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"Great thread! I would imagine that the person "suffering" from illnesses such as Munchhausen etc. would somehow gain something from being a sufferer, even if it is only attention from others. Sometimes people develop this kind of illness to manipulate the behaviour of others eg prevent a partner from leaving, prevent their children from cutting the chord and leaving. It is a mental health issue for sure." I can see the attention seeking but I don't really understand why being female and 40 something makes you more prone to this. I do wonder if the internet has increased the incidence of factitious illness. | |||
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" I can see the attention seeking but I don't really understand why being female and 40 something makes you more prone to this. I do wonder if the internet has increased the incidence of factitious illness." think the internet makes it more available for people to research indepth various illness's so its easier to fake symptoms. | |||
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"i like cookies  "It's where people make themselves or their children ill in some way in order to get medical attention. I like cookies too. | |||
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"No fictitious illness here I am bonafide illing yo! Respekkkk in a area! Brah Brah Brah" Funky, Lickety is asking a serious question here... and all you can do is bare your bum to us! Can you not come up with something more imaginative ?;-) | |||
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"No fictitious illness here I am bonafide illing yo! Respekkkk in a area! Brah Brah Brah" Not fictitious... factitious. How bona is your fide? | |||
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" I can see the attention seeking but I don't really understand why being female and 40 something makes you more prone to this. I do wonder if the internet has increased the incidence of factitious illness. think the internet makes it more available for people to research indepth various illness's so its easier to fake symptoms. " I was just about to say that when you beat me to it. Today anything and I really mean anything is a matter of entry into search engine... and voila. People start suffering from things they had not known about before, too... | |||
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"i like cookies
It's where people make themselves or their children ill in some way in order to get medical attention.
I like cookies too."that is a pretty serious subject stands down | |||
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"No fictitious illness here I am bonafide illing yo! Respekkkk in a area! Brah Brah Brah Not fictitious... factitious. How bona is your fide?" I did not dare to ask him how fide his boner was... | |||
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" I can see the attention seeking but I don't really understand why being female and 40 something makes you more prone to this. I do wonder if the internet has increased the incidence of factitious illness. think the internet makes it more available for people to research indepth various illness's so its easier to fake symptoms. I was just about to say that when you beat me to it. Today anything and I really mean anything is a matter of entry into search engine... and voila. People start suffering from things they had not known about before, too..." But isnt that more hypocondry than maunchheason, | |||
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" I can see the attention seeking but I don't really understand why being female and 40 something makes you more prone to this. I do wonder if the internet has increased the incidence of factitious illness. think the internet makes it more available for people to research indepth various illness's so its easier to fake symptoms. I was just about to say that when you beat me to it. Today anything and I really mean anything is a matter of entry into search engine... and voila. People start suffering from things they had not known about before, too... But isnt that more hypocondry than maunchheason, " isnt the difference that a munchausen suffer knows they are faking the illness yet a hypocondriact (sp?) believes they are genuinely ill? | |||
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"No fictitious illness here I am bonafide illing yo! Respekkkk in a area! Brah Brah Brah Not fictitious... factitious. How bona is your fide?" I can show you if you like! 
In all seriousness though Munchhausen is a vague one, I reckon most people suffer the symptoms. Who hasn't played up to an illness, made it worse than it was to get attention. But we aren't all mentally ill. I'm not getting the 40 year old woman thing either, smells of bollocks to me.
Now Munchhausen by proxy however, is on a whole other level of crazy! | |||
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" I can see the attention seeking but I don't really understand why being female and 40 something makes you more prone to this. I do wonder if the internet has increased the incidence of factitious illness. think the internet makes it more available for people to research indepth various illness's so its easier to fake symptoms. I was just about to say that when you beat me to it. Today anything and I really mean anything is a matter of entry into search engine... and voila. People start suffering from things they had not known about before, too... But isnt that more hypocondry than maunchheason, " HypERcondria is different as that person always thinks they are ill (hypOcondria is those fearful of sickness). Hypercondriacs may not go as far as seeking tests and medical appointments. They might just moan a lot to their friends. | |||
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"i may have just made myself ill. ive literally just gone through a whole pack of marylands in about 5 minutes i had 1 and just couldnt stop "I'm sure there is a name for that condition too but until it comes to me I'll go with out of control cookie monster. | |||
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"It is true the internet does have a lot to answer for.. It was only on the national news last week more and more people are making a self diagnosis rather than consult their local GP. Rightly or wrongly I believe it influences people mentally and are becoming obsessed.." When i looked after a lady in her home i swear she used to read the 'side effects' of every tablet that was given to her.. | |||
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"It is true the internet does have a lot to answer for.. It was only on the national news last week more and more people are making a self diagnosis rather than consult their local GP. Rightly or wrongly I believe it influences people mentally and are becoming obsessed.. When i looked after a lady in her home i swear she used to read the 'side effects' of every tablet that was given to her.. " You are supposed to read the side effects information on medication. The issue for some is that they start to feel them just because they have read them. | |||
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" In all seriousness though Munchhausen is a vague one, I reckon most people suffer the symptoms. Who hasn't played up to an illness, made it worse than it was to get attention. But we aren't all mentally ill. I'm not getting the 40 year old woman thing either, smells of bollocks to me. Now Munchhausen by proxy however, is on a whole other level of crazy!"  Good point. Especially blokes with man flu...
