FabSwingers.com forum: Love/hate

By *ond Jimmy Bond OP Man
over a year ago

London

I can go months loving fab, chatting to some amazing people etc, but I can equally go for long periods of time hating this site and only coming across bell ends

Is this other peoples experience too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel this

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By *otmyrealname99Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Of course. The scary thing is that fab is probably pretty constant, it's our perception of it that changes

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By *ond Jimmy Bond OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I feel this"

I just wanna interact with nice people lol

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By *ond Jimmy Bond OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Of course. The scary thing is that fab is probably pretty constant, it's our perception of it that changes"

Yeah I get that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d hate to be one of those Bell ends.

The site has its ups and downs. But at the moment, personally it’s more good than bad, so I’m lucky I guess. If it turned the other way, I’d log off.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Kind of, it's why I'm trying the indifference angle for a bit

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

This is why I take regular breaks x

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Can totally relate which is why it’s best to dip in and out. I say manage it don’t let it manage you

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By *ond Jimmy Bond OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Can totally relate which is why it’s best to dip in and out. I say manage it don’t let it manage you "

I like this advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is why I take regular breaks x"

Same here. Having a break and staying away for a little while brings it all back into perspective

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By *ond Jimmy Bond OP Man
over a year ago

London

There’s should be a “bell end” filter. I just wish everyone would still treat each other politely and like human beings

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By *ond Jimmy Bond OP Man
over a year ago

London

I can dream…

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"This is why I take regular breaks x

Same here. Having a break and staying away for a little while brings it all back into perspective "

You soon notice its the same old stuff stuck on repeat. Maybe one day it will pick up again x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont really care one way or another its just an easy way to prolong the inevitable truth and keep in touch with people who i like and to offer to be there

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By *ond Jimmy Bond OP Man
over a year ago

London

"This is why I take regular breaks x

Same here. Having a break and staying away for a little while brings it all back into perspective

You soon notice its the same old stuff stuck on repeat. Maybe one day it will pick up again

You reckon?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"This is why I take regular breaks x

Same here. Having a break and staying away for a little while brings it all back into perspective

You soon notice its the same old stuff stuck on repeat. Maybe one day it will pick up again

You reckon?"

One can dream

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Can totally relate which is why it’s best to dip in and out. I say manage it don’t let it manage you

I like this advice"

Thank you - I don’t always take it mind

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By *ond Jimmy Bond OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Can totally relate which is why it’s best to dip in and out. I say manage it don’t let it manage you

I like this advice

Thank you - I don’t always take it mind

You don’t always “take it”?

Oh your own advice

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By *his_Kitty_ScratchesWoman
over a year ago

WSM

I’m in a phase of it not being so good, just sticking around for the forums for a while and if I happen to make a good connection then all the better, I’m just not going to actively seek it for a while

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By *nselfishpleaserMan
over a year ago

kent

"Can totally relate which is why it’s best to dip in and out. I say manage it don’t let it manage you "

Spot on advice there.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

After having been on here since the time of dawn. I really enjoy reading all of your bollox

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By *ond Jimmy Bond OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I’m in a phase of it not being so good, just sticking around for the forums for a while and if I happen to make a good connection then all the better, I’m just not going to actively seek it for a while "

The forums have cheered me up today. I think they are full of the better, more friendly fabsters. I should come here more often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think every day is different, the odd good one wedged between numerous indifferent ones.

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By *ond Jimmy Bond OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I think every day is different, the odd good one wedged between numerous indifferent ones.

Sounds about right

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Hate, no. But if there's no one to chat to I don't log in for weeks.

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By *ond Jimmy Bond OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Hate, no. But if there's no one to chat to I don't log in for weeks. "

Chat to? You mean some people actually chats to other people?!? No one chats to me lol

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By *onkeynutWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I don’t love or hate it. I go through phases of enjoying it and not enjoying it- not enjoying it can be for a variety of reasons and it’s usually then that I take a step back for a while.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Currently experiencing a decline in interest due to my age changing I think, even though I look the same as I did last week

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Hate, no. But if there's no one to chat to I don't log in for weeks.

Chat to? You mean some people actually chats to other people?!? No one chats to me lol"

Lies. You've had lots of replies in this thread.

Well, it is really hard to find good chats, hence why it sometimes doesn't feel worthwhile logging in.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

www.youtube.com/watch?v=d7ew_jIxLa8

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

I thought this was going to be about the tv show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought this was going to be about the tv show

I thought it was about knuckle tattoos

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

"I thought this was going to be about the tv show

I thought it was about knuckle tattoos "
did you ever watch the Irish program love/hate

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By *ady GoodwitchWoman
over a year ago

Witchery wish lane

True same here,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought this was going to be about the tv show

I thought it was about knuckle tattoos did you ever watch the Irish program love/hate "

I'd be lying if I said yes.

I rarely watch TV

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love and hate fab, there's weeks where I'd meet amazing people and have amazing conversation and meets, but then I'll get months where a horny guy will send me d*CK pics and call me stubborn because I don't meet guys. Plus the odd occasion of racism

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can go months loving fab, chatting to some amazing people etc, but I can equally go for long periods of time hating this site and only coming across bell ends

Is this other peoples experience too?"

I am that bellend.

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By *ond Jimmy Bond OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I can go months loving fab, chatting to some amazing people etc, but I can equally go for long periods of time hating this site and only coming across bell ends

Is this other peoples experience too?

I am that bellend.

Haha

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Kind of, it's why I'm trying the indifference angle for a bit"

Indifference has been my place for the last 2 n a bit years.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

https://youtu.be/3Vp56IAkDJA

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I wouldn’t go as far as love or hate but yeah it gets on my nerves sometimes so I don’t come on as much. Not really liking it much lately so not been on much. That could change, who knows. Depends how you use the site I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remain morbidly curious, with the odd beacon of light...

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By *ond Jimmy Bond OP Man
over a year ago

London

It can be a cold place at times

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

I just think it's people coming and going tbh, some really nice people going off the site and then newbie's coming on here having to learning how fab work's. They may seem like dickheads but they will change when they realise it's not going to get them far on here.

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By *ond Jimmy Bond OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I just think it's people coming and going tbh, some really nice people going off the site and then newbie's coming on here having to learning how fab work's. They may seem like dickheads but they will change when they realise it's not going to get them far on here.

Maybe, I just think some people are just so rude and unfriendly and they feel ok doing so online

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can totally relate which is why it’s best to dip in and out. I say manage it don’t let it manage you

I like this advice"

Spot on

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Yes, all complete bell ends at the moment bar one person!

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By *ond Jimmy Bond OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Yes, all complete bell ends at the moment bar one person! "

Just the one person?

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