FabSwingers.com forum: How long have you been on fab?

By *ittlekinks38 OP Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

Am only here a couple of years but finding it great I like the social side of fab and the chat groups helps too!

I've found many a great fab friend here just wish I had of joined away earlier in my life and not bothered with dating sites as am certainly not looking to date just have fun with couples and group fun!

Have you been here long and how are you finding it?

Xx cj xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It feels like 2 was. Time flies when your having fun.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I've been here 15 years or so and, of course, it's great

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Since 2015 so I'm practically furniture now

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

10 months. It's pretty good to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On and off 6 years. Met some great folk along the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On and off….10 years with different profiles.

It’s ace here when the stars align, and it’s sound destroying when they don’t. The good outweighs the bad, or I’d never return.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Almost 5 years but only really active for about a year of that. These days it’s mostly for the forums.

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

Not sure now. Must be prior to 2015 though . Unless there is a way of finding out on profile ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To long

I should just fuck off

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

"To long

I should just fuck off "

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

I joined November 2009

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

"Am only here a couple of years but finding it great I like the social side of fab and the chat groups helps too!

Have you been here long and how are you finding it?

Xx cj xx "

Quite a few years now as I have been swinging on and off since the 90s I have left a few times but always come back.

I am finding it a real uphill struggle to get meets at the moment but it's nice being on the forums and and have less scammers than most on here.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Since 2008. There was a mass exodus from a rival (will remain un-named of course) site due to a few 'issues and I came here as a single. Had my first profile for about 3 years and then when some kind soul tried to out me to work I switched to another and then we set this one up sometime around 2012 when we were first FB's.

Been married 7 years now so if I said anything other than 'I love Fab' I'd be lying and massively ungrateful for what it's done for me and us.

Some find it hard work. Some have unrealistic expectations. It's an addition to your life, not the be all and end all, and if someone couldn't live without Fab then I'd say you need to sit back and rethink life's priorities.

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

I have been here for 3 years

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

7 months, I enjoy the forums and I have met some amazing people

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

Over 15 years.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

This time only a few months but previously a couple of years

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I've been probably getting on for 5yrs.

It's been an eye opener and a lot of fun.

Always kept the same profile. I may take time out but I can't see myself leaving any time soon

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By *he RizzlerMan
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Been on here over a couple days of years. I’ve met a couple of friends who I still see quite regular.

Honestly thought I was a sex god until I came of here and now I think I’m an apprentice hahah!

I do wish I’d have joined sooner and not left it so late. I’ve still got so much to learn and try!

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Over 15 years. "

That is quite a while!

I can see myself being here 15 yrs....maybe taking time out and just popping back for the forum.

It's not about the sex for me anymore.

Have you ever taken a step back for a while?

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

Four years chronologically. But due to covid/lockdown it's two years realistically.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To long

I should just fuck off

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Glad someone agrees

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

11 months and not a meet but been to a social though

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By *icole 123Woman
over a year ago

Baildon,West Yorkshire

On and off for 5 yrs

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

Nearly 3 years, wasn’t a member long before Covid hit and put a stop to a lot.

Things are going well, I’m chatting with some lovely people, I’ve had some good meets and I’m getting out to socials

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Think about 4 years, I enjoy the social side and forums but am also on dating sites trying to lure some unsuspecting victim into becoming my life partner

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By *helucifereffectMan
over a year ago

york

On and off now for around 7 years. To be honest I find it hard to gain any interest.

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Eeek 13 years! I think I’ve just about got this place figured out now

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Over nine years. With a few breaks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 years

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By *ig_eric_tionMan
over a year ago

IPSWICH

Nearly 5 years I think now. Had some good fun meets in that time. Hope to have some more.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Four of five years, I cant really remember

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By *eddy004Man
over a year ago

Toy Town

Toooooooo long but it's strangely addictive

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

On this account for a couple of years. Had an original account that I was here pretty much from the start - no idea how long ago that was.

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By *s11Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

[Removed by poster at 17/06/22 12:07:16]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 2 minutes just logged in

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By *s11Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Since i was 18 so 10 years

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Sometime in 2008, but very much on and off - I left for chunks of time, just never deleted the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sins 2010

On and off different profiles

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Five years off and on. The pace suits me perfectly. Not a big fan of the social scene because it rarely is very social

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By *utterypopcornCouple
over a year ago

oxford

Two years but with covid and lockdowns it’s been hard going for us.

But starting to chat to few lovely people now so fingers crossed for a fun future

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

About 8 years now.I met Mandy on here nearly 7 years ago and we've been together ever since.I've been on Fab Guys for about 9 years now but only use the site to chat these days.

Mike

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

15 or 16 years, but didn't really use it properly for the first couple of years

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

About 4 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Almost 4 years now, had the odd sabbatical, but always find my way back

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"15 or 16 years, but didn't really use it properly for the first 15 or 16 years

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

On and off for about 15 years, this is my 5th incarnation

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

10 years

This is my second single profile and I've been half a couple over 6 years.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

About 4 years

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By *tinerant scribeMan
over a year ago

County Durham

Four years, though I can do months without logging in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just a baby! 10 months

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By *eachcplCouple
over a year ago

blackpool/preston/normandy france

We have been on for about 12 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To long lol

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

On and off about 3yrs xx

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"I've been probably getting on for 5yrs.

