FabSwingers.com forum: Instant turn-off

By *izzy69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

Mine is flip flops or any thong style footwear. My erection drops faster than an anvil on Roadrunner when I see even an otherwise attractive woman in them.

What's your great turn-off?

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By *heNerdyFembyWoman
over a year ago

Eastbourne (she/they)

"Mine is flip flops or any thong style footwear. My erection drops faster than an anvil on Roadrunner when I see even an otherwise attractive woman in them.

What's your great turn-off?"

Seeing someone invalidate another's existence, or just be rude to them, because they can

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Poor hygiene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got quite a long list to be fair

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I bloody love my flip flops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrogance, entitlement, judgemental.. take your pick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I bloody love my flip flops "

Me too but men in sliders is a real no no for me.

Especially if they have minty toenails.

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By *undance_KidMan
over a year ago

London

I love a woman in flip flops!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Arrogance, entitlement, judgemental.. take your pick."

This!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I bloody love my flip flops

Me too but men in sliders is a real no no for me.

Especially if they have minty toenails. "

. I don’t like men’s toes. I don’t like any toes that aren’t painted. Mine have never not been painted in about 35 years.

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

Men in jogging bottoms, yuck !

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

"I bloody love my flip flops

Me too but men in sliders is a real no no for me.

Especially if they have minty toenails. "

Or fucking socks aswell! What is that about?!

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By *undance_KidMan
over a year ago

London

Sandals with white socks !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I bloody love my flip flops

Me too but men in sliders is a real no no for me.

Especially if they have minty toenails. "

What are minty toenails please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I bloody love my flip flops

Me too but men in sliders is a real no no for me.

Especially if they have minty toenails.

What are minty toenails please?"

Minging, unkempt, not nice etc

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I bloody love my flip flops

Me too but men in sliders is a real no no for me.

Especially if they have minty toenails.

Or fucking socks aswell! What is that about?! "

That seems to be a thing now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I bloody love my flip flops

Me too but men in sliders is a real no no for me.

Especially if they have minty toenails.

What are minty toenails please?

Minging, unkempt, not nice etc "

Thanks. I guess it’s a regional thing.

As near me saying something is mint, means it’s great.

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By *izzy69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Mine is flip flops or any thong style footwear. My erection drops faster than an anvil on Roadrunner when I see even an otherwise attractive woman in them.

What's your great turn-off?

Seeing someone invalidate another's existence, or just be rude to them, because they can"

Well that was me on the flip flops. Lol

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By *izzy69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Got quite a long list to be fair

Oh dear. Eek

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By *izzy69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I bloody love my flip flops

Me too but men in sliders is a real no no for me.

Especially if they have minty toenails. "

Eugh! That toenail thing works for women too though. I have a foot fetish but manky toenails is a big no! Along with bunions.

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By *izzy69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Men in jogging bottoms, yuck !"

Ooh that's harsh. Lol. It's not my thing anyway but surely they're not that bad.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"I bloody love my flip flops

Me too but men in sliders is a real no no for me.

Especially if they have minty toenails.

Or fucking socks aswell! What is that about?!

That seems to be a thing now!

I saw a guy in town the at the weekend with socks and sliders on. He was really good looking and I gotta say he kinda rocked the look.I thought he must have been a tourist, Hull’s not known for being a leader in the fashion stakes.

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By *izzy69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Arrogance, entitlement, judgemental.. take your pick."

Well they're not very nice traits regardless of the turn off. I wouldn't even consort with such people never mind proposition.

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By *ruetothisMan
over a year ago

Bad attitudes…oh and crocs, it’s not a great look let’s be honest

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By *ruetothisMan
over a year ago

With you on that…but still…not as bad as crocs in my opinion haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men in jogging bottoms, yuck !"

Yes please. Scruffy and horrible. I don't own any and proud of it.

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

"I bloody love my flip flops

Me too but men in sliders is a real no no for me.

Especially if they have minty toenails.

. I don’t like men’s toes. I don’t like any toes that aren’t painted. Mine have never not been painted in about 35 years. "

Searches for the Dulux colour chart

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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Bad dental hygiene

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By *ruetothisMan
over a year ago

Ah the fashion capitals, Milan, Paris, London, Hull.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Manipulation attempts

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By *ohnandJulieCouple
over a year ago

"Arrogance, entitlement, judgemental.. take your pick."

Great answer.

Fully agree.

