FabSwingers.com forum: I’m nosey…

By *adyBugs OP Woman
over a year ago

cognito

and I’m interested in what kind of swinger you all are.

I’m a shit one because I rare meet people for anything

and I come here mostly for the forums and sometimes pictures.

How do you describe yourself? Do you meet for sexthings? Do you go to clubs only? Do you just socialise? Do you just lurk in the forums?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been to a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Terrible swinger because I meet for sex things but I enjoy having actual relationships with other people and dating them. I embrace all the feelings.

I enjoy the forums because there are people like you on here

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By *adyBugs OP Woman
over a year ago

cognito

"Terrible swinger because I meet for sex things but I enjoy having actual relationships with other people and dating them. I embrace all the feelings.

I enjoy the forums because there are people like you on here

Feeeeeels are good

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By *adyBugs OP Woman
over a year ago

cognito

"Never been to a club "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just want multiple hot sexy guys I can meet on occasion for dam good sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the moment, we're enjoying the use of the site only, the forums, occasionally uploading pictures, messaging with those we've already connected, with the odd messaging conversation with some others

Normally, we would also meet.

We've not visited a club and had just a couple of social meets

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

We meet up with men and couples for sex. Mostly men, as it's pretty hard to meet couples.

Socialising would be nice, as would clubs. But childcare is an issue.

Plus I use the forums for my own entertainment

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By *adyBugs OP Woman
over a year ago

cognito

"I just want multiple hot sexy guys I can meet on occasion for dam good sex.

Pass them along when you’ve finished with them?

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By *tinerant scribeMan
over a year ago

County Durham

I go to clubs alone or with friends and sometimes do socials, often with a by-the-hour hotel nearby. My best experiences have been threesome and group play in clubs with people I had chatted with online.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Clubs and socials for me. Too old for people to find me attractive enough for random

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum

Forums, photos and online chatting really.

Have been through many phases with Fab, am in the social phase at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a rubbish one as I don’t live the ‘full lifestyle’

Meets are rare but I enjoy the fab socialising in forums or messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just want multiple hot sexy guys I can meet on occasion for dam good sex.

Pass them along when you’ve finished with them?"

It's good to share.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Erm…

All of it I guess!

I go through stages of different aspects, sometimes just lurking on the forums, occasionally meeting folks, attending the odd large social. Other times I attend clubs, event nights and indulge in that aspect. Sometimes I just hide away and don’t do anything.

They’re all things that I enjoy, it’s just about how I’m feeling at the time.

I find that this lifestyle is the most immersive and ‘best’ when there’s a balance between all of them as they’re all very different experiences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a having fun on the forums and chatting to people user.

I’d love to find a couple of local profile for more but I’m picky and that clearly doesn’t help too lol

Never been to a club, not sure if it’s me or not.

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By *hinstrapMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

I enjoy all type of meets. Social. Fun. onlybeen to a club once. Years ago. But embracing all types

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I'm a bit of everything really. I do meet people privately and go to clubs.. not as often as I want to although I like to change that. May as well take the opportunity to make as much friends as I can really as I don't have many in real life lol

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By *ussle SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

The social side is a big part for me, I like meeting new people and having a good time with no expectations.

I keep the other aspects quiet for the most part

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By *adyBugs OP Woman
over a year ago

cognito

"At the moment, we're enjoying the use of the site only, the forums, occasionally uploading pictures, messaging with those we've already connected, with the odd messaging conversation with some others

Normally, we would also meet.

We've not visited a club and had just a couple of social meets"

Ohhh they have some hot pictures every one!! But respect their current non meeting status and be nice if you message them…remember there is two of them not just a hot lady so address them both!

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Fairly awful ones but getting our act together. We've been here about five years and mostly just socialised but have recently been changing that

LvM

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Tbf I'm not a swinger.

I lean more to the kink side and adventure weekends away with awesome friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Technically I can’t be called a swinger sins I am single so I would say I am a none existing one ha ha

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By *adyBugs OP Woman
over a year ago

cognito

"We meet up with men and couples for sex. Mostly men, as it's pretty hard to meet couples.

