FabSwingers.com forum: Kissing!

By *rotic Lover OP Man
over a year ago

York/various!

How underrated does everyone think kissing is? It’s at the absolute top of my list when I meet anyone, and if the kissing is amazing then what follows always blows my mind. What are everyone’s thoughts ? X

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Kissing is a deal breaker for me x

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

I love to kiss. It's the gateway to other things.

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By *rotic Lover OP Man
over a year ago

York/various!

Totally agree, I’ve walked away before when it didn’t feel right

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By *r BobMan
over a year ago

Banffshire

Definitely compulsory in my books.

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Kissing someone 4 the very 1st time ..magic and every kiss after that x

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By *rotic Lover OP Man
over a year ago

York/various!

Not only compulsory, but it has to be absolutely spine-tingling good!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Not only compulsory, but it has to be absolutely spine-tingling good!"

I've only ever had one that made me glad his arm was around my waist, otherwise I'd have been on the floor x

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

It's an absolute must for me.

"Kissing is a deal breaker for me x"

You don't like it?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"It's an absolute must for me.

Kissing is a deal breaker for me x

You don't like it? "

it. I meant if it's crap then hints aren't going to go any further x

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"It's an absolute must for me.

Kissing is a deal breaker for me x

You don't like it?

it. I meant if it's crap then hints aren't going to go any further x"

*things...not hints

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By *idsCouple1Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

It’s an absolute must for me.. I’d find it very hard to get aroused without it.

Nothing better than someone pressed up against you, kissing you knowing what’s about to follow

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By *ongandthickMan
over a year ago

exmouth

Love to kiss,esential part of anything sexual as is caressing.X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can understand why couples don’t maybe they what to keep a bit off intmisce to them selfs

I always ask first before a meet not a deal breaker for me if someone’s not in to it

It’s just so I know and will not spoil the moment going for one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kissing is a deal breaker for me x"

I'll second this. I love a good kisser, and I find it such a turn on.

If they're a bad kisser it makes me think everything else will be disappointing, and I lose interest pretty quickly.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Kissing is very important to us.

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum

Love it! Has to happen…..it’s the start, middle and end of everything that’s good.

Love love love kissing.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Kissing is a deal breaker for me x

I'll second this. I love a good kisser, and I find it such a turn on.

If they're a bad kisser it makes me think everything else will be disappointing, and I lose interest pretty quickly."

A kiss can turn me on even without being touched anywhere else x

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By *rotic Lover OP Man
over a year ago

York/various!

Loving all the positive replies, I’m not on my own then!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

With strangers or casual partners I don't like it so I don't do it. It's a different matter with someone I love

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum

"Kissing is a deal breaker for me x

I'll second this. I love a good kisser, and I find it such a turn on.

If they're a bad kisser it makes me think everything else will be disappointing, and I lose interest pretty quickly.

A kiss can turn me on even without being touched anywhere else x"

Exactly this!!!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Loving all the positive replies, I’m not on my own then!"

You're very much in the majority

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has to be kissing!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"There has to be kissing!"

Nice to see you around again x

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

Northwich (just visiting)

Total deal breaker for us, has to be a LOT of kissing!

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By *rotic Lover OP Man
over a year ago

York/various!

Always reassuring from lots of very enticing people on here xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex without kissing is too mechanical for me.

I couldn't ever not kiss someone who was gonna stick their penis in me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There has to be kissing!

Nice to see you around again x"

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By *rotic Lover OP Man
over a year ago

York/various!

Totally. But lots want it that way, definitely not for me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely love kissing, if the kissing isn't any good, neither will anything else.

The passion, the thrill, that feeling it can give you that you just want to rip their clothes off.

I think I need a cold shower

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is the absolute best

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Once met a guy and the kissing was orgasmic. No idea why but it was amazing.

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By *rotic Lover OP Man
over a year ago

York/various!

Totally xx

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

I am subservient to my basorexic qualities and therefore kissing is a must. Without it it's a deal breaker.