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By *icole 123Woman
over a year ago

Baildon,West Yorkshire

Men with long dirty fingernails

Gold jewellery on men

Arrogance

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Bad dental hygiene "

This as number one.^^^^^

An unkempt scruffy look

Jogging bottoms

Disrespectful attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Location fishing I'm horny not desperate

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Bad breath!

And, FYI OP, the anvil near fell on the Road Runner; it remained up in the air even though the rope had been cut; it only fell when Wile E. Cayote stood under it.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Skinny jeans on a grown man.

Horrendous doesn't cut it.

Max Wall reincarnated?

Why oh why?

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Football shirts too

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"Football shirts too

This

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

Poor hygiene, especially untidy hands and dirty nails

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Attitude. Doesn't matter how good you look if you're an ugly person.

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

Men with visible gold fillings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sliders with socks think there the new crocs I think they look chavy

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By *izzy69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Bad attitudes…oh and crocs, it’s not a great look let’s be honest

Ohhhh, forgot about crocs! Yes defo instant turn off.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Mine is flip flops or any thong style footwear. My erection drops faster than an anvil on Roadrunner when I see even an otherwise attractive woman in them. "

Are you sure you dont hate them sometimes but like them at others?

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

Baggy grey flannel jogging bottoms, grey underwear (don't know whether it's supposed to be grey or had too many washes), and grubby socks.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Socks and sandals x

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By *icole 123Woman
over a year ago

Baildon,West Yorkshire

"Football shirts too

This

Absolutely this

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By *icole 123Woman
over a year ago

Baildon,West Yorkshire

Union jack shorts

England football shirts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad breath. Bad attitude. Deal breakers for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad teeth and poor hygiene

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By *ak4uMan
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I bloody love my flip flops

Me too but men in sliders is a real no no for me.

Especially if they have minty toenails.

Or fucking socks aswell! What is that about?!

That seems to be a thing now!

It’s not that well known for tourists either is it?

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"I bloody love my flip flops

Me too but men in sliders is a real no no for me.

Especially if they have minty toenails.

Or fucking socks aswell! What is that about?!

That seems to be a thing now!

It’s not that well known for tourists either is it?"

You’d be surprised.

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By *ldbutrandyMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

Pour speling is a reel tern of four mee. Evan iff a ladee is ot , if shi carnt spel its a know frome mee.

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

A picture of Margaret Thatcher!

Even in high heels & a Basque! That's the corset type thingy (I'm gettin' technical here... Impressed? No? Thought not! Tough crowd), not the separatist.....

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By *ldbutrandyMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

"A picture of Margaret Thatcher!

Even in high heels & a Basque! That's the corset type thingy (I'm gettin' technical here... Impressed? No? Thought not! Tough crowd), not the separatist.....

You are the spawn of the devil for placing that image in my mind , although it was only there for a nano second

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know why it gets to me so much but anyone that has labels hanging out of clothes or even bra/knicker labels showing either face to face or in pictures on here.

Takes two seconds to fold them back in where they should be or remove them altogether.

Next one is people who don't realise they have snot showing, 2 second check is all it takes ha ha

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By *imontemplerMan
over a year ago

Padbury

When your partner wants to partake in roleplay..... and she picks Margaret Thatcher.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Football shirts too

Oh goody

Remember

Pic Of LFC shirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lack of conversational skills, bad hygiene, rudeness, are the main ones.

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By *ade crossTV/TS
over a year ago

chiselhurst

There is a whole list but instant turn off sliders and socks especially if paired with grey baggy joggers.

But there again i am 80s junkie love power dressers and lingerie dressing to impress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad hygiene

Crocs

Sliders and socks

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

Blood

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

Any sign of smegma on cocks !

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By *otBunsHunWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"I bloody love my flip flops

Me too but men in sliders is a real no no for me.

Especially if they have minty toenails.

Or fucking socks aswell! What is that about?! "
sliders and socks give me the ick

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
over a year ago

London

Someone that puts other people down

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Horrible teeth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lack of spark

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Lack of spark"

That's me out then. Going to change my name to Le1974

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lack of spark

That's me out then. Going to change my name to Le1974"

kiss of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Poor hygiene"

110%.

In this day and age,it still goes on.

Yuk

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I share a distaste of flip flops. The noise. Schlap schlap schlap.

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By *ldbutrandyMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

"I share a distaste of flip flops. The noise. Schlap schlap schlap. "

3 schlaps ! Thats a short walk !

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"I share a distaste of flip flops. The noise. Schlap schlap schlap.

3 schlaps ! Thats a short walk !"

I pushed them over on their arse by then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dirty fingernails...

