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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I find that people of my age and older are really struggling with the concept of modernity.

Regardless of your gender, dating younger makes life a lot more fun. The energy , the positivity and general decreased level of baggage is a breath of fresh air.

Have you found this to be true for yourself ?

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By *ohnandJulieCouple
over a year ago

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"I find that people of my age and older are really struggling with the concept of modernity.

Regardless of your gender, dating younger makes life a lot more fun. The energy , the positivity and general decreased level of baggage is a breath of fresh air.

Have you found this to be true for yourself ?

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No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you make me laugh and turn me in to a raging sex manchine, then I generally don't care too much if you're younger than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if some of the music they listen to is a guideline, I’m quite happy dating within my own peer group tbf

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Depends on how much younger, but I’m happy with how I am at my age

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk


"I find that people of my age and older are really struggling with the concept of modernity.

Regardless of your gender, dating younger makes life a lot more fun. The energy , the positivity and general decreased level of baggage is a breath of fresh air.

Have you found this to be true for yourself ?

"

So the people you date should date younger too?

No?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Surely only half of us can date younger?

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Nope, I disagree that dating younger has any advantages.

I think dating someone you enjoy, that enjoys you, that makes you smile more than not and that you want to be with (and have excellent sexual chemistry with) has a lot of advantages.

I don't think age is "nothing but a number", but I also think that generalisations based on age are often vague and biased towards the thinking of whomever makes them, thus in the wider world, pretty worthless.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find that people of my age and older are really struggling with the concept of modernity.

Regardless of your gender, dating younger makes life a lot more fun. The energy , the positivity and general decreased level of baggage is a breath of fresh air.

Have you found this to be true for yourself ?

So the people you date should date younger too?

No?"

Sure why not .

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By *aliceWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Other than the obvious flaw of logic others have pointed out, sweeping generalisation, much? Plenty of older people are absolutely capable of keeping up with changes in the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find that people of my age and older are really struggling with the concept of modernity.

Regardless of your gender, dating younger makes life a lot more fun. The energy , the positivity and general decreased level of baggage is a breath of fresh air.

Have you found this to be true for yourself ?

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But the younger person gets stuck with an oldie.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope, I disagree that dating younger has any advantages.

I think dating someone you enjoy, that enjoys you, that makes you smile more than not and that you want to be with (and have excellent sexual chemistry with) has a lot of advantages.

I don't think age is "nothing but a number", but I also think that generalisations based on age are often vague and biased towards the thinking of whomever makes them, thus in the wider world, pretty worthless."

Older people are generally kind of set in their ways, can’t deal with change, listen to crap music. Younger folks are a lot of fun in my experience.

Not everyone can date younger, so it’s a moot point for those people .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Other than the obvious flaw of logic others have pointed out, sweeping generalisation, much? Plenty of older people are absolutely capable of keeping up with changes in the world."

Not always . Mostly they can’t .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely only half of us can date younger?"

The smart ones .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find that people of my age and older are really struggling with the concept of modernity.

Regardless of your gender, dating younger makes life a lot more fun. The energy , the positivity and general decreased level of baggage is a breath of fresh air.

Have you found this to be true for yourself ?

But the younger person gets stuck with an oldie. "

Yeah. I wouldn't date older.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I find that people of my age and older are really struggling with the concept of modernity.

Regardless of your gender, dating younger makes life a lot more fun. The energy , the positivity and general decreased level of baggage is a breath of fresh air.

Have you found this to be true for yourself ?

But the younger person gets stuck with an oldie. "

Like that's a punishment. Oldies are fantastic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll stick with my own age group. I have kids to keep me up to date on stuff

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends on how much younger, but I’m happy with how I am at my age"

Let’s say 10-15 years younger , you’ll be 50% happier.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'll stick with my own age group. I have kids to keep me up to date on stuff "

Thats precisely my premise. Older folks our age stuck in their ways .

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I orefer older. But they prefer younger so all is well in our worlds.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Nope, I disagree that dating younger has any advantages.

I think dating someone you enjoy, that enjoys you, that makes you smile more than not and that you want to be with (and have excellent sexual chemistry with) has a lot of advantages.

I don't think age is "nothing but a number", but I also think that generalisations based on age are often vague and biased towards the thinking of whomever makes them, thus in the wider world, pretty worthless.

Older people are generally kind of set in their ways, can’t deal with change, listen to crap music. Younger folks are a lot of fun in my experience.

Not everyone can date younger, so it’s a moot point for those people .

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“Not everyone _can_ date younger” - I love the humblebrag. It’s almost as if you are compensating for something OP

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Happier around my age. I married a much younger woman and eventually regretted it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find that people of my age and older are really struggling with the concept of modernity.

Regardless of your gender, dating younger makes life a lot more fun. The energy , the positivity and general decreased level of baggage is a breath of fresh air.

Have you found this to be true for yourself ?

But the younger person gets stuck with an oldie.

Yeah. I wouldn't date older."

There’s good reason you wouldn’t . But to an older person you’d be fire .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Happier around my age. I married a much younger woman and eventually regretted it.

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Younger partners aren’t for marrying . They’re for having fun .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope, I disagree that dating younger has any advantages.

I think dating someone you enjoy, that enjoys you, that makes you smile more than not and that you want to be with (and have excellent sexual chemistry with) has a lot of advantages.

I don't think age is "nothing but a number", but I also think that generalisations based on age are often vague and biased towards the thinking of whomever makes them, thus in the wider world, pretty worthless.

Older people are generally kind of set in their ways, can’t deal with change, listen to crap music. Younger folks are a lot of fun in my experience.

Not everyone can date younger, so it’s a moot point for those people .

“Not everyone _can_ date younger” - I love the humblebrag. It’s almost as if you are compensating for something OP "

If you can, you would. If you can’t , you can just pop a Werthers original .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I think friends of different ages are the most important thing. Older and younger.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Nope, I disagree that dating younger has any advantages.

I think dating someone you enjoy, that enjoys you, that makes you smile more than not and that you want to be with (and have excellent sexual chemistry with) has a lot of advantages.

I don't think age is "nothing but a number", but I also think that generalisations based on age are often vague and biased towards the thinking of whomever makes them, thus in the wider world, pretty worthless.

Older people are generally kind of set in their ways, can’t deal with change, listen to crap music. Younger folks are a lot of fun in my experience.

Not everyone can date younger, so it’s a moot point for those people .

"

No. Not everyone can date younger, but many people don't want to. Your OP was stating that people *should* date younger though.

What age are you calling "older"? In my experience, and I would at the very least consider myself as "not younger", there are people set in their ways, people who can't deal with change, both older and younger than me. There are people who listen to crap music of all ages. That last part is, of course, subjective.

Some younger people are a lot of fun. But some are utter dickweebles. Same goes for older people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m only 20 so I probably am the ‘younger’ in this equation but I wouldn’t date a person much older than me; it’s probably shallow but age does matter to me. I probably won’t have much in common with a person who’s 10 or 20 years older than me despite my hobbies being things that are considered old.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I orefer older. But they prefer younger so all is well in our worlds. "

Sadly that is a genuine issue. A lady I was dating was 46. Far too old for me . But she thought I was a steal, as the only guys genuinely interested in her, for a relationship were guys in their 60s. Or immature men in their 30s still living at home .

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Nope, I disagree that dating younger has any advantages.

I think dating someone you enjoy, that enjoys you, that makes you smile more than not and that you want to be with (and have excellent sexual chemistry with) has a lot of advantages.

I don't think age is "nothing but a number", but I also think that generalisations based on age are often vague and biased towards the thinking of whomever makes them, thus in the wider world, pretty worthless.

Older people are generally kind of set in their ways, can’t deal with change, listen to crap music. Younger folks are a lot of fun in my experience.

Not everyone can date younger, so it’s a moot point for those people .

“Not everyone _can_ date younger” - I love the humblebrag. It’s almost as if you are compensating for something OP

If you can, you would. If you can’t , you can just pop a Werthers original . "

Big words from someone without a veri

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

How much younger is younger?! There's a 9 month gap between us (I'm older - Mrs). "Younger" has worked well for me, but quite obviously, Mr KC has been saddled with this ancient bird for the past 18yrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m only 20 so I probably am the ‘younger’ in this equation but I wouldn’t date a person much older than me; it’s probably shallow but age does matter to me. I probably won’t have much in common with a person who’s 10 or 20 years older than me despite my hobbies being things that are considered old. "

Thanks for sharing. My ideal age is 27-37. I think a good 15 years age drop is the sweet spot .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How much younger is younger?! There's a 9 month gap between us (I'm older - Mrs). "Younger" has worked well for me, but quite obviously, Mr KC has been saddled with this ancient bird for the past 18yrs "

Depends on one’s age . I say a 10-15 years is good

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope, I disagree that dating younger has any advantages.

