FabSwingers.com forum: Did you cry on your wedding day?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I didn't, but I've cried nearly every day since

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

No I just thought what the fook have I done....!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id like to think i would, if it ever were to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes because my dad said ... You really don't have to do this . I was 18 and pregnant.

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By *upitersmileCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

I was teary before I'd even got to the altar!

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

"Yes because my dad said ... You really don't have to do this . I was 18 and pregnant."
are you still with him ?

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By *aris23Woman
over a year ago

France

"Yes because my dad said ... You really don't have to do this . I was 18 and pregnant."

Ditto...and yes I was crying but it was my mother saying it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes because my dad said ... You really don't have to do this . I was 18 and pregnant.are you still with him ?"

Nope lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't, he did. He thinks I'm heartless for not crying!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Cant remember, i know i didnt cry at the wedding might of had a tear in the morning

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By *edonism44Man
over a year ago

oldham

Yeah I did......

I now know why, I was building up to realising it was the biggest mistake I made !!!!!! So started crying early lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i did, but only because i realised i was making the biggest mistake of my life

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Don't get people walking down the aisle with regret: how pointless and sad going into something doomed from the off.

Was nervous but blissfully happy. Had my one and only panic attack when I got out of the Rolls and could see all the people in the church looking at me. My dad just said take a deep breath.

Cried at my daughter's wedding though...she looked like a princess...sniff, sniff...I'm welling up again...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i didnt and still wouldnt 20 oddyears of bliss

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"i did, but only because i realised i was making the biggest mistake of my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but I did in the morning when it dawned on me wot I had done !

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

god forbid....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to hope I would do. I cry at everybody else's weddings.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

only at the cost and the fact other fuckers were scoffing food that would have bought me another Gucci leather jacket.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first wedding, yes, because I was happy

My second wedding, yes, because I realised I had made a mistakee

My 3rd wedding, yes, because England lost the rugby world cup finals

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

One word of advice to those that have not got married make sure its what you really want because its a ball ache getting a divorce lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was ever stupid enough to get married, yes I think I would lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One word of advice to those that have not got married make sure its what you really want because its a ball ache getting a divorce lol

And fucking expensive. I could have bought a Ferrari on what I have spent on divorce lawyers!!!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"One word of advice to those that have not got married make sure its what you really want because its a ball ache getting a divorce lol

And fucking expensive. I could have bought a Ferrari on what I have spent on divorce lawyers!!!

Did my divorce myself for £500...don't know why people hand over thousands. My ex-husband spent 26p I think...the cost of the stamp to post back the divorce papers.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

No as have never got married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, but can't remember why...

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"One word of advice to those that have not got married make sure its what you really want because its a ball ache getting a divorce lol

And fucking expensive. I could have bought a Ferrari on what I have spent on divorce lawyers!!!

Did my divorce myself for £500...don't know why people hand over thousands. My ex-husband spent 26p I think...the cost of the stamp to post back the divorce papers. "

I had to go through the American courts and it still aint sorted...

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Yes I did, my parents had already died and my brother gave me away.

Either side of the altar flowers were my Mother and Fathers photographs that my brother had placed there.

I was holding it together until I saw the photos....then I cried.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Yes I did, my parents had already died and my brother gave me away.

Either side of the altar flowers were my Mother and Fathers photographs that my brother had placed there.

I was holding it together until I saw the photos....then I cried."

that was a lovely thing to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One word of advice to those that have not got married make sure its what you really want because its a ball ache getting a divorce lol

And fucking expensive. I could have bought a Ferrari on what I have spent on divorce lawyers!!!

Did my divorce myself for £500...don't know why people hand over thousands. My ex-husband spent 26p I think...the cost of the stamp to post back the divorce papers. "

I'm still married to mine, six years tomorrow since he left, he lives with someone else so if he wants a divorce he can pay. I officially changed my name back to my maiden name back in march, easier and cheaper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why would you cry on your wedding day?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes i did remember it well my football team lost in the semi final of the fa cup lol

xxxxxx

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By * n zCouple
over a year ago

leamington spa

"My first wedding, yes, because I was happy

My second wedding, yes, because I realised I had made a mistakee

My 3rd wedding, yes, because England lost the rugby world cup finals

I don't imagine there will be a forth time then !!!!

