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Are fwb consider a couple

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We’ve been contacted by a lot don’t know how people feel about it so hopefully we get positive feedback we know not everyone that has a life together stays together but should we consider them as a couple/couple if they are only out for a ride

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By *ougarhunter15Man
over a year ago

Sunderland

In my eyes...

You are approaching the scene as a couple, so yeah, how else can you present yourselves together?

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"We’ve been contacted by a lot don’t know how people feel about it so hopefully we get positive feedback we know not everyone that has a life together stays together but should we consider them as a couple/couple if they are only out for a ride "

Any two people can class themselves as a couple. Often though the difference between a FWB relationship and a romantic one is the chemistry between them. This makes a massive difference.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See how they are together and if you like them.

Chemistry between two people and love and two people just fucking each other is intensely different.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

OP are you saying that you are part of a FWB couple and are hoping for positive feedback ?

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By *lim and louiseCouple
over a year ago

dromore

We always thought it was cheating ,it's not like your going to get it on with his wife or her husband if they are only meeting together for sex

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"See how they are together and if you like them.

Chemistry between two people and love and two people just fucking each other is intensely different. "

This.

I’ve met and know people that are FWB’s that are very much together but define themselves as such for the sake of description, just as I’ve met others that are essentially two singles.

It depends on what you want from a meet and it’s dynamic. If you’re all attracted, does it really matter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they are a couple. Relationships don’t all look the same. If they’re saying they’re a couple then I guess they are

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

We started out as FB's. Now been married for years.

We're the same people.

Does someone's domestic living arrangement really matter that much for a no strings physical encounter? I've never really understood why people see an issue and I've met many FB's that have more history and are far more stable together than some couples I've seen at clubs.

A

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

I have a good fab friend and we've just started meeting couples as a couple. Yes the dynamics might be different for fwbs rather than established partners, but makes no difference to the meet for me. It should all be fun.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

That's a decision only ye can make if ye want to meet couples who live together,married or people who are Fwbs.

To me if people are on here as a couple then I take it then that is how they see themselves and they meet together when using that account.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

What about polyamory or ethical non monogamy? I should imagine that any two people defining themselves as a “couple” have a strong affection and attraction for each other, regardless of the actual arrangements of their relationship. In fact they are probably more “in-tune” with each other’s desires and wants because of the lack of the artificial constraints and potential judgement barriers of someone they are in a formalised relationship with.

OP you must decide for yourself, but as time progresses more people are entering a “coupling” style relationship that still enables each partner to be independent of thought and action. This is the 21st century, the nature of things is changing (for good or ill) and we (as a society) either accept that change or disengage

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By *eme321Woman
over a year ago

eccles

I had a fwb but he got feelings for me so ended it been crushed ever since haha he was defo my best lover

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

No. I have a FWB but we are separate people. We don't have romantic feelings for one another but we do have a great friendship x

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By *tinerant scribeMan
over a year ago

County Durham

At a club, they are.

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By *an1978Woman
over a year ago

GONE/TIMEOUT (No DMs please)

You can be married to someone you have no feelings for,

Can be in love with someone you dont live with.

Or you can have a FWB arrangement.

Or the Polyamorous/ENM may have all the above!

I guess it matters if your kink is specifically fucking another man's "owned" woman?

Fab is a diverse sea of people.

Just be honest with people and find like minded couples, if the aim is a good laugh and great sex, then bits of paper don't matter.

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By *ot_chilled_and_hornyCouple
over a year ago

Harrow

We are very much a couple, we care for each other, know we’re going home with each other and get pleasure from seeing each other have fun. We love exploring new things together and keep one or two ‘special things’ just for ourselves.

But we’re definitely FWBs, we live separately, have shared and individual interests and, of course, are at totally different stages of our lives.

But when we’re together we are so together.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

As long as they are open about it then why not? If you don't like this dynamic then you can easily avoid it as it will be very obvious.

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