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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ladies can I ask ( from experience ) what do think is a decent time for actual penatration is ( the 2 min joke been forgot about ) most women seem to get sore after about 15 mins..just thought I would ask ( plus its the only way people talk to me haha

M

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

As long as it takes

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

10 mins to hours. You won't find a common answer.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Depends. I like a break if it’s going to be awhile.

I like a wee bit of foreplay too but don’t be warming me up all night.

Ideally I’d be looking at 20 minutes from start to finish for a quickie.

Everything else, pop the kettle on and make sure their are biscuits in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any longer than 90 seconds and you can count me out. I’m gone as soon as I feel the warmth

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Less than an hour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends. I like a break if it’s going to be awhile.

I like a wee bit of foreplay too but don’t be warming me up all night.

Ideally I’d be looking at 20 minutes from start to finish for a quickie.

Everything else, pop the kettle on and make sure their are biscuits in."

What buisciits? Because that could be a bit of a deal breaker, if I see custard creams, I’ve already got my shoes on and headed for the door.

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By *heNerdyFembyWoman
over a year ago

Eastbourne (she/they)


"Depends. I like a break if it’s going to be awhile.

I like a wee bit of foreplay too but don’t be warming me up all night.

Ideally I’d be looking at 20 minutes from start to finish for a quickie.

Everything else, pop the kettle on and make sure their are biscuits in.

What buisciits? Because that could be a bit of a deal breaker, if I see custard creams, I’ve already got my shoes on and headed for the door. "

Surely the only right answer is a Hob Nob?

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By *he one 23Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

How can you put a time on it .all lady's are different and it all depends on the state of arousal surely .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what they're penetrating and whether Love Island is on.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"Depends. I like a break if it’s going to be awhile.

I like a wee bit of foreplay too but don’t be warming me up all night.

Ideally I’d be looking at 20 minutes from start to finish for a quickie.

Everything else, pop the kettle on and make sure their are biscuits in.

What buisciits? Because that could be a bit of a deal breaker, if I see custard creams, I’ve already got my shoes on and headed for the door. "

Chocolate bourbons

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By *he one 23Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Chocolate fingers .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends. I like a break if it’s going to be awhile.

I like a wee bit of foreplay too but don’t be warming me up all night.

Ideally I’d be looking at 20 minutes from start to finish for a quickie.

Everything else, pop the kettle on and make sure their are biscuits in.

What buisciits? Because that could be a bit of a deal breaker, if I see custard creams, I’ve already got my shoes on and headed for the door.

Chocolate bourbons "

You had me at Chocolate ..

So Op. A couple of hours is a good time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can we count it in pumps instead of time …. That way a pump can be a slow one and that way at least they can say ‘they were 2 amazing pumps before the squirt’

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How can you put a time on it .all lady's are different and it all depends on the state of arousal surely ."

Im just asking ( experience in past ive been told 15 mins is enough )

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By *untocum1000TV/TS
over a year ago

newmarket


"Depends. I like a break if it’s going to be awhile.

I like a wee bit of foreplay too but don’t be warming me up all night.

Ideally I’d be looking at 20 minutes from start to finish for a quickie.

Everything else, pop the kettle on and make sure their are biscuits in."

hobnobs ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can we count it in pumps instead of time …. That way a pump can be a slow one and that way at least they can say ‘they were 2 amazing pumps before the squirt’ "

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden


"Depends. I like a break if it’s going to be awhile.

I like a wee bit of foreplay too but don’t be warming me up all night.

Ideally I’d be looking at 20 minutes from start to finish for a quickie.

Everything else, pop the kettle on and make sure their are biscuits in.

What buisciits? Because that could be a bit of a deal breaker, if I see custard creams, I’ve already got my shoes on and headed for the door. "

Surely a good host would offer a variety of biscuits to suit all tastes.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

You will get a different answer from woman to woman. Be more focused on the woman you're with than random opinions x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Advantage repeater

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You will get a different answer from woman to woman. Be more focused on the woman you're with than random opinions x"

Do you have a magic number sparkle ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've honesty never timed it.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Depends how much lube we are using to how long I can last before I start getting sore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've honesty never timed it. "

What you don’t count so you last longer

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"You will get a different answer from woman to woman. Be more focused on the woman you're with than random opinions x

Do you have a magic number sparkle ? "

Isn't 69 the magic number?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You will get a different answer from woman to woman. Be more focused on the woman you're with than random opinions x

Do you have a magic number sparkle ?

Isn't 69 the magic number? "

Oh a woman after my own heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1.5 hours usually.

