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"Haven’t you posted this before? " I'd posted a thread after a couple of weeks. This is the sequel :D | |||
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"Get yourself up town this weekend and don’t be fussy  "Why??? Be as fussy as you always are! That kinda shit is gross! | |||
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"Haven’t you posted this before? I'd posted a thread after a couple of weeks. This is the sequel :D" Sequels are rarely as good.  | |||
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"What search area have you got on? Widen it if you're open to it and swipe swipe and swipe on those you like,swipe surge is always a good time to do it " I have it set at 40 miles. Over that, distance could be an issue. And I've tried swiping during the surges/peak times too  | |||
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"What search area have you got on? Widen it if you're open to it and swipe swipe and swipe on those you like,swipe surge is always a good time to do it I have it set at 40 miles. Over that, distance could be an issue. And I've tried swiping during the surges/peak times too "I used to set mine to 1 mile, then I knew if anyone further than that appeared, they'd liked me. Better than paying to see. | |||
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"What search area have you got on? Widen it if you're open to it and swipe swipe and swipe on those you like,swipe surge is always a good time to do it I have it set at 40 miles. Over that, distance could be an issue. And I've tried swiping during the surges/peak times too
I used to set mine to 1 mile, then I knew if anyone further than that appeared, they'd liked me. Better than paying to see."Good skills. Very clever | |||
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"What search area have you got on? Widen it if you're open to it and swipe swipe and swipe on those you like,swipe surge is always a good time to do it I have it set at 40 miles. Over that, distance could be an issue. And I've tried swiping during the surges/peak times too "I've just stuck myself in Aberdeen for the evening, let's see how picky the ladies are | |||
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"What search area have you got on? Widen it if you're open to it and swipe swipe and swipe on those you like,swipe surge is always a good time to do it I have it set at 40 miles. Over that, distance could be an issue. And I've tried swiping during the surges/peak times too
I've just stuck myself in Aberdeen for the evening, let's see how picky the ladies are
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"What search area have you got on? Widen it if you're open to it and swipe swipe and swipe on those you like,swipe surge is always a good time to do it I have it set at 40 miles. Over that, distance could be an issue. And I've tried swiping during the surges/peak times too
I've just stuck myself in Aberdeen for the evening, let's see how picky the ladies are
Literally seconds, third swipe. Match
What are you doing wrong?"I really, really wish I knew  | |||
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"Get yourself up town this weekend and don’t be fussy
Why??? Be as fussy as you always are! That kinda shit is gross! "Beggars can’t be choosers and all that | |||
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"Get yourself up town this weekend and don’t be fussy
Why??? Be as fussy as you always are! That kinda shit is gross!
Beggars can’t be choosers and all that "Why would you fuck someone you didn't fancy?! Weird and shitty | |||
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"What search area have you got on? Widen it if you're open to it and swipe swipe and swipe on those you like,swipe surge is always a good time to do it I have it set at 40 miles. Over that, distance could be an issue. And I've tried swiping during the surges/peak times too
I've just stuck myself in Aberdeen for the evening, let's see how picky the ladies are
Literally seconds, third swipe. Match
What are you doing wrong?
I really, really wish I knew "Maybe it is a shadow ban as someone said.... only way to resolve is to delete and restart if it is | |||
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"Get yourself up town this weekend and don’t be fussy
Why??? Be as fussy as you always are! That kinda shit is gross!
Beggars can’t be choosers and all that
Why would you fuck someone you didn't fancy?! Weird and shitty "Just trying to give a frustrated man some blunt advice | |||
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"What search area have you got on? Widen it if you're open to it and swipe swipe and swipe on those you like,swipe surge is always a good time to do it I have it set at 40 miles. Over that, distance could be an issue. And I've tried swiping during the surges/peak times too
I've just stuck myself in Aberdeen for the evening, let's see how picky the ladies are
Literally seconds, third swipe. Match
What are you doing wrong?
