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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Could you ever date someone who does porn at any level? Would you be able to see that it's 'work' sex rather than any kind of cheating?

I think it would be really exciting to hear about their sexcapades and see them in action with others

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Personally, no. I have a hard time respecting that kinda work

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I could yeah.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would date them but not have sex with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes wouldn’t bother me one bit

Could even date a escort

I mean it would be very hypocritical off me to judge someone for doing porn or anything like that

When I do myself

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't know. I wouldn't see it as cheating, that would be a bit hypocritical of me considering I'm part of a swinging couple but until I'm faced with the choice I genuinely don't know how I'd feel

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally, no. I have a hard time respecting that kinda work "

What about it do you find hard to respect?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would date them but not have sex with them. "

Why would you not have sex with them?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes wouldn’t bother me one bit

Could even date a escort

I mean it would be very hypocritical off me to judge someone for doing porn or anything like that

When I do myself

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Haha, if you do it yourself it would definitely be hypocritical to judge others for it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't know. I wouldn't see it as cheating, that would be a bit hypocritical of me considering I'm part of a swinging couple but until I'm faced with the choice I genuinely don't know how I'd feel"

Do you always swing together or do you meet separately too?

And yeah, until faced with the situation it's purely speculation.

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

Yes, I would be ok with that, this site for many people is about finding multiple sexual partners, so it’s not too much different, they are just getting paid for it. Also, I have a friend who worked in porn about 20 years ago, and I’ve known her since before then and it never bothered me.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"Personally, no. I have a hard time respecting that kinda work

What about it do you find hard to respect? "

Just personally, I don’t see it as real work, and as much as we want to applaud sex work, it’s an industry that causes way more harm than good to the women in it.

I’d just really struggle to date someone in that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No issues in theory. Theres something that would sit uncomfortably with me for judging someone for providing me with something I consume.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I don't know. I wouldn't see it as cheating, that would be a bit hypocritical of me considering I'm part of a swinging couple but until I'm faced with the choice I genuinely don't know how I'd feel

Do you always swing together or do you meet separately too?

And yeah, until faced with the situation it's purely speculation. "

Always together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could you ever date someone who does porn at any level? Would you be able to see that it's 'work' sex rather than any kind of cheating?

I think it would be really exciting to hear about their sexcapades and see them in action with others "

You’re on a swinging website asking ‘do you see working in porn as cheating?’ I’m just making that clear.

Do you see swinging as cheating op?

My answer, I’m not dating anyone, and I don’t know anyone working in porn. So it’s hard for me to try tho imagine it.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Yes, totally. I did date an escorts for a while. It didn't bother me at all. We didn't talk about her appointments any more than I'd talk about meetings I had in my job. Luke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes wouldn’t bother me one bit

Could even date a escort

I mean it would be very hypocritical off me to judge someone for doing porn or anything like that

When I do myself

Haha, if you do it yourself it would definitely be hypocritical to judge others for it! "

Yip that’s why it wouldn’t bother me one bit at all

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By *tinerant scribeMan
over a year ago

County Durham

I will dodge the question somewhat by saying that I would feel lucky to date a director like Erika Lust. I am not sure about someone in one of her casts. Swinging is shared and film-making isn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I can do the whole stag/vixen thing I’m sure dating a pornstar wouldn’t be a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most porn stars see it as a job just like everyone else going to work everyday. If they are going to run off with someone else, they will do it regardless of what their job is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes, I would be ok with that, this site for many people is about finding multiple sexual partners, so it’s not too much different, they are just getting paid for it. Also, I have a friend who worked in porn about 20 years ago, and I’ve known her since before then and it never bothered me."

Yeah, that's my thinking too. But I know a lot of people seem to feel differently about things as soon as money is involved, like it somehow makes it dirty.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I will dodge the question somewhat by saying that I would feel lucky to date a director like Erika Lust. I am not sure about someone in one of her casts. Swinging is shared and film-making isn't."

It's still shared experiences..?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No issues in theory. Theres something that would sit uncomfortably with me for judging someone for providing me with something I consume.

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Yet a lot of people do just that - bash creators but will happily wank over them.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'd rather date someone who worked consensually and legally in porn than some of the people we have in power and at the head of businesses currently.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could you ever date someone who does porn at any level? Would you be able to see that it's 'work' sex rather than any kind of cheating?

I think it would be really exciting to hear about their sexcapades and see them in action with others

You’re on a swinging website asking ‘do you see working in porn as cheating?’ I’m just making that clear.

Do you see swinging as cheating op?

My answer, I’m not dating anyone, and I don’t know anyone working in porn. So it’s hard for me to try tho imagine it. "

No, of course not, not if all parties are consenting. But swinging and making porn is quite different so was just curious.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I can do the whole stag/vixen thing I’m sure dating a pornstar wouldn’t be a problem."

I'd imagine that would add another layer of excitement to it as it will be consumed by the public

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd rather date someone who worked consensually and legally in porn than some of the people we have in power and at the head of businesses currently. "

Haha, absolutely!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Most porn stars see it as a job just like everyone else going to work everyday. If they are going to run off with someone else, they will do it regardless of what their job is."

Yes definitely, and that can happen with any job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just an act the sex bit nothing more than what it is like swinging It's just an experience everybody,s body is different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would date them but not have sex with them.

Why would you not have sex with them? "

Same reason I wouldn't date a swinger.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon


"I would date them but not have sex with them. "

Even with a discount? Mates rates!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would, I don't tend to judge people by what job they do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would date them but not have sex with them.

Even with a discount? Mates rates! "

Cheap shags!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

At least they would be regularly tested x

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Could you ever date someone who does porn at any level? Would you be able to see that it's 'work' sex rather than any kind of cheating?

I think it would be really exciting to hear about their sexcapades and see them in action with others "

At any level? Do you include posting free content on places like twatter and OF? Or even on here?

Because if so, then I'll see your 'dating' and raise you 'marry'.

It's just a job, like any other. It's no more an act of cheating than swinging is.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Probably not

But not because I'd see it as cheating

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could you ever date someone who does porn at any level? Would you be able to see that it's 'work' sex rather than any kind of cheating?

I think it would be really exciting to hear about their sexcapades and see them in action with others

At any level? Do you include posting free content on places like twatter and OF? Or even on here?

Because if so, then I'll see your 'dating' and raise you 'marry'.

It's just a job, like any other. It's no more an act of cheating than swinging is.

A"

Yes those included! I meant with people other than their partners but glad you think like that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"At least they would be regularly tested x"

Absolutely!

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