FabSwingers.com forum: Friends on the forum

By *unandgamegeek OP Man
over a year ago

Bolton

Who here has made actual friends on the forums that you spoke to on here and then met up with now and again?

As for me, even though I've been on here since 2017 and posted some good threads, I don't think I have sadly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One or two but honestly not as much as I'd like, always open for a casual chat, whether or not it goes further we can always see how it goes

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I met my fab bestie through posting in the forums. That's just one of the benefits of our friendship

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By *appytaffWoman
over a year ago

blackwood

Friendship is always a good thing !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

One, maybe. They know who they are, I hope

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

Friends that I chat to regularly but not met yet…roll on Manchester !

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

Two of my closest friends who I chat to every day were from the forum. And plenty of other pretty good friends too.

OP, you could always come to our monthly Coffee & Cake social in Manchester, if you fancy chatting & getting to know folk x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None unfortunately. I don’t think we’ve bumped into anyone from the forums when we’ve been to clubs.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Yep. I'm meeting one tonight.

I have lots of fab social friends that I meet up with on a regular basis for drinks and food

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By *aturefun63Man
over a year ago

Belper

None yet

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

"None unfortunately. I don’t think we’ve bumped into anyone from the forums when we’ve been to clubs."

They all hiding from you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Two of my closest friends who I chat to every day were from the forum. And plenty of other pretty good friends too.

OP, you could always come to our monthly Coffee & Cake social in Manchester, if you fancy chatting & getting to know folk x"

Is there a thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"None unfortunately. I don’t think we’ve bumped into anyone from the forums when we’ve been to clubs.

They all hiding from you ?

If they aren’t they probably should be

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

We’ve made a couple of friends that we meet up with every now and then and hang out.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I think there is only 2 of my friends who I've met that use the forums. The rest don't use them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends come and go, sadly. But I hope my current online friends stay and we get to meet up for real.

Manchester.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

"None unfortunately. I don’t think we’ve bumped into anyone from the forums when we’ve been to clubs.

They all hiding from you ?

If they aren’t they probably should be

Ever wondered why it’s quiet on the same night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"None unfortunately. I don’t think we’ve bumped into anyone from the forums when we’ve been to clubs.

They all hiding from you ?

If they aren’t they probably should be

Ever wondered why it’s quiet on the same night

I should probably stop posting on the forums when we’re going. I did it 3 weeks in advance last time and there was cobwebs on the gloryhole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Two of my closest friends who I chat to every day were from the forum. And plenty of other pretty good friends too.

OP, you could always come to our monthly Coffee & Cake social in Manchester, if you fancy chatting & getting to know folk x"

Cake? Pah!!!!

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk

Yes I have we talk every day and meet up when we can

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I’ve made some good friends through the site, some are still members whilst others have left

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

Yes I've made friends from the forum and then moved onto actually meeting them

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Who here has made actual friends on the forums that you spoke to on here and then met up with now and again?

As for me, even though I've been on here since 2017 and posted some good threads, I don't think I have sadly."

Yep.

Met socially. Met for sex. Had a couple at our wedding and would have had more had they been free.

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Oh great, another way to fail at Fab.

I have no forum friends or even lackeys, acolytes, comrades or hangers-on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh great, another way to fail at Fab.

I have no forum friends or even lackeys, acolytes, comrades or hangers-on

And you don’t go on about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say one. Though we’ve only met once

And others that I have purely platonic relationships with but haven’t been lucky enough to meet them

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

"None unfortunately. I don’t think we’ve bumped into anyone from the forums when we’ve been to clubs.

They all hiding from you ?

If they aren’t they probably should be

Ever wondered why it’s quiet on the same night

I should probably stop posting on the forums when we’re going. I did it 3 weeks in advance last time and there was cobwebs on the gloryhole

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Oh great, another way to fail at Fab.

I have no forum friends or even lackeys, acolytes, comrades or hangers-on

And you don’t go on about it."

No, it's kind of my secret shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's people I talk to.

People I talk to and meet up with? That's a whole other level of commitment.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Yep, there are a few that I talk with on occasion, others that I’ve chatted with for years. One person that I talk with at least daily.

Finding people like that is one of the hidden joys of fab

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Yes a few x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Two of my closest friends who I chat to every day were from the forum. And plenty of other pretty good friends too.

OP, you could always come to our monthly Coffee & Cake social in Manchester, if you fancy chatting & getting to know folk x"

I'm coming one weekend if i can get my arse in gear!!

