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By *undance_Kid OP   Man
over a year ago

London

A lot of women on here seem to be very anti wink, I don’t know why they cause so much consternation!!?? Is it because they show a lack of effort ?? Am always happy to receive one or any contact for that matter !! wink wink

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By *D of funCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

I like a wink, I think it a way of showing interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't mind it's a great way of showing there interested in you

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I like a wink and use it often if I've read the profile and I'm not quite sure we are what they are looking for I'll send a little wink, if we get one back I'll follow up with a message, I think it's a great way to see if both parties like each others profiles.

Mrs

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By *agnar1980Man
over a year ago

Poole


"I like a wink and use it often if I've read the profile and I'm not quite sure we are what they are looking for I'll send a little wink, if we get one back I'll follow up with a message, I think it's a great way to see if both parties like each others profiles.

Mrs "

I agree with this. Always wink first then follow with message if they have looked at profile. In my case unfortunately it doesn’t always work being a single guy as people don’t believe I’m single. Oh well off for a good wink session! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a wink, instead of no wink.

Imagine if fab took away that feature…

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By *ewby01327Man
over a year ago

Daventry

I see it as a sign of appreciation

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Winks just nice way to say hi and show interest xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never look at winks, saying that I hardly read messages either.

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By *nked rascalMan
over a year ago

Burton on Trent

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By *nked rascalMan
over a year ago

Burton on Trent

Can’t beat a good old wink! Good way to show interest, and maybe follow up with a short message.

Obvs won’t work on some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a wink. And yes ocationally send them. I think it shows interest without jaming there message box.

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Some great friendships I've formed on here started with a wink.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We’ll send a wink to show interest.

If we receive a wink back, we’ll message.

Sometimes it works and sometimes we’ll just send a message.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A wink is my starting point

Amazing things have happened and it all started with a wink

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Depends on my mood as to how I deal with winks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on my mood as to how I deal with winks."

Do you just bite your lip instead

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Depends on my mood as to how I deal with winks.

Do you just bite your lip instead "

I may do..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on my mood as to how I deal with winks.

Do you just bite your lip instead

I may do.."

When I get annoyed, I imagine biting your bottom lip.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Depends on my mood as to how I deal with winks.

Do you just bite your lip instead

I may do..

When I get annoyed, I imagine biting your bottom lip. "

That's understandable..

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Definitely send winks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a good wink

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By *lark_KentMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Winks are great for us dyslexic people that struggle to compose messages

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

To be honest, it's one feature I never use on the site x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the profiles I check all have don't bother winking. Obviously I'm not looking in the right area.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

I don't really look at who winked or people who have looked at.

I do wink at people who interest me or when play a forum game.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always think that a wink is like the first time you see someone when you're out and you notice each other.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Winks are a non-threatening way of showing interest. We would far rather get a wink than any of the terrible messages we receive.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I’ve had some good interactions from winks, it’s a good way of showing interest without being aggressive.

As with other features though, it’s hit and miss as to who looks at them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like many on here im a winker all day long, its a sign of appreciation or interest. If I get a wink back then i will message if not i will assume that there is no interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like a good wink its a good sign of inital liking of a profile and then if 1 comes back you can start messaging.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

I like watching the Winkathon threads... always happy to throw in a wink

...or three

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I like a wink. I don’t send first messages so if I wanted to show my interest that’s how I’d do it. Feels less of a rejection if a wink doesn’t get returned.

Kx

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I would rather a wink than a bad message.

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By *his_Kitty_ScratchesWoman
over a year ago

WSM

I see a wink as an ‘I liked your profile but don’t have anything further to say’ just like an appreciation of what I’ve put up. I forget it’s there most of the time so only sporadically look at them

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I don't mind winks, but most I get are from men. If they had read my profile they would see I'm straight.

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