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By *ickman1234 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wickford

So how did you get started in swinging? Did your partner ask you or you ask them? How did you start the conversation?

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By *ickman1234 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wickford

Any input or advice would be appreciated. Dabbled soft years ago before we had children.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you “dabbled” before, then you must have had a conversation about it? Simply revisit that conversation. Ask if she would like to explore this again.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

You could maybe put on a show that might start a conversation. Channel 4 do a show called open house which is about people getting into swinging for the first time. The biggest thing is not to push the issue just start the idea perculating and above all do not do ANY persuading. The idea is pretty shocking and a lot of women may think it's because their partner wants to cheat, that they are not enough for them.

Best of luck OP. Gently gently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could maybe put on a show that might start a conversation. Channel 4 do a show called open house which is about people getting into swinging for the first time. The biggest thing is not to push the issue just start the idea perculating and above all do not do ANY persuading. The idea is pretty shocking and a lot of women may think it's because their partner wants to cheat, that they are not enough for them.

Best of luck OP. Gently gently."

Great advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any input or advice would be appreciated. Dabbled soft years ago before we had children. "

Who suggested it back then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would ask yourself why are you wanting to get into swinging ? If it’s to substitute a sex life that is currently non existent, you need to tread carefully .

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By *ickman1234 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wickford

It was a d*unken night. I think the thought of her having fun is more of a turn on rather than me having fun with another woman. Don’t get me wrong I’m not going to say no…lol

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By *ickman1234 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wickford

Sounds like a great idea. Many thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds like a great idea. Many thanks"

"Reply +quote" will highlight the post you are replying to, like this one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was a d*unken night. I think the thought of her having fun is more of a turn on rather than me having fun with another woman. Don’t get me wrong I’m not going to say no…lol"

So get d*unk and ask her to fuck other men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Already some good advice here.

As mentioned above, find something to watch that highlights this, then perhaps bring up your experience with soft play.

Express what you like about the idea but don't push.

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

MK

Just tell them that you mate tried it and then tell them all about him. Say he tried and it's so great but I'm not sure. What do you think

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