FabSwingers.com forum: Call me by my name

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Random:

If you’re using a pseudonym like me on here and it’s a name. Would you expect people to call you by your real name when they actually meet you in the flesh? Or is the fab name ok?

Would you try and call someone by their real name or instinctively stick with their fab name?

**Sorry my name is not really Steve or Stephen or Esteban.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I meet people I always tell them my real name (which isn’t Dan). Despite this some continue to call me Dan as it’s what they’ve always known me as! I don’t mind either way tbf.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm afraid you will forever be Steve to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d prefer it if people use Annie / Annabel which isn’t my ‘real’ name but I prefer it because of my gender / being trans etc…tho if I trusted the person I might let them know my ‘real’ name or let them call me by another name that I like

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I don't mind either way, obviously I would tell them my real name, if the other person doesn't want to tell that's fine by me

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"Random:

If you’re using a pseudonym like me on here and it’s a name. Would you expect people to call you by your real name when they actually meet you in the flesh? Or is the fab name ok?

Would you try and call someone by their real name or instinctively stick with their fab name?

**Sorry my name is not really Steve or Stephen or Esteban.

Meeting someone face to face I would expect real names to be used.

Trust, honesty and respect.

If it starts with lies can only go downhill from there.

A club or party may be different tho.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

If I told someone my real name I wouldn't expect them to call me by a different one

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I might get mixed up if fake name is a real name (like Steve). But where it's not a name, like Swing, I'd tend to expect reverting to names.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

My name isn't Phil

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

Everyone I have met knows my real name. It still doesn’t stop some of them calling me Russ, Sprouty or Mr Sprout.

I don’t mind either way as I know it’s all in good fun

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By *an1978Woman
over a year ago

GONE/TIMEOUT (No DMs please)

I don't tend to address someone by name in speech nor text (mainly as I'm awful at remembering them anyway)

But it is really hard to remember when you've known someone as a normal username like John or Brian.

Not so easy to accidentally call someone PussyFiller696969

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

My name isn't clit and his isn't cock funnily enough, we have pretty normal names though, we usually introduce ourselves on the evening of the meet.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

You mean people don’t use their real names on here??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You mean people don’t use their real names on here??

You mean people actually meet on here??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I might get mixed up if fake name is a real name (like Steve). But where it's not a name, like Swing, I'd tend to expect reverting to names. "

I imagine people do for a while with names like Steve. They’re the ones I meant. For example I’d find calling you Swing irl kinda weird. But I don’t imagine someone would find it weird calling me Steve. Especially if they’ve known me as Steve for longer than they have as my real name

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You mean people don’t use their real names on here??

You mean people actually meet on here??

Don’t be silly. I’m just freestyling some thoughts. Nobody meets

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My name isn't clit and his isn't cock funnily enough, we have pretty normal names though, we usually introduce ourselves on the evening of the meet.

Yeah I’d find it weird calling you those names obvs

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

I've met people who have called me by my name or by my user name and either is OK with me.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"You mean people don’t use their real names on here??

You mean people actually meet on here??

we did!! And we’re not really T & J

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't tend to address someone by name in speech nor text (mainly as I'm awful at remembering them anyway)

But it is really hard to remember when you've known someone as a normal username like John or Brian.

Not so easy to accidentally call someone PussyFiller696969

The johns and the Brians are the ones I’m thinking of here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Everyone I have met knows my real name. It still doesn’t stop some of them calling me Russ, Sprouty or Mr Sprout.

I don’t mind either way as I know it’s all in good fun

Yeah absolutely. Do you ever find yourself turning to respond when you hear Russ in public?

Sometimes I do with Steve. And have done for the years I’ve used it as a pseudonym

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm afraid you will forever be Steve to me.

You can call me Steve.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

Nero happens to be my real name.

It's not a pseudonym.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nero happens to be my real name.

It's not a pseudonym."

