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Another thread just reminded me about lying.

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By *he_original_polo OP   Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I was reading an article the other week about left and right brain thinking and the differences between men and women.

It had a section about lying and, in short, when it comes to the whoppers:

Men being more likely to lie to cover up what they are really doing - avoidance.

Women being more likely to lie to gain/retain affection.... the classic being "I think I'm preggers"

Does that ring true with your past experiences?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It does indeed.

I'm reading 'Why We Lie' at the moment. Actually, that's a lie: I have started and not read any of it for weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must have a male brain then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex wife had a make brain.... She lived in the wield of avoidance lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wot is this word "brain" cos I dont think I have one of them ......... am going to google it .........

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"wot is this word "brain" cos I dont think I have one of them ......... am going to google it ......... "

It's like a brian but it lives in your head and the letters i and a swap places.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was reading an article the other week about left and right brain thinking and the differences between men and women.

It had a section about lying and, in short, when it comes to the whoppers:

Men being more likely to lie to cover up what they are really doing - avoidance.

Women being more likely to lie to gain/retain affection.... the classic being "I think I'm preggers"

Does that ring true with your past experiences?

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Would agree a bit that females lie more for attention, but think they are equally good about avoidance too (especially how much things REALLY cost!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think both sexes lie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think both sexes lie "

You 'think'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think both sexes lie

You 'think'?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first wife lied about her finances. She was/is fixated about money and even after we married and moved in together she never had her statements sent to our house, always to her parent's.

I'd call that avoidance in the extreme.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I have been thinking about this a little more.

My experience of men is the lying by omission - everything on a need to know basis and they decide who needs to know. Whether this is just more avoidance or something else, I'm not sure.

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By *he_original_polo OP   Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

It's not that men don't do certain types of lies and women don't do another....... but it did show the different motives for lying having clear links to gender.

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