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By *iromancergirl1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

bolton

I have some scaring on my breasts due to a breast reduction many years ago and iv been getting many messages saying things like they look weird and asking me what’s wrong with them and it’s making me feel really self continuous should I put it on my profile that iv had surgery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You shouldn’t have to do that because people are horrid. I’m sorry you’re feeling self conscious. Sending lots of love. I am sorry I am not much help but I think you should be you- I like you as you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You only have to explain it to people you want to explain it to.

Sod the rest of the insensitive pricks.

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By *iromancergirl1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

bolton


"You shouldn’t have to do that because people are horrid. I’m sorry you’re feeling self conscious. Sending lots of love. I am sorry I am not much help but I think you should be you- I like you as you are. "
aww thank you Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First Rule of Fab Club: Some people are cu*ts.

Second Rule of Fab Club : Ignore the cu*ts.

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By *iromancergirl1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

bolton


"First Rule of Fab Club: Some people are cu*ts.

Second Rule of Fab Club : Ignore the cu*ts.

"
sound advice

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's an arsehole filter. It sucks, but it helps to work out who you might want to avoid

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I wouldn't.

I've had surgery on my right boob which makes the areola different to the left, but I don't care.

If anyone notices the scar I'd say I had surgery, and I let people know it can still be a but painful and I have less feeling in it.

I wouldn't explain it on my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you look good so shh fuck the cunts

don't know your bedrooms skills and your bum like eer others do

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By *iromancergirl1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

bolton


"you look good so shh fuck the cunts

don't know your bedrooms skills and your bum like eer others do "
hehe you would know

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"I wouldn't.

I've had surgery on my right boob which makes the areola different to the left, but I don't care.

If anyone notices the scar I'd say I had surgery, and I let people know it can still be a but painful and I have less feeling in it.

I wouldn't explain it on my profile. "

What a div I am. I had surgery on my left nipple.

Don't know my left from my right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you look good so shh fuck the cunts

don't know your bedrooms skills and your bum like eer others do hehe you would know "
i do hence the mess last time

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By *iromancergirl1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

bolton


"I wouldn't.

I've had surgery on my right boob which makes the areola different to the left, but I don't care.

If anyone notices the scar I'd say I had surgery, and I let people know it can still be a but painful and I have less feeling in it.

I wouldn't explain it on my profile. "
my sensation came back somewhat but it took years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

stuff them they are the ones with the problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't own anyone explanations, don't let sad f*ckers get to you. Be confident and be you.

And you are beautiful and have gorgeous breasts x

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

theres nothing wrong with your boobs,, lots of people have fabbed them, me included,,

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By *iromancergirl1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

bolton


"theres nothing wrong with your boobs,, lots of people have fabbed them, me included,,"
thank you

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

Your tits look absolutely fine. Nothing to explain, just live your life. It’s your own business, nobody else’s.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

They must have led very sheltered lives to not have any scars of their own.

...which makes them seem pretty fucking boring to me.

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By *iberius61Man
over a year ago

Pontefract

Nope, as others have said, it's a conversation piece for people you want to tell it to.

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By *iromancergirl1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

bolton


"They must have led very sheltered lives to not have any scars of their own.

...which makes them seem pretty fucking boring to me. "
I have to say I think scars can be quite beautiful they tell a story of a life lived.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I have some scaring on my breasts due to a breast reduction many years ago and iv been getting many messages saying things like they look weird and asking me what’s wrong with them and it’s making me feel really self continuous should I put it on my profile that iv had surgery."

Nope

It's your personal business no need to,if people are unable to think outside the box and not question it and accept you as you are without having to ask to explain.x

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By *iberius61Man
over a year ago

Pontefract


"They must have led very sheltered lives to not have any scars of their own."

Lol...I have at least one scar that I honestly can't remember when it's from. Most of the rest I think I can remember

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don’t allow ignorant and stupid hurt your feelings...!

it’s the little quirks that makes us all special, so enjoy being you and don’t give a fuck about what someone says about your lovely boobs...

