FabSwingers.com forum: A meet build up….

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do people see this as just as important to the meets itself?

It’s where you tease and provoke delicious imagination sparks right?

It’s how you set the tone for the tunes ahead?

Not necessarily giving all away but just planting those little seeds of filth?

What’s your thoughts fab family

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mostly talk about the weather and what they’ve had for tea. I’m shit at Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like the anticipation and feeling before a meet, especially when you both really want to meet each other and that energy is there. although I don’t tend to talk that much before the meet because I like to save conversation for when we do meet, if that makes sense…

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I mostly talk about the weather and what they’ve had for tea. I’m shit at Fab. "

I only ask the boring stuff like mothers maiden name or colour of their first car… sometimes I push the chat to pets they have had

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I do like the anticipation and feeling before a meet, especially when you both really want to meet each other and that energy is there. although I don’t tend to talk that much before the meet because I like to save conversation for when we do meet, if that makes sense…"

Yeah makes sense … keep it interactive but don’t burn out ha

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By *handlerMonicaCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

I wouldn't say it's as important as the meet itself, but a little bit of chat is nice, so you're not going in totally cold

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wouldn't say it's as important as the meet itself, but a little bit of chat is nice, so you're not going in totally cold"

Keeping the interest ….

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's valuable but nothing compared to the meeting

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's valuable but nothing compared to the meeting "

Valuable is good…. What if you agreed to meet …then no chat or interaction for a week until the day before the meet ….

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Maybe it's different being a couple, but I don't really need much teasing before a meet. My husband and I get eachother excited about a meet. Our build up tends to be more practical, so whoever's joining us knows what we like and don't like. Plus I like to keep in touch so they're reassured that it'll all go ahead.

If we've agreed to a meet we're already excited about it

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

It’s the best bit about me. I’ve very good build up game but then I’m a shocking disappointment on meeting.

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

I prefer not to talk about "what we're going to do when we meet", as a lot of the times, that's all the person wants, just a wank fodder, not the actual meet. I don't even tell them what I am planning to wear, and go very vague regarding any "requests" they may have.

We would discuss soft and hard limits, but that's about as far as I'd go nowadays.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe it's different being a couple, but I don't really need much teasing before a meet. My husband and I get eachother excited about a meet. Our build up tends to be more practical, so whoever's joining us knows what we like and don't like. Plus I like to keep in touch so they're reassured that it'll all go ahead.

If we've agreed to a meet we're already excited about it

Wel yes you have each other for the excitement

But seems keeping in touch is good too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s the best bit about me. I’ve very good build up game but then I’m a shocking disappointment on meeting.

Like a Big Mac? The pictures are amazing then you end up with a squished mess when it arrives in the soggy box?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I prefer not to talk about "what we're going to do when we meet", as a lot of the times, that's all the person wants, just a wank fodder, not the actual meet. I don't even tell them what I am planning to wear, and go very vague regarding any "requests" they may have.

We would discuss soft and hard limits, but that's about as far as I'd go nowadays. "

Yeah that makes sense.. but again communication is needed

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Do people see this as just as important to the meets itself?

It’s where you tease and provoke delicious imagination sparks right?

It’s how you set the tone for the tunes ahead?

Not necessarily giving all away but just planting those little seeds of filth?

What’s your thoughts fab family

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I don't like to do this. In fact back when I used to do meets outside of clubs nothing put me off more than someone going on about what we would do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mostly talk about the weather and what they’ve had for tea. I’m shit at Fab. "

This is me, I don't do the sexy text stuff with people I want to do the sex with. I just want to know what they like to eat, to see if I like it too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do people see this as just as important to the meets itself?

It’s where you tease and provoke delicious imagination sparks right?

It’s how you set the tone for the tunes ahead?

Not necessarily giving all away but just planting those little seeds of filth?

What’s your thoughts fab family

I don't like to do this. In fact back when I used to do meets outside of clubs nothing put me off more than someone going on about what we would do "

I said not saying everything were going to do but just provoking imagination sparks…. I didn’t mean a detailed break down of the meet

0959 meet at hotel car park

1001 walk in to hotel

1009 get to hotel room door

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Do people see this as just as important to the meets itself?

It’s where you tease and provoke delicious imagination sparks right?

It’s how you set the tone for the tunes ahead?

Not necessarily giving all away but just planting those little seeds of filth?

