FabSwingers.com forum: 55 days on Tinder

By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Any suggestions on how I can turn this around? :D

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By *yron69Man
over a year ago

Fareham

Pose in a smart suit on the bonnet of your new Bentley, holding a flute of champagne with 50 pound notes laid across from you.. oh in front of someone else's mansion..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop asking us and open the app when you get swipe surge notifications.

Trust me bro

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Borrow my pictures?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven’t you posted this before?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get yourself up town this weekend and don’t be fussy

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Really?!? You're cute as shit! Bless ya!

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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Haven’t you posted this before? "

I'd posted a thread after a couple of weeks. This is the sequel :D

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

"Get yourself up town this weekend and don’t be fussy

Why??? Be as fussy as you always are! That kinda shit is gross!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haven’t you posted this before?

I'd posted a thread after a couple of weeks. This is the sequel :D"

Sequels are rarely as good.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

What search area have you got on? Widen it if you're open to it and swipe swipe and swipe on those you like,swipe surge is always a good time to do it

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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"What search area have you got on? Widen it if you're open to it and swipe swipe and swipe on those you like,swipe surge is always a good time to do it "

I have it set at 40 miles. Over that, distance could be an issue.

And I've tried swiping during the surges/peak times too

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

Sounds like your shadow banned then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try a different app. I had two suggested for me.

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By *ampshire_guy40Man
over a year ago

hampshire

I've had 1 match and 2 likes so far

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"What search area have you got on? Widen it if you're open to it and swipe swipe and swipe on those you like,swipe surge is always a good time to do it

I have it set at 40 miles. Over that, distance could be an issue.

And I've tried swiping during the surges/peak times too

I used to set mine to 1 mile, then I knew if anyone further than that appeared, they'd liked me. Better than paying to see.

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"What search area have you got on? Widen it if you're open to it and swipe swipe and swipe on those you like,swipe surge is always a good time to do it

I have it set at 40 miles. Over that, distance could be an issue.

And I've tried swiping during the surges/peak times too

I used to set mine to 1 mile, then I knew if anyone further than that appeared, they'd liked me. Better than paying to see."

Good skills. Very clever

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"What search area have you got on? Widen it if you're open to it and swipe swipe and swipe on those you like,swipe surge is always a good time to do it

I have it set at 40 miles. Over that, distance could be an issue.

And I've tried swiping during the surges/peak times too

I've just stuck myself in Aberdeen for the evening, let's see how picky the ladies are

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"What search area have you got on? Widen it if you're open to it and swipe swipe and swipe on those you like,swipe surge is always a good time to do it

I have it set at 40 miles. Over that, distance could be an issue.

And I've tried swiping during the surges/peak times too

I've just stuck myself in Aberdeen for the evening, let's see how picky the ladies are

Literally seconds, third swipe. Match

What are you doing wrong?

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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"What search area have you got on? Widen it if you're open to it and swipe swipe and swipe on those you like,swipe surge is always a good time to do it

I have it set at 40 miles. Over that, distance could be an issue.

And I've tried swiping during the surges/peak times too

I've just stuck myself in Aberdeen for the evening, let's see how picky the ladies are

Literally seconds, third swipe. Match

What are you doing wrong?"

I really, really wish I knew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get yourself up town this weekend and don’t be fussy

Why??? Be as fussy as you always are! That kinda shit is gross! "

Beggars can’t be choosers and all that

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I have my settings for a maximum radius of 30 miles from me and I get matches with ladies from Bangkok! It's fookin useless !!

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

"Get yourself up town this weekend and don’t be fussy

Why??? Be as fussy as you always are! That kinda shit is gross!

Beggars can’t be choosers and all that

Why would you fuck someone you didn't fancy?! Weird and shitty

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"What search area have you got on? Widen it if you're open to it and swipe swipe and swipe on those you like,swipe surge is always a good time to do it

I have it set at 40 miles. Over that, distance could be an issue.

And I've tried swiping during the surges/peak times too

I've just stuck myself in Aberdeen for the evening, let's see how picky the ladies are

Literally seconds, third swipe. Match

What are you doing wrong?

