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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Please do

Make my nipples tingle with your musings

Recently, I’ve been rather surprised by someone - I’ll not say why, except it was pleasantly so.

Have you ever made a decision about a person, stuck with it - then realised you probably made it too quickly?

It’s not easy to say you were wrong , you judged without any cause to?

Tell me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah i have. i used to work in hospitality, so you kinda get used to making snap decisions about people cos you have to. More often than not, my judgement is pretty spot on, with only minor variations as I know them further.

One major example of being wrong was someone that I made an opinion on, nothing negative, but just nothing like I thought she would be. I married her and then found out what she was really like.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"yeah i have. i used to work in hospitality, so you kinda get used to making snap decisions about people cos you have to. More often than not, my judgement is pretty spot on, with only minor variations as I know them further.

One major example of being wrong was someone that I made an opinion on, nothing negative, but just nothing like I thought she would be. I married her and then found out what she was really like....."

Yes … I’ve learnt people aren’t who they make themselves out to be

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Yes!

Many, many times. Both good and bad...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes!

Many, many times. Both good and bad..."

I usually give the benefit of the doubt, but I judged way too quickly.

We’re human

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By *ustdaveHantsMan
over a year ago

chippenham

I'm known as judgey mc judge face within the regiment

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Yes!

Many, many times. Both good and bad...

I usually give the benefit of the doubt, but I judged way too quickly.

We’re human "

Darling. We are super human.

Or just super humans

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm known as judgey mc judge face within the regiment "

Yikes

That’s not good

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes!

Many, many times. Both good and bad...

I usually give the benefit of the doubt, but I judged way too quickly.

We’re human

Darling. We are super human.

Or just super humans "

Yes.we.are

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By *ustdaveHantsMan
over a year ago

chippenham


"I'm known as judgey mc judge face within the regiment

Yikes

That’s not good"

It's good for the job I do but not in normal life..... I judged one 15 years ago and married her for 10 badddddd judgement

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm known as judgey mc judge face within the regiment

Yikes

That’s not good

It's good for the job I do but not in normal life..... I judged one 15 years ago and married her for 10 badddddd judgement "

Not necessarily the same as judging someone unfairly first

I think we’re all able to say we’ve met someone, liked them - then realised they’re awful

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Did you judge in a good, or bad way, relatively speaking x

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I fail to see how meeting/chatting with someone, assuming they are nice, only to find they are a twat "judging someone"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Did you judge in a good, or bad way, relatively speaking x"

I judged incorrectly ….

Personas on here can be misleading and I think I’m too cynical

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

*is

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I fail to see how meeting/chatting with someone, assuming they are nice, only to find they are a twat "judging someone" "

That’s not

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

OP this is not judging. This is being let down.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Did you judge in a good, or bad way, relatively speaking x

I judged incorrectly ….

Personas on here can be misleading and I think I’m too cynical "

Cynical is useful here x

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"OP this is not judging. This is being let down."

The fab motto X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP this is not judging. This is being let down."

I didn’t say it was

I judged - before knowing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to brag or anything but my judgements are always pretty spot on.

I feel I've been in company of enough dicks/twats to spot them a mile off now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always been good at reading people from the get go. Sometimes I've doubted myself and gave people the 'benefit of the doubt' but have always been proven right. If your gut tells you something about someone, listen to it always.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not to brag or anything but my judgements are always pretty spot on.

I feel I've been in company of enough dicks/twats to spot them a mile off now. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've always been good at reading people from the get go. Sometimes I've doubted myself and gave people the 'benefit of the doubt' but have always been proven right. If your gut tells you something about someone, listen to it always."

It can occasionally be wrong

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By *edsmudgeMan
over a year ago

oxford

I never judge, occasionally, peoples cards do not let them tap at my counter .I live for these opportunities to say

“Ah sir, it’s just asking if, you wouldn’t mind slipping it in the bottom”

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I never judge, occasionally, peoples cards do not let them tap at my counter .I live for these opportunities to say

“Ah sir, it’s just asking if, you wouldn’t mind slipping it in the bottom”"

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

I would rather use something else to make your nipples tingle rather than my musings.....

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

No. I sit quietly and they prove me right over time. I always trust my gut and feelings. Have I missed out on some good friendships yes. But there is always a reason why it doesn't feel right

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would rather use something else to make your nipples tingle rather than my musings..... "

One could ask what ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No. I sit quietly and they prove me right over time. I always trust my gut and feelings. Have I missed out on some good friendships yes. But there is always a reason why it doesn't feel right "

Yes … that’s true !!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"OP this is not judging. This is being let down.

I didn’t say it was

I judged - before knowing

"

I guess for me judging/judgment carries a negative connotation.

I'd be more likely to use the word assume, but that's just me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP this is not judging. This is being let down.

I didn’t say it was

I judged - before knowing

I guess for me judging/judgment carries a negative connotation.

I'd be more likely to use the word assume, but that's just me "

Fair point - yes

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"No. I sit quietly and they prove me right over time. I always trust my gut and feelings. Have I missed out on some good friendships yes. But there is always a reason why it doesn't feel right "

Would they have actually been good friendships though?

Good times maybe but not true friends.

Again, that's just how I see it

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol


"I would rather use something else to make your nipples tingle rather than my musings.....

One could ask what ?"

My etchings......

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Fair point - yes "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would rather use something else to make your nipples tingle rather than my musings.....

One could ask what ?

My etchings......

"

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