FabSwingers.com forum: Non swing, love/crush....

By *rHardC OP Man
over a year ago

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Hmmmm so... back ground.. a childhood friends/crush... n kinda lost contact.... but we always had similar friends.. just different circles of everyday worlds... but would know of each other worlds or lifes. And chat via social media et ..

But last year during lockdown we often would meet while out for walking and having long chats etx... and said girl would often says she so wanted a boyfriend.. tho one day we meet up and chatted and said we might have some drinks later, this said drinks turned into actually drinks at mine... we chatted and laughed for hours n conversation quickly changed to what we both wanted out of life n then to sexual preferences and how wild we might be.... tho nothing to wild happened other than an epic kiss.. i kiss i was told was amaizng after via txt... and i agreed.....

But things turned very quiet the next day... tho did get a txt saying last night was great but not alot else...

Left it two weeks and I offered a meet up for a coffee or walk but got turned down... on the bases that it would be to complex and that she often ran away from relationships... i said no problem n that we would always be friends..

But to say i was gutted was an understatement... but I've still got this crush... n we do interact on social media...

But i sapose my question is im i wasting my time...?

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

She may have got caught up in the moment, then reflected on future compatibility beyond sex, and changed her mind. She just doesn't know how to say no/embarrassed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes you are op

Move on you tryed there’s no harm in that

it’s her hang up

For what ever reason

Could be a number off things

Could be your plan B

Could be she’s been hurt bad in the past and dosent want to get hurt again

Could be that ones yous have done the deed there’s no going back maybe she doesn’t want to lose what she has

You tryed op

My best thing I can say is leave the ball in her cort

And at the same time look for something else

If something comes along that’s her fault she had her chance she missed it

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By *rHardC OP Man
over a year ago

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Id agree to a point..

tho she would of kinda knew i always fancied her... plus living so close id also wonder why chat of boyfriends n relationships never mind sexual wants..

Tho this is the crush talking so ill talk anyway into making it make sense into my favour lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Id agree to a point..

tho she would of kinda knew i always fancied her... plus living so close id also wonder why chat of boyfriends n relationships never mind sexual wants..

Tho this is the crush talking so ill talk anyway into making it make sense into my favour lol"

Trust me op I am in a very similar boat but very complicated and can never make the first move

Took me a good 3-4 years to release that I could be wasting my time the balls in her cort

But at the same time I not going to stop my life so if someone else comes along it’s her miss for not take that chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lost too this new world is a cruel place to live in but il be here when im needed thats all any man can be expected to do

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