I really, really wish I knew

Maybe it is a shadow ban as someone said.... only way to resolve is to delete and restart if it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get yourself up town this weekend and don’t be fussy

Why??? Be as fussy as you always are! That kinda shit is gross!

Beggars can’t be choosers and all that

Why would you fuck someone you didn't fancy?! Weird and shitty "

Just trying to give a frustrated man some blunt advice

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Wow, a thread on FAB about not being able to pull women on another site.

Do you post on Tinder that you can’t get meets on FAB?

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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"What search area have you got on? Widen it if you're open to it and swipe swipe and swipe on those you like,swipe surge is always a good time to do it

I have it set at 40 miles. Over that, distance could be an issue.

And I've tried swiping during the surges/peak times too

I've just stuck myself in Aberdeen for the evening, let's see how picky the ladies are

Literally seconds, third swipe. Match

What are you doing wrong?

I really, really wish I knew

Maybe it is a shadow ban as someone said.... only way to resolve is to delete and restart if it is"

What's shadow ban?

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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Wow, a thread on FAB about not being able to pull women on another site.

Do you post on Tinder that you can’t get meets on FAB?

Oh yeah, that would go down well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re a good looking young man letting some inane crap get you more down on yourself than you already are (or seem to be). Can’t put new paint on old paint. Ditch tinder et al for a while and do some work on your own mental well-being away from needing affirmation from strangers. Find some happy. Then go back to tinder. You’ll do fine.

Fuck I sound like someone’s mother

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"What search area have you got on? Widen it if you're open to it and swipe swipe and swipe on those you like,swipe surge is always a good time to do it

I have it set at 40 miles. Over that, distance could be an issue.

And I've tried swiping during the surges/peak times too

I've just stuck myself in Aberdeen for the evening, let's see how picky the ladies are

Literally seconds, third swipe. Match

What are you doing wrong?

I really, really wish I knew

Maybe it is a shadow ban as someone said.... only way to resolve is to delete and restart if it is

What's shadow ban?"

Literally that.

You've been banned and they've not told you. Your account stays active but no one will see you.

Delete, new pics, start again

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland

It's impossible not to get likes on tinder, there's a ton of escorts, I'm sure you're full of shit and do these posts for attention.

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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"What search area have you got on? Widen it if you're open to it and swipe swipe and swipe on those you like,swipe surge is always a good time to do it

I have it set at 40 miles. Over that, distance could be an issue.

And I've tried swiping during the surges/peak times too

I've just stuck myself in Aberdeen for the evening, let's see how picky the ladies are

Literally seconds, third swipe. Match

What are you doing wrong?

I really, really wish I knew

Maybe it is a shadow ban as someone said.... only way to resolve is to delete and restart if it is

What's shadow ban?

Literally that.

You've been banned and they've not told you. Your account stays active but no one will see you.

Delete, new pics, start again"

I'd already done that before the last time I used tinder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's in the bio op?

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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"It's impossible not to get likes on tinder, there's a ton of escorts, I'm sure you're full of shit and do these posts for attention."

That's funny, I hadn't realised you'd been on tinder as a man?

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

The few likes I've had have been followed by being ignored. Just bin it.

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

"It's impossible not to get likes on tinder, there's a ton of escorts, I'm sure you're full of shit and do these posts for attention."

Finally someone said this

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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"What's in the bio op?"

Not a massive amount. I'm genuinely rubbish at writing stuff about myself and am better in person. I've kept it simple, stating a couple of things about myself and what I'm looking for

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"What's in the bio op?

Not a massive amount. I'm genuinely rubbish at writing stuff about myself and am better in person. I've kept it simple, stating a couple of things about myself and what I'm looking for"

Then don't write about yourself, put something funny or quirky.

You are supposed to be selling yourself. It's the ladies that can state their "wants", they have the audience to be allow themselves to be selective

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow, a thread on FAB about not being able to pull women on another site.

Do you post on Tinder that you can’t get meets on FAB?

No, he just blames his penis for lack of meets ob here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried changing your approach then?

