FabSwingers.com forum: Rate your game ….

By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

Afternoon guys n girls

I’d like to know how good you are at flirting

Do you think of yourself as a smooth criminal that gets the juices flowing and and make the man/woman instantly interested …?

Or are you a bit of a wet lettuce … not very good at the smooth talking , maybe a little awkward

0-10 is the scale

0 being a rough rather than smooth criminal

10 being the smoothest criminal in town

Your words make people swoon for a night with you

I think personally I’m middle ground

I really wish I had the gift of the gab when it comes to flirting but I have my moments when I become unstuck and my nerdy geeky self comes out

Hey I’m me ! Do the best with what I’ve got

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on time and mindset for me when im in green light mode i can be very potent and highly addictive but those days are becoming shorter and shorter but i always need to be inspired to be fluid with it so on form mode is a 10 normal day mode 7 maybe moody cunt mode 5

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Depends on time and mindset for me when im in green light mode i can be very potent and highly addictive but those days are becoming shorter and shorter but i always need to be inspired to be fluid with it so on form mode is a 10 normal day mode 7 maybe moody cunt mode 5"

At least you don’t have 1 mode

I’m 5 average joe most days maybe moves upto 6/7 on a top form day

2/3 on below par days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm terrible at flirting, a solid 2 maybe. I'm actually worse at reading signs of whether there's a connection. Anyone any tips on the reading signs?

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"I'm terrible at flirting, a solid 2 maybe. I'm actually worse at reading signs of whether there's a connection. Anyone any tips on the reading signs? "

Get some good reading glasses

Only pulpy your leg fella

Nope I’m not very good either

I am good at making a lady smile

Making people smile to be honest but making them want to rip my clothes off and ride my bones

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"11"
i was thinking more a V shape with both feet in the air

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

I'd give me one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"11i was thinking more a V shape with both feet in the air"

Better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s never a game I’m too old for that caper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say my game is good. A high 7 maybe. But my current form I shit. A low 3 even slipping to a 2.

If I was someone’s wingman I’d be subbed right now, or that guy who’s the designated driver on a night out.

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By *unandgamegeekMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Either a 1 or a 2 for me when it comes to flirting with women.

Chatting to them normally or making them laugh is no problem. Flirting has always been a trick area for me.

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

I'm not very good at flirting verbally, I feel socially awkward sometimes & not very confident, so a 2.

Whereas I can flirt with my body very well (especially after a drink lol), I find it so much easier to catch a guys eye that way

, so a 6 or 7

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No cap I’d rate myself very highly. 8/9 out of 10.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No cap I’d rate myself very highly. 8/9 out of 10. "

Only reason people have ever liked me is game. Not looks. Not even in a self deprecating way lol

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm terrible, I have no idea when people flirt, I always think there just nice. I'd give myself a solid 2 for awkwardness.

Mrs

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I’m useless at flirting; Shyness holds me back.

I am really good at talking utterly random bollocks however which some ladies might love….maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd give myself a 9 online. In person I'm a 2

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

I am a 1

. Until get to know someone well. Then yes become confident to say things , without being offensive to them hopefully

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

Very low scoring.I tend to just chat and see how it goes.sp possibly a four?

On the flip side the last woman I slept with had to take the initiative as she said she nearly gave up as she’d flirted as much as she could and I didn’t have a clue

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Apparently I’m reasonably good at it although the ladies refer to me as an awful flirt.

Go figure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"11i was thinking more a V shape with both feet in the air

Better?"
shes good

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"I'd give myself a 9 online. In person I'm a 2

Hello

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pre covid I would honestly say 7 or 8. Especially in a club.

Post covid about a 2.

Covid has destroyed my mojo and I have not regained it.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never really set out to flirt, it just kinda happens when the chemistry is right so I reckon I'm in the middle somewhere, it could go either way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd give myself a 9 online. In person I'm a 2

Hello

Why hello, you sexy beast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Either a 1 or a 2 for me when it comes to flirting with women.

Chatting to them normally or making them laugh is no problem. Flirting has always been a trick area for me."

You sound like me mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel like half of it is in your tone/ facial expressions/ what you do with your body/ voice. The rest is the actual words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A 9 in public, I can't help but do it, always found it easy.