I know. I’ve met you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My real name is bounty hunter because i like chocolate covered coconut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My real names erm well i cant even pronounce it, my british given name is... well its a secret, my realworld nicknames 'gatsby' or gatz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My real name

That’s a point - at the social in Manchester, please no one say ‘hi Flo’

No - just no

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

It all depends on what they want to be called tbh.

If they tell me their real name and ask me to use that, thats what I will try and use.

Otherwise I will use their scene name.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We tell people our real names when we are going to meet. One exception to that was the late Bobby Tupper, we lived too far away to meet but he knew our names.

We prefer to call people by their real names if they're ok with it

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I guess it depends on whether you would introduce yourself as Steve?

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

"Everyone I have met knows my real name. It still doesn’t stop some of them calling me Russ, Sprouty or Mr Sprout.

I don’t mind either way as I know it’s all in good fun

Yeah absolutely. Do you ever find yourself turning to respond when you hear Russ in public?

Sometimes I do with Steve. And have done for the years I’ve used it as a pseudonym "

I’ve never heard anyone say it out and about but if I did, I think I would be tempted to look round to see who was calling but then ignore it and carry on doing what I was doing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I guess it depends on whether you would introduce yourself as Steve?"

Very good

I’m guilty of doing that

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon

I tell people my real name at socials or if I get on well with them. Not many know it to be fair but I can’t have people call me naughty!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use a 'fab name' on here and at clubs. Only people I'm invested in and see regularly will ever know my real name.

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By *igboobstCouple
over a year ago

barrow

Real names definitely

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon

"I use a 'fab name' on here and at clubs. Only people I'm invested in and see regularly will ever know mt real name."

That’s what I mean too. Only people who I’ve had a lot to do with on here know it and it’s very few. I sometimes use a fab name until I really get to know them

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

My nickname was red so I answer to it. I only tell a few people my real name

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Pretty much everyone I know from here calls me Posh... except Bob, and a couple of other people when they're telling me off (that would be Saff and Red).

I think everyone I've met knows my real name though...

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By *ohn8210tCouple
over a year ago

Warwick

We used to be friends with a couple from here , chatted for ages over several months. We met several times at clubs and Bdsm events for well over a year. Then we started going on holiday to Cap D Agde with them , several times over a few years.

The final year we went to Cap with them, they introduced us to some of their friends . One evening we kept getting funny looks from people they obviously knew. Then one awkward moment over dinner one night another couple said “who is K…… you keep talking about ? “ We all felt embarrassed and she said- “ ah , there’s something we’ve been meaning to tell you” . “K….. isn’t my real name ! It’s ………”. ( Not going to say her real name as they are still on here).

No wonder everyone we met with them kept giving us funny looks.

After 3 plus years of meeting them , going on holiday with them , them coming to us and meeting up at clubs, we felt cheated and let down. Their other friends must of thought we were stupid.

We realise people don’t want to give out their real identities early on , but for us we felt like second class friends/ or nobodies that they had just picked up !

We felt differently about them straight away.

We were on holiday with them in the same apartment. All was well but it was never the same again and we drifted apart very soon .

We haven’t spoken or messaged them in over 5 years now.

Everyone has different circumstances we know, but we think after a few meets you’d want to be truthful and honest.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

My real name isn’t Estella. But I’m comfortable being called Estella - although I wouldn’t hide my real name if meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get my real name mostly, occasionally Bella.

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By *tinerant scribeMan
over a year ago

County Durham

I use a club-only name when I go to clubs with a friend.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Any name that you prefer to be called by is your real name. It might not be the name that the government calls you by, but it is no less real.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Some people who know me and my name really well, still call me Mrs KC. I don't mind, but best not in front of people who might wonder WHY Mrs KC

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

I'm more comfortable with people calling me my fab name or pans for short, unless I know someone on here very very well them using my real name would creep me the fuck out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who know me on here know my real name. Usernames usually come up in conversations at socials anyway

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

If I'm meeting I prefer real names. Met someone and they said their real name for example was John. M wanted to catch his attention during a MFM called his name and he was totally oblivious and ignored him. Not for a long time but enough to make me uncomfortable.

