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By *obbienormalguy OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford

Why do women crave Big Black Cocks.And why is it such a turn on for white guys ..guess size but what else??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Es racismo.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Racism.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not a turn on for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some woman and men do and some don't. I don't understand why this is even a question.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

#notallwomen

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By *inballs99Man
over a year ago

Blackheath

Aren't we all people !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Es racismo. "

I kinda agree. I feel like the fetishization of black men is rooted in racist values where interracial relationships were seen as taboo and the forbidden fruit is always more appealing. Whether or not black men are fine with this is another discussion.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I think it's because the white men see themselves as inferior to the black men, and something in their Id gets a kick out of it.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I think quite often on here it's the male partner of a woman on here that has the craving to see her with a black man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mrs hates anything over 6" so whether you're black, white brown, blue ginger, green or blue. YOU'RE OUT!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Es racismo.

I kinda agree. I feel like the fetishization of black men is rooted in racist values where interracial relationships were seen as taboo and the forbidden fruit is always more appealing. Whether or not black men are fine with this is another discussion."

100%

Pretty much all of the ways these scenarios play out are rooted in racism and racist ideas of Black men. Pretty much ALL of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest men are just as guilty as advertising theirselves as 'bbc' as women who request this. Each to their own but no one should be labelled as a 'kink'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think quite often on here it's the male partner of a woman on here that has the craving to see her with a black man "

What makes you think that and why do you think it's "quite often" woman are capable of making decisions for themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's because the white men see themselves as inferior to the black men, and something in their Id gets a kick out of it."

Even the roots of these ideas of Black men’s physical superiority is rooted in racist ideas of white supremacy. The idea that Black men are primal. Savage. Blah blah blah. It’s all about power. It’s all about racism.

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland

I think a lot of men just think women crave big black cocks rather than most women actually craving them. I've indifferent either way. Black, white, whatever, it doesn't make a difference to me it's more about the actual bloke behind the nob.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i get a tattoo saying black cock on my cock does that mean all women crave my cock tho?

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"I think quite often on here it's the male partner of a woman on here that has the craving to see her with a black man

What makes you think that and why do you think it's "quite often" woman are capable of making decisions for themselves. "

My thoughts are based purely on observations.

I know women are capable of making decisions for themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Source: trust me bro.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest men are just as guilty as advertising theirselves as 'bbc' as women who request this. Each to their own but no one should be labelled as a 'kink'."

I agree men are just as guilty. But also feel it’s not the same thing when men say it. Or maybe I don’t attribute the blame to the men as equally.

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

Is this a survey.Would like to see the proof.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve taken the bait. Fucking hell Steve.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"I think it's because the white men see themselves as inferior to the black men, and something in their Id gets a kick out of it.

Even the roots of these ideas of Black men’s physical superiority is rooted in racist ideas of white supremacy. The idea that Black men are primal. Savage. Blah blah blah. It’s all about power. It’s all about racism. "

I said something along those lines 12 years back on here, and people got a bit pissed off.

I said it stemmed from the days of plantation workers being used by the women as sex objects, because of their muscular bodies and fitness.

Nowadays, the husbands know about it and actively encourage it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find people who whine about things like this are just looking for excuses to cover there own issues in getting laid same as the its the fakes who spoil it for all of us brigade

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had one but I would assume it’s the same as a big white cock witch I have had so the colour makes no difference

Also have a big one isn’t all that it’s cracked up to be

I fined guys who complain or say about it wouldn’t like it if they had

Really isn’t all that grate when your being turned down by them saying that’s to big

Also in my experience they good for about the first 10-15 minutes then because cumbersome and becomes less about injoying it and more about trying to withstand the pain

That’s not to say I don’t love the challenge and the bage that gose with it

But only ones in a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest men are just as guilty as advertising theirselves as 'bbc' as women who request this. Each to their own but no one should be labelled as a 'kink'.

I agree men are just as guilty. But also feel it’s not the same thing when men say it. Or maybe I don’t attribute the blame to the men as equally. "

I agree it might not be said in the same context. But as long as black men make it acceptable to have that label, others will see it that way too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find people who whine about things like this are just looking for excuses to cover there own issues in getting laid same as the its the fakes who spoil it for all of us brigade "

I don't think it's the same at all. One is about preference and the other is about fake profiles preventing potential suitable conversations. Also, I wouldn't say the OP is whining either, he just asked a question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's because the white men see themselves as inferior to the black men, and something in their Id gets a kick out of it.

Even the roots of these ideas of Black men’s physical superiority is rooted in racist ideas of white supremacy. The idea that Black men are primal. Savage. Blah blah blah. It’s all about power. It’s all about racism.

I said something along those lines 12 years back on here, and people got a bit pissed off.

I said it stemmed from the days of plantation workers being used by the women as sex objects, because of their muscular bodies and fitness.

Nowadays, the husbands know about it and actively encourage it.

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Interesting. I wouldn’t agree completely but only because I think it stems from before [redacted]. But yes I agree with the point that that specific scenario is reproduced in these modern dynamics. The obsession that White men have with Black Men and our penises is so strange (to go back to one of OP’s points). It’s been the centre of some of the most triggering experiences I’ve had with racism. But also interesting the way it manifests in the opposite way— lots of White men asking women if they’ve slept with Black men before and taking issue if they have. Also rooted in racism/ white supremacy obviously. Very [redacted] ideas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest men are just as guilty as advertising theirselves as 'bbc' as women who request this. Each to their own but no one should be labelled as a 'kink'.

I agree men are just as guilty. But also feel it’s not the same thing when men say it. Or maybe I don’t attribute the blame to the men as equally.

I agree it might not be said in the same context. But as long as black men make it acceptable to have that label, others will see it that way too. "

Fair. I see this point. And I can’t dispute as much as I would like to.

