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By *rallover1984 OP   Man
over a year ago

East

Why do people (mostly guys) feel the need or entitlement to question a polite rejection? I'm sure it's not just me that finds it annoying, just because you message someone doesn't mean they owe you a response or explanation.

Or is my opinion not the same as most people on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope this gets you the desired result

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

Men again love a good man bashing thread not seen one in a while joking aside op I get where you are coming from you often see men having a meltdown because they don’t get a response some of the abuse my friend gets on fab when she turns them down hence she just deletes and blocks them it saves the hassle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Calm down dear, its only a message

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By *rallover1984 OP   Man
over a year ago

East


"I hope this gets you the desired result "

Can't see it changing anything but I got to complain if nothing else and who among us can say we don't like a whinge now and then

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By *rallover1984 OP   Man
over a year ago

East


"Men again love a good man bashing thread not seen one in a while joking aside op I get where you are coming from you often see men having a meltdown because they don’t get a response some of the abuse my friend gets on fab when she turns them down hence she just deletes and blocks them it saves the hassle "

In hindsight it does seem to be man bashing and I didn't mean to but they do tend to be the main culprits

Saying that women can be just a guilty of throwing their toys out of the pram when rejected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the moment there are worse things happening in the world than worrying about a knock back.

Move on and try again no harm no foul.

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington


"Men again love a good man bashing thread not seen one in a while joking aside op I get where you are coming from you often see men having a meltdown because they don’t get a response some of the abuse my friend gets on fab when she turns them down hence she just deletes and blocks them it saves the hassle

In hindsight it does seem to be man bashing and I didn't mean to but they do tend to be the main culprits

Saying that women can be just a guilty of throwing their toys out of the pram when rejected"

it opened my eyes to how people can change when they get turned down it made me realise just how hard it is for women on here the amount of messages they get it would be impossible

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By *rallover1984 OP   Man
over a year ago

East


"Men again love a good man bashing thread not seen one in a while joking aside op I get where you are coming from you often see men having a meltdown because they don’t get a response some of the abuse my friend gets on fab when she turns them down hence she just deletes and blocks them it saves the hassle

In hindsight it does seem to be man bashing and I didn't mean to but they do tend to be the main culprits

Saying that women can be just a guilty of throwing their toys out of the pram when rejected it opened my eyes to how people can change when they get turned down it made me realise just how hard it is for women on here the amount of messages they get it would be impossible "

Absolutely, it's not like I get 100s of messages so it doesn't even happen to me all that much.

Someone might have a different view on it though and enlighten the rest of us why they demand more from rejection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people (mostly guys) feel the need or entitlement to question a polite rejection? I'm sure it's not just me that finds it annoying, just because you message someone doesn't mean they owe you a response or explanation.

Or is my opinion not the same as most people on here?"

Is it mostly guys because you likely reject more guys than women or do men react badly more often even when adjusting for the number of responses? Just curious.

Mr

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By *rallover1984 OP   Man
over a year ago

East


"Why do people (mostly guys) feel the need or entitlement to question a polite rejection? I'm sure it's not just me that finds it annoying, just because you message someone doesn't mean they owe you a response or explanation.

Or is my opinion not the same as most people on here?

Is it mostly guys because you likely reject more guys than women or do men react badly more often even when adjusting for the number of responses? Just curious.

Mr"

There might be something in that, personally I don't get that many messages from women (go figure I'm as shocked as you) so maybe the women are just bad for it as men.

My original post really wasn't supposed to come across as a dig at guys, we get a bad enough name without me adding to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahaha. Cute op. Cute.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

Those people/guys who "feel the need or entitlement to question a polite rejection" won't be found on this thread, nor will they feel compelled to explain themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody rejects me cos I’m fuckin awesome!

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

^ I agree with this.

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By *rallover1984 OP   Man
over a year ago

East

^ I'm unsurprised by this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

* looks at popcorn *

No my precious not today

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Those people/guys who "feel the need or entitlement to question a polite rejection" won't be found on this thread, nor will they feel compelled to explain themselves."

Exactly

Another "I don't know what to say" thread

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