Online not so easy, to many body language reactions hidden behind the screen.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"I'd give myself a 9 online. In person I'm a 2

Hello

Why hello, you sexy beast

That works sugar tits. Easy a 9

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd give myself a 9 online. In person I'm a 2

Hello

Why hello, you sexy beast

That works sugar tits. Easy a 9

Shucks!

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

There are some superb natural flirters on here! Couldn’t possibly name names !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When it comes to flirting, I guess I’m like Pac-Man……simple. So I’d rate my game at about 2-3.

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

absolutely rubbish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do we need a flirting practice thread??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do we need a flirting practice thread??"

Or flirting tutorials from the Fab Flirt Profeshunals

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

One of my biggest problems is I don't recognise when someone is flirting with me - rubbish at reading subtle signals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get chance these days

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"11"

Ooo you should do classes

I’d come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do we need a flirting practice thread??

Or flirting tutorials from the Fab Flirt Profeshunals"

FIDDLES!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do we need a flirting practice thread??"

Like, fancy a flirt? FAF? This is going to get confusing….

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"I'd give me one"

Has anybody else given you 1 ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do we need a flirting practice thread??

Like, fancy a flirt? FAF? This is going to get confusing….

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"I’d say my game is good. A high 7 maybe. But my current form I shit. A low 3 even slipping to a 2.

If I was someone’s wingman I’d be subbed right now, or that guy who’s the designated driver on a night out.

Ahh we all go through bad spells I’m sure form will come back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A modest 10 in the flirting .

how you dooooiiin

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Either a 1 or a 2 for me when it comes to flirting with women.

Chatting to them normally or making them laugh is no problem. Flirting has always been a trick area for me."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do we need a flirting practice thread??

Like, fancy a flirt? FAF? This is going to get confusing….

I give up. !

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"I'm not very good at flirting verbally, I feel socially awkward sometimes & not very confident, so a 2.

Whereas I can flirt with my body very well (especially after a drink lol), I find it so much easier to catch a guys eye that way

, so a 6 or 7"

Ooo I can imagine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do we need a flirting practice thread??

Like, fancy a flirt? FAF? This is going to get confusing….

I give up. !

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"I'd give myself a 9 online. In person I'm a 2

I think this goes for a lot of people

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By *tinerant scribeMan
over a year ago

County Durham

"One of my biggest problems is I don't recognise when someone is flirting with me - rubbish at reading subtle signals

Men have a generally lower empathy quotient. Most of us need to learn to read the signals. Baron-Cohen had a great book on this. (Not the comedian!His cousin.)

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Very low scoring.I tend to just chat and see how it goes.sp possibly a four?

On the flip side the last woman I slept with had to take the initiative as she said she nearly gave up as she’d flirted as much as she could and I didn’t have a clue

I think I need a lady like that

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By *errocaWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

Full marks.. I'm a total flirt

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

3/10 I’m terrible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a solid 2 at flirting, but a modest 8 once I have actually got to know someone who catches my way of thinking (i.e. another idiot)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how I'm feeling.

Could be a 10, could be a 2.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends how I'm feeling.

Could be a 10, could be a 2. "
10 rating on you just looking like that tbf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6/7! I'm quite dry humoured so it doesn't always work but when it does, it does

also used to be very shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do we need a flirting practice thread??"

Yes. In my DMs

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"I'd give me one

Has anybody else given you 1 ?

A gentleman never blah blah blah

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

What is flirting? This concept is entirely new to me I'm afraid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends how I'm feeling.

Could be a 10, could be a 2. 10 rating on you just looking like that tbf "

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"Depends how I'm feeling.

Could be a 10, could be a 2. "

Hello you, where’ve you been.

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

I need practice at flirting and reading people's body language to see if there flirting were so crap at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Game?

Jesus

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Maybe a 6/7 in person, a 4 online.

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Maybe a 6/7 in person, a 4 online. "
ooo we’ll I can’t speak to you here so I suppose we should meet

Just pulling your leg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends sometimes whacking it out on the table saves on the chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends sometimes whacking it out on the table saves on the chat

Drew!!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Never flirt online...and in person, depends on the company x

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

4 at best

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