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

Do people talk to each other and make friends on here? Wow. If only!

Billy-no-mates here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve made loads of lovely friends on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a lot of friends on the forum at a group social and they were everything I expected. There is someone I message back and forth with almost every day who I would love to meet if the stars align

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met some great people from initial forum interactions, might have shagged them too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few some closer than others altho not as close as i used to allow

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Most of my meets were forumites.

Just not this generation.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Not from the forum, no. I've tried to meet a couple of people but it didn't happen.

One of my early meets on here was with someone I got chatting to on a "ask in private, answer in public" thread though, and he was a fantastic guy who I count myself fortunate to have spent a few weekends with. Sadly UNLOS and no longer swinging, but it was great while it lasted!

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I have and looking forward to meeting more of them soon

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Yes, made a fair few friends, who we've met up with and keep in touch with

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By *unandgamegeek OP Man
over a year ago

Bolton

"Two of my closest friends who I chat to every day were from the forum. And plenty of other pretty good friends too.

OP, you could always come to our monthly Coffee & Cake social in Manchester, if you fancy chatting & getting to know folk x"

When are these events?

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"Two of my closest friends who I chat to every day were from the forum. And plenty of other pretty good friends too.

OP, you could always come to our monthly Coffee & Cake social in Manchester, if you fancy chatting & getting to know folk x

Is there a thread?"

There was, last year

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By *unandgamegeek OP Man
over a year ago

Bolton

"Do people talk to each other and make friends on here? Wow. If only!

Billy-no-mates here!"

I think it should be Billy-no-forum-mates

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"Two of my closest friends who I chat to every day were from the forum. And plenty of other pretty good friends too.

OP, you could always come to our monthly Coffee & Cake social in Manchester, if you fancy chatting & getting to know folk x

Cake? Pah!!!!

Well as you didn't turn up to the last one, I got extra cake

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I love meeting forumites

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

"Do people talk to each other and make friends on here? Wow. If only!

Billy-no-mates here!

I think it should be Billy-no-forum-mates"

Yes, you're not wrong there

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I've met all of my true Fab friends by meeting them.

I don't like the idea of Facebook style 'friends' that aren't

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I'm not sure I'm hugely sociable really, but when I think about it I've got to know a few people on here and Fabguys who get in touch every now and again, and we'll either chat on the phone or meet for a drink or two of something - which I really appreciate. I'm just not that great in getting in touch myself, that's my problem. I know I turn a few people away from time to time, esp often sexually-incompatible men asking for friendship (there's a lot of lonely ppl on fab) - but when it just happens of course it's great. We all need these kind of pals I think, people you get on with who know some of your secret kinks! --pt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve made some amazing friends via the forum. I’m very grateful for that

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

I have and now I can't get rid of the eejits....

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

One of my best friends is from the forum.

There’s a lady from the forums who we’d see a lot of if she lived closer.

We chat to a few from the forums and would happily go for a drink with a number of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a couple I'm very good friends with. We met in the usual Fab way for the usual Fab things but they started a family and things fizzled out when they left here - but - we stayed in touch.

We see each other maybe 3 or 4 times a year now and, like I say, we're just friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Two of my closest friends who I chat to every day were from the forum. And plenty of other pretty good friends too.

OP, you could always come to our monthly Coffee & Cake social in Manchester, if you fancy chatting & getting to know folk x

Cake? Pah!!!!

Well as you didn't turn up to the last one, I got extra cake

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Heres what you could’ve had Woody!!!

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

We’ve met quite a few that we would now class as friends

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Two of my closest friends who I chat to every day were from the forum. And plenty of other pretty good friends too.

OP, you could always come to our monthly Coffee & Cake social in Manchester, if you fancy chatting & getting to know folk x

Is there a thread?

There was, last year

Clique.

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

"Two of my closest friends who I chat to every day were from the forum. And plenty of other pretty good friends too.

OP, you could always come to our monthly Coffee & Cake social in Manchester, if you fancy chatting & getting to know folk x

Is there a thread?

There was, last year

Clique.

Or just friends meeting up

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By *unandgamegeek OP Man
over a year ago

Bolton

The saddest thing is, I don't really know anyone on here. Can't even get a chance to know anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Two of my closest friends who I chat to every day were from the forum. And plenty of other pretty good friends too.