Socialising would be nice, as would clubs. But childcare is an issue.

Plus I use the forums for my own entertainment

See I thought I’d be easy to meet couples if you were a couple. Confusing

Forums are fun and sometimes funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m one of those weirdos that actually wants to meet people I get on with. A social or straight to the nearest bed we can find

But I find I linger on the forums where I chat up people that are only here for the forums

Clubs? I might try them one day, (at least people are there to say hello to) but I get the feeling they are more of a good time for couples rather than single males.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I like taking part in the forum chat.

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By *adyBugs OP Woman
over a year ago

cognito

"I'm a bit of everything really. I do meet people privately and go to clubs.. not as often as I want to although I like to change that. May as well take the opportunity to make as much friends as I can really as I don't have many in real life lol"

You make a good point about friends there. As we grow up the concept of friendship changes and we grow apart from childhood friends. This is nice that you can find new ones here

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Not a swinger. Have hung up my “meet” boots and just linger on the forums now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We see swinging as our social life. We use the chat rooms on here to keep in touch with long distance friends,we regularly attend our local club to socialise with friends and meet new ones( it’s cheaper than the pub). We play in whatever way takes our fancy,with or without whom we choose whenever we feel like it.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Not a swinger. Have hung up my “meet” boots and just linger on the forums now."

That is a criminal waste

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a swinger. Have hung up my “meet” boots and just linger on the forums now."

Retired too young I’d say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"and I’m interested in what kind of swinger you all are.

I’m a shit one because I rare meet people for anything

and I come here mostly for the forums and sometimes pictures.

How do you describe yourself? Do you meet for sexthings? Do you go to clubs only? Do you just socialise? Do you just lurk in the forums?

Forum lurker & serial question answerer

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By *adyBugs OP Woman
over a year ago

cognito

Forum lurker & serial question answerer

What kind of cereal is the best?

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By *adyBugs OP Woman
over a year ago

cognito

"Not a swinger. Have hung up my “meet” boots and just linger on the forums now."

We’re they kinky looking boots? What colour? How high were the heels? Can I borrow them to walk over Wonko?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a pretty shit swinger, only had a few 1 to 1 social meets, a group social and been to a club once.

I think I mostly just use the forums as it distracts me from trying to put myself out there more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"and I’m interested in what kind of swinger you all are.

I’m a shit one because I rare meet people for anything

and I come here mostly for the forums and sometimes pictures.

How do you describe yourself? Do you meet for sexthings? Do you go to clubs only? Do you just socialise? Do you just lurk in the forums?

I'm a lurker. Never been to a club, they are all too far for a simple trip across.

I'm a Hetrosexual married male, so 'sexythings' don't happen for me on here. Not even a socialise happens

cause I work weekends and have a family

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just want multiple hot sexy guys I can meet on occasion for dam good sex.

Pass them along when you’ve finished with them?"

Erm... *Raises hand*

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I spend most of my time on the forums and answering messages. I never go hunting so there only profiles I look at are those messaging me and people in the forum that interest me.

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"We meet up with men and couples for sex. Mostly men, as it's pretty hard to meet couples.

Socialising would be nice, as would clubs. But childcare is an issue.

Plus I use the forums for my own entertainment

See I thought I’d be easy to meet couples if you were a couple. Confusing

Forums are fun and sometimes funny

It's tricky finding couples we both want to meet. And then we have pretty awful available hours which don't suit a lot of people.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Forum lurker & serial question answerer

What kind of cereal is the best?"

This made me laugh far more than it should have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just want multiple hot sexy guys I can meet on occasion for dam good sex.

Pass them along when you’ve finished with them?

Erm... *Raises hand*

You're on my list don't worry. Or do worry, depends how you look at it really.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I'm not a swingers at all, I just like the forums

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

I'm a part timer with preferences that filter me out.