What’s your thoughts fab family

I don't like to do this. In fact back when I used to do meets outside of clubs nothing put me off more than someone going on about what we would do "

Got to admit I’m in agreement here! Whilst I like some communication and to know that the guy is definitely very interested in meeting me - I’m not remotely interested in explicit chat. I’m on fab to HAVE amazing sex - not discuss it in lurid detail.

Historically I also found that guys who want to discuss sex in intimate detail are usually the fantasists who had no intention of actually meeting and let you down at the last minute or just blank you on the day of the meet/don’t turn up.

So no thanks - please.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do people see this as just as important to the meets itself?

It’s where you tease and provoke delicious imagination sparks right?

It’s how you set the tone for the tunes ahead?

Not necessarily giving all away but just planting those little seeds of filth?

What’s your thoughts fab family

I don't like to do this. In fact back when I used to do meets outside of clubs nothing put me off more than someone going on about what we would do

So no thanks - please.

Again… I didn’t mean exact details of the meet … I meant little sparks of how you’re feeling about the meet… how it’s making you react when you think about it…. If you’re nervous, excited or any other feelings …. Set the tone as in discussing the ‘limits’ …. Sparking thoughts as in how you’ll be made to feel relaxed… shared feelings that kind of thing … I didn’t say ‘oh I’m going to discuss how I’m going to bend you over the chair in the corner of the room and fuck you like you’ve never been fucked’ because that’s not what I meant

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Do people see this as just as important to the meets itself?

It’s where you tease and provoke delicious imagination sparks right?

It’s how you set the tone for the tunes ahead?

Not necessarily giving all away but just planting those little seeds of filth?

What’s your thoughts fab family

I don't like to do this. In fact back when I used to do meets outside of clubs nothing put me off more than someone going on about what we would do

I said not saying everything were going to do but just provoking imagination sparks…. I didn’t mean a detailed break down of the meet

0959 meet at hotel car park

1001 walk in to hotel

1009 get to hotel room door

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no for me talk is to arrange the where and when and quick discussion of the likes. I don't want any chit chat once that is sorted.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do people see this as just as important to the meets itself?

It’s where you tease and provoke delicious imagination sparks right?

It’s how you set the tone for the tunes ahead?

Not necessarily giving all away but just planting those little seeds of filth?

What’s your thoughts fab family

I don't like to do this. In fact back when I used to do meets outside of clubs nothing put me off more than someone going on about what we would do

I said not saying everything were going to do but just provoking imagination sparks…. I didn’t mean a detailed break down of the meet

0959 meet at hotel car park

1001 walk in to hotel

1009 get to hotel room door

no for me talk is to arrange the where and when and quick discussion of the likes. I don't want any chit chat once that is sorted. "

Perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want a full script but a little teasing and dirty talk is important the week building up to the meet. Sexual tension makes seeing each other a whole lot more exciting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Seeds of filth. I am appalling/excellent at that, depending on your perspective.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't want a full script but a little teasing and dirty talk is important the week building up to the meet. Sexual tension makes seeing each other a whole lot more exciting. "

My thoughts exactly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes. Seeds of filth. I am appalling/excellent at that, depending on your perspective.

And what are the criteria for the differing perspectives ? :p

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I like to spend the time between making the date and the actual meet lowering expectations. I'm very subtle and very good at it.

That way they think I'm amazing by the time they actually meet me

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"I don't want a full script but a little teasing and dirty talk is important the week building up to the meet. Sexual tension makes seeing each other a whole lot more exciting. "
I think if your looking to meet 121 or a small group then perhaps this is important. I tend to just do gangbangs so I don't feel it's as important

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

"Do people see this as just as important to the meets itself?

It’s where you tease and provoke delicious imagination sparks right?

It’s how you set the tone for the tunes ahead?

Not necessarily giving all away but just planting those little seeds of filth?

What’s your thoughts fab family

I don't like to do this. In fact back when I used to do meets outside of clubs nothing put me off more than someone going on about what we would do

I said not saying everything were going to do but just provoking imagination sparks…. I didn’t mean a detailed break down of the meet

0959 meet at hotel car park

1001 walk in to hotel

1009 get to hotel room door

no for me talk is to arrange the where and when and quick discussion of the likes. I don't want any chit chat once that is sorted. "

This!

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

We would discuss soft and hard limits, but that's about as far as I'd go nowadays. "

Same.

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