I really, really wish I knew
Maybe it is a shadow ban as someone said.... only way to resolve is to delete and restart if it is"What's shadow ban? | |||
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"Wow, a thread on FAB about not being able to pull women on another site. Do you post on Tinder that you can’t get meets on FAB? "Oh yeah, that would go down well | |||
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"What search area have you got on? Widen it if you're open to it and swipe swipe and swipe on those you like,swipe surge is always a good time to do it I have it set at 40 miles. Over that, distance could be an issue. And I've tried swiping during the surges/peak times too
I've just stuck myself in Aberdeen for the evening, let's see how picky the ladies are
Literally seconds, third swipe. Match
What are you doing wrong?
I really, really wish I knew
Maybe it is a shadow ban as someone said.... only way to resolve is to delete and restart if it is
What's shadow ban?"Literally that. You've been banned and they've not told you. Your account stays active but no one will see you. Delete, new pics, start again | |||
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"What search area have you got on? Widen it if you're open to it and swipe swipe and swipe on those you like,swipe surge is always a good time to do it I have it set at 40 miles. Over that, distance could be an issue. And I've tried swiping during the surges/peak times too
I've just stuck myself in Aberdeen for the evening, let's see how picky the ladies are
Literally seconds, third swipe. Match
What are you doing wrong?
I really, really wish I knew
Maybe it is a shadow ban as someone said.... only way to resolve is to delete and restart if it is
What's shadow ban?
Literally that.
You've been banned and they've not told you. Your account stays active but no one will see you.
Delete, new pics, start again"I'd already done that before the last time I used tinder | |||
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"It's impossible not to get likes on tinder, there's a ton of escorts, I'm sure you're full of shit and do these posts for attention." That's funny, I hadn't realised you'd been on tinder as a man? | |||
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"It's impossible not to get likes on tinder, there's a ton of escorts, I'm sure you're full of shit and do these posts for attention." Finally someone said this | |||
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"What's in the bio op?" Not a massive amount. I'm genuinely rubbish at writing stuff about myself and am better in person. I've kept it simple, stating a couple of things about myself and what I'm looking for | |||
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"What's in the bio op? Not a massive amount. I'm genuinely rubbish at writing stuff about myself and am better in person. I've kept it simple, stating a couple of things about myself and what I'm looking for" Then don't write about yourself, put something funny or quirky. You are supposed to be selling yourself. It's the ladies that can state their "wants", they have the audience to be allow themselves to be selective | |||
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"Wow, a thread on FAB about not being able to pull women on another site. Do you post on Tinder that you can’t get meets on FAB? "No, he just blames his penis for lack of meets ob here | |||
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"Have you tried changing your approach then?" Changing it to what? Happy for any suggestions | |||
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"Have you tried changing your approach then? Changing it to what? Happy for any suggestions" Well whatever you are doing… Either give it more time or change it; improve your bio, photos, how you message etc… (never used tinder so I have no idea of the time it takes to roughly get a match) | |||
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"Have you tried changing your approach then? Changing it to what? Happy for any suggestions Well whatever you are doing… Either give it more time or change it; improve your bio, photos, how you message etc… (never used tinder so I have no idea of the time it takes to roughly get a match) " Well quite a few guys on the other thread said they had no problem getting matches, so at this point it's either my age or my looks | |||
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"Have you tried changing your approach then? Changing it to what? Happy for any suggestions Well whatever you are doing… Either give it more time or change it; improve your bio, photos, how you message etc… (never used tinder so I have no idea of the time it takes to roughly get a match) Well quite a few guys on the other thread said they had no problem getting matches, so at this point it's either my age or my looks " I doubt it’s either! You are a good looking bloke… maybe it is your approach messaging wise? | |||
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"Have you tried changing your approach then? Changing it to what? Happy for any suggestions Well whatever you are doing… Either give it more time or change it; improve your bio, photos, how you message etc… (never used tinder so I have no idea of the time it takes to roughly get a match) Well quite a few guys on the other thread said they had no problem getting matches, so at this point it's either my age or my looks " I'm older than you and not amazingly good looking. | |||