I think dating someone you enjoy, that enjoys you, that makes you smile more than not and that you want to be with (and have excellent sexual chemistry with) has a lot of advantages.

I don't think age is "nothing but a number", but I also think that generalisations based on age are often vague and biased towards the thinking of whomever makes them, thus in the wider world, pretty worthless.

Older people are generally kind of set in their ways, can’t deal with change, listen to crap music. Younger folks are a lot of fun in my experience.

Not everyone can date younger, so it’s a moot point for those people .

“Not everyone _can_ date younger” - I love the humblebrag. It’s almost as if you are compensating for something OP

If you can, you would. If you can’t , you can just pop a Werthers original .

Big words from someone without a veri "

We are having fun. Stop being so old grandpa

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters


"If you make me laugh and turn me in to a raging sex manchine, then I generally don't care too much if you're younger than me. "

I think that’s it

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I’m only 20 so I probably am the ‘younger’ in this equation but I wouldn’t date a person much older than me; it’s probably shallow but age does matter to me. I probably won’t have much in common with a person who’s 10 or 20 years older than me despite my hobbies being things that are considered old.

Thanks for sharing. My ideal age is 27-37. I think a good 15 years age drop is the sweet spot .

"

How old are you OP? I know I could just look at your profile but I'm curious.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope, I disagree that dating younger has any advantages.

I think dating someone you enjoy, that enjoys you, that makes you smile more than not and that you want to be with (and have excellent sexual chemistry with) has a lot of advantages.

I don't think age is "nothing but a number", but I also think that generalisations based on age are often vague and biased towards the thinking of whomever makes them, thus in the wider world, pretty worthless.

Older people are generally kind of set in their ways, can’t deal with change, listen to crap music. Younger folks are a lot of fun in my experience.

Not everyone can date younger, so it’s a moot point for those people .

No. Not everyone can date younger, but many people don't want to. Your OP was stating that people *should* date younger though.

What age are you calling "older"? In my experience, and I would at the very least consider myself as "not younger", there are people set in their ways, people who can't deal with change, both older and younger than me. There are people who listen to crap music of all ages. That last part is, of course, subjective.

Some younger people are a lot of fun. But some are utter dickweebles. Same goes for older people."

There is no 100% . As much as there are immaute men in their 40s and 50s, there are those in their 30s . I would say pick a guy that is 10 years younger

If you’re a female in your 40s or 50s, steer clear of men around your own age. And have fun .

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk


"I find that people of my age and older are really struggling with the concept of modernity.

Regardless of your gender, dating younger makes life a lot more fun. The energy , the positivity and general decreased level of baggage is a breath of fresh air.

Have you found this to be true for yourself ?

So the people you date should date younger too?

No?

Sure why not . "

But if they date younger they won't be dating you anymore

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m only 20 so I probably am the ‘younger’ in this equation but I wouldn’t date a person much older than me; it’s probably shallow but age does matter to me. I probably won’t have much in common with a person who’s 10 or 20 years older than me despite my hobbies being things that are considered old.

Thanks for sharing. My ideal age is 27-37. I think a good 15 years age drop is the sweet spot .

How old are you OP? I know I could just look at your profile but I'm curious."

Take a look . I don’t bite .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m only 20 so I probably am the ‘younger’ in this equation but I wouldn’t date a person much older than me; it’s probably shallow but age does matter to me. I probably won’t have much in common with a person who’s 10 or 20 years older than me despite my hobbies being things that are considered old.

Thanks for sharing. My ideal age is 27-37. I think a good 15 years age drop is the sweet spot .

"

You should change your age range of people you are interested in. Would be very unfair in us oldies if we chose to message you and you are only interested in a much younger age group

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find that people of my age and older are really struggling with the concept of modernity.

Regardless of your gender, dating younger makes life a lot more fun. The energy , the positivity and general decreased level of baggage is a breath of fresh air.

Have you found this to be true for yourself ?

So the people you date should date younger too?

No?

Sure why not .

But if they date younger they won't be dating you anymore "

I don’t date ladies my age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find that people of my age and older are really struggling with the concept of modernity.

Regardless of your gender, dating younger makes life a lot more fun. The energy , the positivity and general decreased level of baggage is a breath of fresh air.

Have you found this to be true for yourself ?

"

Nope, I'm 48 soon and I certainly don't conform to what society perceives, or even how you perceive someone of my age to be.

I can relate to people of all ages...Certainly not 'stuck in my ways' or struggle with modernity as you put it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m only 20 so I probably am the ‘younger’ in this equation but I wouldn’t date a person much older than me; it’s probably shallow but age does matter to me. I probably won’t have much in common with a person who’s 10 or 20 years older than me despite my hobbies being things that are considered old.

Thanks for sharing. My ideal age is 27-37. I think a good 15 years age drop is the sweet spot .

You should change your age range of people you are interested in. Would be very unfair in us oldies if we chose to message you and you are only interested in a much younger age group "

Thanks for your kind compliments. Fear not , no ladies my age ever contact me .

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By *rincessPuddleDuck22Woman
over a year ago

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"Happier around my age. I married a much younger woman and eventually regretted it.

Younger partners aren’t for marrying . They’re for having fun . "

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester


"I find that people of my age and older are really struggling with the concept of modernity.

Regardless of your gender, dating younger makes life a lot more fun. The energy , the positivity and general decreased level of baggage is a breath of fresh air.

Have you found this to be true for yourself ?

So the people you date should date younger too?

No?

Sure why not .

But if they date younger they won't be dating you anymore

I don’t date ladies my age. "

I assumed you were much older by your thread - you’re pretty young but have an older outlook, would you agree?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People dont get younger thats not how time works

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"How much younger is younger?! There's a 9 month gap between us (I'm older - Mrs). "Younger" has worked well for me, but quite obviously, Mr KC has been saddled with this ancient bird for the past 18yrs

Depends on one’s age . I say a 10-15 years is good "

Yeah, I'm not going fishing around young people who are probably my son's mates. Son is 19, nearly 20.... I'm very happy with my 9 months younger husband, thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find that people of my age and older are really struggling with the concept of modernity.

Regardless of your gender, dating younger makes life a lot more fun. The energy , the positivity and general decreased level of baggage is a breath of fresh air.

Have you found this to be true for yourself ?

Nope, I'm 48 soon and I certainly don't conform to what society perceives, or even how you perceive someone of my age to be.

I can relate to people of all ages...Certainly not 'stuck in my ways' or struggle with modernity as you put it

"

You’ve just proved my point. Just imagine how much fun you’re missing out on. You’d not be home tonight, you’d be having fun fun fun .

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire


"Depends on how much younger, but I’m happy with how I am at my age

Let’s say 10-15 years younger , you’ll be 50% happier. "

I have to disagree, I don’t need a younger person to make me happier

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How much younger is younger?! There's a 9 month gap between us (I'm older - Mrs). "Younger" has worked well for me, but quite obviously, Mr KC has been saddled with this ancient bird for the past 18yrs

Depends on one’s age . I say a 10-15 years is good

Yeah, I'm not going fishing around young people who are probably my son's mates. Son is 19, nearly 20.... I'm very happy with my 9 months younger husband, thank you "

Bet you love your toy boy hubby,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends on how much younger, but I’m happy with how I am at my age

Let’s say 10-15 years younger , you’ll be 50% happier.

I have to disagree, I don’t need a younger person to make me happier"

How would you know . Because really you don’t .

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington


"I find that people of my age and older are really struggling with the concept of modernity.

Regardless of your gender, dating younger makes life a lot more fun. The energy , the positivity and general decreased level of baggage is a breath of fresh air.

Have you found this to be true for yourself ?

"

OK...you make some good points about dating someone younger, but why would a younger person date you than...?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People dont get younger thats not how time works "

You date younger . That’s how it works.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find that people of my age and older are really struggling with the concept of modernity.

Regardless of your gender, dating younger makes life a lot more fun. The energy , the positivity and general decreased level of baggage is a breath of fresh air.

Have you found this to be true for yourself ?

OK...you make some good points about dating someone younger, but why would a younger person date you than...? "

Maturity , life experience, natural confidence.

A good sense of humour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find that people of my age and older are really struggling with the concept of modernity.

Regardless of your gender, dating younger makes life a lot more fun. The energy , the positivity and general decreased level of baggage is a breath of fresh air.

Have you found this to be true for yourself ?

Nope, I'm 48 soon and I certainly don't conform to what society perceives, or even how you perceive someone of my age to be.