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By *obbienormalguy OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford

I'm far from Racist in any way and this isn't about me I dont like the term bbc why not used. More a open discussion and is it time we just all didn't relate colour to sex ..??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive had a few nasty messages because ive been with a few black guys and the hate i got for going with a hunky British asian guy was unreal ...

but i go with guys because of the sexual attraction i have towards them as men ..it has nothing to do with skin color or race and i stay well clear off all the terms like bbc qos

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By *obbienormalguy OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford

I like German cars it's no different I don't think you get it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm far from Racist in any way and this isn't about me I dont like the term bbc why not used. More a open discussion and is it time we just all didn't relate colour to sex ..?? "

I don’t think anyone said or thinks you’re a racist. Just that in answer to your questions of ‘why?’ The answer is racism. Even some of the individuals that partake in this stuff I wouldn’t necessarily label racist- you can reproduce racist ideas and not necessarily be a racist (I think anyway).

In answer to your second point, I think yes it is about time but in all honesty it requires conversations and learning people arent willing to have or to do (in my experience) so just let them do them and avoid. That’s what I suggest. We aren’t going to change the world or fix racism. Especially not on fab. It is what it is.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"Why do women crave Big Black Cocks.And why is it such a turn on for white guys ..guess size but what else?? "

Does it turn you on at all and if so why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do women crave Big Black Cocks.And why is it such a turn on for white guys ..guess size but what else?? "

I wonder if it's porn, fetishising

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By *ophie199Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

I don’t give a shit. I just love it. Most are huge and great fun. I love em. Peace and love. xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't lust after BBC - I don't think of men in terms of their cocks and I really dislike the use of "BBC". I've been approached to attend QoS nights and had it explained to me that some women just like the contrast in colour and men like to see it as well. Reducing men to appendages for this reason is a load of BS in my opinion and I want nothing to do with it. I think what others have said makes more sense.

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By *urga2076Woman
over a year ago

London

I have lost count of the number of men who have written to me here asking to watch me with a bbc. I feel it’s a man issue not mine.

It’s warped.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not too fussed about the colour of a dick.

I think a lot of big athletic black guys are gorgeous though. Their muscle tone is accentuated by their skin colour I and it's very aesthetically pleasing to my wee beadie eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't lust after BBC or white cock.

I've got to be attracted to the person first to be lusting after their cock/them.

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By *lasherMan
over a year ago

Faversham


"I don’t give a shit. I just love it. Most are huge and great fun. I love em. Peace and love. xxxx"

Well said Sophie and for getting the thread back on track lol

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By *ophie199Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Thanks. Be nice dudes. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t give a shit. I just love it. Most are huge and great fun. I love em. Peace and love. xxxx

Well said Sophie and for getting the thread back on track lol"

?? What do you mean back on track? It's a discussion. Are only women who lust after BBC allowed to comment?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't lust after any cock.

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By *ayjay199xMan
over a year ago

london

Not sure if it’s a turn on for white “guys”

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By *ecret-64Couple
over a year ago

Wrexham

This is something we have recently discussed and are planning for a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is something we have recently discussed and are planning for a meet. "

Can we ask why? I mean you’re welcome to not answer but the OP is asking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like big willies, whatever the colour of the person they're attached to, because I'm small and it hurts. Really not a fan of reducing people to body parts either.

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By *ecret-64Couple
over a year ago

Wrexham


"This is something we have recently discussed and are planning for a meet.

Can we ask why? I mean you’re welcome to not answer but the OP is asking? "

Several reasons.

I have never had a very large cock.

I have never been with a black guy.

I am personally turned on by the thought of it.

I want to experience a black lover.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is something we have recently discussed and are planning for a meet.

Can we ask why? I mean you’re welcome to not answer but the OP is asking?

Several reasons.

I have never had a very large cock.

I have never been with a black guy.

I am personally turned on by the thought of it.

I want to experience a black lover.

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Thanks

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

I can offer an AWC if you don’t have any luck….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally as soon as the ladies or couples mention 'well hung', 'BWC', or 'BBC' for preference. I shrug and move onto the next profile. Thats typically 3/5 profiles to date.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

yes you have a big white dick

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London


"Generally as soon as the ladies or couples mention 'well hung', 'BWC', or 'BBC' for preference. I shrug and move onto the next profile. Thats typically 3/5 profiles to date."

You missed off “gym fit”….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Generally as soon as the ladies or couples mention 'well hung', 'BWC', or 'BBC' for preference. I shrug and move onto the next profile. Thats typically 3/5 profiles to date.

You missed off “gym fit”…. "

Ok that's 6/5 profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like big willies, whatever the colour of the person they're attached to, because I'm small and it hurts. Really not a fan of reducing people to body parts either."

Well said.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"If i get a tattoo saying black cock on my cock does that mean all women crave my cock tho? "

No but I would admire your pain tolerance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just here for the comments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok I feel like I will leave a comment. Here's a radical concept. If you're into black guys etc, why not just date black guys. If we're good enough to fuck, surely we're good enough to date, right???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big being the key word, matters not if black or white, etc.

Big in length, Big in girth and having plenty stamina to go a good few hours with ability to repeat and truly test Bitch, making her squeal like a real gurl is where the attraction is.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

Wow really i thought it was the person and not the colour thats more important behind the cock. These posts wont help your rep on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

having said this, plenty guys with 6-7” cocks have been great fun since they’ve had plenty stamina to go a good few rounds...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Racism. "

Is ugly in all its forms and unfortunately, racism will never go away because we humans are simply incapable of accepting it’s ok to be different. Another post was complaining and shut down because is a bitter pill to swallow for sum...! Truth eventually cums out and the problem is some simply don’t seem to care. Life goes on and we can but try to steer clear from toxic peeps best we can. Just a shame after what history has taught us we still can’t seem to learn from it. Making peace is expensive.

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By *yron69Man
over a year ago

Fareham

I blame Mary Whitehouse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nothing ever cums good from “envy”

not forgetting the others like: greed, pride, wrath...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow really i thought it was the person and not the colour thats more important behind the cock. These posts wont help your rep on here! "

...although, unsure of some peeps being overly worried about rep on this site...

since I wonder how many of us openly publicise being on a sex site knowing society is not always understanding an can be cruel...

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

My wife really ISNT a fan of size, she finds bigger, thicker cocks painful at times and hard to accommodate.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

I get abuse from white men for playing with black guys.