OP, you could always come to our monthly Coffee & Cake social in Manchester, if you fancy chatting & getting to know folk x

Is there a thread?

There was, last year

Clique.

Or just friends meeting up "

Sure

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Two of my closest friends who I chat to every day were from the forum. And plenty of other pretty good friends too.

OP, you could always come to our monthly Coffee & Cake social in Manchester, if you fancy chatting & getting to know folk x

Is there a thread?

There was, last year

Clique.

Helluva clique then. There's a different group of people each time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Two of my closest friends who I chat to every day were from the forum. And plenty of other pretty good friends too.

OP, you could always come to our monthly Coffee & Cake social in Manchester, if you fancy chatting & getting to know folk x

Is there a thread?

There was, last year

Clique.

Helluva clique then. There's a different group of people each time. "

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I have

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I have met two people from the forum and both went well.

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By *tarflyLouWoman
over a year ago

Preston

"Two of my closest friends who I chat to every day were from the forum. And plenty of other pretty good friends too.

OP, you could always come to our monthly Coffee & Cake social in Manchester, if you fancy chatting & getting to know folk x"

I’d love the opportunity to meet people if you ever want to open this up to newbies! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even I've got a friend that I met via the forum. Been chatting for years and meet up every now and then. It's not something I set out to do and wouldn't make a habit of it. Most of my friends are non forum. I prefer it that way.

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago

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"Two of my closest friends who I chat to every day were from the forum. And plenty of other pretty good friends too.

OP, you could always come to our monthly Coffee & Cake social in Manchester, if you fancy chatting & getting to know folk x

I’d love the opportunity to meet people if you ever want to open this up to newbies! x"

I like cake but not coffee….am I excluded?

But in answer to OP….I have indeed made friends and met folk from the forums, I find it’s a fun way to make convo with people

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"Two of my closest friends who I chat to every day were from the forum. And plenty of other pretty good friends too.

OP, you could always come to our monthly Coffee & Cake social in Manchester, if you fancy chatting & getting to know folk x

I’d love the opportunity to meet people if you ever want to open this up to newbies! x"

Il message you, lovely x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've made many friends on the forum and met the love of my life here too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Two of my closest friends who I chat to every day were from the forum. And plenty of other pretty good friends too.

OP, you could always come to our monthly Coffee & Cake social in Manchester, if you fancy chatting & getting to know folk x"

Are these meets open to anyone, or personal invite?

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By *emma HoldenTV/TS
over a year ago

Ramsey

I met the best friend I could have ever wished for on fab. Covid got in the way but now I'm making up for lost time & getting back into going away for what will hopefully be many visits & nights out. It's nice to click & trust someone enough to move things beyond fab & into real life.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"Two of my closest friends who I chat to every day were from the forum. And plenty of other pretty good friends too.

OP, you could always come to our monthly Coffee & Cake social in Manchester, if you fancy chatting & getting to know folk x

Are these meets open to anyone, or personal invite?"

As it's just a group of friends meeting up, I'd say it was by invite only. You're in Southampton, according to your profile, so I'd say it was a little far for you. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a previous profile I met someone from here for a social, one of the most prolific female posters. Ive no desire to meet her again, so no.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Even I've got a friend that I met via the forum. Been chatting for years and meet up every now and then. "

No way Belle.

Gosh. People can really surprise you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a friend or 2 from here.

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Not yet for me

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By *ot chicWoman
over a year ago

Beverley

I don't have any friends lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One, maybe. They know who they are, I hope

This is the sort of comment that makes me never want to meet someone who posts regularly on the forum ever again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Two of my closest friends who I chat to every day were from the forum. And plenty of other pretty good friends too.

OP, you could always come to our monthly Coffee & Cake social in Manchester, if you fancy chatting & getting to know folk x

Are these meets open to anyone, or personal invite?

As it's just a group of friends meeting up, I'd say it was by invite only. You're in Southampton, according to your profile, so I'd say it was a little far for you. X

We visit Manchester, often ish, as one of us has family and friends there.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I’m lucky enough to have made some really good friends through the forum. We all chat regularly and have met up a few times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re all to far away. Love the chats and would like to get my hands on a few

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been too on and off past few years to establish any connections, would love to remedy that tho. So i'll abuse your post for shameless self promotion... hands up who likes me!

Only works if you know the young ones lol

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

I've made some people I call friends, even if we don't talk every day or even weeks between, I'm glad fab brought them into my life

Tg x

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