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By *ustleoMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Hairy pussy is a turn off for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor standards in personal hygiene

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By *ustleoMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Ppl who think they are all “that” is a big turn off for me

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By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Women with protruding nasal hair

Frank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men in jogging bottoms, yuck !"
I thought grey jogging bottoms did it for you females

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But anyway for me that's an instant put off, when they ask how much you earn, you could probably earn more than her but if it isn't a job she can brag about it she judges you. So probably judgemental

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Someone who is up their own hole and full of shit

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By *iscoman7771000Man
over a year ago

birmingham

Ladies in bubble bath

Untidy rooms

Not a good image

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

Anyone that thinks they are better than anyone else. We are all equal on this site but just have different preferences.

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By *ilffadMan
over a year ago

swansea

Crocs, sandals, flip flops - they are the work of the devil!

Gaps in front teeth (natural gaps, but extractions will also do it!)

Poor hygiene (dental, body or foof), no thanks

And raving extremism (religious, political, food, conspiracy theories, stamp collections)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

D*unks. Especially the falling over kind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrogance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dog Breath

Stinky Minky

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City

Women with more tits than teeth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Orange Fake Tan like a Mahogany Woman be as well chucking Ronseal over yourself

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

it's when you can smell it before you even see it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sandals with white socks !!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Un natural duck lips & make up lines to the jaw

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By *he_TicklersCouple
over a year ago

Havant & Aberdare

Jizzy genital pics attached to initial message

jizzy pics in general really, but as an opening gambit to say hello ….nope

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

People eating baked beans!

Mike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Football tops. Especially in the bedroom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B.O

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By *icole 123Woman
over a year ago

Baildon,West Yorkshire

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By *icole 123Woman
over a year ago

Baildon,West Yorkshire

Manky feet

Manky teeth

Gold rings

Gangster pants

Chav speak

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Smart suit pics with a cock through the flies

makes me wanna run the zip up fast and trap it!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

A holier than thou attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lack of humour

Women thinking they are better than me

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Lack of humour

Women thinking they are better than me"

Arnt we?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I bloody love my flip flops

Me too but men in sliders is a real no no for me.

Especially if they have minty toenails.

Or fucking socks aswell! What is that

about?! "

You can get socks for fucking? Who knew..?..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always right !

Most often not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dirty fingernails

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"I bloody love my flip flops

Me too but men in sliders is a real no no for me.

Especially if they have minty toenails.

Or fucking socks aswell! What is that

about?!

You can get socks for fucking? Who knew..?..

I call them my business socks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dirty nails

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

D*unkeness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try not to be judgemental about it, each to their own and all that but as an ex smoker myself, I’m sorry but the smell of cigarette smoke now is a complete turn off for me

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By *heNerdyFembyWoman
over a year ago

Eastbourne (she/they)

Someone giving unsolicited weight loss advice on a swingers site...

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Bad manners, please and thank you cost nothing, but go a long way with us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone giving unsolicited weight loss advice on a swingers site...

Seriously ? Who on earth does that ?

You look great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine is flip flops or any thong style footwear. My erection drops faster than an anvil on Roadrunner when I see even an otherwise attractive woman in them.

What's your great turn-off?"

Love my flip flops and flat sandals

Im turned off by how a man talks about women

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By *heNerdyFembyWoman
over a year ago

Eastbourne (she/they)

"Someone giving unsolicited weight loss advice on a swingers site...

Seriously ? Who on earth does that ?

You look great "

From context I think the compliment is for me, I will take it anyway, you look great too sweety... and I mean GREAT!

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By *izzy69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Smart suit pics with a cock through the flies

makes me wanna run the zip up fast and trap it! "

Eek. Thank you for that...did I do something to offend you?

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By *izzy69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I don't know why it gets to me so much but anyone that has labels hanging out of clothes or even bra/knicker labels showing either face to face or in pictures on here.

Takes two seconds to fold them back in where they should be or remove them altogether.

Next one is people who don't realise they have snot showing, 2 second check is all it takes ha ha "

Oh dear oh dear. You need to change the company you keep. Lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lack of humour

Women thinking they are better than me

Arnt we? "
only in the comics dear

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Mine is flip flops or any thong style footwear. My erection drops faster than an anvil on Roadrunner when I see even an otherwise attractive woman in them.

What's your great turn-off?"

A woman calling me Daddy. Instant loss of erection.

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By *illybeachboyMan
over a year ago

Guernsey

Cheap saggy underwear (on men).

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Poor etiquette and lack of respect.

Sooooo many guys get into the race then instantly fall at the first hurdle

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