I get abuse from black guys for playing with black guys.

Can’t win either way

I like lots of me, including black guys… irrespective of their dick size

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Ok I feel like I will leave a comment. Here's a radical concept. If you're into black guys etc, why not just date black guys. If we're good enough to fuck, surely we're good enough to date, right???"

I mean I do date black men (and every other skin colour/ nationality/ race) but everyone presumes I don’t just because I’m on a sex site I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife really ISNT a fan of size, she finds bigger, thicker cocks painful at times and hard to accommodate.

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need to be with very understanding partners to gently break her in since the pain soon turns into ecstasy and before you know it she’ll be addickted to big cocks

only kidding, each to own

we all know it’s about the chemistry with person that’s what’s important and not colour (i do like to think). However, tiny cocks and lil stamina that take less time than fir me to put my make-up on really don’t make great meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get abuse from white men for playing with black guys.

I get abuse from black guys for playing with black guys.

Can’t win either way

I like lots of me, including black guys… irrespective of their dick size "

Weird that black guys will be upset with you for fucking other black guys, but sorry you're going through that. The white guys who hate you are unfortunately insecure (small dick energy) and are racists so I won't pay them any mind. Just keep doing you and I'm sure something lovely will work out for you in the end (you do seem like a nice person)

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"Ok I feel like I will leave a comment. Here's a radical concept. If you're into black guys etc, why not just date black guys. If we're good enough to fuck, surely we're good enough to date, right???"

Not everyone worth fucking is worth dating

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By *ylonloverxxMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I don't see it as a form of racism at all, surely it's just a preference

BBC is just a terminology, the same as BWC,VWE,heavy cummer the list can go on.

If you class it as racist does that mean I'm sexist as I prefer women to men??

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I don’t

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By *itzi999Woman
over a year ago

Slough


"I don't see it as a form of racism at all, surely it's just a preference

BBC is just a terminology, the same as BWC,VWE,heavy cummer the list can go on.

If you class it as racist does that mean I'm sexist as I prefer women to men?? "

Agreed

Btw, BWC and BBC

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just love the skin contrast. Doesn't mean I expect a huge cock lol. I also like guys with dark skin in general, as well as white guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok I feel like I will leave a comment. Here's a radical concept. If you're into black guys etc, why not just date black guys. If we're good enough to fuck, surely we're good enough to date, right???

Not everyone worth fucking is worth dating "

That's true but if you're willing to only fuck one race of men but date another. Then that my friend is a big problem, that's extremely racist and belittling to the value of a human being. Just keeping it real.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just love the skin contrast. Doesn't mean I expect a huge cock lol. I also like guys with dark skin in general, as well as white guys "

Nicely said

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"Ok I feel like I will leave a comment. Here's a radical concept. If you're into black guys etc, why not just date black guys. If we're good enough to fuck, surely we're good enough to date, right???

Not everyone worth fucking is worth dating

That's true but if you're willing to only fuck one race of men but date another. Then that my friend is a big problem, that's extremely racist and belittling to the value of a human being. Just keeping it real."

Good thing the title isn’t suggesting that then

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If i get a tattoo saying black cock on my cock does that mean all women crave my cock tho?

No but I would admire your pain tolerance."
aaaaard

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"I think a lot of men just think women crave big black cocks rather than most women actually craving them. I've indifferent either way. Black, white, whatever, it doesn't make a difference to me it's more about the actual bloke behind the nob."

I think this is true for most women.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"Ok I feel like I will leave a comment. Here's a radical concept. If you're into black guys etc, why not just date black guys. If we're good enough to fuck, surely we're good enough to date, right???

Not everyone worth fucking is worth dating "

Whilst that is of course true

, If there is a pattern of behaviour then this says something doesn't it?

I'm not looking to date anyone but if that changes I wouldn't base it on the colour of their skin. That's ridiculous to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok I feel like I will leave a comment. Here's a radical concept. If you're into black guys etc, why not just date black guys. If we're good enough to fuck, surely we're good enough to date, right???

Not everyone worth fucking is worth dating "

Not sure that was the point being made. It’s more some people are ‘into Black men’ when it comes to sex but never seem to date them or never do. Not that some people aren’t worth saying because that’s specific from person to person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok I feel like I will leave a comment. Here's a radical concept. If you're into black guys etc, why not just date black guys. If we're good enough to fuck, surely we're good enough to date, right???

Not everyone worth fucking is worth dating

Whilst that is of course true

, If there is a pattern of behaviour then this says something doesn't it?

I'm not looking to date anyone but if that changes I wouldn't base it on the colour of their skin. That's ridiculous to me."

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Es racismo.

I kinda agree. I feel like the fetishization of black men is rooted in racist values where interracial relationships were seen as taboo and the forbidden fruit is always more appealing. Whether or not black men are fine with this is another discussion.

100%

Pretty much all of the ways these scenarios play out are rooted in racism and racist ideas of Black men. Pretty much ALL of them. "

^^^This

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Doesn't do anything for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok I feel like I will leave a comment. Here's a radical concept. If you're into black guys etc, why not just date black guys. If we're good enough to fuck, surely we're good enough to date, right???

Not everyone worth fucking is worth dating

Not sure that was the point being made. It’s more some people are ‘into Black men’ when it comes to sex but never seem to date them or never do. Not that some people aren’t worth saying because that’s specific from person to person. "

Exactly, but it's not like I didn't see the piss poor attempt at deflection lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok I feel like I will leave a comment. Here's a radical concept. If you're into black guys etc, why not just date black guys. If we're good enough to fuck, surely we're good enough to date, right???

Not everyone worth fucking is worth dating

Whilst that is of course true

, If there is a pattern of behaviour then this says something doesn't it?

I'm not looking to date anyone but if that changes I wouldn't base it on the colour of their skin. That's ridiculous to me."

Well said xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't do anything for me."

Doesn’t do anything for me either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok I feel like I will leave a comment. Here's a radical concept. If you're into black guys etc, why not just date black guys. If we're good enough to fuck, surely we're good enough to date, right???"