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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Have you tried changing your approach then?"

Changing it to what? Happy for any suggestions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you tried changing your approach then?

Changing it to what? Happy for any suggestions"

Well whatever you are doing… Either give it more time or change it; improve your bio, photos, how you message etc… (never used tinder so I have no idea of the time it takes to roughly get a match)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I'm not on tinder but fabbed all your gallery pics I like you

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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Have you tried changing your approach then?

Changing it to what? Happy for any suggestions

Well quite a few guys on the other thread said they had no problem getting matches, so at this point it's either my age or my looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you tried changing your approach then?

Changing it to what? Happy for any suggestions

Well quite a few guys on the other thread said they had no problem getting matches, so at this point it's either my age or my looks "

I doubt it’s either! You are a good looking bloke… maybe it is your approach messaging wise?

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"Have you tried changing your approach then?

Changing it to what? Happy for any suggestions

Well quite a few guys on the other thread said they had no problem getting matches, so at this point it's either my age or my looks "

I'm older than you and not amazingly good looking.

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over

So even the bots said no?

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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Have you tried changing your approach then?

Changing it to what? Happy for any suggestions

Well quite a few guys on the other thread said they had no problem getting matches, so at this point it's either my age or my looks

I doubt it’s either! You are a good looking bloke… maybe it is your approach messaging wise?

What's a message? Not had any matches to talk to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP I'm not on tinder but fabbed all your gallery pics I like you

Get your coat OP

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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"So even the bots said no? "

Okay, so for you and all the people talking about bots etc: They appear as a like, and once I swipe left because of how obvious the bots are (quickhump.com etc) they disappear from the likes list

Why the hell would you all count bots as a genuine like when they aren't real people?

I'm talking about getting actual likes from actual people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So even the bots said no?

Okay, so for you and all the people talking about bots etc: They appear as a like, and once I swipe left because of how obvious the bots are (quickhump.com etc) they disappear from the likes list

Why the hell would you all count bots as a genuine like when they aren't real people?

I'm talking about getting actual likes from actual people."

YOOOOOOO you're swiping the wrong way bro

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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"So even the bots said no?

Okay, so for you and all the people talking about bots etc: They appear as a like, and once I swipe left because of how obvious the bots are (quickhump.com etc) they disappear from the likes list

Why the hell would you all count bots as a genuine like when they aren't real people?

I'm talking about getting actual likes from actual people.

YOOOOOOO you're swiping the wrong way bro

. Tryna get that quickhump.com invite

The bots are really obvious on Tinder now. The bold white watermark is usually a giveaway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So even the bots said no?

Okay, so for you and all the people talking about bots etc: They appear as a like, and once I swipe left because of how obvious the bots are (quickhump.com etc) they disappear from the likes list

Why the hell would you all count bots as a genuine like when they aren't real people?

I'm talking about getting actual likes from actual people.

YOOOOOOO you're swiping the wrong way bro

. Tryna get that quickhump.com invite

The bots are really obvious on Tinder now. The bold white watermark is usually a giveaway

No I mean why would they ever show up in your matches if you're swiping left?? It's right to "like".

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

You are a good looking bloke.

Delete and make another account.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Go and be a cute South American chappie standing outside of Buck Palace. No need for apps

Shame that I'm being good

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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"So even the bots said no?

Okay, so for you and all the people talking about bots etc: They appear as a like, and once I swipe left because of how obvious the bots are (quickhump.com etc) they disappear from the likes list

Why the hell would you all count bots as a genuine like when they aren't real people?

I'm talking about getting actual likes from actual people.

YOOOOOOO you're swiping the wrong way bro

. Tryna get that quickhump.com invite

The bots are really obvious on Tinder now. The bold white watermark is usually a giveaway

No I mean why would they ever show up in your matches if you're swiping left?? It's right to "like". "

Yeah, I swipe left as soon as I see a bot. They are really easy to notice.

I play Spot the Bot several times a day

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...

"It's impossible not to get likes on tinder, there's a ton of escorts, I'm sure you're full of shit and do these posts for attention."