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By *iberius61Man
over a year ago

Pontefract

"If you’re using a pseudonym like me on here and it’s a name. Would you expect people to call you by your real name when they actually meet you in the flesh? Or is the fab name ok? "

Half my friends call me Tibs. It's quite funny if I have a BBQ say where I have Internet and 'other' friends present. People call me Tibs and you can see people wondering why is that person calling Dean Tibs, and even stranger, why is he answering them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I'm meeting I prefer real names. Met someone and they said their real name for example was John. M wanted to catch his attention during a MFM called his name and he was totally oblivious and ignored him. Not for a long time but enough to make me uncomfortable. "

I'd agree. If I'm getting that intimate I'd rather know someone's real name. Call me old fashioned!

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I'd agree. If I'm getting that intimate I'd rather know someone's real name. Call me old fashioned!

You old fashioned? No way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd agree. If I'm getting that intimate I'd rather know someone's real name. Call me old fashioned!

You old fashioned? No way

Eighteenth century

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Some people ask, some don't. I'd answer to either.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I'd agree. If I'm getting that intimate I'd rather know someone's real name. Call me old fashioned!

You old fashioned? No way

Eighteenth century

I loved the costumes in Harlots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people I’ve met at socials call me by my real name but in messages or chat lots just call me VG. I’m happy with either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd agree. If I'm getting that intimate I'd rather know someone's real name. Call me old fashioned!

You old fashioned? No way

Eighteenth century

I loved the costumes in Harlots

I am The Dandy Highwayman haha!

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

I’ve been ‘Jack’ on Kik, Reddit, fab etc for quite a few years, and when I’ve met people in real life, even though they normally get told my real name, most still call me Jack, which is fine, it’s almost like an alter ego and I’m very comfortable being called that.

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...

Many of the people I know from Fab I call by their Fab name.

Unless that bloke called spunktrumpet69fannylicker. That's a bit much to be shouting for a beer.....

Winston

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I once spent four or five nights a week with a guy for over 6 months.

His user name was Bob, and even now, quite a few years on, that's what I call him.

It wasn't his name, but we'd chatted using that name for so long that in my head that's how I think of him. To remember his real name I have to go into my Facebook messages to see it!

Thankfully he didn't seem to object.

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By *tewiethompsonMan
over a year ago

Colchester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do tell people my first name, but i prefer my fab name! I sometimes forget and give people irl my fab name

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

People using different first names is one of the weirdest things on Fab imo. It's called signing up with your brain (ie your imagination) in your cock I think.

Also I HATE the name Simon! Why are there so many freaking "xxx Simons" on this site?

Until people know you at least to some degree, they will always associate a name with someone else who shares it! Ok when they know something or other they will quickly transition over to the concept of 'you', but why introduce yourself this way??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People using different first names is one of the weirdest things on Fab imo. It's called signing up with your brain (ie your imagination) in your cock I think.

Also I HATE the name Simon! Why are there so many freaking "xxx Simons" on this site?

I love your username btw. Always makes me chuckle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like people I meet to know my real name and use that rather than NBVN.... which is also a bit awkward to say

NBVN x

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

People call me Alice when they meet me. I like it. It means they’ve read my profile.

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

If we’d agreed to meet then we would know each other’s real names by then

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I don't mind either x

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Lucky when I meet people they tend to not use my username

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I use the diminutive form of my name on fab and the full name outside of fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the kink scene many people don't know my real name so use my scene name which is different to here

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Any name that you prefer to be called by is your real name. It might not be the name that the government calls you by, but it is no less real. "

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We usually get rumbled when we start chatting on WhatsApp because that's got our real names on it. Then we have some explaining to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think about four people on Fab know my real name. I very rarely give it out. I have another name which I've gone by for over 3 years or I'm happy with Bertie.

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...

Only 2 people on Fab know my real name. Lady Astor obvs, and 1 other who keeps forgetting my surname.