Many people here seem to have a different criteria for those they will fuck vs those they will have a relationship with. I'm not saying that's right, but I don't think it just applies to black men. I've had men say to me that they'd only sleep with me, because I am on a site like this they wouldn't date me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see it as a form of racism at all, surely it's just a preference

BBC is just a terminology, the same as BWC,VWE,heavy cummer the list can go on.

If you class it as racist does that mean I'm sexist as I prefer women to men?? "

I think it fetishises black men much of the time. Talking about people in terms of their appendages is pretty awful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it’s a preference then who

Are we to

Judge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Racism.

Is ugly in all its forms and unfortunately, racism will never go away because we humans are simply incapable of accepting it’s ok to be different. Another post was complaining and shut down because is a bitter pill to swallow for sum...! Truth eventually cums out and the problem is some simply don’t seem to care. Life goes on and we can but try to steer clear from toxic peeps best we can. Just a shame after what history has taught us we still can’t seem to learn from it. Making peace is expensive. "

I was on that thread and yeah I agree - too much truth so it got shut down.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"Ok I feel like I will leave a comment. Here's a radical concept. If you're into black guys etc, why not just date black guys. If we're good enough to fuck, surely we're good enough to date, right???

Not everyone worth fucking is worth dating

Not sure that was the point being made. It’s more some people are ‘into Black men’ when it comes to sex but never seem to date them or never do. Not that some people aren’t worth saying because that’s specific from person to person. "

That point was poorly made then in my opinion. Had it been worded like you did, I would have got it. But all I saw was “if you’d fuck us why wouldn’t you date us” and I could point to a million cases where letting someone fuck you doesn’t entitle you to a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Judging from the messages I receive - it’s because (certain) people see us as animalistic or like pieces of meat.

A lot of people assume black guys are highly sexed, dominant/rough and will fuck anything.

The tone of some of the unsolicited messages I receive from couples is quite shocking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Judging from the messages I receive - it’s because (certain) people see us as animalistic or like pieces of meat.

A lot of people assume black guys are highly sexed, dominant/rough and will fuck anything.

The tone of some of the unsolicited messages I receive from couples is quite shocking."

We all get those kind of messages tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Judging from the messages I receive - it’s because (certain) people see us as animalistic or like pieces of meat.

A lot of people assume black guys are highly sexed, dominant/rough and will fuck anything.

The tone of some of the unsolicited messages I receive from couples is quite shocking.

We all get those kind of messages tho "

I don't see those tropes applied to white guys here. Ever.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"Judging from the messages I receive - it’s because (certain) people see us as animalistic or like pieces of meat.

A lot of people assume black guys are highly sexed, dominant/rough and will fuck anything.

The tone of some of the unsolicited messages I receive from couples is quite shocking.

We all get those kind of messages tho

I don't see those tropes applied to white guys here. Ever. "

Yeah can’t say I’ve ever had that either.

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By *onnyadtMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter


"Source: trust me bro. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Judging from the messages I receive - it’s because (certain) people see us as animalistic or like pieces of meat.

A lot of people assume black guys are highly sexed, dominant/rough and will fuck anything.

The tone of some of the unsolicited messages I receive from couples is quite shocking.

We all get those kind of messages tho "

So you get messages from people who call you the N word when they’re horny? Or people that talk about ‘your black cock’ constantly?

Or someone who says that they want to see the “contrast” of your black skin against theirs?

And asking if you have more black mates to bring? And suggesting you wear ski masks, or writing to you in weird street slang because they assume that’s how you talk? Or someone that says they “don’t usually like black guys” but treat you like you’re the lucky exception.

Nope. You don’t. I get those kind of things a lot and I don’t even want that kind of attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Judging from the messages I receive - it’s because (certain) people see us as animalistic or like pieces of meat.

A lot of people assume black guys are highly sexed, dominant/rough and will fuck anything.

The tone of some of the unsolicited messages I receive from couples is quite shocking.

We all get those kind of messages tho

I don't see those tropes applied to white guys here. Ever. "

Because no-one wants white guys.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Judging from the messages I receive - it’s because (certain) people see us as animalistic or like pieces of meat.

A lot of people assume black guys are highly sexed, dominant/rough and will fuck anything.

The tone of some of the unsolicited messages I receive from couples is quite shocking.

We all get those kind of messages tho

So you get messages from people who call you the N word when they’re horny? Or people that talk about ‘your black cock’ constantly?

Or someone who says that they want to see the “contrast” of your black skin against theirs?

And asking if you have more black mates to bring? And suggesting you wear ski masks, or writing to you in weird street slang because they assume that’s how you talk? Or someone that says they “don’t usually like black guys” but treat you like you’re the lucky exception.

Nope. You don’t. I get those kind of things a lot and I don’t even want that kind of attention. "

Your not alone in getting those types of vile messages.

Not that it fixes anything or makes it ok, but yeah… we get them too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Judging from the messages I receive - it’s because (certain) people see us as animalistic or like pieces of meat.

A lot of people assume black guys are highly sexed, dominant/rough and will fuck anything.

The tone of some of the unsolicited messages I receive from couples is quite shocking.

We all get those kind of messages tho

So you get messages from people who call you the N word when they’re horny? Or people that talk about ‘your black cock’ constantly?

Or someone who says that they want to see the “contrast” of your black skin against theirs?

And asking if you have more black mates to bring? And suggesting you wear ski masks, or writing to you in weird street slang because they assume that’s how you talk? Or someone that says they “don’t usually like black guys” but treat you like you’re the lucky exception.

Nope. You don’t. I get those kind of things a lot and I don’t even want that kind of attention. "

JFC. Disgusting mesaages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Judging from the messages I receive - it’s because (certain) people see us as animalistic or like pieces of meat.

A lot of people assume black guys are highly sexed, dominant/rough and will fuck anything.

The tone of some of the unsolicited messages I receive from couples is quite shocking.

We all get those kind of messages tho

So you get messages from people who call you the N word when they’re horny? Or people that talk about ‘your black cock’ constantly?

Or someone who says that they want to see the “contrast” of your black skin against theirs?