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"Have you tried changing your approach then? Changing it to what? Happy for any suggestions Well whatever you are doing… Either give it more time or change it; improve your bio, photos, how you message etc… (never used tinder so I have no idea of the time it takes to roughly get a match) Well quite a few guys on the other thread said they had no problem getting matches, so at this point it's either my age or my looks I doubt it’s either! You are a good looking bloke… maybe it is your approach messaging wise? " What's a message? Not had any matches to talk to | |||
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"OP I'm not on tinder but fabbed all your gallery pics I like you "Get your coat OP  | |||
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"So even the bots said no? " Okay, so for you and all the people talking about bots etc: They appear as a like, and once I swipe left because of how obvious the bots are (quickhump.com etc) they disappear from the likes list Why the hell would you all count bots as a genuine like when they aren't real people? I'm talking about getting actual likes from actual people. | |||
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"So even the bots said no? Okay, so for you and all the people talking about bots etc: They appear as a like, and once I swipe left because of how obvious the bots are (quickhump.com etc) they disappear from the likes list Why the hell would you all count bots as a genuine like when they aren't real people? I'm talking about getting actual likes from actual people." YOOOOOOO you're swiping the wrong way bro | |||
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"So even the bots said no? Okay, so for you and all the people talking about bots etc: They appear as a like, and once I swipe left because of how obvious the bots are (quickhump.com etc) they disappear from the likes list Why the hell would you all count bots as a genuine like when they aren't real people? I'm talking about getting actual likes from actual people. YOOOOOOO you're swiping the wrong way bro ". Tryna get that quickhump.com invite
The bots are really obvious on Tinder now. The bold white watermark is usually a giveaway | |||
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"So even the bots said no? Okay, so for you and all the people talking about bots etc: They appear as a like, and once I swipe left because of how obvious the bots are (quickhump.com etc) they disappear from the likes list Why the hell would you all count bots as a genuine like when they aren't real people? I'm talking about getting actual likes from actual people. YOOOOOOO you're swiping the wrong way bro
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The bots are really obvious on Tinder now. The bold white watermark is usually a giveaway "No I mean why would they ever show up in your matches if you're swiping left?? It's right to "like". | |||
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"So even the bots said no? Okay, so for you and all the people talking about bots etc: They appear as a like, and once I swipe left because of how obvious the bots are (quickhump.com etc) they disappear from the likes list Why the hell would you all count bots as a genuine like when they aren't real people? I'm talking about getting actual likes from actual people. YOOOOOOO you're swiping the wrong way bro
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The bots are really obvious on Tinder now. The bold white watermark is usually a giveaway
No I mean why would they ever show up in your matches if you're swiping left?? It's right to "like". "Yeah, I swipe left as soon as I see a bot. They are really easy to notice. I play Spot the Bot several times a day | |||
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"It's impossible not to get likes on tinder, there's a ton of escorts, I'm sure you're full of shit and do these posts for attention." I was on Tinder for nearly a year, not 1 like. Mind you, I'm an ugly cunt.....
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"Have you tried changing your approach then? Changing it to what? Happy for any suggestions Well whatever you are doing… Either give it more time or change it; improve your bio, photos, how you message etc… (never used tinder so I have no idea of the time it takes to roughly get a match) Well quite a few guys on the other thread said they had no problem getting matches, so at this point it's either my age or my looks I doubt it’s either! You are a good looking bloke… maybe it is your approach messaging wise? What's a message? Not had any matches to talk to "Oh right we’ll I clearly have no idea about the app as you can see I didn’t realise you had to match
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"So even the bots said no? Okay, so for you and all the people talking about bots etc: They appear as a like, and once I swipe left because of how obvious the bots are (quickhump.com etc) they disappear from the likes list Why the hell would you all count bots as a genuine like when they aren't real people? I'm talking about getting actual likes from actual people. YOOOOOOO you're swiping the wrong way bro
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The bots are really obvious on Tinder now. The bold white watermark is usually a giveaway
No I mean why would they ever show up in your matches if you're swiping left?? It's right to "like".
