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"I did think about becoming a window cleaner... " He likes licking windows ^ | |||
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"I did think about becoming a window cleaner... He likes licking windows ^ " Not just windows... All the bits! | |||
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"I had to change my original career plans pretty quickly due to a family situation - saw an ad for a grad recruitment scheme, decided on a whim to apply and now almost ten years later, after moments of wanting to cry (and actually crying), long days, sexism, you know, the usual... I'm quite happy where I am and proud of it. It helped that I made a good friend during the scheme who has helped me a lot with advice and encouraged me to specialise and go for promotions. I toy with the idea of moving to another sector sometimes but because I'm quite comfortable and know my current job well, I end up dismissing them." Snap. I'm comfortable here. Maybe complacent even. I've got some transferable skills and could move elsewhere but having done this for so long I'm also rather loathsome to leave. | |||
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"A good attitude and willingness to help others goes a long way. Am I where I wanted to be? I'm ok with what I did and continue to do. These days my perspective is different and I am able to focus on what is really important. " Agree | |||
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"Before last year I'd spent my adult life after leaving uni falling into different kinds of jobs and never truly knowing what I wanted to do. I tried to switch careers to something completely different and pretty lucrative in 2019, and was actually successful in making the switch, until covid... I tried so hard to get back on that same job path but 2020 was an absolute pooper for job hunting (and just in general obvs). Around a year ago I ended up blagging a job that seemed to perfectly mesh together the type of job I'd been going for and the skills I'd gained so far. I'm still in the same type of job, and for the first time I can see a lot of possibilities ahead of me in this career path. I still feel way behind my peers though, who decided pretty quickly what they wanted to do and have now amassed vast amounts of knowledge, experience and large salaries to boot. But I'm trying to focus on the fact that at least I know where I'm heading now So how did you, the people of Fab, get to where you are now? Did you always know what you wanted to do? Or did you have to play the field a little first like me? " What is it you’re doing, OP? Does it fuel you? I wanted to be an architect from a young age, but my parents dissuaded me (due to costs) and pushed me into doing an engineering apprenticeship, instead of doing A levels (not that sort, you filthy bastards!) and going to Uni. I studied mechanical design, did that for a few years, but decided I wanted to be more flexible and moved into project management based work in the Pharma industry. I then got promoted and made a good fist of trying to manage people twice my age - challenging - and it taught me a great deal about people/attitudes. After than I moved into sales (in manufacturing/tech) , spent 3 years doing that, before getting my first “big” job, building a team of product specialists, project and marketing. Learned a great deal in that role, and then got my first stab at a Director role as a direct result of that experience, which I’ve been doing since 2019 and am now looking to secure my first MD role! | |||
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"I have never got anywhere on the career ladder, its never been a priority but is annoying to do all the work & see incompetent people promoted. " They probably make it their priority though , so…. | |||
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"I'm still climbing it. Every time I get a bit further up, I fall down a few rungs " Stop telling the truth. Tell them what you know they want to hear. You'll fly up that pole... | |||
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"I'm still climbing it. Every time I get a bit further up, I fall down a few rungs Stop telling the truth. Tell them what you know they want to hear. You'll fly up that pole... " I'm glad one of us believes that | |||
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"I'm still climbing it. Every time I get a bit further up, I fall down a few rungs Stop telling the truth. Tell them what you know they want to hear. You'll fly up that pole... I'm glad one of us believes that " Over 40 years of experience. I can play the political game but I refuse to at the cost of a) the job and b) the people who actually put the effort in to make it work. | |||
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"My son on the other hand is moving up the ranks in his career quickly. Knowledge and hard work has got him to where he is He has wanted to develop games since he was small....he left home to study in Dundee, walked right into a job on finishing Uni, 3 years later at the age of 26 he has just been prompted as manager of the scripting team. He is also mentoring the next gen of developers and was recently invited back to his old University to be the industry professional for the graduates to showcase their work too " That’s really fantastic for your son - good on him. You must be so proud x | |||
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"My son on the other hand is moving up the ranks in his career quickly. Knowledge and hard work has got him to where he is He has wanted to develop games since he was small....he left home to study in Dundee, walked right into a job on finishing Uni, 3 years later at the age of 26 he has just been prompted as manager of the scripting team. He is also mentoring the next gen of developers and was recently invited back to his old University to be the industry professional for the graduates to showcase their work too That’s really fantastic for your son - good on him. You must be so proud x " Extremely. He was born in the village we live in, had his own issues and demons to deal with but the strength, resilience and determination has never wavered | |||
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"I'm still climbing it. Every time I get a bit further up, I fall down a few rungs " At least you keep going!! | |||
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