And asking if you have more black mates to bring? And suggesting you wear ski masks, or writing to you in weird street slang because they assume that’s how you talk? Or someone that says they “don’t usually like black guys” but treat you like you’re the lucky exception.

Nope. You don’t. I get those kind of things a lot and I don’t even want that kind of attention.

Your not alone in getting those types of vile messages.

Not that it fixes anything or makes it ok, but yeah… we get them too "

Who is ‘we’ ??

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Judging from the messages I receive - it’s because (certain) people see us as animalistic or like pieces of meat.

A lot of people assume black guys are highly sexed, dominant/rough and will fuck anything.

The tone of some of the unsolicited messages I receive from couples is quite shocking.

We all get those kind of messages tho

So you get messages from people who call you the N word when they’re horny? Or people that talk about ‘your black cock’ constantly?

Or someone who says that they want to see the “contrast” of your black skin against theirs?

And asking if you have more black mates to bring? And suggesting you wear ski masks, or writing to you in weird street slang because they assume that’s how you talk? Or someone that says they “don’t usually like black guys” but treat you like you’re the lucky exception.

Nope. You don’t. I get those kind of things a lot and I don’t even want that kind of attention.

Your not alone in getting those types of vile messages.

Not that it fixes anything or makes it ok, but yeah… we get them too

Who is ‘we’ ??"

Well I’m in a LOT of kik groups with other women and “we” tend to get a lot of them, daily.

However I should of said I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Judging from the messages I receive - it’s because (certain) people see us as animalistic or like pieces of meat.

A lot of people assume black guys are highly sexed, dominant/rough and will fuck anything.

The tone of some of the unsolicited messages I receive from couples is quite shocking.

We all get those kind of messages tho

So you get messages from people who call you the N word when they’re horny? Or people that talk about ‘your black cock’ constantly?

Or someone who says that they want to see the “contrast” of your black skin against theirs?

And asking if you have more black mates to bring? And suggesting you wear ski masks, or writing to you in weird street slang because they assume that’s how you talk? Or someone that says they “don’t usually like black guys” but treat you like you’re the lucky exception.

Nope. You don’t. I get those kind of things a lot and I don’t even want that kind of attention.

Your not alone in getting those types of vile messages.

Not that it fixes anything or makes it ok, but yeah… we get them too

Who is ‘we’ ??

Well I’m in a LOT of kik groups with other women and “we” tend to get a lot of them, daily.

However I should of said I "

I assumed you meant women

I think most women here should have some empathy for these kinds of nasty objectifying messages.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Judging from the messages I receive - it’s because (certain) people see us as animalistic or like pieces of meat.

A lot of people assume black guys are highly sexed, dominant/rough and will fuck anything.

The tone of some of the unsolicited messages I receive from couples is quite shocking.

We all get those kind of messages tho

So you get messages from people who call you the N word when they’re horny? Or people that talk about ‘your black cock’ constantly?

Or someone who says that they want to see the “contrast” of your black skin against theirs?

And asking if you have more black mates to bring? And suggesting you wear ski masks, or writing to you in weird street slang because they assume that’s how you talk? Or someone that says they “don’t usually like black guys” but treat you like you’re the lucky exception.

Nope. You don’t. I get those kind of things a lot and I don’t even want that kind of attention.

Your not alone in getting those types of vile messages.

Not that it fixes anything or makes it ok, but yeah… we get them too

Who is ‘we’ ??

Well I’m in a LOT of kik groups with other women and “we” tend to get a lot of them, daily.

However I should of said I

I assumed you meant women

I think most women here should have some empathy for these kinds of nasty objectifying messages. "

Absolutely… report and block!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't it just a preference? Nothing more, nothing less?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Judging from the messages I receive - it’s because (certain) people see us as animalistic or like pieces of meat.

A lot of people assume black guys are highly sexed, dominant/rough and will fuck anything.

The tone of some of the unsolicited messages I receive from couples is quite shocking.

We all get those kind of messages tho

So you get messages from people who call you the N word when they’re horny? Or people that talk about ‘your black cock’ constantly?

Or someone who says that they want to see the “contrast” of your black skin against theirs?

And asking if you have more black mates to bring? And suggesting you wear ski masks, or writing to you in weird street slang because they assume that’s how you talk? Or someone that says they “don’t usually like black guys” but treat you like you’re the lucky exception.

Nope. You don’t. I get those kind of things a lot and I don’t even want that kind of attention.

Your not alone in getting those types of vile messages.

Not that it fixes anything or makes it ok, but yeah… we get them too

Who is ‘we’ ??

Well I’m in a LOT of kik groups with other women and “we” tend to get a lot of them, daily.

However I should of said I

I assumed you meant women

I think most women here should have some empathy for these kinds of nasty objectifying messages. "

Ohh I get it now. It looked like this was talking about the specific messages that were mentioned - was a bit confused about receiving those.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Es racismo.

I kinda agree. I feel like the fetishization of black men is rooted in racist values where interracial relationships were seen as taboo and the forbidden fruit is always more appealing. Whether or not black men are fine with this is another discussion.

100%

Pretty much all of the ways these scenarios play out are rooted in racism and racist ideas of Black men. Pretty much ALL of them. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's racism and a power thing I think.

It's something that turns my stomach a bit. It's like a black man is only worth interacting with because of his cock. It's fucking weird.

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By *ammo89Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Makes me wonder why its such a popular category on the Hub. BBC always dominates the "most viewed" and "hottest" tabs.

Is it because mostly men watch porn, and therefore mostly men who perpetuate the fetish?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"Judging from the messages I receive - it’s because (certain) people see us as animalistic or like pieces of meat.

A lot of people assume black guys are highly sexed, dominant/rough and will fuck anything.

The tone of some of the unsolicited messages I receive from couples is quite shocking.

We all get those kind of messages tho

So you get messages from people who call you the N word when they’re horny? Or people that talk about ‘your black cock’ constantly?

Or someone who says that they want to see the “contrast” of your black skin against theirs?