Yeah, I swipe left as soon as I see a bot. They are really easy to notice.
I play Spot the Bot several times a day "So why are you surprised that they disappear from the top of the pile? I'm so confused. If I were you I'd try right swiping a bot anyway, just to check you're not shadow banned. | |||
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"Any suggestions on how I can turn this around? :D" sheep don't use Tinder | |||
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"What's in the bio op? Not a massive amount. I'm genuinely rubbish at writing stuff about myself and am better in person. I've kept it simple, stating a couple of things about myself and what I'm looking for Then don't write about yourself, put something funny or quirky. You are supposed to be selling yourself. It's the ladies that can state their "wants", they have the audience to be allow themselves to be selective" I beg to differ. I have no bio my problem is nobodies in Manchester | |||
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"What's in the bio op? Not a massive amount. I'm genuinely rubbish at writing stuff about myself and am better in person. I've kept it simple, stating a couple of things about myself and what I'm looking for Then don't write about yourself, put something funny or quirky. You are supposed to be selling yourself. It's the ladies that can state their "wants", they have the audience to be allow themselves to be selective I beg to differ. I have no bio my problem is nobodies in Manchester" No bio= cheating | |||
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"What's in the bio op? Not a massive amount. I'm genuinely rubbish at writing stuff about myself and am better in person. I've kept it simple, stating a couple of things about myself and what I'm looking for Then don't write about yourself, put something funny or quirky. You are supposed to be selling yourself. It's the ladies that can state their "wants", they have the audience to be allow themselves to be selective I beg to differ. I have no bio my problem is nobodies in Manchester No bio= cheating" Only people I cheat on is my barber and butcher | |||
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"Why don't you try a different dating app, give Tinder a bit of a rest for a while, it seems to be consuming you" Probably should. I did use Bumble for a while. Had exactly the same experience | |||
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"Why don't you try a different dating app, give Tinder a bit of a rest for a while, it seems to be consuming you Probably should. I did use Bumble for a while. Had exactly the same experience "I think you are putting too much pressure on yourself. Absolutely nothing wrong with you. Maybe just try and meet people in other ways for a while, in the real world and not online | |||
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"Give speed dating a whirl" How fast do you have to whirl? | |||
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"Give speed dating a whirl How fast do you have to whirl?" Focus! Op needs to get laid | |||
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"Any suggestions on how I can turn this around? :D" Delete your account. C | |||
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"Give speed dating a whirl How fast do you have to whirl? Focus! Op needs to get laid " I had a Viennese whirl earlier. I've already suggested going into the real world and meeting people as a suggestion | |||
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"Wow, a thread on FAB about not being able to pull women on another site. Do you post on Tinder that you can’t get meets on FAB? " | |||
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"You’re a good looking young man letting some inane crap get you more down on yourself than you already are (or seem to be). Can’t put new paint on old paint. Ditch tinder et al for a while and do some work on your own mental well-being away from needing affirmation from strangers. Find some happy. Then go back to tinder. You’ll do fine. Fuck I sound like someone’s mother "Motivation for the win | |||
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"Furthermore I'm abit concerned... Why do you know exactly how many days it has been "He's been counting, obviously... | |||
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"Why don't you try a different dating app, give Tinder a bit of a rest for a while, it seems to be consuming you Probably should. I did use Bumble for a while. Had exactly the same experience "Haha! Bumble is hilarious! Got loads of matches but can't even talk to some of them their profile says shit like "I don't message first"... but guess what? The whole premise of bumble is that the females have to send the first message | |||
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"Any suggestions on how I can turn this around? :D" Don't worry about it. Tinder is shit anyway. They don't even engage in conversation when matched
Try Hinge if you're looking for a serious relationship.