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By *iromancergirl1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

bolton

Thank you to everyone that replied.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No dont be daft most people have scars i know i do and bloody stretchmarks on my arms but if im gonna be judged by that il wait for a better class

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"I have some scaring on my breasts due to a breast reduction many years ago and iv been getting many messages saying things like they look weird and asking me what’s wrong with them and it’s making me feel really self continuous should I put it on my profile that iv had surgery."

Sorry they made you feel that way lovely. I say bugger them and carry on. Nothing wrong with your pics at all. Xxx

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By *arried-BBW-LookingWoman
over a year ago

fun town

I think you have fantastic boobs, we all have scares I know I do all

Part of life, just block them xx

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home


"Thank you to everyone that replied."
you have a lovely pair of boobs, fuck the begrudgers. We all have scars I have a 5 inch scar on my head from a slap of a hurley.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Nothing wrong with scars at all !!! If your boobs had scars I'd love them lick them I've got scars on my back from a car crash looks like I was in a lions cage.. and one big one in the side of my head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have some scaring on my breasts due to a breast reduction many years ago and iv been getting many messages saying things like they look weird and asking me what’s wrong with them and it’s making me feel really self continuous should I put it on my profile that iv had surgery."

Im gonna go ahead and kiss your boobs all over until you feel good about them again (Mwah, mwah, mwah, mwah, mwah...)! I may also give them a cheeky suck or nibble if that would be welcome...?

All boobs are wonderful and I can confirm that very much includes yours! Anyone would be lucky to get to play with them!

Dont let the idiots get you down - treat it as a way to filter them out. If it really does bug you then yes, remove the photos you arent happy with. You know whats right for you.

But know that them being there makes a lot of people (including me) very happy indeed!

Sending a huge hug!!

Fay x

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By *iromancergirl1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

bolton


"I have some scaring on my breasts due to a breast reduction many years ago and iv been getting many messages saying things like they look weird and asking me what’s wrong with them and it’s making me feel really self continuous should I put it on my profile that iv had surgery.

Im gonna go ahead and kiss your boobs all over until you feel good about them again (Mwah, mwah, mwah, mwah, mwah...)! I may also give them a cheeky suck or nibble if that would be welcome...?

All boobs are wonderful and I can confirm that very much includes yours! Anyone would be lucky to get to play with them!

Dont let the idiots get you down - treat it as a way to filter them out. If it really does bug you then yes, remove the photos you arent happy with. You know whats right for you.

But know that them being there makes a lot of people (including me) very happy indeed!

Sending a huge hug!!

Fay x "
Thank you beautiful

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

Some people really are thoughtless, insensitive tossers.

Luckily they show themselves easily and allow you to block them.

Ignore them, their opinion means nothing to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have some scaring on my breasts due to a breast reduction many years ago and iv been getting many messages saying things like they look weird and asking me what’s wrong with them and it’s making me feel really self continuous should I put it on my profile that iv had surgery.

Im gonna go ahead and kiss your boobs all over until you feel good about them again (Mwah, mwah, mwah, mwah, mwah...)! I may also give them a cheeky suck or nibble if that would be welcome...?

All boobs are wonderful and I can confirm that very much includes yours! Anyone would be lucky to get to play with them!

Dont let the idiots get you down - treat it as a way to filter them out. If it really does bug you then yes, remove the photos you arent happy with. You know whats right for you.

But know that them being there makes a lot of people (including me) very happy indeed!

Sending a huge hug!!

Fay x "
can confirm i very lucky fay share if you like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First Rule of Fab Club: Some people are cu*ts.

Second Rule of Fab Club : Ignore the cu*ts.

"

I couldn't have put it better

I very recently had surgery and I have new scars right down the centre of my entire torso and from hip to hip. I love my scars because the purpose for them has strong meaning for me and I will not permit anyone to make me feel self conscious.

