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By *iddlesticks OP   Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

To be honest, I’m not an overly proud man, I’ll take what I can

Would you, could you have sex with someone who you thought wasn’t actually that into you.

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Oh dear fiddles. I'd throw you a bone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, sex is crap without that passion & connection

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By *eneralPMan
over a year ago

other

I’d take a sympathy wink. Nevermind wank or shag

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By *iddlesticks OP   Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"Oh dear fiddles. I'd throw you a bone "

I’ll be your dog.

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere


"Oh dear fiddles. I'd throw you a bone

I’ll be your dog. "

There's a good boy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no chance ....

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Given a few in my times. Always felt awful after. Avoid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Rather have a wank, equally unsatisfying, less drama.

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By *andy and DannyCouple
over a year ago

Barnstaple


"To be honest, I’m not an overly proud man, I’ll take what I can

Would you, could you have sex with someone who you thought wasn’t actually that into you. "
not really buddy ,attraction and conection are pretty important

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By *iddlesticks OP   Man
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"To be honest, I’m not an overly proud man, I’ll take what I can

Would you, could you have sex with someone who you thought wasn’t actually that into you. not really buddy ,attraction and conection are pretty important "

In reality I’m with you. Definitely connection which grows attraction in my book.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has anybody seen a sympathy shag request from a woman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest, I’m not an overly proud man, I’ll take what I can

Would you, could you have sex with someone who you thought wasn’t actually that into you. not really buddy ,attraction and conection are pretty important

In reality I’m with you. Definitely connection which grows attraction in my book. "

^ditto^

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I would, beggars cant be choosers afterall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is my fear! Men will sleep with anyone and say anything to you just to get sex

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"This is my fear! Men will sleep with anyone and say anything to you just to get sex "

The any hole's a goal!

This is exactly my fear too... and one of the many many reasons I don't believe anyone when they say they're into me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had some of the best sex of my life with women I might not have really been attracted too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just coz they’re not into me, doesn’t mean I’m not into them. So my answer is YES I would

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

Nope thats a big pass. Just as others not in to us will pass us by. Cold sex is just frankly crap!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

At my age they're more about care in the community than out of sympathy.

Joking aside, no I couldn't have sex with someone I'm not attracted to.

Hence why I've only had 7 play meets in 5 years here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Tried it once, kinda. It did not go well, so there'll be no recurrence

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…


"In "

Wifey!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is my fear! Men will sleep with anyone and say anything to you just to get sex

The any hole's a goal!

This is exactly my fear too... and one of the many many reasons I don't believe anyone when they say they're into me "

Me too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they aint into my why they fuckin me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In

Wifey! "

Hello my beloved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sympathy shag never but there has been I shouldn’t have after the fact

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

If you'd asked this years ago I'd have said a definite no.

Shit happened, my life changed and I wasn't in a great place. Any holes a goal, right?

Anywho, hideous experience. It's really not for me.

Sorry to disappoint

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

No, I need to see the lust in their eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In "

You behave....

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By *etterryseeMan
over a year ago

near Swindon

Standards - surely there has to be a connection otherwise it’s simply the oldest profession is it not.

So a no from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't do it! I've got to have connection and attraction, otherwise it's going to be a meaningless number that doesn't satisfy any part of me.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

I have too much self respect to do that plus Im already drowning in da poon tang as it is!! Connection is key without that - as one of

My learned associates mentioned above - have a wank - its sex with someone that cares and less drama

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and it was quite cute, I declined. Imagine The 40 year old virgin and the part where she says, "I'll still have sex with you."

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

No I need connection.

Unless I'm blackout d*unk, then I'll shag anything.

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest, I’m not an overly proud man, I’ll take what I can

Would you, could you have sex with someone who you thought wasn’t actually that into you. "

It's all I've ever done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't that what most people do on here??

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s that JHus lyric again?

‘Telling me she loves me -

it’s my dick game, it must be.’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need the other party to be totally into it. I won’t even try with my wife if I know she’s not feeling it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not as without that mutual passion it’s just dull

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Can't answer that question as it requires an approach sadly lacking of late - I blame my age to old for some not old enough for others. Still I'm semi retiring next year so things may look up, no rush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were not all like dat some men have been brough up to have respect

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

No, absolutely not. I’d feel awful if I felt that someone wasn’t totally invested

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"To be honest, I’m not an overly proud man, I’ll take what I can

Would you, could you have sex with someone who you thought wasn’t actually that into you. "

If I liked her boobs, I could live with them not being into me. Luke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God no! I'd feel totally crap if I knew they didn't fancy me. I slept with someone once years ago I wasn't really into and felt crap too. Either scenario results in someone feeling shit. Although I think there has been an instance where someone did expect me to give them a sympathy shag rather than respect my own boundaries because they cut me off after a good while being very close friends. That was sad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The irony.

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By *orkcoastguyMan
over a year ago

Bridlington.

One of my most disasterous shags was with a close friend with whom my closeness did not include physical attraction.

Had a bad time, she made it clear that she desperately needed a welfare fuck, we tried as while I was able to do 'other' things, the actual fuck that she wanted could not be managed by my independently willed cock....

She realised my lack of ardour towards here and it all just left her feeling worse.

I still feel bad about it.

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By *tinerant scribeMan
over a year ago

County Durham


"To be honest, I’m not an overly proud man, I’ll take what I can

Would you, could you have sex with someone who you thought wasn’t actually that into you. "

They could be into you as a friend for years and feel like giving it a try. It happens.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"Given a few in my times. Always felt awful after. Avoid "

Shame cos I thought it was great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God no

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By *ev257Man
over a year ago

cardiff

The wife has had a few sympathy shags with guys she has felt sorry for.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Sober me says no

Inebriated me is full of shame

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Never x

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