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Why are my pics only fabbed by guys?

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By *appyfazer600 OP   Man
over a year ago

Chippenham

When I post a new pic the only fabbing it seems to generate is from guys. I'm straight and assume guys realise that. I take it as a compliment but would definitely prefer it to be women. Is it primarily down to the fact that there are many more men on here? Do women avoid fabbing so they don't stimulate unwanted attention perhaps? Thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You must give off gay vibes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think generally, Men tend to be more visually stimulated and Women may tend to avoid Fabbing pictures in order to avoid messages assuming a Fab means they want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is all down to ratios, percentage and the summer solstice

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Probably down to numbers.

I can't speak for other women but if I see a pic I like, I will fab regardless if I receive a message for doing so. Most guys will just send a "thanks for the fab" which is no big deal x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think generally, Men tend to be more visually stimulated and Women may tend to avoid Fabbing pictures in order to avoid messages assuming a Fab means they want to meet."

^^^^

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By *appyfazer600 OP   Man
over a year ago

Chippenham

Yes, I think you make a good point

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By *ictoria_1976TV/TS
over a year ago

Lanson

It you want to avoid this Im sure you can block all men...

Probably means you'll get no fabs tho!

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

i get a lot of fabs from men too,,, im straight theres no harm done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t fab pictures because men take it as an opportunity to harass me in my dms lol

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

This has been answered many a time before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my case, it's because Erect Jim like winding me up.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Also women are more likely to be in stealth mode. Me, I like living dangerously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also women are more likely to be in stealth mode. Me, I like living dangerously "
rah and you really never look at me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This has been answered many a time before "

has it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This has been answered many a time before "

Didn’t you know that all straight guys have to let us know that they DEFINITELY aren’t gay

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

I get the same but then realise I’m posting lingerie photos and understood

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"This has been answered many a time before

has it? "

You know this

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"This has been answered many a time before

Didn’t you know that all straight guys have to let us know that they DEFINITELY aren’t gay "

True

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus


"In my case, it's because Erect Jim like winding me up. "

You mean Jim’s aren’t sincere? I’m heart broken

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live


"When I post a new pic the only fabbing it seems to generate is from guys. I'm straight and assume guys realise that. I take it as a compliment but would definitely prefer it to be women. Is it primarily down to the fact that there are many more men on here? Do women avoid fabbing so they don't stimulate unwanted attention perhaps? Thoughts? "

Fabbed a few but 44 public pics of chest s d bum ? Really I fit through them disappointed as no cock pic ?? Maybe that’s why x

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"When I post a new pic the only fabbing it seems to generate is from guys. I'm straight and assume guys realise that. I take it as a compliment but would definitely prefer it to be women. Is it primarily down to the fact that there are many more men on here? Do women avoid fabbing so they don't stimulate unwanted attention perhaps? Thoughts? "

It's the hoover.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This has been answered many a time before "
who cares it might get asked again tomorrow but to those it matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my case, it's because Erect Jim like winding me up. "

See, when EJ fabs one of my pics I'm dead flattered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my case, it's because Erect Jim like winding me up. "

I wasn't winding you up.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"This has been answered many a time before who cares it might get asked again tomorrow but to those it matters "

Can use the forum search.

These are 'repeats' because there is no originality to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my case, it's because Erect Jim like winding me up.

See, when EJ fabs one of my pics I'm dead flattered "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooh you are fit though, where’s the sky remote

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

If I really like a pic I'll Fab it regardless of the risk of messaging, but I suppose like others have said women aren't necessarily as visually stimulated as men are. A lot of the time I'll say I like a pic out loud to C then not actually Fab it I've been working on that, I do it on other social media too.

There are also substantially less single women and couples are rarely looking for single guys

P

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By *appyfazer600 OP   Man
over a year ago

Chippenham

Thank you all for your comments..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

very fit guy judging by the pics of him.

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds


"When I post a new pic the only fabbing it seems to generate is from guys. I'm straight and assume guys realise that. I take it as a compliment but would definitely prefer it to be women. Is it primarily down to the fact that there are many more men on here? Do women avoid fabbing so they don't stimulate unwanted attention perhaps? Thoughts? "

Guys fab to help a brother out. Not me though, I don't care if you sink or swim.