Once is enough for me, won't be doing it again !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, we both did. All good emotion though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One word of advice to those that have not got married make sure its what you really want because its a ball ache getting a divorce lol

And fucking expensive. I could have bought a Ferrari on what I have spent on divorce lawyers!!!

it's an old joke, but "why is divorce so expensive? because it's worth it!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cried when my first marriage ended, then got pissed, then got laid. Best day of my life. Didn't cry when I married Siren as I knew she was getting a very good deal.

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By *exki11enWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I was a blubbering wreck on my wedding day - particularly saying my vows. I'm a very emotional person at the best of times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was in 1979 the year maggie thatcher started country on road to ruin it was a bad omen yet i married i ask myself why lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate weddings. I think they are a total and utter waste of money in most cases. Why the heck people spend thousands on something that can be done for less than a hundred quid I'll never know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we get married our tears will be happy ones. Your all invited. xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sobbed all the way through ours but cause I had my back to everyone ...they just thought I was laughing! 17 years on now though and still going strong! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was married in a registry office, and all I can remember was thinking how drop dead gorgeous the registrar was; he also had a gorgeous Edinburgh accent and I was just like putty. Oops.

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

yep, 3 times over and every wedding was with K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember my dad asking me just outside the church was I sure. And as I was saying my vows I kept thinking should I. Watching the DVD you can see my eyes look away and to my dad who smiled at me. We lasted ten years the day my divorce was done in court my dad asked me why at that point did I look at him he has wanted to ask me for years! I just said because maybe I wanted you to stop me. Oh well live and learn and the divorce party was amazing ha ha

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By *exki11enWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"I hate weddings. I think they are a total and utter waste of money in most cases. Why the heck people spend thousands on something that can be done for less than a hundred quid I'll never know.

Because just like on here, they have a choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate weddings. I think they are a total and utter waste of money in most cases. Why the heck people spend thousands on something that can be done for less than a hundred quid I'll never know.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"I hate weddings. I think they are a total and utter waste of money in most cases. Why the heck people spend thousands on something that can be done for less than a hundred quid I'll never know.

Their choice?....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tears of joy and relief.... When the decree absolute came through.....

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Tears of joy and relief.... When the decree absolute came through.....

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Made me think.... why would anybody want to cry on their wedding day? What am I missing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not married no intentions of ever getting married so no chance of me crying at the huge mistake i would be making lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate weddings. I think they are a total and utter waste of money in most cases. Why the heck people spend thousands on something that can be done for less than a hundred quid I'll never know.

Because just like on here, they have a choice

I didn't say it wasn't their choice. I just said I think it's a waste of money.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think i would cry if i DID get married, with the bloody shock....lmao

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By * starr -Woman
over a year ago

Burton on Trent.

i got married for about a grand, and on the day, i was a laughing wreck, we couldnt stop laughing when saying our vows.i did cry lots afterwards because of what he put me through and im not with him anymore.and no, i dont waste any more tears on him, well, maybe tears of joy when someone comments saying he looks like an old man at 40.lol. and i look and think, "i couldve still been married to you, thank god im not".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah cried in the car on the way to the church as I knew it was a mistake and my dad said its all paid for now!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One word of advice to those that have not got married make sure its what you really want because its a ball ache getting a divorce lol

And fucking expensive. I could have bought a Ferrari on what I have spent on divorce lawyers!!!

Did my divorce myself for £500...don't know why people hand over thousands. My ex-husband spent 26p I think...the cost of the stamp to post back the divorce papers. "

Unfortunately some spouses are very difficult and awkward so you have to call the greedy lawyers in. My divorce cost me £15k in the end which still grieves me to this day. However, what makes me feel better is knowing that it cost my ex £50k and all because he was an arse!

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