I can relate to people of all ages...Certainly not 'stuck in my ways' or struggle with modernity as you put it

You’ve just proved my point. Just imagine how much fun you’re missing out on. You’d not be home tonight, you’d be having fun fun fun . "

I disagree. Not sure what you think I am missing out on lol.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"How much younger is younger?! There's a 9 month gap between us (I'm older - Mrs). "Younger" has worked well for me, but quite obviously, Mr KC has been saddled with this ancient bird for the past 18yrs

Depends on one’s age . I say a 10-15 years is good

Yeah, I'm not going fishing around young people who are probably my son's mates. Son is 19, nearly 20.... I'm very happy with my 9 months younger husband, thank you

Bet you love your toy boy hubby, "

Well duh. If I didn't love him, I wouldn't be married to him.

Not entirely sure 9 months makes any difference at all, we were in the same classes at school etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being 26, I can't really date much younger without being on a list but in terms of dating an older woman, it would be difficult because society is very much against these kinds of age gaps.

Although I do find older women easier to talk to as I find they're quite forthright and I'm not playing a guessing game with them so feel like I can be myself a lot more without judgement. So they would actually be perfect for me to date

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


" ?

OK...you make some good points about dating someone younger, but why would a younger person date you than...?

Maturity , life experience, natural confidence.

A good sense of humour."

Don't sell yourself short and miss out your impressive facility for a sweeping generalisation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find that people of my age and older are really struggling with the concept of modernity.

Regardless of your gender, dating younger makes life a lot more fun. The energy , the positivity and general decreased level of baggage is a breath of fresh air.

Have you found this to be true for yourself ?

OK...you make some good points about dating someone younger, but why would a younger person date you than...?

Maturity , life experience, natural confidence.

A good sense of humour."

That sounds like a fabulous argument to date older

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk


"I find that people of my age and older are really struggling with the concept of modernity.

Regardless of your gender, dating younger makes life a lot more fun. The energy , the positivity and general decreased level of baggage is a breath of fresh air.

Have you found this to be true for yourself ?

So the people you date should date younger too?

No?

Sure why not .

But if they date younger they won't be dating you anymore

I don’t date ladies my age. "

But you are telling them to date younger.

50% cannot date younger, someone has to be younger and someone has to be older.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find that people of my age and older are really struggling with the concept of modernity.

Regardless of your gender, dating younger makes life a lot more fun. The energy , the positivity and general decreased level of baggage is a breath of fresh air.

Have you found this to be true for yourself ?

So the people you date should date younger too?

No?

Sure why not .

But if they date younger they won't be dating you anymore

I don’t date ladies my age.

But you are telling them to date younger.

50% cannot date younger, someone has to be younger and someone has to be older.

"

A small percentage of people will read this thread. So consider yourself to be in the secret squirrel club. Just don’t tell anyone else my advice . It’s a WIN WIN for us readers.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I find that people of my age and older are really struggling with the concept of modernity.

Regardless of your gender, dating younger makes life a lot more fun. The energy , the positivity and general decreased level of baggage is a breath of fresh air.

Have you found this to be true for yourself ?

So the people you date should date younger too?

No?

Sure why not .

But if they date younger they won't be dating you anymore

I don’t date ladies my age.

But you are telling them to date younger.

50% cannot date younger, someone has to be younger and someone has to be older.

"

No. EVERYONE should date younger. Everyone. Let's see the knots that get tied trying to reconcile that

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington


"I find that people of my age and older are really struggling with the concept of modernity.

Regardless of your gender, dating younger makes life a lot more fun. The energy , the positivity and general decreased level of baggage is a breath of fresh air.

Have you found this to be true for yourself ?

OK...you make some good points about dating someone younger, but why would a younger person date you than...?

Maturity , life experience, natural confidence.

A good sense of humour."

You can fund thise things in many people of many ages... they are not exclusive to someone "old", nor are the things you associated to "young" people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find that people of my age and older are really struggling with the concept of modernity.

Regardless of your gender, dating younger makes life a lot more fun. The energy , the positivity and general decreased level of baggage is a breath of fresh air.

Have you found this to be true for yourself ?

OK...you make some good points about dating someone younger, but why would a younger person date you than...?

Maturity , life experience, natural confidence.

A good sense of humour.

That sounds like a fabulous argument to date older"

So a 60 year old would love to meet you .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find that people of my age and older are really struggling with the concept of modernity.

Regardless of your gender, dating younger makes life a lot more fun. The energy , the positivity and general decreased level of baggage is a breath of fresh air.

Have you found this to be true for yourself ?

OK...you make some good points about dating someone younger, but why would a younger person date you than...?

Maturity , life experience, natural confidence.

A good sense of humour.

You can fund thise things in many people of many ages... they are not exclusive to someone "old", nor are the things you associated to "young" people. "

You are correct , there are pockets of amazing people in all age categories. I was trying to make it simpler for those oldies who struggle.

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By *usty KnightMan
over a year ago

Istanbul


"Depends on how much younger, but I’m happy with how I am at my age"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find that people of my age and older are really struggling with the concept of modernity.

Regardless of your gender, dating younger makes life a lot more fun. The energy , the positivity and general decreased level of baggage is a breath of fresh air.

Have you found this to be true for yourself ?

So the people you date should date younger too?

No?

Sure why not .

But if they date younger they won't be dating you anymore

I don’t date ladies my age.

But you are telling them to date younger.

50% cannot date younger, someone has to be younger and someone has to be older.

No. EVERYONE should date younger. Everyone. Let's see the knots that get tied trying to reconcile that "

See my post where I already answered this .

Good try fella .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends on how much younger, but I’m happy with how I am at my age "

Of course you are . You’re the type that isn’t willing to live life to the maximum.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I find that people of my age and older are really struggling with the concept of modernity.

Regardless of your gender, dating younger makes life a lot more fun. The energy , the positivity and general decreased level of baggage is a breath of fresh air.

Have you found this to be true for yourself ?

So the people you date should date younger too?

No?

Sure why not .

But if they date younger they won't be dating you anymore

I don’t date ladies my age.

But you are telling them to date younger.

50% cannot date younger, someone has to be younger and someone has to be older.

No. EVERYONE should date younger. Everyone. Let's see the knots that get tied trying to reconcile that

See my post where I already answered this .

Good try fella . "

Fella? *Checks chromosomes and contents of underwear*

Negative...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People dont get younger thats not how time works

You date younger . That’s how it works. "

but do i have to be younger to date younger?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" ?

OK...you make some good points about dating someone younger, but why would a younger person date you than...?

Maturity , life experience, natural confidence.

A good sense of humour.

Don't sell yourself short and miss out your impressive facility for a sweeping generalisation."

Date younger if you’re capable and you’ll want to buy me a drink .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find that people of my age and older are really struggling with the concept of modernity.

Regardless of your gender, dating younger makes life a lot more fun. The energy , the positivity and general decreased level of baggage is a breath of fresh air.

Have you found this to be true for yourself ?

OK...you make some good points about dating someone younger, but why would a younger person date you than...?

Maturity , life experience, natural confidence.

A good sense of humour.

That sounds like a fabulous argument to date older

So a 60 year old would love to meet you . "

And if there was attraction then a 60 year old is perfect. I may not find the same attributes in someone younger. Or I may. Who knows. Age shouldn't really be relevant. It should be about attraction and a good feeling about someone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People dont get younger thats not how time works

You date younger . That’s how it works. but do i have to be younger to date younger? "

You’re classified as old , so yes date younger .

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.


"People dont get younger thats not how time works

You date younger . That’s how it works. but do i have to be younger to date younger?

You’re classified as old , so yes date younger . "

brilliant thread.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find that people of my age and older are really struggling with the concept of modernity.

Regardless of your gender, dating younger makes life a lot more fun. The energy , the positivity and general decreased level of baggage is a breath of fresh air.

Have you found this to be true for yourself ?

OK...you make some good points about dating someone younger, but why would a younger person date you than...?

Maturity , life experience, natural confidence.

A good sense of humour.

That sounds like a fabulous argument to date older

So a 60 year old would love to meet you .

And if there was attraction then a 60 year old is perfect. I may not find the same attributes in someone younger. Or I may. Who knows. Age shouldn't really be relevant. It should be about attraction and a good feeling about someone"

If you’re happy to date a 60 year old and he makes your world spin that’s great.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People dont get younger thats not how time works

You date younger . That’s how it works. but do i have to be younger to date younger?

You’re classified as old , so yes date younger .

brilliant thread. "

Easy wind up haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People dont get younger thats not how time works

You date younger . That’s how it works. but do i have to be younger to date younger?

