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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Had arranged a meet for today with a couple alongside a friend... Sadly friendly got bad family news yesterday so he could no longer attend (he forwarded proof of this to a joint chat)... Sad for him, but unavoidable...

Fast forward to today - series of messages to me as a lone fem (not in the group chat), that ranged from to did I still want to meet? (fair enough!), but when declined... Esculated to basically guilt trippin, then we're cool... Then yeah we're blocking you for time wasting... Oh, and a message to the bloke my side to inform him I'm 'all talk'...

I'm hindsight pretty gutted I didn't share my vagina with these folk I barely know from the Internet

I know, I know.. Cool story bro

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By *ay9971Man
over a year ago

Manchester/London

Nope you shouldn’t and I bet you’re glad you didn’t now xx

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

They sound really unpleasant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not at all, stuff happens and at least you let them know in advance

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Couples can be cunts too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couples can be cunts too.

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True story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a lucky escape to me, thank goodness they showed their true colours before not after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no reason to feel bad something horrible came up, you let them know and looks like you dodged a bullet if you ask me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Playing devils avocado…

Were the couple out of pocket ?

Did they say book a hotel and then by no showing (for genuine reason) wasted their money.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had arranged a meet for today with a couple alongside a friend... Sadly friendly got bad family news yesterday so he could no longer attend (he forwarded proof of this to a joint chat)... Sad for him, but unavoidable...

Fast forward to today - series of messages to me as a lone fem (not in the group chat), that ranged from to did I still want to meet? (fair enough!), but when declined... Esculated to basically guilt trippin, then we're cool... Then yeah we're blocking you for time wasting... Oh, and a message to the bloke my side to inform him I'm 'all talk'...

I'm hindsight pretty gutted I didn't share my vagina with these folk I barely know from the Internet

I know, I know.. Cool story bro "

sounds like a shit shag anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yikes. Sorry that happened. You shouldn’t feel guilty no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Playing devils avocado…

Were the couple out of pocket ?

Did they say book a hotel and then by no showing (for genuine reason) wasted their money."

Nope, I'd have offered to cover costs in that case, as no fault on their side... Got a message stating how much bother they'd gone to... We'd cobbled together a meet based on the fact they had a free house all this week between 9-3.. We had just stated what suited to travel within that

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"Playing devils avocado…

Were the couple out of pocket ?

Did they say book a hotel and then by no showing (for genuine reason) wasted their money.

Nope, I'd have offered to cover costs in that case, as no fault on their side... Got a message stating how much bother they'd gone to... We'd cobbled together a meet based on the fact they had a free house all this week between 9-3.. We had just stated what suited to travel within that "

Even if they had its no reason to be a dick and use manipulative language.

Life happens. No sex is worth getting shirty over.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Playing devils avocado…

Were the couple out of pocket ?

Did they say book a hotel and then by no showing (for genuine reason) wasted their money.

Nope, I'd have offered to cover costs in that case, as no fault on their side... Got a message stating how much bother they'd gone to... We'd cobbled together a meet based on the fact they had a free house all this week between 9-3.. We had just stated what suited to travel within that

Even if they had its no reason to be a dick and use manipulative language.

Life happens. No sex is worth getting shirty over."

Well exactly? As far as I was last aware my vagina is my own? And if it was rained off yesterday to meet today, then I shouldn't be solo messaged beyond a 'no ta'?

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