It's been an eye opener and a lot of fun.

Always kept the same profile. I may take time out but I can't see myself leaving any time soon

Same here, always had the same username, c 15 years

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By *averockrockMan
over a year ago

swindon

Not long enough

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

5 months on my single profile but been here before as a part of a couple.

It’s going well so far and I think I have an addiction issues

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I've been on here for a few years now. Luckily I don't invest too much into fab and find I can take it or leave it. I am grateful for the true friends I have made tho they make it worthwhile being on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since before god was alive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Off & on about 4/5 years it's addictive have had a couple of meets off here but nothing to want to meet them the second time

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"5 months on my single profile but been here before as a part of a couple.

It’s going well so far and I think I have an addiction issues

I had those issues when I was 5 months in

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By *intsizedpocketrocketsCouple
over a year ago

Stafford

2 months now! Been an exciting time, and eye opening too!

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I've been probably getting on for 5yrs.

It's been an eye opener and a lot of fun.

Always kept the same profile. I may take time out but I can't see myself leaving any time soon

Same here, always had the same username, c 15 years "

It can become confusing to me when someone changes their username.

I always recognise you

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

[Removed by poster at 17/06/22 13:20:16]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was here last time for just over 2 years (similar username, just 2019) then had a little break.

This time, been back 2 months

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"2 months now! Been an exciting time, and eye opening too!"

My eyes are wide open now....well...unless I'm blindfolded..tied up and gagged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"2 months now! Been an exciting time, and eye opening too!

My eyes are wide open now....well...unless I'm blindfolded..tied up and gagged

Now you're just teasing......

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By *intsizedpocketrocketsCouple
over a year ago

Stafford

"2 months now! Been an exciting time, and eye opening too!

My eyes are wide open now....well...unless I'm blindfolded..tied up and gagged

Well at least "someone's" eyes are open in that scenario

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"5 months on my single profile but been here before as a part of a couple.

It’s going well so far and I think I have an addiction issues

I had those issues when I was 5 months in

Please tell me it’s recoverable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On and off about ten years

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By *intsizedpocketrocketsCouple
over a year ago

Stafford

"5 months on my single profile but been here before as a part of a couple.

It’s going well so far and I think I have an addiction issues

I had those issues when I was 5 months in

Please tell me it’s recoverable

It's a downward spiral I'm afraid!

A x

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"Over 15 years.

That is quite a while!

I can see myself being here 15 yrs....maybe taking time out and just popping back for the forum.

It's not about the sex for me anymore.

Have you ever taken a step back for a while?"

Oh yeah for sure. I deleted my profile years ago (this one is 15+ years but I've been here longer). Now I just hide my profile or just don't log in.

But I do like the forums even if I take a break from meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7 years on and off, more off than on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joined BC

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On and off for around 15 years.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I've been on Fab about 14 years.

. Sometimes more active than others

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

About 7 years I think

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

On and off nearly 4 years

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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We've been on since November last year. As newbies, we've found it to be a brilliant way to get a bit more in touch with the non-monogamy scene from a "distance" so to say. We've loved it as we've been able to connect with loads of really welcoming, friendly and hot people since joining.

It does have its downsides though which is disappointing. There is definitely room for improvement in the site design and features etc but all in all, it's been great

C&A

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

8 years on Fabs on this account.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On and off for a couple of years with some good results but not enough but that's probably my randomness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few years now.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Been here 5yrs. Went to a swingers club and was told about Fab. Had quite a few adventures and made many friends. Fab fits in well with my busy life.

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Over 10 years second account. Not the same as it was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over 10 years now … but back and forth

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Since 2012. I am due another long break

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Since yesterday

I'm here but i'm not here

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Since 2016.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

3 years now

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I remember when this was all fields......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I remember when this was all fields...... "

Aye …. Me too

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"I remember when this was all fields...... "

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

About 3 years. Just here for the forums as I'm resigned to the fact I won't get a meet - not even for coffee and cake!

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

2 profiles and nearly 4 years now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On and off for probably about 3 years now, due to life doing life things, never really dived in fully, looking to correct that this time tho

Anyone wanna take my hand and show me around the chocolate factory?

Err, don't take that in any certain way eep

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Four years with a single profile and 18 months with a couples one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On and off about 10 years.

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By *reat me rightWoman
over a year ago

Rotherham

Since it started practically

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been on fab about 2 months and figure I must be doing something wrong as I am only getting messages from men!

Still trying to make new, like minded female and couples friends but seem to be getting nowhere.

As a newbie any suggestions will be greatly appreciated x.

Happy fabbing x.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I was on here originally many moons ago with an ex who introduced me intotnhe lifestyle, around 15 years ago I think.

Then on and off briefly end of 2019 early 2020, this incarnation though since midlockdown and our couples one about six months or so

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Too bloody long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How long does barbecue sauce last?

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

to long me too only get messages from men, dont know why profile clearly states straight,, ah well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On and off for about 12 years I think it is now

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

6 years and on the sister site for over 10. I can't remember exactly how many.

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