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By *ampshire_guy40 OP   Man
over a year ago

hampshire

I've never had a BJ ever I've had GFS but they where all at school many years ago.so I don't know what it feels like at all

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

The 40 year old BJ virgin?

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

What

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t even know what a GFS even is?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few but I doubt I'll get any more

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By *ohnandJulieCouple
over a year ago

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"I've never had a BJ ever I've had GFS but they where all at school many years ago.so I don't know what it feels like at all"

Interesting.

Why not?

Do you struggle to meet ladies??

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

Cool story, Bro.

C

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"I don’t even know what a GFS even is?!"

Girlfriends.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

you need to get this sorted its heaven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t even know what a GFS even is?!"

Girlfriends?

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

You should have seen Tracey behind the bike sheds....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing to be ashamed of or laughed at for.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford


"I've never had a BJ ever I've had GFS but they where all at school many years ago.so I don't know what it feels like at all"

Your inbox is about to be flooded by Fab straight guys

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds


"Nothing to be ashamed of or laughed at for. "

Telling tall tales online to try and get pity isn't something to be mocked about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh I think I am similar to this guy. I've never had a gf

Well not for years and years and years.

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland

Mind. Blown. Have you had any meets from fab? Did they not suck you off then? Next time you get a meet just ask them outright, a lot of people won't bother unless asked.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Nothing to be ashamed of or laughed at for.

Telling tall tales online to try and get pity isn't something to be mocked about? "

No.

A) how do you know he's lying

B) mocking people isn't nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing to be ashamed of or laughed at for.

Telling tall tales online to try and get pity isn't something to be mocked about?

No.

A) how do you know he's lying

B) mocking people isn't nice "

Agree

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By *ampshire_guy40 OP   Man
over a year ago

hampshire

I am telling the truth,all my girlfriends weren't interested.ive never had any meets on fab as of yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice couple pm me please. I wanna ask you something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the same. I mega nervous about it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mind blown! I’ve never met a woman that wouldn’t do it. Or does that just say more about the kinda people I meet/like?? Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never had a BJ ever I've had GFS but they where all at school many years ago.so I don't know what it feels like at all"

Its going to be harder now he's the PM

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

If you are really bi-curious you can always go to fabguys and look out for a gloryhole. You can find out if you like it sloppy of not then .

BJ's when you are younger are heavenly, a little bit less so when you are older imo (I'm not saying they are suddenly bad). Has anyone else experienced this? I can live without them now most of the time I think. So sadly you've possibly missed out on the very best time. Of course not all women like to give them (or indeed men), it's definitely a choice thing to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never had a BJ ever I've had GFS but they where all at school many years ago.so I don't know what it feels like at all"

When I was young it was only bjs I got. It was getting into the knickers that was a challenge..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never had a BJ ever I've had GFS but they where all at school many years ago.so I don't know what it feels like at all

Your inbox is about to be flooded by Fab straight guys "

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By *hinstrapMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

Oh mate....your missing a treat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are really bi-curious you can always go to fabguys and look out for a gloryhole. You can find out if you like it sloppy of not then .

BJ's when you are younger are heavenly, a little bit less so when you are older imo (I'm not saying they are suddenly bad). Has anyone else experienced this? I can live without them now most of the time I think. So sadly you've possibly missed out on the very best time. Of course not all women like to give them (or indeed men), it's definitely a choice thing to do.

"

Agree about the age thing. Need a lot more stimulation the older you get. When young its a challenge not to cum..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try trimming/shaving. Just a thought?

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By *ampshire_guy40 OP   Man
over a year ago

hampshire


"Try trimming/shaving. Just a thought? "

Cant trim or shave it brings me out in a rash down there.

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By *ampshire_guy40 OP   Man
over a year ago

hampshire


"I've never had a BJ ever I've had GFS but they where all at school many years ago.so I don't know what it feels like at all

Your inbox is about to be flooded by Fab straight guys

"

Only had 2 so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never had a BJ ever I've had GFS but they where all at school many years ago.so I don't know what it feels like at all"

You should make this your unique selling point on Fab! Looking for someone to pop your BJ cherry....all those women who claim to be champs at it will be queuing up.

Hope the situation rectifies itself soon. Sucking cock is one of my favourite things so can't imagine being intimate and not doing it.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford


"I've never had a BJ ever I've had GFS but they where all at school many years ago.so I don't know what it feels like at all

Your inbox is about to be flooded by Fab straight guys

"

You putting your name in the hat?

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford


"I've never had a BJ ever I've had GFS but they where all at school many years ago.so I don't know what it feels like at all

Your inbox is about to be flooded by Fab straight guys

Only had 2 so far."

Still plenty of time fella

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By *ampshire_guy40 OP   Man
over a year ago

hampshire


"I've never had a BJ ever I've had GFS but they where all at school many years ago.so I don't know what it feels like at all

You should make this your unique selling point on Fab! Looking for someone to pop your BJ cherry....all those women who claim to be champs at it will be queuing up.

Hope the situation rectifies itself soon. Sucking cock is one of my favourite things so can't imagine being intimate and not doing it."

Good idea I'll add it

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"If you are really bi-curious you can always go to fabguys and look out for a gloryhole. You can find out if you like it sloppy of not then .