You’re classified as old , so yes date younger . "

If someone older than me wants to date me, should I date them? I mean they’re only following your advice… my head hurts!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


" A lady I was dating was 46. Far too old for me . "

Yet you are looking for women up to 52 ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find that people of my age and older are really struggling with the concept of modernity.

Regardless of your gender, dating younger makes life a lot more fun. The energy , the positivity and general decreased level of baggage is a breath of fresh air.

Have you found this to be true for yourself ?

So the people you date should date younger too?

No?

Sure why not .

But if they date younger they won't be dating you anymore

I don’t date ladies my age.

But you are telling them to date younger.

50% cannot date younger, someone has to be younger and someone has to be older.

No. EVERYONE should date younger. Everyone. Let's see the knots that get tied trying to reconcile that

See my post where I already answered this .

Good try fella .

Fella? *Checks chromosomes and contents of underwear*

Negative..."

Yes you are . Haha

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"I'll stick with my own age group. I have kids to keep me up to date on stuff

Thats precisely my premise. Older folks our age stuck in their ways ."

Don't judge the rest of us by how you see yourself or are seen by others.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" A lady I was dating was 46. Far too old for me .

Yet you are looking for women up to 52 ?"

What else did you like about my profile lol

I was taking pity on the old birds

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Nope, I disagree that dating younger has any advantages.

I think dating someone you enjoy, that enjoys you, that makes you smile more than not and that you want to be with (and have excellent sexual chemistry with) has a lot of advantages.

I don't think age is "nothing but a number", but I also think that generalisations based on age are often vague and biased towards the thinking of whomever makes them, thus in the wider world, pretty worthless.

Older people are generally kind of set in their ways, can’t deal with change, listen to crap music. Younger folks are a lot of fun in my experience.

Not everyone can date younger, so it’s a moot point for those people .

No. Not everyone can date younger, but many people don't want to. Your OP was stating that people *should* date younger though.

What age are you calling "older"? In my experience, and I would at the very least consider myself as "not younger", there are people set in their ways, people who can't deal with change, both older and younger than me. There are people who listen to crap music of all ages. That last part is, of course, subjective.

Some younger people are a lot of fun. But some are utter dickweebles. Same goes for older people.

There is no 100% . As much as there are immaute men in their 40s and 50s, there are those in their 30s . I would say pick a guy that is 10 years younger

If you’re a female in your 40s or 50s, steer clear of men around your own age. And have fun ."

I'm having plenty of fun thank you, with men around my own age and older. Your entire argument appears based on huge generalisations and your own bias, and thus flawed, but I hope it's only us oldies you're putting off rather than also putting off the young ones you're hoping to impress.

Good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'll stick with my own age group. I have kids to keep me up to date on stuff

Thats precisely my premise. Older folks our age stuck in their ways .

Don't judge the rest of us by how you see yourself or are seen by others.

"

This is the Fabs forum . Or have we moved off that platform haha

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"I find that people of my age and older are really struggling with the concept of modernity.

Regardless of your gender, dating younger makes life a lot more fun. The energy , the positivity and general decreased level of baggage is a breath of fresh air.

Have you found this to be true for yourself ?

So the people you date should date younger too?

No?

Sure why not .

But if they date younger they won't be dating you anymore

I don’t date ladies my age.

But you are telling them to date younger.

50% cannot date younger, someone has to be younger and someone has to be older.

A small percentage of people will read this thread. So consider yourself to be in the secret squirrel club. Just don’t tell anyone else my advice . It’s a WIN WIN for us readers. "

I don't think they need your advice. If you can call it that.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"I'll stick with my own age group. I have kids to keep me up to date on stuff

Thats precisely my premise. Older folks our age stuck in their ways .

Don't judge the rest of us by how you see yourself or are seen by others.

This is the Fabs forum . Or have we moved off that platform haha "

The only person you are judging here is yourself..so keep going

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


" A lady I was dating was 46. Far too old for me .

Yet you are looking for women up to 52 ?

What else did you like about my profile lol

I was taking pity on the old birds "

Old birds? What a marvellous description

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope, I disagree that dating younger has any advantages.

I think dating someone you enjoy, that enjoys you, that makes you smile more than not and that you want to be with (and have excellent sexual chemistry with) has a lot of advantages.

I don't think age is "nothing but a number", but I also think that generalisations based on age are often vague and biased towards the thinking of whomever makes them, thus in the wider world, pretty worthless.

Older people are generally kind of set in their ways, can’t deal with change, listen to crap music. Younger folks are a lot of fun in my experience.

Not everyone can date younger, so it’s a moot point for those people .

No. Not everyone can date younger, but many people don't want to. Your OP was stating that people *should* date younger though.

What age are you calling "older"? In my experience, and I would at the very least consider myself as "not younger", there are people set in their ways, people who can't deal with change, both older and younger than me. There are people who listen to crap music of all ages. That last part is, of course, subjective.

Some younger people are a lot of fun. But some are utter dickweebles. Same goes for older people.

There is no 100% . As much as there are immaute men in their 40s and 50s, there are those in their 30s . I would say pick a guy that is 10 years younger

If you’re a female in your 40s or 50s, steer clear of men around your own age. And have fun .

I'm having plenty of fun thank you, with men around my own age and older. Your entire argument appears based on huge generalisations and your own bias, and thus flawed, but I hope it's only us oldies you're putting off rather than also putting off the young ones you're hoping to impress.

Good luck OP "

I’m sharing important information. Those who can’t change their habits, are by nature old.

Please don’t shoot the messenger. All the greats were demonised, Jesus, Alex Jones , Buddha , Boris .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People dont get younger thats not how time works

You date younger . That’s how it works. but do i have to be younger to date younger?

You’re classified as old , so yes date younger . "

a 12 yr old is old i a 3 yr old but saying that who you calling old

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"I'll stick with my own age group. I have kids to keep me up to date on stuff

Thats precisely my premise. Older folks our age stuck in their ways .

Don't judge the rest of us by how you see yourself or are seen by others.

This is the Fabs forum . Or have we moved off that platform haha "

The forums are for discussion not judgment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" A lady I was dating was 46. Far too old for me .

Yet you are looking for women up to 52 ?

What else did you like about my profile lol

I was taking pity on the old birds

Old birds? What a marvellous description "

Come on Fella , I didn’t call you an old bird .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have the young ‘uns OP.

Any old wrinklies fancy someone desperately clinching onto the last few days of his 40s!?

Over 50’s only need apply!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'll stick with my own age group. I have kids to keep me up to date on stuff

Thats precisely my premise. Older folks our age stuck in their ways .

Don't judge the rest of us by how you see yourself or are seen by others.

This is the Fabs forum . Or have we moved off that platform haha

The forums are for discussion not judgment. "

Scroll down any thread and prove me right about your statement .

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


" A lady I was dating was 46. Far too old for me .

Yet you are looking for women up to 52 ?

What else did you like about my profile lol

I was taking pity on the old birds

Old birds? What a marvellous description

Come on Fella , I didn’t call you an old bird . "

Have you been on the sherbets?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You have the young ‘uns OP.

Any old wrinklies fancy someone desperately clinching onto the last few days of his 40s!?

Over 50’s only need apply! "

If this thread helps you get attention, I’m pleased for you.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


" A lady I was dating was 46. Far too old for me .

Yet you are looking for women up to 52 ?

What else did you like about my profile lol

I was taking pity on the old birds "

You're confusing "having a sense of humour" with something that if I expressed it would get me a forum ban.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" A lady I was dating was 46. Far too old for me .

Yet you are looking for women up to 52 ?

What else did you like about my profile lol

I was taking pity on the old birds

You're confusing "having a sense of humour" with something that if I expressed it would get me a forum ban."

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Fuck dating younger.

Marry younger.

That way when you're retired and relaxing at home with your feet up your OH will still be out working. Guarantees you won't get on each others tits by being around each other all the time.

A

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People dont get younger thats not how time works

You date younger . That’s how it works. but do i have to be younger to date younger?

You’re classified as old , so yes date younger . a 12 yr old is old i a 3 yr old but saying that who you calling old "

You’re over analysing pops . If you dated younger, you wouldn’t be on this forum, trying to provide logic on a Saturday night lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have the young ‘uns OP.

Any old wrinklies fancy someone desperately clinching onto the last few days of his 40s!?

Over 50’s only need apply!

If this thread helps you get attention, I’m pleased for you. "

Well I’m an attention whore, so I hope it does!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


" A lady I was dating was 46. Far too old for me .

Yet you are looking for women up to 52 ?

What else did you like about my profile lol

I was taking pity on the old birds

Old birds? What a marvellous description

Come on Fella , I didn’t call you an old bird . "

You called me an old bird

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"You have the young ‘uns OP.