Perhaps the '40 year old woman' aspect is that it's around the time women are left with an 'empty nest' and a crappy husband and need to get attention somehow?? | |||
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" In all seriousness though Munchhausen is a vague one, I reckon most people suffer the symptoms. Who hasn't played up to an illness, made it worse than it was to get attention. But we aren't all mentally ill. I'm not getting the 40 year old woman thing either, smells of bollocks to me. Now Munchhausen by proxy however, is on a whole other level of crazy! Good point. Especially blokes with man flu...
Perhaps the '40 year old woman' aspect is that it's around the time women are left with an 'empty nest' and a crappy husband and need to get attention somehow?? "That's a good point. I didn't see any information on the marital/children status of these women. I was looking at information in relation to Chronic Fatigue Syndrome/ME in children and young people. | |||
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" In all seriousness though Munchhausen is a vague one, I reckon most people suffer the symptoms. Who hasn't played up to an illness, made it worse than it was to get attention. But we aren't all mentally ill. I'm not getting the 40 year old woman thing either, smells of bollocks to me. Now Munchhausen by proxy however, is on a whole other level of crazy! Good point. Especially blokes with man flu...
Perhaps the '40 year old woman' aspect is that it's around the time women are left with an 'empty nest' and a crappy husband and need to get attention somehow?? "Hey!! Man flu is a serious condition for us guys and dibilitates us differently to the female species due to our genetic background... That's put in lay-mans terms from a scientific research document I read recently... I hear you ladies saying to oneself... I would wager the research was undertaken by a male  | |||
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" I can see the attention seeking but I don't really understand why being female and 40 something makes you more prone to this. " ay increase of this with ladies and the onset of the menopause? | |||
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" I can see the attention seeking but I don't really understand why being female and 40 something makes you more prone to this. ay increase of this with ladies and the onset of the menopause?" I will have to cross reference peri menopause. Where's MrWho when we need him? | |||
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" I can see the attention seeking but I don't really understand why being female and 40 something makes you more prone to this. ay increase of this with ladies and the onset of the menopause? I will have to cross reference peri menopause. Where's MrWho when we need him?" could try his brother.. he's a Doctor.. | |||
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"I have read many books "True Stories" on this subject, and i still can't get my head round why a mother would hurt her child so she can gain attention. Pork and i have a school friend that has worked in mental health since leaving school and i asked her about this, all she could really say that it goes deeper than anyone could really explain, it often goes way back into the person's family to find answers..... (Perky)"That's an interesting thought. I wonder if these women experienced a real illness when young and are trying to recreate the attention and safety they felt then? Hmmm, more to ponder. | |||
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"I have been reading up on this for some work I have. Clinicians and health care workers are most suspicious of Factitious Induced Illnes in women in their 40s. So, what leads us to Munchhausen and Munchhausen by Proxy at this age?" I don't think age has anything to do with it, look at that nurse that killed the babies in hospital (Sorry can't remember her name at the moment) But then when we reach our 40's and on, the children will have left home (well most anyway) The woman will feel lonely, left out therefore no attention... Maybe that's why they do it.... It's a very hard question to answer just as depression is. | |||
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" I can see the attention seeking but I don't really understand why being female and 40 something makes you more prone to this. ay increase of this with ladies and the onset of the menopause? I will have to cross reference peri menopause. Where's MrWho when we need him? could try his brother.. he's a Doctor.. "The Mr ones get to cut people up, the Doctor ones don't. But Dr Who does have a Sonic Screwdriver... | |||
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"I have been reading up on this for some work I have. Clinicians and health care workers are most suspicious of Factitious Induced Illnes in women in their 40s. So, what leads us to Munchhausen and Munchhausen by Proxy at this age? I don't think age has anything to do with it, look at that nurse that killed the babies in hospital (Sorry can't remember her name at the moment) But then when we reach our 40's and on, the children will have left home (well most anyway) The woman will feel lonely, left out therefore no attention... Maybe that's why they do it.... It's a very hard question to answer just as depression is. "You mean the nurse Beverley (cannot remember surname) in Grantham? | |||
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"Is it not an attention seeking disorder I think its named after some bloke.. I remember reading up on it... Its a sad thing to have I suppose.. not sure if its down to having a surpressed mental illness that leads someone to have this.. " Munchhausen is named after someone but I understand clinicians now refer to it as Factitious Induced Illness. I was wondering why clinicians and health workers suspect this when it is women in their 40s rather than older or younger. | |||
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"Is it not an attention seeking disorder I think its named after some bloke.. I remember reading up on it... Its a sad thing to have I suppose.. not sure if its down to having a surpressed mental illness that leads someone to have this.. Munchhausen is named after someone but I understand clinicians now refer to it as Factitious Induced Illness. I was wondering why clinicians and health workers suspect this when it is women in their 40s rather than older or younger." Maybe its part of the brain that don't kick in till you are 40 changes in hormones.. I don't know I am just guessing... | |||
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