FabSwingers.com forum: Send someone a message

By *esi_maverick OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

Do you find it rude if you send a complementary message and it gets deleted without a response???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. It’s a message that doesn’t really require a response unless you’re asking them to consider meeting you.

Even then, a delete = no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, that's just a fab thing that you accept. As the numbers I can message are ever dwindling it's kind of a moot point.

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By *esi_maverick OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

"No. It’s a message that doesn’t really require a response unless you’re asking them to consider meeting you.

Even then, a delete = no thanks.

Valid point

I thoughtful it could be a way of breaking g the ice

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Not really. Just move on to the next one its not the end of the world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you find it rude if you send a complementary message and it gets deleted without a response???

Tbh it’s more likely they see your profile name and decide the message before or without reading it. Just sayin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try not to take offence

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

"Do you find it rude if you send a complementary message and it gets deleted without a response???

Tbh it’s more likely they see your profile name and decide the message before or without reading it. Just sayin"
why would a profile name put someone off

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By *esi_maverick OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

"Do you find it rude if you send a complementary message and it gets deleted without a response???

Tbh it’s more likely they see your profile name and decide the message before or without reading it. Just sayin"

Is my profile name unattractive then ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you find it rude if you send a complementary message and it gets deleted without a response???

Tbh it’s more likely they see your profile name and decide the message before or without reading it. Just sayin

Is my profile name unattractive then ???"

Not so much unattractive as not showing personality and a bit on the nose. I mean katcumslut might be more on the nose but not very interesting is it? Just an opinion not judgement

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I just did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in the slightest

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By *esi_maverick OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

Guess I’m being overly sensitive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody hell, yes, absolutely!

Do they not know *WHO* I am!! ???

How very dare they.

Their loss and all that!

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Not really looking for random compliments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bloody hell, yes, absolutely!

Do they not know *WHO* I am!! ???

How very dare they.

Their loss and all that!

You’re danberks

Happy to help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you find it rude if you send a complementary message and it gets deleted without a response???

Depends? Does this message I send require an answer?

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

No don't care. I very rarely send a message anyway.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

I would rather it get deleted than read and nowt else then I know is a definite no chance

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By *he_Last_TitanMan
over a year ago

Bristol

"Do you find it rude if you send a complementary message and it gets deleted without a response???

No. It’s in the rules - no reply means ‘no thanks’.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bloody hell, yes, absolutely!

Do they not know *WHO* I am!! ???

How very dare they.

Their loss and all that!

You’re danberks

Happy to help

awww fanks!

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

Nope, usernames are off putting though if they're vulgar ones.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

And if you then feel the need, when someone has said it's not necessary, you could at least get the hair colour right

This may explain your lack of success

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By *esi_maverick OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

"Nope, usernames are off putting though if they're vulgar ones.

Do you find mine off putting

I’d be open to ideas

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By *esi_maverick OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

"And if you then feel the need, when someone has said it's not necessary, you could at least get the hair colour right

This may explain your lack of success

I think your right in what you say

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"And if you then feel the need, when someone has said it's not necessary, you could at least get the hair colour right

This may explain your lack of success

I think your right in what you say

I'm always right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And if you then feel the need, when someone has said it's not necessary, you could at least get the hair colour right

This may explain your lack of success

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By *esi_maverick OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

"And if you then feel the need, when someone has said it's not necessary, you could at least get the hair colour right

This may explain your lack of success

I think your right in what you say

I'm always right"

Woman after a man’s heart

Yes have to agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, usernames are off putting though if they're vulgar ones.

Upward pointing finger thingy. I could’ve just said this.

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

You’re being over sensitive, OP.

If you check website’s FAQ it’s not classed as rude. It simply means “no, thank you”.

Welcome to Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't. I don't like the ones that have a 10 to 15 message conversion then just read your last one and stop replying.

There is the ones that get me.

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By *esi_maverick OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

"You’re being over sensitive, OP.

If you check website’s FAQ it’s not classed as rude. It simply means “no, thank you”.

Welcome to Fab

Thank you for the warm welcome I will definitely bear that in mind going forward x

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"And if you then feel the need, when someone has said it's not necessary, you could at least get the hair colour right

This may explain your lack of success

I think your right in what you say

I'm always right

Woman after a man’s heart

Yes have to agree "

Definitely not after anyone's heart

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By *esi_maverick OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

Just made the assumption that you ain’t gonna go after me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you find it rude if you send a complementary message and it gets deleted without a response???

Tbh it’s more likely they see your profile name and decide the message before or without reading it. Just sayin

Is my profile name unattractive then ???"

Personally, I feel like your profile name is a bit off putting. Who is the you you're horny for? Me, or her, or all of us? It's a bit general.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you find it rude if you send a complementary message and it gets deleted without a response???

What do you say in your opening message?

You can send us one as an example, if you like.

Please note, we're not looking but willing to offer advice

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"Bloody hell, yes, absolutely!

Do they not know *WHO* I am!! ???

How very dare they.

Their loss and all that!

You’re danberks

Happy to help

*banderks

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Not at all

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By *nked rascalMan
over a year ago

Burton on Trent

Not particularly - you’ve got to look at it the same way as in life - everyone is different, everyone has their own mind of what they’re looking for in message.

Personally, I’m polite and reply to all messages. I can understand why women don’t reply to some because it’s well known that most women have a very full inbox, so replies can be non existent or hot and missy

Just take it with a pinch of salt, and move on I guess

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