And asking if you have more black mates to bring? And suggesting you wear ski masks, or writing to you in weird street slang because they assume that’s how you talk? Or someone that says they “don’t usually like black guys” but treat you like you’re the lucky exception.

Nope. You don’t. I get those kind of things a lot and I don’t even want that kind of attention.

Your not alone in getting those types of vile messages.

Not that it fixes anything or makes it ok, but yeah… we get them too

Who is ‘we’ ??

Well I’m in a LOT of kik groups with other women and “we” tend to get a lot of them, daily.

However I should of said I "

I have never been asked to wear a ski mask. But if I did I would presume it would be for a very different reason.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West


"

Well I’m in a LOT of kik groups with other women and “we” tend to get a lot of them, daily.

However I should of said I

I have never been asked to wear a ski mask. But if I did I would presume it would be for a very different reason."

I very often get the “me and my friends will be wearing ski masks and you’ll take it then well leave” type messages

My intention wasn’t to play down the racism (apologies if it did or came across like that).

I just meant to highlight the vile stereotypes xx

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

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"

Well I’m in a LOT of kik groups with other women and “we” tend to get a lot of them, daily.

However I should of said I

I have never been asked to wear a ski mask. But if I did I would presume it would be for a very different reason.

I very often get the “me and my friends will be wearing ski masks and you’ll take it then well leave” type messages

My intention wasn’t to play down the racism (apologies if it did or came across like that).

I just meant to highlight the vile stereotypes xx"

Erk don't get those kind of messages either. Don't know what's worse being told that I'm so ugly that they want my face covered or vile fantasies I'm going for both terrible.

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By *imGimMan
over a year ago

london

Or maybe they are closet bisexual /gay?

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By *imGimMan
over a year ago

london

Until they realise we own our cocks

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By *imGimMan
over a year ago

london

For me well aware of the fetishisation side of things and it is a source of conflict for me. There is a side of me that is uncomfortable, and at the same time I’m big, 10” so it can give me a bit of an advantage. Sure I like the shagging aspect but like other things too, like oral/eating out,

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By *imGimMan
over a year ago

london

Power thing often gets flipped Husband wants to watch wife take bbc, things can get a little awkward when the wife is having her first orgasm in 15 years. For me I understand the subtext, but I always stay in control, and I have walked in the past. I’m someone who has needs too, I like to “eat out downstairs “ so if i turn up and I’m expected to just drop my boxers and start shagging then it isn’t good, because then it means I’m just providing a service, and my own sexual desires are being ignored. Couples have been shocked when that’s happened. I understand there is some kind of trade off when it comes to sex, but being used like a walking vibrator isn’t one.

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By *imGimMan
over a year ago

london

Exactly, I’m a very sexual person and I don’t have a problem with the term bbc, I mean I’m black and it’s big. However there have been times when I feel like I should demand payment, because it’s like I’m “working” as an unpaid prostitute. I get messages all the time and it’s kinda formulaic “wife, bbc, cuckold, etc” the red flag: if nobody can even be bothered to ask what I like then it means I’m being used

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By *imGimMan
over a year ago

london

As someone who’s bisexual, it’s not just women, but guys too, and they all have something in common: they’re all white. I only ever hear people say “I want your bbc” etc. it can have its advantages, but it also has its draw backs, most guys who are average size and say they want a dick like this don’t understand the challenges it brings, like for starters it’s too big for the majority of people, whether it be men or women, often can’t take it, I’ve been with women, spent a lifetime going down on them, smoked a joint, a gallon of lube and if lucky might be able to get half the way in, some can, but very few, can result in a very unsatisfying sexual experience

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By *imGimMan
over a year ago

london

I can’t comment on anyone else, but I’m 10.4” having a cock that is too big means sex isn’t always so great. To even get the head of it inside a woman is difficult, it means other skills required: lubrication. I have yet to meet a woman who’s been unhappy that I have sometimes as long as an hour licking and sucking her inside, by the time two orgasms have been served up, typically she’s gonna be absolutely soaking wet and horny af.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's just preference nothing more nothing less . People read too much into it . It's a kink like every other kink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From my experience, black men are the same as white men in cock sizes. Some are big, some aren't. I don't have a 'thing' for black guys, I have a 'thing' for nice, respectful, sex adventurous guys regardless of skin colour.

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By *imGimMan
over a year ago

london

There’s no logic. I do go to nudist clubs, etc and the reality is I’m a black guy with a 10” dick, and so as a result I get a lot of offers from a lot of women. So as was the case in the heatwave and I’m horny in the sun with a fully hard cock and women are offering their pussy, then yes absolutely. I take advantage of that. I don’t really worry about what other people have to say.

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By *enelope2UWoman
over a year ago

Fife

A failure to understand reality from porn

Racism and fetishism

Thinking it's Taboo or dangerous

Using it as a means of bragging or mocking

Insecurity on the part of makes

Trying to fit in with porn standards for fake screaming and fake moaning because your being fckd wrong

Failure to have had BWC and they do t know it's a myth all black guys are NOT hung.. THEY AREN'T

Too many bs reasons to list

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By *imGimMan
over a year ago

london

In black and male. Also bi, I do have sex with white women, but my partner is black, we’re both the same age, 52, but he could pass for 35 easily, i would not have a relationship with a white guy and I’d have to drink a litre of vodka before even considering a one night stand. But physically, white guys don’t age very well, I see guys in their early 40s and look older than I do, we take better care of our bodies. Also being in a relationship with a black guy is just so much better. And yes regardless of cock size sex with black guys so much better.

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By *imGimMan
over a year ago

london

As a black guy I resent being thought of as a fashion accessory. I have and do have sex with white women (rarely) but I have a partner he is black. I dont find white guys attracive and I would never have a relationship with a white person male or female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah so now I see who’s resuscitated all the old black men threads!

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"As a black guy I resent being thought of as a fashion accessory. I have and do have sex with white women (rarely) but I have a partner he is black. I dont find white guys attracive and I would never have a relationship with a white person male or female"

If you use the reply + quote button it makes it easier for people to know who you are responding to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In black and male. Also bi, I do have sex with white women, but my partner is black, we’re both the same age, 52, but he could pass for 35 easily, i would not have a relationship with a white guy and I’d have to drink a litre of vodka before even considering a one night stand. But physically, white guys don’t age very well, I see guys in their early 40s and look older than I do, we take better care of our bodies. Also being in a relationship with a black guy is just so much better. And yes regardless of cock size sex with black guys so much better."