Don't give those people your time and effort to reply, just block/delete and smile.

NBVN x

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By *iltomMan
over a year ago

swansea


"I have some scaring on my breasts due to a breast reduction many years ago and iv been getting many messages saying things like they look weird and asking me what’s wrong with them and it’s making me feel really self continuous should I put it on my profile that iv had surgery."

Hi Leanda,

It js such a shame you are getting these messages.

Personally I would block them. You are a beautiful woman and you have so much to be positive about. Your breasts are amazing by the way. Keep on being positive. Xx

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By *iltomMan
over a year ago

swansea


"First Rule of Fab Club: Some people are cu*ts.

Second Rule of Fab Club : Ignore the cu*ts.

I couldn't have put it better

I very recently had surgery and I have new scars right down the centre of my entire torso and from hip to hip. I love my scars because the purpose for them has strong meaning for me and I will not permit anyone to make me feel self conscious.

Don't give those people your time and effort to reply, just block/delete and smile.

NBVN x"

Exactly this. NBVN, you are a very beautiful lady. Xx

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester


"First Rule of Fab Club: Some people are cu*ts.

Second Rule of Fab Club : Ignore the cu*ts.

"
this xx

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London


"First Rule of Fab Club: Some people are cu*ts.

Second Rule of Fab Club : Ignore the cu*ts.

"

Well said, Dan! You'll need to cut and paste this for a few threads, I think.

OP, sorry people have made you feel self conscious. You have no reason to, and certainly no need explain anything to anyone unless you choose to! X

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Definitely not, they are part of what makes you, you.

If others can't accept that then sod them.

They look fine to me

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By *edsmudgeMan
over a year ago

oxford


"First Rule of Fab Club: Some people are cu*ts.

Second Rule of Fab Club : Ignore the cu*ts.

"

Haha

Firstly I’m applying this rule to everything

Secondly . No need to read any further

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

I'd tell em to naff off, everyone's different and that's what makes things fun and interesting.

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Those messages are the perfect filter for people you don't want to associate with. Love yourself, your scars are yours to own and a part of your journey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My initial reaction to this post was utter disgust at how nasty some people can be. It's completely ok to not like how people look, we all have our preferences, but it's super rude and outright nasty to message someone just to be hurtful. I'm so sorry you've had that experience.

My advice is not to react to it. Frankly it's no business of anyone to know you've had surgery and your reasons behind that. And starting any form of relationship on the premise of 'excusing' something that doesn't need excusing is a sign it's a relationship you don't need.

For the record, I think you look gorgeous as you are, and anyone should feel privileged being with you. Consider these messages as a jerk alarm, delete and block. Fill your world with people that appreciate you, give them your energy and ignore the haters.

Hope you have better experiences in the future x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First Rule of Fab Club: Some people are cu*ts.

Second Rule of Fab Club : Ignore the cu*ts.

I couldn't have put it better

I very recently had surgery and I have new scars right down the centre of my entire torso and from hip to hip. I love my scars because the purpose for them has strong meaning for me and I will not permit anyone to make me feel self conscious.

Don't give those people your time and effort to reply, just block/delete and smile.

NBVN x

Exactly this. NBVN, you are a very beautiful lady. Xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not, you owe them nothing and don’t have to explain anything to anyone. It’s your business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your tits look absolutely fine. Nothing to explain, just live your life. It’s your own business, nobody else’s. "

Totally this ….ignore any negative comments hun

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By *oah VailMan
over a year ago

Dover


"First Rule of Fab Club: Some people are cu*ts.

Second Rule of Fab Club : Block the cu*ts.

"

FTFY

OP all of you looks fab.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"I have some scaring on my breasts due to a breast reduction many years ago and iv been getting many messages saying things like they look weird and asking me what’s wrong with them and it’s making me feel really self continuous should I put it on my profile that iv had surgery."

Fuck em all. They look fine

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