Any old wrinklies fancy someone desperately clinching onto the last few days of his 40s!?

Over 50’s only need apply!

If this thread helps you get attention, I’m pleased for you. "

This thread screams of someone wanting to get attention for sure.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fuck dating younger.

Marry younger.

That way when you're retired and relaxing at home with your feet up your OH will still be out working. Guarantees you won't get on each others tits by being around each other all the time.

A"

There comes a time when it’s time to drop a younger . It’s when things get serious . It’s 2 years, the ladies will want to settle , have kids etc. As oldies, that’s the time to block your mobile and get back on Fabs

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Personally, as I love the company of a stunningly attractive, very sexy lady as much as do our intimate encounters together, my preference is for around my own age group. For some strange reason when I'm with someone where we look an attractive well matched couple, other people seem to want to strike up a conversation, and get to know us, and that suits me perfectly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You have the young ‘uns OP.

Any old wrinklies fancy someone desperately clinching onto the last few days of his 40s!?

Over 50’s only need apply!

If this thread helps you get attention, I’m pleased for you.

This thread screams of someone wanting to get attention for sure. "

Are you not entertained.

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By *rincessPuddleDuck22Woman
over a year ago

.•°°

So what I've learnt from this thread is if you're young you have to date older so older people can date younger people but you can't marry the younger people you date just play with them... and that younger people are fun energetic and have no baggage...

I have so many questions.•°°

when do you become "older"?

Why are there so many mental health resources for young adults if they don't have baggage..?

Why can't you marry a younger person if they're so much fun?

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"I'll stick with my own age group. I have kids to keep me up to date on stuff

Thats precisely my premise. Older folks our age stuck in their ways .

Don't judge the rest of us by how you see yourself or are seen by others.

This is the Fabs forum . Or have we moved off that platform haha

The forums are for discussion not judgment. "

Yes but you don't have to be the one to do it like you did now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally, as I love the company of a stunningly attractive, very sexy lady as much as do our intimate encounters together, my preference is for around my own age group. For some strange reason when I'm with someone where we look an attractive well matched couple, other people seem to want to strike up a conversation, and get to know us, and that suits me perfectly. "

I’m pleased for you . That’s wonderful

You’d have 3 times the attention with a lady 15 years younger .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'll stick with my own age group. I have kids to keep me up to date on stuff

Thats precisely my premise. Older folks our age stuck in their ways .

Don't judge the rest of us by how you see yourself or are seen by others.

This is the Fabs forum . Or have we moved off that platform haha

The forums are for discussion not judgment.

Yes but you don't have to be the one to do it like you did now. "

We are having a silly giggle . It’s Saturday night .

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"You have the young ‘uns OP.

Any old wrinklies fancy someone desperately clinching onto the last few days of his 40s!?

Over 50’s only need apply!

If this thread helps you get attention, I’m pleased for you.

This thread screams of someone wanting to get attention for sure.

Are you not entertained. "

Mildy amused at a push..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People dont get younger thats not how time works

You date younger . That’s how it works. but do i have to be younger to date younger?

You’re classified as old , so yes date younger . a 12 yr old is old i a 3 yr old but saying that who you calling old

You’re over analysing pops . If you dated younger, you wouldn’t be on this forum, trying to provide logic on a Saturday night lol "

1st i dont do dates im not 14 2nd i cant be 14 again so its not possible to date younger i don't have a time machine and 3rd don't make me competitive i don't have the energy to do the whole pissing contest thing winning gets boring after time and theres no point in tap ins

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester


" A lady I was dating was 46. Far too old for me .

Yet you are looking for women up to 52 ?

What else did you like about my profile lol

I was taking pity on the old birds "

I’m 5 years older than you but I feel 20 years younger than you come across

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham


" A lady I was dating was 46. Far too old for me .

Yet you are looking for women up to 52 ?

What else did you like about my profile lol

I was taking pity on the old birds

I’m 5 years older than you but I feel 20 years younger than you come across "

Ouch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have the young ‘uns OP.

Any old wrinklies fancy someone desperately clinching onto the last few days of his 40s!?

Over 50’s only need apply!

If this thread helps you get attention, I’m pleased for you.

Well I’m an attention whore, so I hope it does! "

true dat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't believe I've managed to read this entire thread and there's no mention of popcorn. What is wrong with you people?

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"I'll stick with my own age group. I have kids to keep me up to date on stuff

Thats precisely my premise. Older folks our age stuck in their ways .

Don't judge the rest of us by how you see yourself or are seen by others.

This is the Fabs forum . Or have we moved off that platform haha

The forums are for discussion not judgment.

Yes but you don't have to be the one to do it like you did now.

We are having a silly giggle . It’s Saturday night . "

Erm...tell to everyone you have I insulted tonight all be it not directly. They are not laughing with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't believe I've managed to read this entire thread and there's no mention of popcorn. What is wrong with you people? "
theres a shortage of truck drivers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So what I've learnt from this thread is if you're young you have to date older so older people can date younger people but you can't marry the younger people you date just play with them... and that younger people are fun energetic and have no baggage...

I have so many questions.•°°

when do you become "older"?

Why are there so many mental health resources for young adults if they don't have baggage..?

Why can't you marry a younger person if they're so much fun?

"

Older is over 40

Mental Health effects everyone. If you don’t know anything about mental health, I’d keep quiet.

Younger people are for fun fun fun .

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Nope, I disagree that dating younger has any advantages.

I think dating someone you enjoy, that enjoys you, that makes you smile more than not and that you want to be with (and have excellent sexual chemistry with) has a lot of advantages.

I don't think age is "nothing but a number", but I also think that generalisations based on age are often vague and biased towards the thinking of whomever makes them, thus in the wider world, pretty worthless.

Older people are generally kind of set in their ways, can’t deal with change, listen to crap music. Younger folks are a lot of fun in my experience.

Not everyone can date younger, so it’s a moot point for those people .

No. Not everyone can date younger, but many people don't want to. Your OP was stating that people *should* date younger though.

What age are you calling "older"? In my experience, and I would at the very least consider myself as "not younger", there are people set in their ways, people who can't deal with change, both older and younger than me. There are people who listen to crap music of all ages. That last part is, of course, subjective.

Some younger people are a lot of fun. But some are utter dickweebles. Same goes for older people.

There is no 100% . As much as there are immaute men in their 40s and 50s, there are those in their 30s . I would say pick a guy that is 10 years younger

If you’re a female in your 40s or 50s, steer clear of men around your own age. And have fun .

I'm having plenty of fun thank you, with men around my own age and older. Your entire argument appears based on huge generalisations and your own bias, and thus flawed, but I hope it's only us oldies you're putting off rather than also putting off the young ones you're hoping to impress.

Good luck OP

I’m sharing important information. Those who can’t change their habits, are by nature old.

Please don’t shoot the messenger. All the greats were demonised, Jesus, Alex Jones , Buddha , Boris . "

Not shooting the messenger, but you're talking rubbish because you're generalising.

It turns out I agree with one thing you've said though:

"This man in his 40s is immature"

I mean, I'm paraphrasing slightly but when you grow up you'll get what I mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find that people of my age and older are really struggling with the concept of modernity.

Regardless of your gender, dating younger makes life a lot more fun. The energy , the positivity and general decreased level of baggage is a breath of fresh air.

Have you found this to be true for yourself ?

"

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have the young ‘uns OP.

Any old wrinklies fancy someone desperately clinching onto the last few days of his 40s!?

Over 50’s only need apply!

If this thread helps you get attention, I’m pleased for you.

Well I’m an attention whore, so I hope it does! true dat "

Oi!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"

It’s Saturday night . "

...and you're not out following your own advice, it would seem.

...while assuming there aren't two nubile 21 year olds nibbling at my nipples begging to for it to be their turn on the joystick next.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"So what I've learnt from this thread is if you're young you have to date older so older people can date younger people but you can't marry the younger people you date just play with them... and that younger people are fun energetic and have no baggage...

I have so many questions.•°°

when do you become "older"?

Why are there so many mental health resources for young adults if they don't have baggage..?

Why can't you marry a younger person if they're so much fun?

Older is over 40

Mental Health effects everyone. If you don’t know anything about mental health, I’d keep quiet.

Younger people are for fun fun fun . "

You should be damn careful assuming anything about anyone else's mental health, sugartits

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope, I disagree that dating younger has any advantages.

I think dating someone you enjoy, that enjoys you, that makes you smile more than not and that you want to be with (and have excellent sexual chemistry with) has a lot of advantages.

I don't think age is "nothing but a number", but I also think that generalisations based on age are often vague and biased towards the thinking of whomever makes them, thus in the wider world, pretty worthless.