If you've never been a relationship with a white guy, how would you know that relationships with black guys are always better? Clearly you have your preferences but you're making the same vast generalisations as people do about black men.

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington


"As a black guy I resent being thought of as a fashion accessory. I have and do have sex with white women (rarely) but I have a partner he is black. I dont find white guys attracive and I would never have a relationship with a white person male or female"
but you don’t resent the stereotypical BBC nonsense ? Is that you’re USP?

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By *ld StrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Telford

I’ve seen plenty of cocks of all shapes sizes .. their has been absolutely no evidence I’m my personal experience that any particular heritage has one up man ship on the other.

Personally I like girth rather than length myself regardless of what type of male it was attached to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In black and male. Also bi, I do have sex with white women, but my partner is black, we’re both the same age, 52, but he could pass for 35 easily, i would not have a relationship with a white guy and I’d have to drink a litre of vodka before even considering a one night stand. But physically, white guys don’t age very well, I see guys in their early 40s and look older than I do, we take better care of our bodies. Also being in a relationship with a black guy is just so much better. And yes regardless of cock size sex with black guys so much better."

Nothing like a sweeping generalisation or 3 is there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In black and male. Also bi, I do have sex with white women, but my partner is black, we’re both the same age, 52, but he could pass for 35 easily, i would not have a relationship with a white guy and I’d have to drink a litre of vodka before even considering a one night stand. But physically, white guys don’t age very well, I see guys in their early 40s and look older than I do, we take better care of our bodies. Also being in a relationship with a black guy is just so much better. And yes regardless of cock size sex with black guys so much better.

Nothing like a sweeping generalisation or 3 is there? "

Don't take his bait.

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By *ire_thornMan
over a year ago

no comment

Just here eating my popcorn reading the comments... Got room for one more lol

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London


"In black and male. Also bi, I do have sex with white women, but my partner is black, we’re both the same age, 52, but he could pass for 35 easily, i would not have a relationship with a white guy and I’d have to drink a litre of vodka before even considering a one night stand. But physically, white guys don’t age very well, I see guys in their early 40s and look older than I do, we take better care of our bodies. Also being in a relationship with a black guy is just so much better. And yes regardless of cock size sex with black guys so much better."

What a very odd post?!

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By *hy4BBCWoman
over a year ago

near

I love big black cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In black and male. Also bi, I do have sex with white women, but my partner is black, we’re both the same age, 52, but he could pass for 35 easily, i would not have a relationship with a white guy and I’d have to drink a litre of vodka before even considering a one night stand. But physically, white guys don’t age very well, I see guys in their early 40s and look older than I do, we take better care of our bodies. Also being in a relationship with a black guy is just so much better. And yes regardless of cock size sex with black guys so much better.

What a very odd post?! "

Loool isn't it just

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah so now I see who’s resuscitated all the old black men threads! "

Oh hello you

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By *onnyadtMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter


"In black and male. Also bi, I do have sex with white women, but my partner is black, we’re both the same age, 52, but he could pass for 35 easily, i would not have a relationship with a white guy and I’d have to drink a litre of vodka before even considering a one night stand. But physically, white guys don’t age very well, I see guys in their early 40s and look older than I do, we take better care of our bodies. Also being in a relationship with a black guy is just so much better. And yes regardless of cock size sex with black guys so much better."

Where do you even start deciphering this one, drop a pin perhaps! Treating it as clickbait, nothing more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A fascinating topic. Being mixed, I've had swing relations under the BBC umbrella, but also, at times, felt that it wasn't entirely my scene. Being of a lighter tone kind of adds a mode of separation re the more "exclusive" club nights....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps more quantification is required, ie. "some" husbands like to see their wives, "a percentage of" women prefer etc etc. Thus rendering the BBC events very worthwhile and meaningful given that they are on particular nights only and not 7 nights a week...

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON


"Why do women crave Big Black Cocks.And why is it such a turn on for white guys ..guess size but what else?? "

Preference

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By *imGimMan
over a year ago

london

I’m black and have a big dick, white guys enjoy sucking it as much as the women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's more about the attraction to the person than the equipment.Skin color doesn't matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m black and have a big dick, white guys enjoy sucking it as much as the women "

That's nice, dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m black and have a big dick, white guys enjoy sucking it as much as the women "

Now who is racist ? Saying a " man sucked my cock " would be more prudent would it not ?

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By *imGimMan
over a year ago

london

It’s called irony. But tbh I think black guys start charging by the hour, instead of using us like unpaid sex workers.

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By *imGimMan
over a year ago

london

Yes it does: it seems you are saying I should deny my skin colour: my skin is my heritage, what’s next you gonna tell me j can’t say I’m black.

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By *imGimMan
over a year ago

london

Taking the piss. Not into white ppl. Bisexual

I maybe, but it’s, 5%. Other 95% black and mixed guys only

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Taking the piss. Not into white ppl. Bisexual

I maybe, but it’s, 5%. Other 95% black and mixed guys only "

It's alright you can still charge em to suck your nob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women don’t even like Black guys like that

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

It’s not about the cock it’s about the person who owns it.

A very offensive question actually

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"In black and male. Also bi, I do have sex with white women, but my partner is black, we’re both the same age, 52, but he could pass for 35 easily, i would not have a relationship with a white guy and I’d have to drink a litre of vodka before even considering a one night stand. But physically, white guys don’t age very well, I see guys in their early 40s and look older than I do, we take better care of our bodies. Also being in a relationship with a black guy is just so much better. And yes regardless of cock size sex with black guys so much better.

What a very odd post?!

