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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Where is the line between acceptable fetishes and things one should seek treatment for?

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Are you asking for longitudinal and latitudinal references for this particular "line"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is none

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you asking for longitudinal and latitudinal references for this particular "line"? "

Maybe for the future but for know want to see peoples opinions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a great question. I am not an expert in kink world though I am a member of it. There is this list called safe, sane and consensual. I agree that what one person considers sane may not be sane for others. Maybe we can draw a line at things that cause permanent damage to body?

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

If it's a true fetish (one in which the object of the fetish must be involved for sexual gratification to be achieved) and that is making you unhappy.

Or it's making you unhappy.

(This is assuming the fetish is not illegal or immoral)

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby


"There is none"

I think there is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such as

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love all the usual foot fetish stuff eg kiss feet, lick feet, suck toes, footjob, cum on feet etc.. but my absolute favourite is sniffing them. Especially wen they are as damp, sweaty and stinky as possible. Stinkier the better. Cute girls feet only tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The line is as long as it’s legal

Each to they own

If it’s not for me as long as they aren’t harm anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1.Cute girls feet.

2.Redheads.

3.Teeth braces.

4.Pigtails.

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By *eisty LadyWoman
over a year ago

Count Your Blessings Cottage, Gratitude Grove


"Where is the line between acceptable fetishes and things one should seek treatment for? "

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Anything goes except that which is illegal, wholly immoral, you’re addicted to or is making you physically / emotionally / mentally unwell or unstable

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By *radders17Man
over a year ago

canvey island

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By *undance_KidMan
over a year ago

London


"Where is the line between acceptable fetishes and things one should seek treatment for?

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Anything goes except that which is illegal, wholly immoral, you’re addicted to or is making you physically / emotionally / mentally unwell or unstable "

Very good thread and very good answer.

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By *undance_KidMan
over a year ago

London


"Where is the line between acceptable fetishes and things one should seek treatment for? "

Even before reading this, I was just fantasising about women in backless cork wedges for some reason!

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.

As with any behaviour, when the effects of the behaviour start to negatively impact you or people around you.

Eg Tim is into playing mobile phone games,

Tim no longer has enough money to pay his rent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As with any behaviour, when the effects of the behaviour start to negatively impact you or people around you.

Eg Tim is into playing mobile phone games,

Tim no longer has enough money to pay his rent.

"

Maybe the problem is Tim’s landlord’s monthly behaviour is negatively affecting Tim.

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.


"As with any behaviour, when the effects of the behaviour start to negatively impact you or people around you.

Eg Tim is into playing mobile phone games,

Tim no longer has enough money to pay his rent.

Maybe the problem is Tim’s landlord’s monthly behaviour is negatively affecting Tim. "

Tim’s rent is slightly below market value, but tim spends around £13000 on the games each month.

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.


"As with any behaviour, when the effects of the behaviour start to negatively impact you or people around you.

Eg Tim is into playing mobile phone games,

Tim no longer has enough money to pay his rent.

Maybe the problem is Tim’s landlord’s monthly behaviour is negatively affecting Tim.

Tim’s rent is slightly below market value, but tim spends around £13000 on the games each month. "

And he’s fictional

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe Tim has another way of paying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As with any behaviour, when the effects of the behaviour start to negatively impact you or people around you.

Eg Tim is into playing mobile phone games,

Tim no longer has enough money to pay his rent.

Maybe the problem is Tim’s landlord’s monthly behaviour is negatively affecting Tim.

Tim’s rent is slightly below market value, but tim spends around £13000 on the games each month.

And he’s fictional "

Tim wins £140 million on the lottery and refuses to pay his rent due to a long term broken boiler. His only way to keep warm is to play mobile games.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As with any behaviour, when the effects of the behaviour start to negatively impact you or people around you.

Eg Tim is into playing mobile phone games,

Tim no longer has enough money to pay his rent.

Tim wouldn’t be renting with that money

Maybe the problem is Tim’s landlord’s monthly behaviour is negatively affecting Tim.

Tim’s rent is slightly below market value, but tim spends around £13000 on the games each month.

And he’s fictional

Tim wins £140 million on the lottery and refuses to pay his rent due to a long term broken boiler. His only way to keep warm is to play mobile games. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There is none"

Crossing a line’ can mean a lot of things. Simply mean, one won’t be part of certain things, must be safe and consensual.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's a great question. I am not an expert in kink world though I am a member of it. There is this list called safe, sane and consensual. I agree that what one person considers sane may not be sane for others. Maybe we can draw a line at things that cause permanent damage to body?"

Good point!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If it's a true fetish (one in which the object of the fetish must be involved for sexual gratification to be achieved) and that is making you unhappy.

Or it's making you unhappy.

(This is assuming the fetish is not illegal or immoral)"

What if you were so in love with your partner, you hate doing it but you do it for him...?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As with any behaviour, when the effects of the behaviour start to negatively impact you or people around you.

Eg Tim is into playing mobile phone games,

Tim no longer has enough money to pay his rent.

Love the Tim example, made me smile (:

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"If it's a true fetish (one in which the object of the fetish must be involved for sexual gratification to be achieved) and that is making you unhappy.

Or it's making you unhappy.

(This is assuming the fetish is not illegal or immoral)

What if you were so in love with your partner, you hate doing it but you do it for him...?

"

Why would you want to be with someone who is happy for you to do something that they know makes you unhappy, just because they like it?

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"As with any behaviour, when the effects of the behaviour start to negatively impact you or people around you.

Eg Tim is into playing mobile phone games,

Tim no longer has enough money to pay his rent.

Maybe the problem is Tim’s landlord’s monthly behaviour is negatively affecting Tim.

Tim’s rent is slightly below market value, but tim spends around £13000 on the games each month.

And he’s fictional

Tim wins £140 million on the lottery and refuses to pay his rent due to a long term broken boiler. His only way to keep warm is to play mobile games. "

Tim refusing to pay his rent due to his landlord not fixing his place is different to the original point of Tim not having enough money to pay his rent.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If it's a true fetish (one in which the object of the fetish must be involved for sexual gratification to be achieved) and that is making you unhappy.

Or it's making you unhappy.

(This is assuming the fetish is not illegal or immoral)

What if you were so in love with your partner, you hate doing it but you do it for him...?

Why would you want to be with someone who is happy for you to do something that they know makes you unhappy, just because they like it?"

It was an example but, know examples from real life and beats me why...

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Really boils down to 2 word's Boundaries and consent we feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love all the usual foot fetish stuff eg kiss feet, lick feet, suck toes, footjob, cum on feet etc.. but my absolute favourite is sniffing them. Especially wen they are as damp, sweaty and stinky as possible. Stinkier the better. Cute girls feet only tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess you can probably look into where any fetish or kink comes from.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Love all the usual foot fetish stuff eg kiss feet, lick feet, suck toes, footjob, cum on feet etc.. but my absolute favourite is sniffing them. Especially wen they are as damp, sweaty and stinky as possible. Stinkier the better. Cute girls feet only tho.

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Cute girls don't have stinky feet... (:

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love suck a pervy guy off deepthroat while he sniffs knickers or socks.

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By *obloodyhornyMan
over a year ago

East Lothian

Obviously lingerie ??

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