I read on here in the past that some don't like to fab as it beings them attention they don't want (they may like the look of someone but they don't want to talk or be pestered by them)

C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my case, it's because Erect Jim like winding me up.

You mean Jim’s aren’t sincere? I’m heart broken "

He's toying with your emotions, Ben.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This has been answered many a time before

Didn’t you know that all straight guys have to let us know that they DEFINITELY aren’t gay "

Hold. The. Phone.

You mean not EVERY guy on here is gay?

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By *ust A Dad BodMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I only get fabbed by men too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just forget to do it. Unless I'm interested and want to catch their attention a bit it doesn't really cross my mind.

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

A fab is a fab...just like a compliment is a compliment...I'll take it, regardless who it's from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate it when ppl assume... Maybe ya just being polite.

So you get a big from me

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Maybe more of you doing the housework? That would definitely appeal to us women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you've pretty much hit the nail on the head OP

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)


"When I post a new pic the only fabbing it seems to generate is from guys. I'm straight and assume guys realise that. I take it as a compliment but would definitely prefer it to be women. Is it primarily down to the fact that there are many more men on here? Do women avoid fabbing so they don't stimulate unwanted attention perhaps? Thoughts? "

Take the positives.. bro code... whatever...

You have a good body... others recognise it..

Accept the compliment...

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"When I post a new pic the only fabbing it seems to generate is from guys. I'm straight and assume guys realise that. I take it as a compliment but would definitely prefer it to be women. Is it primarily down to the fact that there are many more men on here? Do women avoid fabbing so they don't stimulate unwanted attention perhaps? Thoughts? "

I never fab men's photos. Not because I don't like them, just because in the past 9 times out of 10 I received a "thank you, wanna see more" message or messages asking to meet, so I just stopped.

To me a fab is a fab, not an invitation to start a conversation.

Missus

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By *elvet_OrchidWoman
over a year ago

Banbury


"I get the same but then realise I’m posting lingerie photos and understood "

You wear it well

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"When I post a new pic the only fabbing it seems to generate is from guys. I'm straight and assume guys realise that. I take it as a compliment but would definitely prefer it to be women. Is it primarily down to the fact that there are many more men on here? Do women avoid fabbing so they don't stimulate unwanted attention perhaps? Thoughts? "

Women hate you.

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By *appyfazer600 OP   Man
over a year ago

Chippenham


"When I post a new pic the only fabbing it seems to generate is from guys. I'm straight and assume guys realise that. I take it as a compliment but would definitely prefer it to be women. Is it primarily down to the fact that there are many more men on here? Do women avoid fabbing so they don't stimulate unwanted attention perhaps? Thoughts?

It's the hoover.

A"

What, the hoover makes me look gay? I'm liberated lol

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By *atfuckerbristolMan
over a year ago

Wells

Think of a fab as a gesture of appreciation rather than a flirt. I’ll fab a guy now and then too.

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By *appyfazer600 OP   Man
over a year ago

Chippenham


"Maybe more of you doing the housework? That would definitely appeal to us women "

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"When I post a new pic the only fabbing it seems to generate is from guys. I'm straight and assume guys realise that. I take it as a compliment but would definitely prefer it to be women. Is it primarily down to the fact that there are many more men on here? Do women avoid fabbing so they don't stimulate unwanted attention perhaps? Thoughts? "

Maybe post some pics of you doing some construction work, maybe dressed up as a mechanic in dirty overalls or naughty soldier definitely get more women fabbing then.

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By *appyfazer600 OP   Man
over a year ago

Chippenham


"When I post a new pic the only fabbing it seems to generate is from guys. I'm straight and assume guys realise that. I take it as a compliment but would definitely prefer it to be women. Is it primarily down to the fact that there are many more men on here? Do women avoid fabbing so they don't stimulate unwanted attention perhaps? Thoughts?

Maybe post some pics of you doing some construction work, maybe dressed up as a mechanic in dirty overalls or naughty soldier definitely get more women fabbing then. "

Mmm, maybe I will lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will now fab all your mics mike then bum you in the anus hole gently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will now fab all your mics mike then bum you in the anus hole gently "

Who says romance is dead!

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