Winston

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doubt anyone will get to know my name. I won't give it to anyone except in person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tell people my real name but still get called Nell by some. That's cool. One guy I've known for 7 years from here and have seen in person many times has me on his phone as Nell.

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By *ayjay199xMan
over a year ago

london

Real name if it contains numbers lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather be called by my real name. Fewer syllables

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd rather be called by my real name. Fewer syllables

Easier to shout out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd rather be called by my real name. Fewer syllables

Easier to shout out?"

You tell me

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Nicknames

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd rather be called by my real name. Fewer syllables

Easier to shout out?

You tell me

We can test it.

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

Because _adyjayne has been my BDSM scene name for more years than I care to count I'm pretty much used to people calling me Jayne.

There are plenty on the bdsm scene who only know me as Jayne so it's as natural to me as my other name.

My best friend is the same, in fact myself, her husband etc call her by her scene name all the time - even her family know that she has an official name and the name those close to her use... And my parents come to think of it. My parents call her by her scene name but have her official name on the facestalk app

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd rather be called by my real name. Fewer syllables

Easier to shout out?

You tell me

We can test it. "

As long as you don't confuse my fab name with someone else's

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Lucky when I meet people they tend to not use my username

Not until recently anyway…

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By *orchOliverMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

I get called Oliver, which is fine by me.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I’ve been referred to as Tea by friends for years. Many people, even when they know my real name still call me that.

I think that a good fab name ‘fits’, it’s like the name we choose for ourselves in this community

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

"Nero happens to be my real name.

It's not a pseudonym.

I know. I’ve met you

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Yes, but I was Tarquin-Bertram that evening. Keep it yourself...

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

We don't use our real names on here, so I don't think anyone would ever know them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pob was a childhood nickname

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"People using different first names is one of the weirdest things on Fab imo. It's called signing up with your brain (ie your imagination) in your cock I think."

Us not using our birth names has nothing to do with what we signed-up with. It's far more to do with privacy and occupation.

There are whole industries out there where people would not even use their 'real' names on e.g. facebook.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"Lucky when I meet people they tend to not use my username

Not until recently anyway… "

Ah damn you! Damn you all!

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan
over a year ago

Willenhall

"Techno" will do for short.

Anyway, I always had a thing for Anita Doth even if it wasn't for her music.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t always share my real name. I had a situation recently where someone who knows it contacted one of my veris and referred to me by my real name and couldn’t understand why I was vex (hence now my veris are all hidden

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"People using different first names is one of the weirdest things on Fab imo. It's called signing up with your brain (ie your imagination) in your cock I think.

Us not using our birth names has nothing to do with what we signed-up with. It's far more to do with privacy and occupation.

There are whole industries out there where people would not even use their 'real' names on e.g. facebook."

Some of us have pretty distinct real names (e.g. not Dave or Sarah) and so keeping it under wraps is necessary to maintain a bit of anonymity. I give my real name to people I trust.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"People using different first names is one of the weirdest things on Fab imo. It's called signing up with your brain (ie your imagination) in your cock I think.

Us not using our birth names has nothing to do with what we signed-up with. It's far more to do with privacy and occupation.

There are whole industries out there where people would not even use their 'real' names on e.g. facebook.

Some of us have pretty distinct real names (e.g. not Dave or Sarah) and so keeping it under wraps is necessary to maintain a bit of anonymity. I give my real name to people I trust. "

Your name isn't that distinct, Roger. It's just a surprise to find a lady called it

Oops. Sorry I real named you. My bad

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"People using different first names is one of the weirdest things on Fab imo. It's called signing up with your brain (ie your imagination) in your cock I think.

Us not using our birth names has nothing to do with what we signed-up with. It's far more to do with privacy and occupation.

There are whole industries out there where people would not even use their 'real' names on e.g. facebook.

Some of us have pretty distinct real names (e.g. not Dave or Sarah) and so keeping it under wraps is necessary to maintain a bit of anonymity. I give my real name to people I trust.

