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By *ohnOvManchester OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I’ve had a singles profile a while on here now which I’m back on since switching back from my couples profile. On the couples one I had a lot of messages off women but I never noticed before but I get a lot of attention from guys rather than girls now on this profile. I’m straight although you could argue semi bi because I’ve had fun with trans girls. Any other guys finding this or is it just me

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Its normal. Single guys are treated with huge scepticism, couples account less so.

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By *ohnOvManchester OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Its normal. Single guys are treated with huge scepticism, couples account less so. "

I’ve noticed. A few people have asked on messages if I’m using someone else’s pictures. I have my face on here so I just keep my x rated ones in friends only

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I’ve had a singles profile a while on here now which I’m back on since switching back from my couples profile. On the couples one I had a lot of messages off women but I never noticed before but I get a lot of attention from guys rather than girls now on this profile. I’m straight although you could argue semi bi because I’ve had fun with trans girls. Any other guys finding this or is it just me "

Simple question.

Were you a couple when using the couples profile?

A

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By *ohnOvManchester OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"I’ve had a singles profile a while on here now which I’m back on since switching back from my couples profile. On the couples one I had a lot of messages off women but I never noticed before but I get a lot of attention from guys rather than girls now on this profile. I’m straight although you could argue semi bi because I’ve had fun with trans girls. Any other guys finding this or is it just me

Simple question.

Were you a couple when using the couples profile?

A"

Yes and obviously we got messages aimed at us together and messages focused on one or the other as well. As the male side I got messages off more women than men although there was a mix. But definitely majority female. Where as on my single profile 90% is male now

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I’ve had a singles profile a while on here now which I’m back on since switching back from my couples profile. On the couples one I had a lot of messages off women but I never noticed before but I get a lot of attention from guys rather than girls now on this profile. I’m straight although you could argue semi bi because I’ve had fun with trans girls. Any other guys finding this or is it just me

Simple question.

Were you a couple when using the couples profile?

A

Yes and obviously we got messages aimed at us together and messages focused on one or the other as well. As the male side I got messages off more women than men although there was a mix. But definitely majority female. Where as on my single profile 90% is male now "

Wow. Must have been one hell of a profile.

In 14 years on here I've never heard of a couples profile where women make contact just to meet the male half. Plenty of experience where men contact the female half of a couples profile chasing them but your situation seems pretty unique.

What was your trick?

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve had a singles profile a while on here now which I’m back on since switching back from my couples profile. On the couples one I had a lot of messages off women but I never noticed before but I get a lot of attention from guys rather than girls now on this profile. I’m straight although you could argue semi bi because I’ve had fun with trans girls. Any other guys finding this or is it just me

Simple question.

Were you a couple when using the couples profile?

A

Yes and obviously we got messages aimed at us together and messages focused on one or the other as well. As the male side I got messages off more women than men although there was a mix. But definitely majority female. Where as on my single profile 90% is male now

Wow. Must have been one hell of a profile.

In 14 years on here I've never heard of a couples profile where women make contact just to meet the male half. Plenty of experience where men contact the female half of a couples profile chasing them but your situation seems pretty unique.

What was your trick?

A"

Definitely I'd like to know how as well lol

We get single women occasionally interested in us both as a couple but we have only ever had 1 single women interested in meeting just me the male.

KJ

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Personally speaking I don't message first be it to a single or a couples profile. I know singe women do hunt but my guess is that's the exception rather than the norm and there aren't that many of us to start with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a lot of interest in my profile from guys. I’m a straight dude. It say’s this on my profile and yet!….

Anyway, it bears no difference to me.

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By *ohnOvManchester OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"I’ve had a singles profile a while on here now which I’m back on since switching back from my couples profile. On the couples one I had a lot of messages off women but I never noticed before but I get a lot of attention from guys rather than girls now on this profile. I’m straight although you could argue semi bi because I’ve had fun with trans girls. Any other guys finding this or is it just me

Simple question.

Were you a couple when using the couples profile?

A

Yes and obviously we got messages aimed at us together and messages focused on one or the other as well. As the male side I got messages off more women than men although there was a mix. But definitely majority female. Where as on my single profile 90% is male now

Wow. Must have been one hell of a profile.

In 14 years on here I've never heard of a couples profile where women make contact just to meet the male half. Plenty of experience where men contact the female half of a couples profile chasing them but your situation seems pretty unique.

What was your trick?

A"

We did. I don’t think it’s unique or anything special to be fair. Might be your tone maybe I don’t know

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

Hm, I thought I get more guys then gals contacting me because I am bi.

Seems it’s just numbers game. 100:1 ration male to female here with probably less than 10% of these single ladies doing active search leads to what we see in single guy profile stats (views, fabs, number of messages)

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I’ve had a singles profile a while on here now which I’m back on since switching back from my couples profile. On the couples one I had a lot of messages off women but I never noticed before but I get a lot of attention from guys rather than girls now on this profile. I’m straight although you could argue semi bi because I’ve had fun with trans girls. Any other guys finding this or is it just me

Simple question.

Were you a couple when using the couples profile?

A

Yes and obviously we got messages aimed at us together and messages focused on one or the other as well. As the male side I got messages off more women than men although there was a mix. But definitely majority female. Where as on my single profile 90% is male now

Wow. Must have been one hell of a profile.

In 14 years on here I've never heard of a couples profile where women make contact just to meet the male half. Plenty of experience where men contact the female half of a couples profile chasing them but your situation seems pretty unique.

What was your trick?

A

We did. I don’t think it’s unique or anything special to be fair. Might be your tone maybe I don’t know "

Not unique, however if your couples profile had pics on like your single profile does than I can see why you would get interest. A good variety and not full of dick pics. A lot of women stay clear of single male profiles though but if your couples profile states you met alone than you would be more appealing than a single men to some.

K

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"I’ve had a singles profile a while on here now which I’m back on since switching back from my couples profile. On the couples one I had a lot of messages off women but I never noticed before but I get a lot of attention from guys rather than girls now on this profile. I’m straight although you could argue semi bi because I’ve had fun with trans girls. Any other guys finding this or is it just me

Simple question.

Were you a couple when using the couples profile?

A

Yes and obviously we got messages aimed at us together and messages focused on one or the other as well. As the male side I got messages off more women than men although there was a mix. But definitely majority female. Where as on my single profile 90% is male now

Wow. Must have been one hell of a profile.

In 14 years on here I've never heard of a couples profile where women make contact just to meet the male half. Plenty of experience where men contact the female half of a couples profile chasing them but your situation seems pretty unique.

What was your trick?

A"

Don't know if we have ever had any women contact us either, only men or the male half of a couple, must have been special.

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By *ohnOvManchester OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Hm, I thought I get more guys then gals contacting me because I am bi.

Seems it’s just numbers game. 100:1 ration male to female here with probably less than 10% of these single ladies doing active search leads to what we see in single guy profile stats (views, fabs, number of messages)

"

No it’s not just you being bi mate, I think 99% of my fab’d pics are from males.

And the ratio thing and searches that’s true actually!! I hadn’t thought of that. It’s obvious now you’ve said it haha. It’s a swinging site so everyone naturally will search for couples to join in with probably only a tiny amount actually search for single guys. I think I just noticed it more going from our couples profile to this profile.

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