Older people are generally kind of set in their ways, can’t deal with change, listen to crap music. Younger folks are a lot of fun in my experience.

Not everyone can date younger, so it’s a moot point for those people .

No. Not everyone can date younger, but many people don't want to. Your OP was stating that people *should* date younger though.

What age are you calling "older"? In my experience, and I would at the very least consider myself as "not younger", there are people set in their ways, people who can't deal with change, both older and younger than me. There are people who listen to crap music of all ages. That last part is, of course, subjective.

Some younger people are a lot of fun. But some are utter dickweebles. Same goes for older people.

There is no 100% . As much as there are immaute men in their 40s and 50s, there are those in their 30s . I would say pick a guy that is 10 years younger

If you’re a female in your 40s or 50s, steer clear of men around your own age. And have fun .

I'm having plenty of fun thank you, with men around my own age and older. Your entire argument appears based on huge generalisations and your own bias, and thus flawed, but I hope it's only us oldies you're putting off rather than also putting off the young ones you're hoping to impress.

Good luck OP

I’m sharing important information. Those who can’t change their habits, are by nature old.

Please don’t shoot the messenger. All the greats were demonised, Jesus, Alex Jones , Buddha , Boris .

Not shooting the messenger, but you're talking rubbish because you're generalising.

It turns out I agree with one thing you've said though:

"This man in his 40s is immature"

I mean, I'm paraphrasing slightly but when you grow up you'll get what I mean."

Ouch that really tickled haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't believe I've managed to read this entire thread and there's no mention of popcorn. What is wrong with you people? theres a shortage of truck drivers "

I'd take any snack. Pops.

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By *assler7777Man
over a year ago

coventry

Age is a number that’s all,live as you are and don’t try being younger than your be true to your self

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So what I've learnt from this thread is if you're young you have to date older so older people can date younger people but you can't marry the younger people you date just play with them... and that younger people are fun energetic and have no baggage...

I have so many questions.•°°

when do you become "older"?

Why are there so many mental health resources for young adults if they don't have baggage..?

Why can't you marry a younger person if they're so much fun?

Older is over 40

Mental Health effects everyone. If you don’t know anything about mental health, I’d keep quiet.

Younger people are for fun fun fun .

You should be damn careful assuming anything about anyone else's mental health, sugartits "

I don’t think you’ll be pulling a younger anytime soon

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk


"Fuck dating younger.

Marry younger.

That way when you're retired and relaxing at home with your feet up your OH will still be out working. Guarantees you won't get on each others tits by being around each other all the time.

A

There comes a time when it’s time to drop a younger . It’s when things get serious . It’s 2 years, the ladies will want to settle , have kids etc. As oldies, that’s the time to block your mobile and get back on Fabs "

Well let's hope you are right and that only a small percentage will read this thread!

#whatacatch

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Age is a number that’s all,live as you are and don’t try being younger than your be true to your self "

That’s wisdom . A younger date would appreciate you mate .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't believe I've managed to read this entire thread and there's no mention of popcorn. What is wrong with you people? theres a shortage of truck drivers

I'd take any snack. Pops. "

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"

Fix grammar next time please lol "

Learn the difference between "affects" and "effects" (ref mental health comment) before you start offering grammar advice, kid.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"I'll stick with my own age group. I have kids to keep me up to date on stuff

Thats precisely my premise. Older folks our age stuck in their ways .

Don't judge the rest of us by how you see yourself or are seen by others.

This is the Fabs forum . Or have we moved off that platform haha

The forums are for discussion not judgment.

Yes but you don't have to be the one to do it like you did now.

We are having a silly giggle . It’s Saturday night .

Erm...tell to everyone you have I insulted tonight all be it not directly. They are not laughing with you.

Fix grammar next time please lol "

Oooh..check you out..proved my point for me right there..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

It’s Saturday night .

...and you're not out following your own advice, it would seem.

...while assuming there aren't two nubile 21 year olds nibbling at my nipples begging to for it to be their turn on the joystick next.

"

Sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Fix grammar next time please lol

Learn the difference between "affects" and "effects" (ref mental health comment) before you start offering grammar advice, ."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck dating younger.

Marry younger.

That way when you're retired and relaxing at home with your feet up your OH will still be out working. Guarantees you won't get on each others tits by being around each other all the time.

A

There comes a time when it’s time to drop a younger . It’s when things get serious . It’s 2 years, the ladies will want to settle , have kids etc. As oldies, that’s the time to block your mobile and get back on Fabs

Well let's hope you are right and that only a small percentage will read this thread!

#whatacatch"

Oh no. I really hope lots of people appreciate this one. It's a gift.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'll stick with my own age group. I have kids to keep me up to date on stuff

Thats precisely my premise. Older folks our age stuck in their ways .

Don't judge the rest of us by how you see yourself or are seen by others.

This is the Fabs forum . Or have we moved off that platform haha

The forums are for discussion not judgment.

Yes but you don't have to be the one to do it like you did now.

We are having a silly giggle . It’s Saturday night .

Erm...tell to everyone you have I insulted tonight all be it not directly. They are not laughing with you.

Fix grammar next time please lol

Oooh..check you out..proved my point for me right there.."

m

Correct your grammar or get a younger date to spell check for you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll stick with my own age group. I have kids to keep me up to date on stuff

Thats precisely my premise. Older folks our age stuck in their ways .

Don't judge the rest of us by how you see yourself or are seen by others.

This is the Fabs forum . Or have we moved off that platform haha

The forums are for discussion not judgment.

Yes but you don't have to be the one to do it like you did now.

We are having a silly giggle . It’s Saturday night . "

At 42 I would be out all night doing shots, dancing on tables and spewing up behind Lidl's bin yoofs of today and their silly giggles, get out the house and live

#oldbirdadvice

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"So what I've learnt from this thread is if you're young you have to date older so older people can date younger people but you can't marry the younger people you date just play with them... and that younger people are fun energetic and have no baggage...

I have so many questions.•°°

when do you become "older"?

Why are there so many mental health resources for young adults if they don't have baggage..?

Why can't you marry a younger person if they're so much fun?

Older is over 40

Mental Health effects everyone. If you don’t know anything about mental health, I’d keep quiet.

Younger people are for fun fun fun .

You should be damn careful assuming anything about anyone else's mental health, sugartits

I don’t think you’ll be pulling a younger anytime soon"

Is there a reason you feel the need to be so confrontational and rude? You're doing an excellent job of embarrassing yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fuck dating younger.

Marry younger.

That way when you're retired and relaxing at home with your feet up your OH will still be out working. Guarantees you won't get on each others tits by being around each other all the time.

A

There comes a time when it’s time to drop a younger . It’s when things get serious . It’s 2 years, the ladies will want to settle , have kids etc. As oldies, that’s the time to block your mobile and get back on Fabs

Well let's hope you are right and that only a small percentage will read this thread!

#whatacatch

Oh no. I really hope lots of people appreciate this one. It's a gift. "

All the guys know I'm precisely right .

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"So what I've learnt from this thread is if you're young you have to date older so older people can date younger people but you can't marry the younger people you date just play with them... and that younger people are fun energetic and have no baggage...

I have so many questions.•°°

when do you become "older"?

Why are there so many mental health resources for young adults if they don't have baggage..?

Why can't you marry a younger person if they're so much fun?

Older is over 40

Mental Health effects everyone. If you don’t know anything about mental health, I’d keep quiet.

Younger people are for fun fun fun .

You should be damn careful assuming anything about anyone else's mental health, sugartits

I don’t think you’ll be pulling a younger anytime soon"

We wait in anticipation to read all the veris from younger ladies your gonna get.

Wait over..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So what I've learnt from this thread is if you're young you have to date older so older people can date younger people but you can't marry the younger people you date just play with them... and that younger people are fun energetic and have no baggage...

I have so many questions.•°°

when do you become "older"?

Why are there so many mental health resources for young adults if they don't have baggage..?

Why can't you marry a younger person if they're so much fun?

Older is over 40

Mental Health effects everyone. If you don’t know anything about mental health, I’d keep quiet.

Younger people are for fun fun fun .

You should be damn careful assuming anything about anyone else's mental health, sugartits

I don’t think you’ll be pulling a younger anytime soon

Is there a reason you feel the need to be so confrontational and rude? You're doing an excellent job of embarrassing yourself."

Oh Sugartits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll stick with my own age group. I have kids to keep me up to date on stuff

Thats precisely my premise. Older folks our age stuck in their ways .

Don't judge the rest of us by how you see yourself or are seen by others.

This is the Fabs forum . Or have we moved off that platform haha

The forums are for discussion not judgment.

Yes but you don't have to be the one to do it like you did now.

We are having a silly giggle . It’s Saturday night .