Loool isn't it just "

Yeah ive noticed this guy post a lot of weird stuff lately alright. There are definitely issues bubbling away under the surface there i think

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By *imGimMan
over a year ago

london

Because we get messages from white guys (so many it’s not even funny) “I’d like to watch…”. Translation: “I would like to watch a private sex show”. It’s reductive. I’m not a free hooker service for white people

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By *imGimMan
over a year ago

london

100%

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By *imGimMan
over a year ago

london

Well of course a black guy calling out people for blatantly racist comments might seem weird? Sorry didn’t know this was a whites only forum.

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By *imGimMan
over a year ago

london

(Some) white folk dont think we do own our own bodies

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London


"Taking the piss. Not into white ppl. Bisexual

I maybe, but it’s, 5%. Other 95% black and mixed guys only "

What about Asians or Latinos? Do they like to suck your big penis?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"(Some) white folk dont think we do own our own bodies"

Would you please reply + quote so we know who you're replying to?

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"In black and male. Also bi, I do have sex with white women, but my partner is black, we’re both the same age, 52, but he could pass for 35 easily, i would not have a relationship with a white guy and I’d have to drink a litre of vodka before even considering a one night stand. But physically, white guys don’t age very well, I see guys in their early 40s and look older than I do, we take better care of our bodies. Also being in a relationship with a black guy is just so much better. And yes regardless of cock size sex with black guys so much better.

What a very odd post?!

Loool isn't it just

Yeah ive noticed this guy post a lot of weird stuff lately alright. There are definitely issues bubbling away under the surface there i think"

I'm black from my great, great grandparents down and I find the racial preference talk creepy...Yeah I noticed him commenting on old posts about racial preference. like he is searching for that specifically. I have mixed raced cousins and I would not liked them and their non-black parent talked about in this way. I also have non-black friends and I would not like them talked about in a derogatory way either.

I have had sex with men of different races and cultures from myself but then I did do international relations as my degree.

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)


"I've been approached to attend QoS nights and had it explained to me that some women just like the contrast in colour"

So I dislike fetishisation of people in general (or physical attributes of people)

But contrast of skin colours is always something I've found attractive, it's with anyone by the way, the hottest was one of my ex's who was white but so pale he almost looked blue... Seeing my tanned olive skin against his did things to me.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London


"In black and male. Also bi, I do have sex with white women, but my partner is black, we’re both the same age, 52, but he could pass for 35 easily, i would not have a relationship with a white guy and I’d have to drink a litre of vodka before even considering a one night stand. But physically, white guys don’t age very well, I see guys in their early 40s and look older than I do, we take better care of our bodies. Also being in a relationship with a black guy is just so much better. And yes regardless of cock size sex with black guys so much better.

What a very odd post?!

Loool isn't it just

Yeah ive noticed this guy post a lot of weird stuff lately alright. There are definitely issues bubbling away under the surface there i think

I'm black from my great, great grandparents down and I find the racial preference talk creepy...Yeah I noticed him commenting on old posts about racial preference. like he is searching for that specifically. I have mixed raced cousins and I would not liked them and their non-black parent talked about in this way. I also have non-black friends and I would not like them talked about in a derogatory way either.

I have had sex with men of different races and cultures from myself but then I did do international relations as my degree. "

Blimey, my degree coursework was quite dull in comparison!

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London


"I've been approached to attend QoS nights and had it explained to me that some women just like the contrast in colour

So I dislike fetishisation of people in general (or physical attributes of people)

But contrast of skin colours is always something I've found attractive, it's with anyone by the way, the hottest was one of my ex's who was white but so pale he almost looked blue... Seeing my tanned olive skin against his did things to me. "

To be fair to him it does get cold in Burnley…

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Well of course a black guy calling out people for blatantly racist comments might seem weird? Sorry didn’t know this was a whites only forum. "

What in the name of jesus are you on about?

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"In black and male. Also bi, I do have sex with white women, but my partner is black, we’re both the same age, 52, but he could pass for 35 easily, i would not have a relationship with a white guy and I’d have to drink a litre of vodka before even considering a one night stand. But physically, white guys don’t age very well, I see guys in their early 40s and look older than I do, we take better care of our bodies. Also being in a relationship with a black guy is just so much better. And yes regardless of cock size sex with black guys so much better.

What a very odd post?!

Loool isn't it just

Yeah ive noticed this guy post a lot of weird stuff lately alright. There are definitely issues bubbling away under the surface there i think

I'm black from my great, great grandparents down and I find the racial preference talk creepy...Yeah I noticed him commenting on old posts about racial preference. like he is searching for that specifically. I have mixed raced cousins and I would not liked them and their non-black parent talked about in this way. I also have non-black friends and I would not like them talked about in a derogatory way either.

I have had sex with men of different races and cultures from myself but then I did do international relations as my degree.

Blimey, my degree coursework was quite dull in comparison! "

Lol! International relations as in international politics. Not as in international ...um...sexual relations. lol!

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"Well of course a black guy calling out people for blatantly racist comments might seem weird? Sorry didn’t know this was a whites only forum.

What in the name of jesus are you on about? "

I wish I knew. I don't think baby Jesus has a clue either.

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Well of course a black guy calling out people for blatantly racist comments might seem weird? Sorry didn’t know this was a whites only forum.

What in the name of jesus are you on about?

I wish I knew. I don't think baby Jesus has a clue either."

Well then i think we're all buggered if that's the case

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

On the flip side, I tend to be attracted to black women, I don’t consider it a fetish, some prefer blondes, some redheads, I happen to find I am attracted to black women, it may be purely aesthetic, but isn’t all physical attraction based upon that to some extent? I grew up up in an area that was ethnically diverse, my formative years were made up of experiences with people from all colours and creeds, and thus my taste developed based on lived experience and not on a fetishised desire. We are allowed to be are we not?

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By *imGimMan
over a year ago

london

Don’t need the £

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Because we get messages from white guys (so many it’s not even funny) “I’d like to watch…”. Translation: “I would like to watch a private sex show”. It’s reductive. I’m not a free hooker service for white people"

We get messages about being watched, and I'm as lily white as they come. I'm practically transparent (but not 100% Caucasian, work that one out!) A lot of the messages you get, we get too. We get ones about big dick size blah blah too.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I just find all of it grotesque.

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