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*giggles “come on this site!”

I use this place to test my phones predictive text, and also to try and find a woman to duck with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am here looking for that BJ that will finally make me cum that way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So yet again chatting with people, who say they want to meet but ask if you free today and always find excuse, so why are you on here each day, drives me mad "

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By *heVoyeur75Man
over a year ago

Jarrow


"I use this site to look for people that I cannot find in everyday life. There are not many pale, skinny, tattooed, ginger, Alt boys in my neighbourhood. I also use it to chat with people I know from clubs and find out about new events. I dont have can issue with those just are having a perv. It's the ones that pretend they want to meet but have no intention of doing so that do my head in. "

If only I was younger and hadn't discovered kebabs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So yet again chatting with people, who say they want to meet but ask if you free today and always find excuse, so why are you on here each day, drives me mad "

I won’t ever meet on the day, and although there are some people that do, I think they are in the minority. Apart from anything else, women need to make sure they are safe…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So yet again chatting with people, who say they want to meet but ask if you free today and always find excuse, so why are you on here each day, drives me mad "

Lots of people have plans. If you are free to meet witjinh a few hours each and every day that suggests you don't have much going on outside fab.

Also, a "meet today" says to me "I'm horny and wanna get my dick wet". It doesn't say "I take my time and am an expert in the art of foreplay and tension building"

/My2penneth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So yet again chatting with people, who say they want to meet but ask if you free today and always find excuse, so why are you on here each day, drives me mad "

Maybe they just don’t want to meet you, you appear to be the common denominator amongst all of these “time wasters”.

Most people have a life and can’t drop everything to “meet today”.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to find someone to have some adult fun with

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

People won't always want to do a quick/same day meet with someone they don't know op ,they may be meeting people they've gotten to know over a period of time.

I'd never meet the day someone asks,I chat for a while and that suits me .

Your way suits you,but it won't be for everyone .

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"So yet again chatting with people, who say they want to meet but ask if you free today and always find excuse, so why are you on here each day, drives me mad "

I’m on here most days. I don’t want to meet anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m here for the boobies ( . Y . )"

We know lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m here for the boobies ( . Y . )

I'm here for pictures of his ^^ cock.

I'll wear him down one day."

If you do, will you share with me please??? I'll swap for wine?? Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So yet again chatting with people, who say they want to meet but ask if you free today and always find excuse, so why are you on here each day, drives me mad "

“so why are you on here each day?”

There are loads of reasons why someone might be.

Do you seriously really assume everyone that comes online everyday is looking to meet on that day?

Some might already be chatting to someone and building a connection

Some might be just using the forum

Others might be browsing and thinking about dipping their toes in…

The list of what people might be doing on here is quite long… I’d say a very small percentage of users would meet on the day when asked.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I’m here for the boobies ( . Y . )

I'm here for pictures of his ^^ cock.

I'll wear him down one day.

If you do, will you share with me please??? I'll swap for wine?? Hahaha"

I couldn't possibly

(Make it pink gin and you've a deal )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read through everyone’s replies and I’m still not sure what the OP doesn’t get

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By *aturefun63Man
over a year ago

Belper

Here for the cock and pussy pics

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Read through everyone’s replies and I’m still not sure what the OP doesn’t get "

People to meet him on his schedule I believe...

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm free to meet on my days off, does that mean I want to....no. I have and never will meet some random stranger who pops into my box and asks "meet now"

If that makes me a timewaster, then I shall wear the badge proudly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Read through everyone’s replies and I’m still not sure what the OP doesn’t get "

Sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Read through everyone’s replies and I’m still not sure what the OP doesn’t get

People to meet him on his schedule I believe..."

Just clocked his status… ‘meet today’… it all makes sense now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Read through everyone’s replies and I’m still not sure what the OP doesn’t get

Sex! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, I hope you’re not one of those who send an opening message of “meet now?”

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Time waster here... literally.

I come on here to waste time.

And flash me boobs.

And look at sexy people.

And make friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined because I'm not in a good place for time and responsibility to have a relationship. I thought it might be a good way to find someone who wants the same thing as me.

I didn't realise the ratios of men to women would be so skewed.

I'm not some Jason Momoa or Chat up wizard.

And the women have so much choice I don't think I'll ever stand out.

But there's always a chance that someone local might be interested?

A very very slim chance, it seems!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm shagging now....

Oof

Ooof

Oooooohhhh

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