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By *umplay1969 OP   Man
over a year ago

Coggeshall

Is it me or is it common practice to be given the cold shoulder as soon as you ask to set a date to meet ?

Twice this evening alone.

If its me tell me please !!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

who said that

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By *umplay1969 OP   Man
over a year ago

Coggeshall

Thanks very much !! lol x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Is it me or is it common practice to be given the cold shoulder as soon as you ask to set a date to meet ?"

It's an unforunate side effect of people being mean. It happens.

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By *umplay1969 OP   Man
over a year ago

Coggeshall

Twice in a matter of an hour or so ? Am I that lucky ?

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

You maybe going a bit fast for them

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By *umplay1969 OP   Man
over a year ago

Coggeshall

I've only two speeds, dead slow and stop !

Maybe your right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i can tell you i recently met someone off here and i really took care of her.

expensive hotel,champagne,meals the works.

and for whatever reason im blanked by her,totally ignored.

yet she had a great time and kept telling me so for days.so you have to understand some people are like this.

its up to them of course.

also i had to watch out for friends of hers as they tried to get a similar weekend away but i had already found out the plan.

so it happens to us all.

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By *umplay1969 OP   Man
over a year ago

Coggeshall

An exspensive lesson I guess.

Seems bloody wrong that people are that way inclined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It takes two to Tango.

If one party is willing to cough up all the expenses in order to meet another person for NSA fun, then he/she only has him/herself to blame if the other person is not interested in a repeat afterwards.

IMHO!

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford


"Is it me or is it common practice to be given the cold shoulder as soon as you ask to set a date to meet ?

Twice this evening alone.

If its me tell me please !!

"

Yes we'd say its fairly common practice. It would seem that the psychology of it is 'I could have had sex with them if I'd wanted to' like they want to pursue the chase right up to the point of agreeing to meet but it goes no further than that. A bit of a power/control trip for them.

Some people because of having had so many let downs will pursue several meets for the same date/time and then pick what they see as the best of the crop.

And last minute cold feet is common too, people start out with all the best intentions but when it comes to the crunch they just don't have the courage to see it through.

It's all a numbers game the more people you attempt to meet so the more let downs you will experience. And lets not loose sight of the fact that we're all human... maybe all concerned are as horny as horny an get while in the arranging a meet stage. Then that Saturday evening finally arrives and the mood is gone, you just don't fancy it at that time, the motivation is gone so its easy to stay home and watch telly instead.

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