FabSwingers.com forum: Who is your go to person when you feel your world is falling apart

By *usman 199 OP Man
over a year ago

Stockport

Morning all happy Sundays

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Mr N first. My dad second

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I’ve got a great supportive friends but if anyone is reading this message and is struggling and feel like the whole world is against them and don’t know where to turn too, please don’t hesitate to get in touch for a confidential non judgmental any time day or night Shaun xx

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

My full length mirror!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

My dad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes one person, but usually they are busy so I keep stuff to myself instead and try to cope alone.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No one. The only person I know I can always count on is me

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By *tinerant scribeMan
over a year ago

County Durham

A friend I have had since she was 11 and I was 13. She wore my shoulder down to nothing when she was breaking up with her first husband! But she's awesome now and we talk all the time.

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By *cottish-sin69Man
over a year ago

england

The band citizen soilder for a few songs then family and friends if the feeling stays longer haha

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

My husband.

But life has taught me in the last 6 years that I pretty much have to stand on my own two feet, no matter how grave the situation. Any external support is a bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is going to sound sad but please don’t feel sorry for me. I genuinely don’t have anyone to go to. I prefer to deal with my problems myself so I have never really needed someone to comfort me.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Bliss

My inner circle

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

Usually myself but I have been known to turn to my ex wife. She's very sensible unlike me.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

"This is going to sound sad but please don’t feel sorry for me. I genuinely don’t have anyone to go to. I prefer to deal with my problems myself so I have never really needed someone to comfort me."

I know exactly where you’re coming from there.

I’m not a ‘sharer’ , and prefer to sort my own shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one. The only person I know I can always count on is me"

sadly, this is my case too. There is someone that I think cares about me. But my trust that they can solve any of my problems or give me good sound advice that would be fit for me rather than them, is gone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me, myself and I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know exactly where you’re coming from there.

I’m not a ‘sharer’ , and prefer to sort my own shit. "

I vent sometimes but when I’ve got real problems I just deal with it.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

'Colonel Harland David Sanders' at anyone of his KFC establishments

chicken wings help me clear my mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once I visited a bottle of wine, the go to person is usually me these days

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By *mMrbrightsideMan
over a year ago

wakefield

My sister

We have an agreement that if ever we’re unhappy or need to vent we txt each other as if we were talking to the person we’re pissed off with

It gets out out of our system and the receiver just deletes it as they know what’s going on

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

People usually come to me, I seem to be the 'rock' in the family. However, my (middle) brother is a good listener for a chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me. There isn't anyone else.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Mr Noose

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"Mr Noose"

To clarify, if things were so bad that my "world was falling apart", I'm not sure that anybody could help me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one. The only person I know I can always count on is me"

Same, I have my son but he has his own family so I won't put it on him

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Myself.

Experience has taught me that no-one really cares x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never felt that way, but it would be just me. I keep my own counsel.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I have no one I can think of. It took me decades but I’ve learned to rely on myself only and I think I’m doing fine. Actually, I am the person everyone turns to when their world falls apart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one. The only person I know I can always count on is me"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had more in depth conversations with strangers in fab clubs than with anyone else. Not sure if that's weird but it's like a therapist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mr Noose

To clarify, if things were so bad that my "world was falling apart", I'm not sure that anybody could help me"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My world fell apart and my trusted friend of 20 years told other people like my life is just a soap opera. Haven't spoken to the fucking cunt since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me myself and I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My world fell apart and my trusted friend of 20 years told other people like my life is just a soap opera. Haven't spoken to the fucking cunt since. "

That's awful

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

My dad. He's my rock and has bailed me out a few times. He doesn't judge and is fiercely protective xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fortunate to have a couple of close friends but often don't like burdening them.

I do wonder if I would call out of the worst came to the worst again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best friend who's I've know over 50 years she's always there if I need her to talk to. She's like a sister to me and I can tell her anything and she would never let me down.

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By *ixen13Woman
over a year ago

Cowdenbeath

No one, i'm the one my family come to in bad times but i couldn't burdon them with my shit when they have their own stuff going on

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

My wife, I would trust her with my life.

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