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Sometimes I bring sandwiches, nothing like a mid-coitial picnic

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

Serious answer

Is all your concerned about is pumping your not thinking about her. If she's sore you haven't done enough foreplay to make sure she lubricated which stops her getting sore. Why don't u mix it up a bit. Like anything too long at anything gets boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1.5 hours usually. "

Half a session ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've often wondered this, penetrative sex isn't all it's cracked up to be so I'd say 15-20mins is enough. The foreplay can last for ages though as far as I'm concerned

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Sometimes I bring sandwiches, nothing like a mid-coitial picnic "

What kind of sandwich? Asking for a friend obs

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"As long as it takes"

In, out, in, out, shake it all about

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"Sometimes I bring sandwiches, nothing like a mid-coitial picnic

What kind of sandwich? Asking for a friend obs "

For you sparkle? Er, I mean your ‘friend’. Nutella obvs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1.5 hours usually.

Half a session ? "

Yep. Just a short one for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long as it takes

In, out, in, out, shake it all about "

Got to shake it to hit the sides.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1.5 hours usually.

Half a session ?

Yep. Just a short one for me. "

Do t want to drag it out too long

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"As long as it takes

In, out, in, out, shake it all about

Got to shake it to hit the sides. "

You know it baby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fore play, sex 20-30mins ish more play and repeat J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fore play, sex 20-30mins ish more play and repeat J x "

Yes please

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"You will get a different answer from woman to woman. Be more focused on the woman you're with than random opinions x

Do you have a magic number sparkle ?

Isn't 69 the magic number?

Oh a woman after my own heart "

It wasn't your heart I was aiming for

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"As long as it takes

In, out, in, out, shake it all about "

And I'm done

*collapses on bed*

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"Depends. I like a break if it’s going to be awhile.

I like a wee bit of foreplay too but don’t be warming me up all night.

Ideally I’d be looking at 20 minutes from start to finish for a quickie.

Everything else, pop the kettle on and make sure their are biscuits in."

That's an unusual place to dunk your biscuits, but if it makes you happy

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

If it's including breaks for drinks , food , YouTube, music, more snacks , and Wine then nothing less than 10 minutes will do

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

It really depends, on so many things. 15 minutes solid in one position might be enough, but if you're stopping and starting, changing positions, doing other things... Then longer is better, or the ability to go again.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

Amongst other things, it often depends on what mood I'm in...sometimes I want a quick, hard dicking, sometimes I want it to last for hours, and other times somewhere in between is perfect.

I'm a fickle creature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You will get a different answer from woman to woman. Be more focused on the woman you're with than random opinions x

Do you have a magic number sparkle ?

Isn't 69 the magic number?

Oh a woman after my own heart

It wasn't your heart I was aiming for "

My ass?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Amongst other things, it often depends on what mood I'm in...sometimes I want a quick, hard dicking, sometimes I want it to last for hours, and other times somewhere in between is perfect.

I'm a fickle creature "

So we’re saying make a routine to put on the fridge? Mornings slow session? Evenings slow session? Lunch break quickie?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"If it's including breaks for drinks , food , YouTube, music, more snacks , and Wine then nothing less than 10 minutes will do "

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley


"Ladies can I ask ( from experience ) what do think is a decent time for actual penatration is ( the 2 min joke been forgot about ) most women seem to get sore after about 15 mins..just thought I would ask ( plus its the only way people talk to me haha

M"

It depends. How's long a piece of string?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"If it's including breaks for drinks , food , YouTube, music, more snacks , and Wine then nothing less than 10 minutes will do

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden


"Ladies can I ask ( from experience ) what do think is a decent time for actual penatration is ( the 2 min joke been forgot about ) most women seem to get sore after about 15 mins..just thought I would ask ( plus its the only way people talk to me haha

M

It depends. How's long a piece of string?"

It's twice as long as a piece half its length.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If it's including breaks for drinks , food , YouTube, music, more snacks , and Wine then nothing less than 10 minutes will do

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By *ervent X KissMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

More importantly what biscuits do you require during or after fun times?

I used to a fig roll garibaldi fan. Now I’d go a milk chocolate hob non or if really hungry a “chocolate brownie Bulkbar”


"Depends. I like a break if it’s going to be awhile.

I like a wee bit of foreplay too but don’t be warming me up all night.

Ideally I’d be looking at 20 minutes from start to finish for a quickie.

Everything else, pop the kettle on and make sure their are biscuits in."

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I've never timed it but about 20 minutes sounds about right I think.

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