At 42 I would be out all night doing shots, dancing on tables and spewing up behind Lidl's bin yoofs of today and their silly giggles, get out the house and live

#oldbirdadvice"

Fancy a Horlicks, Miss D?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"

It’s Saturday night .

...and you're not out following your own advice, it would seem.

...while assuming there aren't two nubile 21 year olds nibbling at my nipples begging to for it to be their turn on the joystick next.

Sure "

How come you're not out dating younger tonight?

(Apart from a whole series of rejections and ignored messages, which I think we're all taking as read at this point)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'll stick with my own age group. I have kids to keep me up to date on stuff

Thats precisely my premise. Older folks our age stuck in their ways .

Don't judge the rest of us by how you see yourself or are seen by others.

This is the Fabs forum . Or have we moved off that platform haha

The forums are for discussion not judgment.

Yes but you don't have to be the one to do it like you did now.

We are having a silly giggle . It’s Saturday night .

At 42 I would be out all night doing shots, dancing on tables and spewing up behind Lidl's bin yoofs of today and their silly giggles, get out the house and live

#oldbirdadvice"

Shows you don’t really know what younger folks are all about . Just try dating one and you’ll have so much more fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

It’s Saturday night .

...and you're not out following your own advice, it would seem.

...while assuming there aren't two nubile 21 year olds nibbling at my nipples begging to for it to be their turn on the joystick next.

Sure

How come you're not out dating younger tonight?

(Apart from a whole series of rejections and ignored messages, which I think we're all taking as read at this point)"

My 27 yo GF is at her mums tonight .

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By *rincessPuddleDuck22Woman
over a year ago

.•°°


"So what I've learnt from this thread is if you're young you have to date older so older people can date younger people but you can't marry the younger people you date just play with them... and that younger people are fun energetic and have no baggage...

I have so many questions.•°°

when do you become "older"?

Why are there so many mental health resources for young adults if they don't have baggage..?

Why can't you marry a younger person if they're so much fun?

Older is over 40

Mental Health effects everyone. If you don’t know anything about mental health, I’d keep quiet.

Younger people are for fun fun fun . "

My experiences with mental health are.•°° well my experiences that's all anyone can have. It's just fact there are many resources for younger people and their mental health.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I still think the older/younger thing has a limit to it.

Imagine being the younger person out on the town, bump into a few friends and they think you have taken your Dad/Grandad out for a few .....

I couldn't for that reason....

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"

It’s Saturday night .

...and you're not out following your own advice, it would seem.

...while assuming there aren't two nubile 21 year olds nibbling at my nipples begging to for it to be their turn on the joystick next.

Sure

How come you're not out dating younger tonight?

(Apart from a whole series of rejections and ignored messages, which I think we're all taking as read at this point)

My 27 yo GF is at her mums tonight . "

Are we supposed to be impressed and give you a round of applause?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally I still think the older/younger thing has a limit to it.

Imagine being the younger person out on the town, bump into a few friends and they think you have taken your Dad/Grandad out for a few .....

I couldn't for that reason...."

I stated 10-15 years younger . But I agree there are limits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck dating younger.

Marry younger.

That way when you're retired and relaxing at home with your feet up your OH will still be out working. Guarantees you won't get on each others tits by being around each other all the time.

A

There comes a time when it’s time to drop a younger . It’s when things get serious . It’s 2 years, the ladies will want to settle , have kids etc. As oldies, that’s the time to block your mobile and get back on Fabs

Well let's hope you are right and that only a small percentage will read this thread!

#whatacatch

Oh no. I really hope lots of people appreciate this one. It's a gift.

All the guys know I'm precisely right .

"

Do they? Why's that, pray tell?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

It’s Saturday night .

...and you're not out following your own advice, it would seem.

...while assuming there aren't two nubile 21 year olds nibbling at my nipples begging to for it to be their turn on the joystick next.

Sure

How come you're not out dating younger tonight?

(Apart from a whole series of rejections and ignored messages, which I think we're all taking as read at this point)

My 27 yo GF is at her mums tonight .

Are we supposed to be impressed and give you a round of applause? "

I live by my words . I provided an explanation .

Date younger , be happier and yes we have plenty of verifications in our couples profile

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"

All the guys know I'm precisely right .

"

All the thread readers know something about you.

As a man, I reject the accuracy of your statement.

You're not funny, you're not entertainingly provocative, you're just making yourself look spectacularly ridiculous. There are probably private conversations going on about you and NOT to your advantage.

Your best bet at this point is to go to a different website for the rest of the evening.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fuck dating younger.

Marry younger.

That way when you're retired and relaxing at home with your feet up your OH will still be out working. Guarantees you won't get on each others tits by being around each other all the time.

A

There comes a time when it’s time to drop a younger . It’s when things get serious . It’s 2 years, the ladies will want to settle , have kids etc. As oldies, that’s the time to block your mobile and get back on Fabs

Well let's hope you are right and that only a small percentage will read this thread!

#whatacatch

Oh no. I really hope lots of people appreciate this one. It's a gift.

All the guys know I'm precisely right .

Do they? Why's that, pray tell?"

Come pray at the alter of Sammy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck dating younger.

Marry younger.

That way when you're retired and relaxing at home with your feet up your OH will still be out working. Guarantees you won't get on each others tits by being around each other all the time.

A

There comes a time when it’s time to drop a younger . It’s when things get serious . It’s 2 years, the ladies will want to settle , have kids etc. As oldies, that’s the time to block your mobile and get back on Fabs

Well let's hope you are right and that only a small percentage will read this thread!

#whatacatch

Oh no. I really hope lots of people appreciate this one. It's a gift.

All the guys know I'm precisely right .

"

dont speak for me

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"

My 27 yo GF is at her mums tonight . "

Is she running your couple profile?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

All the guys know I'm precisely right .

All the thread readers know something about you.

As a man, I reject the accuracy of your statement.

You're not funny, you're not entertainingly provocative, you're just making yourself look spectacularly ridiculous. There are probably private conversations going on about you and NOT to your advantage.

Your best bet at this point is to go to a different website for the rest of the evening.

"

Horlick’s calling for bed time lol

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"

It’s Saturday night .

...and you're not out following your own advice, it would seem.

...while assuming there aren't two nubile 21 year olds nibbling at my nipples begging to for it to be their turn on the joystick next.

Sure

How come you're not out dating younger tonight?

(Apart from a whole series of rejections and ignored messages, which I think we're all taking as read at this point)

My 27 yo GF is at her mums tonight .

Are we supposed to be impressed and give you a round of applause?

I live by my words . I provided an explanation .

Date younger , be happier and yes we have plenty of verifications in our couples profile "

Congratulations. Have a peanut voucher

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

My 27 yo GF is at her mums tonight .

Is she running your couple profile?"

Why would she be on Fabs this time of night. She’s young and having fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll stick with my own age group. I have kids to keep me up to date on stuff

Thats precisely my premise. Older folks our age stuck in their ways .

Don't judge the rest of us by how you see yourself or are seen by others.

This is the Fabs forum . Or have we moved off that platform haha

The forums are for discussion not judgment.

Yes but you don't have to be the one to do it like you did now.

We are having a silly giggle . It’s Saturday night .

At 42 I would be out all night doing shots, dancing on tables and spewing up behind Lidl's bin yoofs of today and their silly giggles, get out the house and live

#oldbirdadvice

Fancy a Horlicks, Miss D? "

Got any rich tea? And can I bring my slippers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just doing a quick summary before the thread ends:

- calls anyone over 40 oldies (OP is over 40)

- calls women over 40 old birds

- calls MrsKC a fella. Twice.

- calls Inevitable (who is younger) "Pops"

- says young people aren't good for marrying, just fun fun fun

- says oldies have crap taste in music, are set in their ways, don't know how to live life to the full and many more insults

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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It’s Saturday night .

...and you're not out following your own advice, it would seem.

...while assuming there aren't two nubile 21 year olds nibbling at my nipples begging to for it to be their turn on the joystick next.

Sure

How come you're not out dating younger tonight?

(Apart from a whole series of rejections and ignored messages, which I think we're all taking as read at this point)

My 27 yo GF is at her mums tonight .

Are we supposed to be impressed and give you a round of applause?

I live by my words . I provided an explanation .

Date younger , be happier and yes we have plenty of verifications in our couples profile

Congratulations. Have a peanut voucher "

Thanks Sugartits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

It’s Saturday night .

...and you're not out following your own advice, it would seem.

...while assuming there aren't two nubile 21 year olds nibbling at my nipples begging to for it to be their turn on the joystick next.

Sure

How come you're not out dating younger tonight?