I was on Tinder for nearly a year, not 1 like.

Mind you, I'm an ugly cunt.....

Winston

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you tried changing your approach then?

Changing it to what? Happy for any suggestions

Well quite a few guys on the other thread said they had no problem getting matches, so at this point it's either my age or my looks

I doubt it’s either! You are a good looking bloke… maybe it is your approach messaging wise?

What's a message? Not had any matches to talk to

Oh right we’ll I clearly have no idea about the app as you can see

I didn’t realise you had to match

Maybe you just need patience for that right match

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So even the bots said no?

Okay, so for you and all the people talking about bots etc: They appear as a like, and once I swipe left because of how obvious the bots are (quickhump.com etc) they disappear from the likes list

Why the hell would you all count bots as a genuine like when they aren't real people?

I'm talking about getting actual likes from actual people.

YOOOOOOO you're swiping the wrong way bro

. Tryna get that quickhump.com invite

The bots are really obvious on Tinder now. The bold white watermark is usually a giveaway

No I mean why would they ever show up in your matches if you're swiping left?? It's right to "like".

Yeah, I swipe left as soon as I see a bot. They are really easy to notice.

I play Spot the Bot several times a day

So why are you surprised that they disappear from the top of the pile? I'm so confused.

If I were you I'd try right swiping a bot anyway, just to check you're not shadow banned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any suggestions on how I can turn this around? :D"

sheep don't use Tinder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it dont matter what app or site you join they are all over saturated with men and not just by a little

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

Why don't you try a different dating app, give Tinder a bit of a rest for a while, it seems to be consuming you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's in the bio op?

Not a massive amount. I'm genuinely rubbish at writing stuff about myself and am better in person. I've kept it simple, stating a couple of things about myself and what I'm looking for

Then don't write about yourself, put something funny or quirky.

You are supposed to be selling yourself. It's the ladies that can state their "wants", they have the audience to be allow themselves to be selective"

I beg to differ. I have no bio my problem is nobodies in Manchester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's in the bio op?

Not a massive amount. I'm genuinely rubbish at writing stuff about myself and am better in person. I've kept it simple, stating a couple of things about myself and what I'm looking for

Then don't write about yourself, put something funny or quirky.

You are supposed to be selling yourself. It's the ladies that can state their "wants", they have the audience to be allow themselves to be selective

I beg to differ. I have no bio my problem is nobodies in Manchester"

No bio= cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's in the bio op?

Not a massive amount. I'm genuinely rubbish at writing stuff about myself and am better in person. I've kept it simple, stating a couple of things about myself and what I'm looking for

Then don't write about yourself, put something funny or quirky.

You are supposed to be selling yourself. It's the ladies that can state their "wants", they have the audience to be allow themselves to be selective

I beg to differ. I have no bio my problem is nobodies in Manchester

No bio= cheating"

Only people I cheat on is my barber and butcher

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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Why don't you try a different dating app, give Tinder a bit of a rest for a while, it seems to be consuming you"

Probably should. I did use Bumble for a while. Had exactly the same experience

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

"Why don't you try a different dating app, give Tinder a bit of a rest for a while, it seems to be consuming you

Probably should. I did use Bumble for a while. Had exactly the same experience

I think you are putting too much pressure on yourself. Absolutely nothing wrong with you. Maybe just try and meet people in other ways for a while, in the real world and not online

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give speed dating a whirl

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Give speed dating a whirl"

How fast do you have to whirl?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Give speed dating a whirl

How fast do you have to whirl?"

Focus! Op needs to get laid

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

"Any suggestions on how I can turn this around? :D"

Delete your account.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Give speed dating a whirl

How fast do you have to whirl?

Focus! Op needs to get laid "

I had a Viennese whirl earlier.

I've already suggested going into the real world and meeting people as a suggestion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd swipe right

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By *P4RTANMan
over a year ago

near

Dick pic, never fails

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’m fighting them off with a stick.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Not!

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By *P4RTANMan
over a year ago

near

Don't chase women, they'll come to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just want one that I think I'll never get a coffee with x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I accidently paid for it. That was both the best and worst £70 i didnt in my whole life. Unlimited swipes and you can see who likes you.

