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"Has someone called you a timewaster??? " Well no but I think people could look at my profile and think "he's been on here a year and had no meets. He must be a timewaster." | |||
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"First of all I'm not! But I've read a few examples of how people would spot them. If you look at my profile I've been on this site for over a year and have no meets mainly because I'm really busy and very rarely avaible. But would you judge me as being a timewaster because of that?" Well Gary, without beating about the bush, we wouldn't label you a 'Timewaster', but.... going by what you say in your profile narrative, we would question your commitment to being in the swinging world. You clearly state that 'nothing' comes between you and your kid - which is laudable - but that's not good if someone wanted to meet you and THEIR time is also limited. Would be interested to learn what prompted you to post this thread.... and it's title..... Pork | |||
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"You've never wasted any of my time so to me your not a time waster " | |||
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"Has someone called you a timewaster??? Well no but I think people could look at my profile and think "he's been on here a year and had no meets. He must be a timewaster."" Most of us dont jump to conclusions like that.....So dont worry about it... | |||
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"First of all I'm not! But I've read a few examples of how people would spot them. If you look at my profile I've been on this site for over a year and have no meets mainly because I'm really busy and very rarely avaible. But would you judge me as being a timewaster because of that? Well Gary, without beating about the bush, we wouldn't label you a 'Timewaster', but.... going by what you say in your profile narrative, we would question your commitment to being in the swinging world. You clearly state that 'nothing' comes between you and your kid - which is laudable - but that's not good if someone wanted to meet you and THEIR time is also limited. Would be interested to learn what prompted you to post this thread.... and it's title..... Pork" That's why I have no meets because my time is very limited. I was just curious I guess. Like I say it was an example giving to spot timewatsers and I just wanted to know if that's what is thought. | |||
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"First of all I'm not! But I've read a few examples of how people would spot them. If you look at my profile I've been on this site for over a year and have no meets mainly because I'm really busy and very rarely avaible. But would you judge me as being a timewaster because of that?" A timewaster (to me) is someone who makes all the right noises and actions but fails to turn theory into practice. Some people 'get off' on chatting online, chatting on the phone, camming, exchanging a series of explicit messages etc. I wouldn't go down that line because it holds no attraction for me. Talking about doing it, bores me. Physically doing it is a whole different ball game. So, in essence, if we have arranged to meet and you fail to show (irrespective of reasons / excuses), you have wasted my time. Up until that point, if we have chatted with the hope of meeting, I would have a non-distinct line when enough becomes enough and it becomes apparent that nothing is going to happen, ever. In that case, you haven't wasted my time, I have wasted my time by allowing the farce to continue. So by being here for a period of time and not meeting (for whatever your reasons may be), I personally wouldn't say you were a timewaster. The people that have been strung along by what I assume to be a series of conversations have wasted their own time by not spotting the signs soon enough. | |||
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"First of all I'm not! But I've read a few examples of how people would spot them. If you look at my profile I've been on this site for over a year and have no meets mainly because I'm really busy and very rarely avaible. But would you judge me as being a timewaster because of that? Well Gary, without beating about the bush, we wouldn't label you a 'Timewaster', but.... going by what you say in your profile narrative, we would question your commitment to being in the swinging world. You clearly state that 'nothing' comes between you and your kid - which is laudable - but that's not good if someone wanted to meet you and THEIR time is also limited. Would be interested to learn what prompted you to post this thread.... and it's title..... Pork That's why I have no meets because my time is very limited. I was just curious I guess. Like I say it was an example giving to spot timewatsers and I just wanted to know if that's what is thought. " Gary, try putting yourself in someone elses shoes who is reading your profile for the first time, and try and see how it comes over to a complete stranger and ask yourself if YOU would want to meet YOU....? See if you think you need to re-write any parts of it.... | |||
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"In that case, you haven't wasted my time, I have wasted my time by allowing the farce to continue." Bang on the money as usual, Bussy Pork | |||
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