Your name isn't that distinct, Roger. It's just a surprise to find a lady called it

Oops. Sorry I real named you. My bad

Fucking hell, Karen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People using different first names is one of the weirdest things on Fab imo. It's called signing up with your brain (ie your imagination) in your cock I think.

Us not using our birth names has nothing to do with what we signed-up with. It's far more to do with privacy and occupation.

There are whole industries out there where people would not even use their 'real' names on e.g. facebook.

Some of us have pretty distinct real names (e.g. not Dave or Sarah) and so keeping it under wraps is necessary to maintain a bit of anonymity. I give my real name to people I trust. "

Mine is very distinct. Even when I've dated men they've still not used it as they got used to my alt-name!

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

"People using different first names is one of the weirdest things on Fab imo. It's called signing up with your brain (ie your imagination) in your cock I think.

Us not using our birth names has nothing to do with what we signed-up with. It's far more to do with privacy and occupation.

There are whole industries out there where people would not even use their 'real' names on e.g. facebook.

Some of us have pretty distinct real names (e.g. not Dave or Sarah) and so keeping it under wraps is necessary to maintain a bit of anonymity. I give my real name to people I trust. "

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Do you trust me, Maud?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t always share my real name. I had a situation recently where someone who knows it contacted one of my veris and referred to me by my real name and couldn’t understand why I was vex (hence now my veris are all hidden

Agree

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"People using different first names is one of the weirdest things on Fab imo. It's called signing up with your brain (ie your imagination) in your cock I think.

Us not using our birth names has nothing to do with what we signed-up with. It's far more to do with privacy and occupation.

There are whole industries out there where people would not even use their 'real' names on e.g. facebook.

Some of us have pretty distinct real names (e.g. not Dave or Sarah) and so keeping it under wraps is necessary to maintain a bit of anonymity. I give my real name to people I trust.

Your name isn't that distinct, Roger. It's just a surprise to find a lady called it

Oops. Sorry I real named you. My bad

Fucking hell, Karen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t have my name on my profile but some of the guys on here follow me on insta so obviously know my real name. It freaks me out when they address me as my real name on here. Makes me really uneasy but I don’t know why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use names specifically for fab, for several reasons.

One being our comfort zone regarding discretion.

Another, it kinda helps us with the role play side of things. Mrs loves reading messages, and hearing on the phone how I refer to her as a different name, almost a different person, brings out the naughty in her.

We don't have a particular rule but find, if we meet the once, we tend to not share our real names, if though we arrange to meet again and feel a friendship could begin, we'll give our real names.

We do have stand out names and the wrong person knowing could cause us some real issues.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"People using different first names is one of the weirdest things on Fab imo. It's called signing up with your brain (ie your imagination) in your cock I think.

Us not using our birth names has nothing to do with what we signed-up with. It's far more to do with privacy and occupation.

There are whole industries out there where people would not even use their 'real' names on e.g. facebook.

Some of us have pretty distinct real names (e.g. not Dave or Sarah) and so keeping it under wraps is necessary to maintain a bit of anonymity. I give my real name to people I trust.

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Do you trust me, Maud?"

We may find out soon, Ethelred

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My real name is not Woody. I would not want somebody screaming that out mid orgasm

If on a social or meeting from here, I’m suppose it’s like a nickname, and that’s how we know people. I’d introduce myself as Woody but then offer my real name, after all we want to get to know each other, don’t we?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have fab name I tell people.

Not many know my real name.

But, I'd prefer he know my real name before he stuck his penis in me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have fab name I tell people.

Not many know my real name.

But, I'd prefer he know my real name before he stuck his penis in me.

Do you need my penis’s name too?

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Got funny looks in the pub last night when I was at the bar and called across to our table "Cumguzzler, do you want ice?"

Apologies if there IS some called cumguzzler.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Got funny looks in the pub last night when I was at the bar and called across to our table "Cumguzzler, do you want ice?"