For me, sex without kissing is hollow and devoid of any substance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really enjoy kissing, so I probably wouldn’t meet if it was off the cards

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By *D of funCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Lover of kissing... the right kiss and I'm wet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is just apart of some meetings, not all as it depends on the dynamics of the meet.

If I swich to Mistress Delight then I rarely kiss.

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

It's absolutely vital, it's the 1st genuine indication that there is a sexual chemistry there.

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By *rotic Lover OP Man
over a year ago

York/various!

"Lover of kissing... the right kiss and I'm wet"

All about that initial contact x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"With strangers or casual partners I don't like it so I don't do it. It's a different matter with someone I love "

---I share this feeling about it's meaningful qualities.

Kissing strangers can build up an amazing furnace-like body heat, especially same-sex kissing (which seems to have it's own erotic level), but for so many people kissing is very-purely a response to (and effect of) a much deeper affection than pretty-casual sex. So they are careful who they kiss. For me, my missus gets my kisses. When I was single last I did find myself kissing a bit more and more (I never originally liked the way some men esp used to go at it - whoa!)

Also, not everyone can do it that well! Bad kissing really isn't that great, is it? With a stranger too? A great bod or libido or whatever doesn't necessarily translate to great kissing!

I think that for some people it's a 'deal breaker' (a common term for kissing on Fab) because they've already carefully worked out they've got the person they want by the time it happens.

Other's on here have that amazing ability to 'go for it' with pretty much anyone when they're in the mood! And though I think for few on here, this maybe less of an ability and perhaps more of a temporary mirage ('fantasy' can be too strong a word) - for a great many people on here it certainly holds true. It's a mixed old place Fab.

But I would concede... and even in terms of fantasy... there's nothing like kissing when it happens right. --pt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With strangers or casual partners I don't like it so I don't do it. It's a different matter with someone I love "

Absolutely this!! I have no desire to kiss randomers. When I’m in love, I love it sooo much

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I've turned people down for not liking the way they kissed. Can't kiss, nothing else is going to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a good smooch. Some people are just so snogable, watching them smile and laugh just makes me want to kiss.

And then there’s the girl who you lust and long for. She has all of your attention and you ache for more than just a kiss. It’s the moment where you are breathing her in when your lips meet, you close your eyes and you fall into a moment where only she exists.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love snogging, like… so so underrated and to me it’s important.

He needs to know how to kiss properly , don’t have time to teach that

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By *rPeachyMan
over a year ago

Bristol

"Kissing is a deal breaker for me x

I'll second this. I love a good kisser, and I find it such a turn on.

If they're a bad kisser it makes me think everything else will be disappointing, and I lose interest pretty quickly.

A kiss can turn me on even without being touched anywhere else x"

Absolutely

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Couldn't without. Simple

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice

Definitely needs to be kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be kissing involved

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By *hinstrapMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

Defo has to be lots of kissing involved.

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By *ark RumMan
over a year ago

Bucks

"Sex without kissing is too mechanical for me.

I couldn't ever not kiss someone who was gonna stick their penis in me. "

This

Just that I'm the one sticking in the penis

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Kissing is a must!

Shows how good the sex will be if the kiss is hot!

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By *etWetWet453Couple
over a year ago

CAMBERLEY

"I can understand why couples don’t maybe they what to keep a bit off intmisce to them selfs

But you can stick it down my throat , up my arse, spunk anywhere you like. I`ll swallow, rim you ......"but I won`t do that".

Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a kisser … I adore kissing

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Absolutely adore kissing, the varying intensity, tongues dancing in each others mouths. Those breathless kisses where even the softest brush of his mouth drives you wild, if it’s not giving me flutters there’s zero chance of anything else happening x

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

Kiss my A...........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I adore kissing before, middle and after.

If the kissing is rubbish, then things won't get very far....