It sounds shallow but you gotta just swipe as fast as you can then make your mind up on the person after you match.

Personality is more important at end of the day ayy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Furthermore I'm abit concerned...

Why do you know exactly how many days it has been

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow, a thread on FAB about not being able to pull women on another site.

Do you post on Tinder that you can’t get meets on FAB?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You’re a good looking young man letting some inane crap get you more down on yourself than you already are (or seem to be). Can’t put new paint on old paint. Ditch tinder et al for a while and do some work on your own mental well-being away from needing affirmation from strangers. Find some happy. Then go back to tinder. You’ll do fine.

Fuck I sound like someone’s mother

Motivation for the win

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Furthermore I'm abit concerned...

Why do you know exactly how many days it has been

He's been counting, obviously...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why don't you try a different dating app, give Tinder a bit of a rest for a while, it seems to be consuming you

Probably should. I did use Bumble for a while. Had exactly the same experience

Haha! Bumble is hilarious! Got loads of matches but can't even talk to some of them

their profile says shit like "I don't message first"... but guess what? The whole premise of bumble is that the females have to send the first message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any suggestions on how I can turn this around? :D"

Don't worry about it.

Tinder is shit anyway.

They don't even engage in conversation when matched

Try Hinge if you're looking for a serious relationship.

Stay on FAB if just looking for non-serious.

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

"it dont matter what app or site you join they are all over saturated with men and not just by a little"
This. I wonder how many likes a woman get a day there?

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"Any suggestions on how I can turn this around? :D"

Get surgery to add an extra inch or two to your pecker...that could work.... seriously though it's basically a lottery but also maybe go to a club???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Furthermore I'm abit concerned...

Why do you know exactly how many days it has been

He's been counting, obviously..."

Thats why im concerned. Its never that important OP.

If your a genuine man just do more stuff in the real world and interact with other genuine people till you find who/what you're looking for.

Go on eventbrite and find events that interest you. You'll be sure to find like minded people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously mate just go to a brothel. You’re giving online dating far too much importance in your life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tried online dating once, however due to my age I tended to get matched with a lot of women who looked like my nan and she's been dead 40 years

I have to say I find fab so much better and have met some amazing people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tried online dating once, however due to my age I tended to get matched with a lot of women who looked like my nan and she's been dead 40 years

I have to say I find fab so much better and have met some amazing people

At age 51? Jeeesus

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By *ohnandJulieCouple
over a year ago

"Any suggestions on how I can turn this around? :D"

Start sucking cock.

Widens your choices.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any suggestions on how I can turn this around? :D"

I had something similar.

Before I paid, I had several likes, but as soon as I did, they stopped....something very fishy going on with these websites!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get yourself to a concert or bigger pub and swipe away, more people around you better the chances of getting a hit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd swipe right

I'm free Friday daytimes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to your local supermarket, back of a trolley, cruise down the chilled isle saying 1 bum 2 fun to people. You’ll be knee deep in people who want to swipe you in no time

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By *i_guy_sloughMan
over a year ago

Langley

I find Tinder a bit hit or miss, I get a couple of matches a day but getting them to chat is another thing entirely. But still better odds than getting folk on here to reply to a message

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I think the 'swipe right' ratio that women do is very low compared to men. So you need to stand out from the crowd op. Maybe pics of you baking a cake, petting a cat or dog might work. Failing that, just a single line in your profile that says "I am an actor and have been on the telly." Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok what the hell am I doing right then on tinder ??

Seriously I've a rubbish photo and don't set my search radius to far and I still get likes and go for meets

Work that out...

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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Update: I got a match. I sent her a message and got unmatched right away

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By *it-chrissyTV/TS
over a year ago

sw. london

"Tried online dating once, however due to my age I tended to get matched with a lot of women who looked like my nan and she's been dead 40 years

I have to say I find fab so much better and have met some amazing people

At age 51? Jeeesus "

this. i made a PoF account, in my head i now call it plenty of aunties...

mind you, I'm 5'6 so probably 99% there already filtered me out

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Any suggestions on how I can turn this around? :D

Get surgery to add an extra inch or two to your pecker...that could work."