Apologies if there IS some called cumguzzler."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use the name on my passport so its one of the three or its a fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have fab name I tell people.

Not many know my real name.

But, I'd prefer he know my real name before he stuck his penis in me.

Do you need my penis’s name too?

Obviously

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

They can call me whatever they like if I like them enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t have my name on my profile but some of the guys on here follow me on insta so obviously know my real name. It freaks me out when they address me as my real name on here. Makes me really uneasy but I don’t know why

Sorry Sharon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have fab name I tell people.

Not many know my real name.

But, I'd prefer he know my real name before he stuck his penis in me.

Do you need my penis’s name too?

Obviously"

I’d you to like to meet Mr Hardy…

It’s gone weird now hasn’t it?

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By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester

When meeting in person we prefer to be called by our real names. Marmaduke and Gertrude are such fine names.

Frank

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I'm not overly fond of my real name or my username to be quite honest. But I take the stance that so long as I know that it's me that you are talking to me then you can call me what you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry Sharon"

Haha it’s Shazza to you

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

If I meet people I tell them my real name, I still end up getting called Tinder half the time though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry Sharon

Haha it’s Shazza to you

Yeah, but Soz Shazza just seems a bit off

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

I have really good friends, that I met on Fab, that still call me Ariel more than my real name... I don't mind it tbh

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I’m Nora to everyone, even my close friends who know my name still call me Nora.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

People call me Meli all the time.

Even during sex.

It's rare to hear my actual name and so when I do/read it, I melt inside a little. Get a bit soft and

like aww, you see the woman behind the caricature of a millennial who waffles.

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...

"People call me Meli all the time.

Even during sex.

It's rare to hear my actual name and so when I do/read it, I melt inside a little. Get a bit soft and

like aww, you see the woman behind the caricature of a millennial who waffles.

I call you Meli when I'm having sex.

Admittedly I'm usually on my own, but you know, it still counts, right.

Winston

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

"I'm not overly fond of my real name or my username to be quite honest. But I take the stance that so long as I know that it's me that you are talking to me then you can call me what you want"

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I'm calling you Manfred. It's rather, umm, 'becoming'.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

"People call me Meli all the time.

Even during sex.

It's rare to hear my actual name and so when I do/read it, I melt inside a little. Get a bit soft and

like aww, you see the woman behind the caricature of a millennial who waffles."

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Henceforth I shall call you Meli-nnial.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"People call me Meli all the time.

Even during sex.

It's rare to hear my actual name and so when I do/read it, I melt inside a little. Get a bit soft and

like aww, you see the woman behind the caricature of a millennial who waffles.

I call you Meli when I'm having sex.

Admittedly I'm usually on my own, but you know, it still counts, right.

Winston

Winston you saucy devil!

Yeah, still counts. Solo play is a valid form of sex.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

In person, I'll usually introduce myself as Lorenzo and then also offer my much more mundane, real name as well. I'd not be offended if someone used either

LvM

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...

"People call me Meli all the time.

Even during sex.

It's rare to hear my actual name and so when I do/read it, I melt inside a little. Get a bit soft and

like aww, you see the woman behind the caricature of a millennial who waffles.

I call you Meli when I'm having sex.

Admittedly I'm usually on my own, but you know, it still counts, right.

Winston

Winston you saucy devil!

Yeah, still counts. Solo play is a valid form of sex.

Oooooooooooaaaarrrrrgggghhhhhhooooft Meliiiiii.......

*falls asleep

Winston

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

"Random:

If you’re using a pseudonym like me on here and it’s a name. Would you expect people to call you by your real name when they actually meet you in the flesh? Or is the fab name ok?

Would you try and call someone by their real name or instinctively stick with their fab name?

**Sorry my name is not really Steve or Stephen or Esteban.

I alwaya thought your name was Princess Consuela Bananahammock anyway

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

I use my middle name on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather people called me by my real name than my Fab name when meeting.

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