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By *wingsRus OP   Man
over a year ago

cayton

Hey guys very confused here too scared to get a counsellor! Would be grateful for any help no jokes please since younger I have got horny over male related sex, however I do not walk past guys and think I want to be in a relationship with them. I also love dressing up during sex and love the feeling of being a girl, however I am certain I want my dick to stay? Am I bi curious? Am I a CD or trans? My head is going to explode!

Thanks

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By *wingsRus OP   Man
over a year ago

cayton

Oh and I enjoy sex with fem and also have been in happy relationships with fem I don't think I'm gay?

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By *phrodite_AdonisCouple
over a year ago

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Whatever you want to label yourself that’s what you are.

Don’t really think others labelling an individual based on their experiences, judgement or perception is the way to go.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Hey guys very confused here too scared to get a counsellor! Would be grateful for any help no jokes please since younger I have got horny over male related sex, however I do not walk past guys and think I want to be in a relationship with them. I also love dressing up during sex and love the feeling of being a girl, however I am certain I want my dick to stay? Am I bi curious? Am I a CD or trans? My head is going to explode!

Thanks"

Why is it important to have a label? You are sexually attracted to men so for the purposes of FAB you can tick the Bi Sexual box, from a romantic point of view though as long as you're honest with potential partners then why does it matter?

Cal

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By *wingsRus OP   Man
over a year ago

cayton

Yeah you're right I just feel abit lost everyone else seems to know themselves hahah

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By *wingsRus OP   Man
over a year ago

cayton

It doesn't matter, but for me it seems to, because I'm still very confused and it's on my mind alot

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Hey guys very confused here too scared to get a counsellor! Would be grateful for any help no jokes please since younger I have got horny over male related sex, however I do not walk past guys and think I want to be in a relationship with them. I also love dressing up during sex and love the feeling of being a girl, however I am certain I want my dick to stay? Am I bi curious? Am I a CD or trans? My head is going to explode!

Thanks"

If you feel the need to have a label then pick whatever you want - it's your prerogative and you can't be wrong.

What you've described is in no way unique.

I've indulged in same sex activities purely for the sexual thrill, not because I'm emotionally attracted to men or would ever want a same sex relationship.

Many people cross dress whether straight, bi or even gay.

Do what you want, enjoy what you want and don't feel pressurised to call yourself anything at all.

A

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By *wingsRus OP   Man
over a year ago

cayton

Hey thx for that, didn't know there were so many out there, so even if I'm sexually attracted to male sex stuff or crossdressing, it doesn't mean I am romantically attracted to men??

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Yeah you're right I just feel abit lost everyone else seems to know themselves hahah"

There's a big difference between "knowing yourself" and "labeling yourself". Personally I think that labels are for other people, on FAB they are useful for people to know if an approach would be acceptable. In real life, I kind of think they're only for people to talk about you.

Cal

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Hey thx for that, didn't know there were so many out there, so even if I'm sexually attracted to male sex stuff or crossdressing, it doesn't mean I am romantically attracted to men??"

Nope.

It's perfectly possible to just enjoy the physical aspect without enjoying any romantic attraction. Exactly the same way you can enjoy sex with a woman without any feelings, emotional element or romantic aspirations. It can be just sex with whoever.

A

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