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

As I've got older I appreciate kissing ..and if I don't kiss on a meet then I'm not really interested these days ..it's almost a deal breaker

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Sex without kissing,

Is like a sandwich,

Without filling

It's ok yes you get a belly full of bread,

but it could been better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can understand why couples don’t maybe they what to keep a bit off intmisce to them selfs

But you can stick it down my throat , up my arse, spunk anywhere you like. I`ll swallow, rim you ......"but I won`t do that".

Really?"

To keep something for themselves, I get that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is definitely a must for me, I love it when it starts as a soft sensual kiss and slowly builds up to a hot lustful kiss

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Loving all the positive replies, I’m not on my own then!

You're very much in the majority

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Hello my fellow minority people

I prefer not to kiss in the majority of situations x

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By *etWetWet453Couple
over a year ago

CAMBERLEY

"I can understand why couples don’t maybe they what to keep a bit off intmisce to them selfs

But you can stick it down my throat , up my arse, spunk anywhere you like. I`ll swallow, rim you ......"but I won`t do that".

Really?

To keep something for themselves, I get that "

But surely kissing is the least intimate of all of those things, and why would you want to keep something for yourselves? We know everyone is different, and we understand and appreciate that, but we just don`t get this no kissing rule.

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I've had enjoyable meets without it but, for me, kissing amplifies all the other sensations.

Penetration plus snogging is divine.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I can understand why couples don’t maybe they what to keep a bit off intmisce to them selfs

But you can stick it down my throat , up my arse, spunk anywhere you like. I`ll swallow, rim you ......"but I won`t do that".

Really?

To keep something for themselves, I get that

You don't have to get it. Just don't meet people like us.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Loving all the positive replies, I’m not on my own then!

You're very much in the majority

Hello my fellow minority people

I prefer not to kiss in the majority of situations x"

Hello

. I'm finding a certain irony in having this thread and a pressure to perform running at the same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can understand why couples don’t maybe they what to keep a bit off intmisce to them selfs

But you can stick it down my throat , up my arse, spunk anywhere you like. I`ll swallow, rim you ......"but I won`t do that".

Really?

To keep something for themselves, I get that

I think that kissing is THE most intimate thing. I’ve had loads of great one night stands with people who’s name I didn’t even know but will only kiss and enjoy kissing someone I love.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Prefer not to x

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

As hot chocolate said "it started with a kiss".

So very true from tender passionate, a kiss conveys so much more than words can ever say

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By *etWetWet453Couple
over a year ago

CAMBERLEY

"I can understand why couples don’t maybe they what to keep a bit off intmisce to them selfs

But you can stick it down my throat , up my arse, spunk anywhere you like. I`ll swallow, rim you ......"but I won`t do that".

Really?

To keep something for themselves, I get that

I think that kissing is THE most intimate thing. I’ve had loads of great one night stands with people who’s name I didn’t even know but will only kiss and enjoy kissing someone I love. "

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"I can understand why couples don’t maybe they what to keep a bit off intmisce to them selfs

But you can stick it down my throat , up my arse, spunk anywhere you like. I`ll swallow, rim you ......"but I won`t do that".

Really?

To keep something for themselves, I get that

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

I have to find the person attractive to be able to play and I do really enjoy kissing, I find it horny.

I'm been told often that i'm a good kisser as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s personally for me, important - I couldn’t be compatible with someone one doesn’t enjoy / allow kissing etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely love kissing. It tells you so much about a person and if the kissing is good, the sex might well be too!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Definitely kissing for me. But I totally get why couples might only want the sex without the kissing.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

LOVE kissing, did i say that loud enough...ok i LOVE KISSING

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By *nvincible ButterflyWoman
over a year ago

LEEDS

Feels too clinical without kissing for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a guy is coming over to be edged for a few hours then there is no kissing as that doesn't fit with the dynamics of the meet, but it not clinical or passionless. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to kiss. We do lots of it.

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

Kissing can be a form of foreplay and when done right can be the most erotic feeling and a turn on before anything else. A subtle kiss can lead to a hand in the hair and kisses on neck

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