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"it dont matter what app or site you join they are all over saturated with men and not just by a little" This. I wonder how many likes a woman get a day there? | |||
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"Any suggestions on how I can turn this around? :D" Get surgery to add an extra inch or two to your pecker...that could work.... seriously though it's basically a lottery but also maybe go to a club??? | |||
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"Furthermore I'm abit concerned... Why do you know exactly how many days it has been
He's been counting, obviously..."Thats why im concerned. Its never that important OP. If your a genuine man just do more stuff in the real world and interact with other genuine people till you find who/what you're looking for. Go on eventbrite and find events that interest you. You'll be sure to find like minded people. | |||
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I have to say I find fab so much better and have met some amazing people | |||
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"Tried online dating once, however due to my age I tended to get matched with a lot of women who looked like my nan and she's been dead 40 years .
I have to say I find fab so much better and have met some amazing people "At age 51? Jeeesus | |||
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"Any suggestions on how I can turn this around? :D" Start sucking cock. Widens your choices. | |||
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"Any suggestions on how I can turn this around? :D" I had something similar. Before I paid, I had several likes, but as soon as I did, they stopped....something very fishy going on with these websites! | |||
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"Tried online dating once, however due to my age I tended to get matched with a lot of women who looked like my nan and she's been dead 40 years .
I have to say I find fab so much better and have met some amazing people
At age 51? Jeeesus "this. i made a PoF account, in my head i now call it plenty of aunties... mind you, I'm 5'6 so probably 99% there already filtered me out | |||
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"Any suggestions on how I can turn this around? :D Get surgery to add an extra inch or two to your pecker...that could work." Best advice so far | |||
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"Update: I got a match. I sent her a message and got unmatched right away "Did you go on about your penis? | |||
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"Update: I got a match. I sent her a message and got unmatched right away
Did you go on about your penis? "No. Haha. Just a hello and asking how their week was going. Then I was unmatched straight away. Still no likes since | |||
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"Your a good looking lad. I’d swipe right in a crack if you were gay/bi. "I'm flattered . Seems like no women at all find me attractive anymore | |||
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"2 weeks after this post, I still don't have a single like on Tinder that isn't from a bot. Haha. I mean, I wasn't expecting a lot, but not even a single like?" You must be doing something wrong. I switch ‘show on tinder’ on rarely , but get dates within a day or two, it’s far more active than here and I never need to send the first message. Have you got some interesting / different pictures, linked your Insta? Lots of profile text. Have you been 100% honest what you want ? Women can spot fakes very easily. I have a picture of me playing with a Cheetah and quite a few women have told me that’s the image that made them contact me ! | |||
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"You are negative about yourself so that’s going to feed into your profile, on here, on other sites. You had (at least) 3 women say they would go on a date with you and you didn’t comment. Not one acknowledgment of your fortunes turning. Like that didn’t fit into the ‘oh woe is me’ attitude. You’re a decent looking guy but your attitude smells of negativity… You’ve come back on to report that you’ve still no matches…focus on the worst and the worst will happen. K" Some beautiful profiles have commented on here about his looks too | |||
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"Haven’t you posted this before? " ON THE MONEY, NOT MISSING A BEAT!!! | |||
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"You are negative about yourself so that’s going to feed into your profile, on here, on other sites. You had (at least) 3 women say they would go on a date with you and you didn’t comment. Not one acknowledgment of your fortunes turning. Like that didn’t fit into the ‘oh woe is me’ attitude. You’re a decent looking guy but your attitude smells of negativity… You’ve come back on to report that you’ve still no matches…focus on the worst and the worst will happen. K" I'm so in agreement here. Negative emotions are addictive, I'm wondering if that's where you are right now. Seeking the negative to feed your hurt. Fight it, beat that addiction and force yourself to see the positives around you, they'll make the difference. | |||
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"2 weeks after this post, I still don't have a single like on Tinder that isn't from a bot. Haha. I mean, I wasn't expecting a lot, but not even a single like?" I would delete your account then leave it for a while then start again use different face pics & write a upbeat bio | |||