(Apart from a whole series of rejections and ignored messages, which I think we're all taking as read at this point)

My 27 yo GF is at her mums tonight . "

fab so full of fantasists

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"

My 27 yo GF is at her mums tonight .

Is she running your couple profile?

Why would she be on Fabs this time of night. She’s young and having fun "

With her mum????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just doing a quick summary before the thread ends:

- calls anyone over 40 oldies (OP is over 40)

- calls women over 40 old birds

- calls MrsKC a fella. Twice.

- calls Inevitable (who is younger) "Pops"

- says young people aren't good for marrying, just fun fun fun

- says oldies have crap taste in music, are set in their ways, don't know how to live life to the full and many more insults "

you should be the new moira stuart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll stick with my own age group. I have kids to keep me up to date on stuff

Thats precisely my premise. Older folks our age stuck in their ways .

Don't judge the rest of us by how you see yourself or are seen by others.

This is the Fabs forum . Or have we moved off that platform haha

The forums are for discussion not judgment.

Yes but you don't have to be the one to do it like you did now.

We are having a silly giggle . It’s Saturday night .

At 42 I would be out all night doing shots, dancing on tables and spewing up behind Lidl's bin yoofs of today and their silly giggles, get out the house and live

#oldbirdadvice

Shows you don’t really know what younger folks are all about . Just try dating one and you’ll have so much more fun. "

As I said, I suggest you get and find out because you're clearly wrong

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Just doing a quick summary before the thread ends:

- calls anyone over 40 oldies (OP is over 40)

- calls women over 40 old birds

- calls MrsKC a fella. Twice.

- calls Inevitable (who is younger) "Pops"

- says young people aren't good for marrying, just fun fun fun

- says oldies have crap taste in music, are set in their ways, don't know how to live life to the full and many more insults "

- doesn't have his story straight at all.

I reckon I could do a better job of convincing the forum that I was hosting a 17 person orgy in my back garden.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just doing a quick summary before the thread ends:

- calls anyone over 40 oldies (OP is over 40)

- calls women over 40 old birds

- calls MrsKC a fella. Twice.

- calls Inevitable (who is younger) "Pops"

- says young people aren't good for marrying, just fun fun fun

- says oldies have crap taste in music, are set in their ways, don't know how to live life to the full and many more insults "

Im over 40 and I’ve said date younger and I date a 27 yo hottie

I called one person old bird .

Yes I did call him a fella lol

Pops because he is a pops haha

Young people are fun fun fun to the power of 3

Agree oldies are uncool until they pull a younger lady or man

Insults are subjective . Ask yourself why you’re so upset .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just doing a quick summary before the thread ends:

- calls anyone over 40 oldies (OP is over 40)

- calls women over 40 old birds

- calls MrsKC a fella. Twice.

- calls Inevitable (who is younger) "Pops"

- says young people aren't good for marrying, just fun fun fun

- says oldies have crap taste in music, are set in their ways, don't know how to live life to the full and many more insults you should be the new moira stuart"

I'd be bloody honoured

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How generous of you to advise us all after a whole 5wks on fab....

Very impressive that you've managed to canvas ALL the people. Quite the achievement, really.

Had it crossed your mind that not everyone thinks the way you do, and maybe you're just attracted to your emotional and intellectual level of maturity? Just a hunch....

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester


"So what I've learnt from this thread is if you're young you have to date older so older people can date younger people but you can't marry the younger people you date just play with them... and that younger people are fun energetic and have no baggage...

I have so many questions.•°°

when do you become "older"?

Why are there so many mental health resources for young adults if they don't have baggage..?

Why can't you marry a younger person if they're so much fun?

Older is over 40

Mental Health effects everyone. If you don’t know anything about mental health, I’d keep quiet.

Younger people are for fun fun fun . "

Are you pissed??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll stick with my own age group. I have kids to keep me up to date on stuff

Thats precisely my premise. Older folks our age stuck in their ways ."

Im not stuck in my ways. Im not attracted to younger men. Its that simple.

Like i said, i have kids that keep me up to date.

I maybe pushing 50 physically. But not mentally

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Just doing a quick summary before the thread ends:

- calls anyone over 40 oldies (OP is over 40)

- calls women over 40 old birds

- calls MrsKC a fella. Twice.

- calls Inevitable (who is younger) "Pops"

- says young people aren't good for marrying, just fun fun fun

- says oldies have crap taste in music, are set in their ways, don't know how to live life to the full and many more insults you should be the new moira stuart"

Would it not be advisable to select a younger news anchor?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle to attract my own age. Younger, not so much of a problem at all..go figure.?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just doing a quick summary before the thread ends:

- calls anyone over 40 oldies (OP is over 40)

- calls women over 40 old birds

- calls MrsKC a fella. Twice.

- calls Inevitable (who is younger) "Pops"

- says young people aren't good for marrying, just fun fun fun

- says oldies have crap taste in music, are set in their ways, don't know how to live life to the full and many more insults

- doesn't have his story straight at all.

I reckon I could do a better job of convincing the forum that I was hosting a 17 person orgy in my back garden."

That’s not true is it. Prove to us all where my story doesn’t convince or add up. You can’t haha

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"

My 27 yo GF is at her mums tonight .

Is she running your couple profile?

Why would she be on Fabs this time of night. She’s young and having fun

With her mum????"

She has a puncture so she can’t come out tonight ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just doing a quick summary before the thread ends:

- calls anyone over 40 oldies (OP is over 40)

- calls women over 40 old birds

- calls MrsKC a fella. Twice.

- calls Inevitable (who is younger) "Pops"

- says young people aren't good for marrying, just fun fun fun

- says oldies have crap taste in music, are set in their ways, don't know how to live life to the full and many more insults

Im over 40 and I’ve said date younger and I date a 27 yo hottie

I called one person old bird .

Yes I did call him a fella lol

Pops because he is a pops haha

Young people are fun fun fun to the power of 3

Agree oldies are uncool until they pull a younger lady or man

Insults are subjective . Ask yourself why you’re so upset .

"

Sweetie, I'm enjoying the hell out of this thread. No idea why you'd think I'm upset. Watching you slowly combust is a delight.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester


"Just doing a quick summary before the thread ends:

- calls anyone over 40 oldies (OP is over 40)

- calls women over 40 old birds

- calls MrsKC a fella. Twice.

- calls Inevitable (who is younger) "Pops"

- says young people aren't good for marrying, just fun fun fun

- says oldies have crap taste in music, are set in their ways, don't know how to live life to the full and many more insults "

I’m dying

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Just doing a quick summary before the thread ends:

- calls anyone over 40 oldies (OP is over 40)

- calls women over 40 old birds

- calls MrsKC a fella. Twice.

- calls Inevitable (who is younger) "Pops"

- says young people aren't good for marrying, just fun fun fun

- says oldies have crap taste in music, are set in their ways, don't know how to live life to the full and many more insults

Im over 40 and I’ve said date younger and I date a 27 yo hottie

I called one person old bird .

Yes I did call him a fella lol

Pops because he is a pops haha

Young people are fun fun fun to the power of 3

Agree oldies are uncool until they pull a younger lady or man

Insults are subjective . Ask yourself why you’re so upset .

"

Him a fella?

The person typing this message is the same one sat in the wheelchair in the avatar. I'm a woman. Mrs KC. Whatever else you say, please have the good grace to address me by the correct gender. Thank you.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"

I reckon I could do a better job of convincing the forum that I was hosting a 17 person orgy in my back garden."

Any room for an 18th ? I might be an old bird but I still feel like a spring chicken.

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

I go with people I find attractive and sexy.

Age doesn’t come into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the OP has got his fishing line out and is catching a few whoppers tonight.

It is good entertainment.

But sadly the OP is clearly inexperienced in the ways of the forums and doesn’t understand that what to him is a bit of light-hearted fun has probably alienated him a little, what we used to call Fabicide back in the day (I was guilty of the same thing in the past, not everyone gets the humour intended, or it fails to hit the mark)

Try and put emotion aside and realise it’s just meant to be a little bit of fun, even if some of the remarks are borderline insults

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can we reconvene OP,when you've been here for a few months and maybe had a few meets. In the meantime I'll make my own decisions. Thank you.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

^^^The same OP would not find it amusing in the slightest if aspects of his person etc were ridiculed or made light of.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

All welcome Sally. Might be best to bring a friend though.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

I am guilty of piling on to random who post inane nonsense, sometimes, and that's something I'm working on.

This is different. OP didn't get the response he expected, and doubled down into stuff that was definitely over the borderline, and got exactly what was deserved

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"I can't believe I've managed to read this entire thread and there's no mention of popcorn. What is wrong with you people? "

I'm old so it gets stuck in my false teeth.

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