Best advice so far

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

OP...are you really using one app to ask for help on another?!

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"Update: I got a match. I sent her a message and got unmatched right away

Did you go on about your penis?

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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Update: I got a match. I sent her a message and got unmatched right away

Did you go on about your penis? "

No. Haha. Just a hello and asking how their week was going.

Then I was unmatched straight away. Still no likes since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t mention cake, weather or their listed hobbies. Ask open ended questions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes ...dont go on tinder ...go out instead reall people do exist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your a good looking lad. I’d swipe right in a crack if you were gay/bi.

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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Your a good looking lad. I’d swipe right in a crack if you were gay/bi.

I'm flattered

. Seems like no women at all find me attractive anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try Wink

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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

2 weeks after this post, I still don't have a single like on Tinder that isn't from a bot. Haha. I mean, I wasn't expecting a lot, but not even a single like?

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"2 weeks after this post, I still don't have a single like on Tinder that isn't from a bot. Haha. I mean, I wasn't expecting a lot, but not even a single like?"

You must be doing something wrong. I switch ‘show on tinder’ on rarely , but get dates within a day or two, it’s far more active than here and I never need to send the first message.

Have you got some interesting / different pictures, linked your Insta? Lots of profile text. Have you been 100% honest what you want ? Women can spot fakes very easily.

I have a picture of me playing with a Cheetah and quite a few women have told me that’s the image that made them contact me !

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

You are negative about yourself so that’s going to feed into your profile, on here, on other sites.

You had (at least) 3 women say they would go on a date with you and you didn’t comment. Not one acknowledgment of your fortunes turning.

Like that didn’t fit into the ‘oh woe is me’ attitude.

You’re a decent looking guy but your attitude smells of negativity…

You’ve come back on to report that you’ve still no matches…focus on the worst and the worst will happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You are negative about yourself so that’s going to feed into your profile, on here, on other sites.

You had (at least) 3 women say they would go on a date with you and you didn’t comment. Not one acknowledgment of your fortunes turning.

Like that didn’t fit into the ‘oh woe is me’ attitude.

You’re a decent looking guy but your attitude smells of negativity…

You’ve come back on to report that you’ve still no matches…focus on the worst and the worst will happen.

Some beautiful profiles have commented on here about his looks too

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By *eed.a.signalMan
over a year ago

Local

"Haven’t you posted this before? "

ON THE MONEY, NOT MISSING A BEAT!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You are negative about yourself so that’s going to feed into your profile, on here, on other sites.

You had (at least) 3 women say they would go on a date with you and you didn’t comment. Not one acknowledgment of your fortunes turning.

Like that didn’t fit into the ‘oh woe is me’ attitude.

You’re a decent looking guy but your attitude smells of negativity…

You’ve come back on to report that you’ve still no matches…focus on the worst and the worst will happen.

I'm so in agreement here.

Negative emotions are addictive, I'm wondering if that's where you are right now.

Seeking the negative to feed your hurt.

Fight it, beat that addiction and force yourself to see the positives around you, they'll make the difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"2 weeks after this post, I still don't have a single like on Tinder that isn't from a bot. Haha. I mean, I wasn't expecting a lot, but not even a single like?"
I would delete your account then leave it for a while then start again use different face pics & write a upbeat bio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"2 weeks after this post, I still don't have a single like on Tinder that isn't from a bot. Haha. I mean, I wasn't expecting a lot, but not even a single like? I would delete your account then leave it for a while then start again use different face pics & write a upbeat bio

Who's face pics mine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't see anything that wouldn't attract me to you but it's all how you feel on the inside as they say if you think negative only negative you will attract back x

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"You are negative about yourself so that’s going to feed into your profile, on here, on other sites.

You had (at least) 3 women say they would go on a date with you and you didn’t comment. Not one acknowledgment of your fortunes turning.

Like that didn’t fit into the ‘oh woe is me’ attitude.