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"2 weeks after this post, I still don't have a single like on Tinder that isn't from a bot. Haha. I mean, I wasn't expecting a lot, but not even a single like? I would delete your account then leave it for a while then start again use different face pics & write a upbeat bio "Who's face pics mine? | |||
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"You are negative about yourself so that’s going to feed into your profile, on here, on other sites. You had (at least) 3 women say they would go on a date with you and you didn’t comment. Not one acknowledgment of your fortunes turning. Like that didn’t fit into the ‘oh woe is me’ attitude. You’re a decent looking guy but your attitude smells of negativity… You’ve come back on to report that you’ve still no matches…focus on the worst and the worst will happen. K" Exactly this. Very well put. | |||
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"2 weeks after this post, I still don't have a single like on Tinder that isn't from a bot. Haha. I mean, I wasn't expecting a lot, but not even a single like?" There’s been a few women on here who have said they like you - and you seem to have completely ignored them. Looks like you just enjoy whinging tbh. | |||
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"You are negative about yourself so that’s going to feed into your profile, on here, on other sites. You had (at least) 3 women say they would go on a date with you and you didn’t comment. Not one acknowledgment of your fortunes turning. Like that didn’t fit into the ‘oh woe is me’ attitude. You’re a decent looking guy but your attitude smells of negativity… You’ve come back on to report that you’ve still no matches…focus on the worst and the worst will happen. K" Didn’t read this until I had already wrote my message sorry! But I completely agree. | |||
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"What search area have you got on? Widen it if you're open to it and swipe swipe and swipe on those you like,swipe surge is always a good time to do it I have it set at 40 miles. Over that, distance could be an issue. And I've tried swiping during the surges/peak times too
I used to set mine to 1 mile, then I knew if anyone further than that appeared, they'd liked me. Better than paying to see."Intelligent and a redhead, with pale skin & freckles - sexy as fuck...!  | |||
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"What search area have you got on? Widen it if you're open to it and swipe swipe and swipe on those you like,swipe surge is always a good time to do it I have it set at 40 miles. Over that, distance could be an issue. And I've tried swiping during the surges/peak times too
I used to set mine to 1 mile, then I knew if anyone further than that appeared, they'd liked me. Better than paying to see.
Intelligent and a redhead, with pale skin & freckles - sexy as fuck...! "That's usually what I look for on there but I've got a permanent tinder ban (I did nothing-honest) | |||
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"What search area have you got on? Widen it if you're open to it and swipe swipe and swipe on those you like,swipe surge is always a good time to do it I have it set at 40 miles. Over that, distance could be an issue. And I've tried swiping during the surges/peak times too
I used to set mine to 1 mile, then I knew if anyone further than that appeared, they'd liked me. Better than paying to see.
Intelligent and a redhead, with pale skin & freckles - sexy as fuck...!
That's usually what I look for on there but I've got a permanent tinder ban (I did nothing-honest) "I believe u...!
... and yes, honesty is best policy - is key ingredient and foundation to having any chance to a successful relationship | |||
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"Any suggestions on how I can turn this around? :D" Lower your expectations  | |||
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"Be good looking. That’s the secret to tinder. That’s why it doesn’t work for me either. " Attractive... Good looking is bugger all to do with anything... Attraction is everything! Here too... They are not the same thing! | |||
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"Wow, a thread on FAB about not being able to pull women on another site. Do you post on Tinder that you can’t get meets on FAB? "He's getting meets from here. Check out the veris | |||
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"Be good looking. That’s the secret to tinder. That’s why it doesn’t work for me either. Attractive... Good looking is bugger all to do with anything... Attraction is everything! Here too... They are not the same thing! " Oh dear hahaha. You’re a woman so you’ll get guys trying to match with you regardless of how bad you look. Different story for men, if you’re not at least a 5/10 then you’re getting ignored by everyone. Sorry. Made me laugh. Tinder and good looking having nothing to do with each other | |||
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"Finally got my first match today - I asked how her week was going and got unmatched straight away. I guess I'll try again with my next match in another couple of months :D" You’re doing very well in Fab mate, forget about tinder (I’ve never used tinder) | |||
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