BJ's when you are younger are heavenly, a little bit less so when you are older imo (I'm not saying they are suddenly bad). Has anyone else experienced this? I can live without them now most of the time I think. So sadly you've possibly missed out on the very best time. Of course not all women like to give them (or indeed men), it's definitely a choice thing to do.

"

Interesting post. I recall feeling like I would black out when getting BJs from a girlfriend about 20 years ago. Haven't had any as good as that since.

I always assumed that was because she was particularly good not that I had lost some degree of sexual response. Maybe a little from Column A and a little from Column B.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Opening up and sharing with everyone that you haven't experienced something such as receiving a blow job is not something that should be mocked.

You will not be the only person to find themselves in this situation and you won't be the last.

I still keep in touch with a good friend that I met on here about 8 years ago. He too had never experienced it, he had been in a long term relationship since school and she did not enjoy giving them. Therefore he had no experience, so when he joined fab after his relationship ended we met and I gave him his first experience. Which he still reminds me of.

Goodness me I have tried a few firsts for myself over the years and am glad I did. I am also glad that I didn't share my inexperience in some things openly here as being mocked by a supposedly open community is not high on my list of desires funnily enough.

Good luck OP

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Opening up and sharing with everyone that you haven't experienced something such as receiving a blow job is not something that should be mocked.

You will not be the only person to find themselves in this situation and you won't be the last.

I still keep in touch with a good friend that I met on here about 8 years ago. He too had never experienced it, he had been in a long term relationship since school and she did not enjoy giving them. Therefore he had no experience, so when he joined fab after his relationship ended we met and I gave him his first experience. Which he still reminds me of.

Goodness me I have tried a few firsts for myself over the years and am glad I did. I am also glad that I didn't share my inexperience in some things openly here as being mocked by a supposedly open community is not high on my list of desires funnily enough.

Good luck OP

NBVN x"

That's a very thoughtful post. I've given a few guys their first BJ and it was a lovely thing to do for them. Most of us have reached an age where we think we ought to have done something but haven't - rarely do others think the same thing about us.

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By *ampshire_guy40 OP   Man
over a year ago

hampshire


"Opening up and sharing with everyone that you haven't experienced something such as receiving a blow job is not something that should be mocked.

You will not be the only person to find themselves in this situation and you won't be the last.

I still keep in touch with a good friend that I met on here about 8 years ago. He too had never experienced it, he had been in a long term relationship since school and she did not enjoy giving them. Therefore he had no experience, so when he joined fab after his relationship ended we met and I gave him his first experience. Which he still reminds me of.

Goodness me I have tried a few firsts for myself over the years and am glad I did. I am also glad that I didn't share my inexperience in some things openly here as being mocked by a supposedly open community is not high on my list of desires funnily enough.

Good luck OP

NBVN x

That's a very thoughtful post. I've given a few guys their first BJ and it was a lovely thing to do for them. Most of us have reached an age where we think we ought to have done something but haven't - rarely do others think the same thing about us. "

Thank you for all the kind words I appreciate it

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By *ez200Man
over a year ago

malaga

Amazing when done right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never had a BJ ever I've had GFS but they where all at school many years ago.so I don't know what it feels like at all

Your inbox is about to be flooded by Fab straight guys

You putting your name in the hat? "

Only for you my

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...


"I've never had a BJ ever I've had GFS but they where all at school many years ago.so I don't know what it feels like at all"

Nice to see you're still here OP. I remember one of your first threads and the great people who helped you.

When find the right person and the right moment arrives, I'm sure you'll get that first BJ.

Keep the faith and keep looking, you'll find your moment when you're least expecting it.

Winston

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Your not alone op I’m 51 and never had a proper bj

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By *ack 500Man
over a year ago

stafford

Any bj ive ever had has been shit so I’m not a fan so I’d love to know what a good one is or if it just doesn’t do it for me ….

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Don't worry OP, i find they are very overrated.

I hope your quest proves fruitful very soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any bj ive ever had has been shit so I’m not a fan so I’d love to know what a good one is or if it just doesn’t do it for me …. "

I thought i was the only one that felt this way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm genuinely curious if you have ever performed oral sex yourself. There's no way to ask without just straight up asking, and I'm not being judge, but it's just a guess that if the women you have spent time with or had as girlfriends didn't want to do that for you, did they want it themselves? It does seem rather later, but I'm a big believer in never growing up, so I think it would be cool if you found someone like yourself to have some teenage style fun getting it wrong and laughing about it, don't take it too seriously - not sure you can have that with someone more experienced, see the pressure to perform threads on that topic.

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By *ampshire_guy40 OP   Man
over a year ago

hampshire

It seems we all have mixed views on blowjobs,I've perform oral on women/girls a few times they just didn't want to return the favour.

Like alot of you said my time will come.thank you for the nice comments I've received by messages.

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By *andy2Man
over a year ago

Ealing

If it’s clean and fresh I’ll help you out

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By *ampshire_guy40 OP   Man
over a year ago

hampshire


"If it’s clean and fresh I’ll help you out "

Thanks for the offer all trimmed and clean lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blow job an a finger in the bum hole mmmmmmmmm xx

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
over a year ago

All over the place

Really now? Wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do hope you manage to find a connection with someone and that you finally get to experience of life’s great pleasures

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By *ampshire_guy40 OP   Man
over a year ago

hampshire


"I do hope you manage to find a connection with someone and that you finally get to experience of life’s great pleasures "

Thank you

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