You’re a decent looking guy but your attitude smells of negativity…

You’ve come back on to report that you’ve still no matches…focus on the worst and the worst will happen.

Exactly this. Very well put.

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way

"2 weeks after this post, I still don't have a single like on Tinder that isn't from a bot. Haha. I mean, I wasn't expecting a lot, but not even a single like?"

There’s been a few women on here who have said they like you - and you seem to have completely ignored them. Looks like you just enjoy whinging tbh.

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way

"You are negative about yourself so that’s going to feed into your profile, on here, on other sites.

You had (at least) 3 women say they would go on a date with you and you didn’t comment. Not one acknowledgment of your fortunes turning.

Like that didn’t fit into the ‘oh woe is me’ attitude.

You’re a decent looking guy but your attitude smells of negativity…

You’ve come back on to report that you’ve still no matches…focus on the worst and the worst will happen.

Didn’t read this until I had already wrote my message sorry! But I completely agree.

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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Finally got my first match today - I asked how her week was going and got unmatched straight away.

I guess I'll try again with my next match in another couple of months :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forget tinder,, its had its heyday back in 2018/19 ...nothing instabait W and attention seekers .....go meet women in real life instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What search area have you got on? Widen it if you're open to it and swipe swipe and swipe on those you like,swipe surge is always a good time to do it

I have it set at 40 miles. Over that, distance could be an issue.

And I've tried swiping during the surges/peak times too

I used to set mine to 1 mile, then I knew if anyone further than that appeared, they'd liked me. Better than paying to see."

Intelligent and a redhead, with pale skin & freckles - sexy as fuck...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What search area have you got on? Widen it if you're open to it and swipe swipe and swipe on those you like,swipe surge is always a good time to do it

I have it set at 40 miles. Over that, distance could be an issue.

And I've tried swiping during the surges/peak times too

I used to set mine to 1 mile, then I knew if anyone further than that appeared, they'd liked me. Better than paying to see.

Intelligent and a redhead, with pale skin & freckles - sexy as fuck...!

That's usually what I look for on there but I've got a permanent tinder ban (I did nothing-honest)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What search area have you got on? Widen it if you're open to it and swipe swipe and swipe on those you like,swipe surge is always a good time to do it

I have it set at 40 miles. Over that, distance could be an issue.

And I've tried swiping during the surges/peak times too

I used to set mine to 1 mile, then I knew if anyone further than that appeared, they'd liked me. Better than paying to see.

Intelligent and a redhead, with pale skin & freckles - sexy as fuck...!

That's usually what I look for on there but I've got a permanent tinder ban (I did nothing-honest) "

I believe u...!

... and yes, honesty is best policy - is key ingredient and foundation to having any chance to a successful relationship

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"Any suggestions on how I can turn this around? :D"

Lower your expectations

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By *umbiyaMan
over a year ago

Halifax

Be good looking. That’s the secret to tinder. That’s why it doesn’t work for me either.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

"Be good looking. That’s the secret to tinder. That’s why it doesn’t work for me either. "

Attractive... Good looking is bugger all to do with anything... Attraction is everything! Here too... They are not the same thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow, a thread on FAB about not being able to pull women on another site.

Do you post on Tinder that you can’t get meets on FAB?

He's getting meets from here. Check out the veris

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By *umbiyaMan
over a year ago

Halifax

"Be good looking. That’s the secret to tinder. That’s why it doesn’t work for me either.

Attractive... Good looking is bugger all to do with anything... Attraction is everything! Here too... They are not the same thing! "

Oh dear hahaha. You’re a woman so you’ll get guys trying to match with you regardless of how bad you look. Different story for men, if you’re not at least a 5/10 then you’re getting ignored by everyone.

Sorry. Made me laugh. Tinder and good looking having nothing to do with each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to play match the fab cocks to the tinder faces before I got tinder banned.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Finally got my first match today - I asked how her week was going and got unmatched straight away.

I guess I'll try again with my next match in another couple of months :D"

You’re doing very well in Fab mate, forget about tinder (I’ve never used tinder)

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55 days on Tinder - still no likes