..and I'm ok with that

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I've never claimed to be a swinger and often wonder if I belong here really.

But I've got nowhere else to go so y'all are stuck with me. Sorry about that

(Plus, I like the pretty pictures)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go to the club but not that often. As for meets, I've not had an actual one on one for a few years. Don't know how I feel about this any more. I've probably been on here too long x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just want multiple hot sexy guys I can meet on occasion for dam good sex.

Pass them along when you’ve finished with them?

Erm... *Raises hand*

You're on my list don't worry. Or do worry, depends how you look at it really. "

What list it is determines my level of worry

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Not a swinger. Have hung up my “meet” boots and just linger on the forums now."

Surely, you'd come out of retirement for "one last job" though?

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

A bit of everything! Tried clubs and meets when it suits been invited to an orgy begging of July not sure that's for me though! Something to think about x

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Swinger for me = bygone days.

Been celibate just over 2 years now. Sex to me should be about mutual respect and unfortunately the opposite is in abundance.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Judgemental swinger looking at all the non swingers down my long long long long long nose.

Mind you a bit of a hypocrite as the only thing we swing are bats

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By *adyBugs OP Woman
over a year ago

cognito

You are all wonderful for letting me peek into your fascinating worlds. I feel satiated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just want multiple hot sexy guys I can meet on occasion for dam good sex.

Pass them along when you’ve finished with them?

Erm... *Raises hand*

You're on my list don't worry. Or do worry, depends how you look at it really.

What list it is determines my level of worry

My to do list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forum lurker & serial question answerer

What kind of cereal is the best?"

Kellogg's Banana bubbles- rip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just want multiple hot sexy guys I can meet on occasion for dam good sex.

Pass them along when you’ve finished with them?

Erm... *Raises hand*

You're on my list don't worry. Or do worry, depends how you look at it really.

What list it is determines my level of worry

My to do list. "

Best not procrastinate then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Technically not a swinger as I’m single but if did become coupled up reckon I’d be a pretty awesome swinger!

But in answer to the question I enjoy this lifestyle, go to clubs, have delved into the bdsm kink side which I’m enjoying learning about and attend lots of group socials and have made some pretty amazing friends. I’m not so good at the 1-1 meets, I like a connection and it’s harder to find than I thought it would be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"and I’m interested in what kind of swinger you all are.

I’m a shit one because I rare meet people for anything

and I come here mostly for the forums and sometimes pictures.

How do you describe yourself? Do you meet for sexthings? Do you go to clubs only? Do you just socialise? Do you just lurk in the forums?

I've never been to a club. Maybe I'll check on out b4 the end of the year. I'm pretty laid back, I've been through a lot this year so haven't been meeting much people tbh with you. But hopefully in the coming weeks that will change.

Naturally I prefer single ladies (less drama) but cuckolding is something I'm very much into and it turns me on to know I can fuck a man's wife/gf better than him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you describe yourself? Do you meet for sexthings? Do you go to clubs only? Do you just socialise? Do you just lurk in the forums?

I have been to a club last year, I do have social meets and I lurk a lot I like perving profiles and pics….

Each to their own really

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I'm like a spider in my velvet web baby

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I’m not a swinger. I like the forums (sometimes). I am enjoying organised socials more lately and I adore the people I get jiggy with. It’s all been rather perfect for me for someone who probably really doesn’t belong on a swingers site

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

We are crap swingers thesedays as got fed up with all the hassle and attitude

If someone came along that floated our boat then who knows but for now we will pass

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We are very cautious swingers. We take a long time working out if we want to meet somebody.

The only club we like is BGHS. We're contemplating trying a more standard one.

We've had several social but only one sexual meet, but that was a super-hot one and we're looking forward to seeing the lady in question again in a few weeks. Curiously we have always found chatting with and meeting women way easier than finding a couple that we click with.

It doesn't particularly matter that we don't meet often when the meets we've had have been really good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a fake time wasting one

Not likely to meet as I'm not what anyone is looking for

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