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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In a none swinging, childless relationship of less than 5 years how much sex is a reasonable amount to expect?

Me and an ex couldn’t even manage once a week. If we did have more it was always me making the effort and would often not include foreplay or at least not to me and rarely include oral. There was also rarely kissing and other affection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once a year. At a push.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

How long is a piece of string? It varies from couple to couple. What is reasonable is dictated by the couple together

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We have 2 kids, ones still a baby, together 5 years and probably have sex or oral every other day.

Mrs

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Once a year. At a push. "

Birthday or Xmas?

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no normal amount for any relationship. We are all different so making comparisons isn't helpful. We just enjoy each other when we can, life can get in the way sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Once a year. At a push. "

Sarcasm?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How long is a piece of string? It varies from couple to couple. What is reasonable is dictated by the couple together "

Or by the woman in this case ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Birthdays and anniversary and maybe Xmas when you are d*unk (not as a surprise or anything)

Or everyday because you simply look athen and see they are the most sexiest creature your eyes have laid eyes on, all you want to do is sexually please her in the hope she will feel what she makes you feel.

But she’s probably had a long day, so try again tomorrow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once a year. At a push.

Sarcasm? "

Me?? Er no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Birthdays and anniversary and maybe Xmas when you are d*unk (not as a surprise or anything)

Or everyday because you simply look athen and see they are the most sexiest creature your eyes have laid eyes on, all you want to do is sexually please her in the hope she will feel what she makes you feel.

But she’s probably had a long day, so try again tomorrow. "

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

I went through an 8 year dead bedroom that my partner was perfectly happy with.

You can't say what is or isn't right, only that particular couple can

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over

If the sex is crap then there's no point initiating it.

If it was great, you'd both do it more

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"How long is a piece of string? It varies from couple to couple. What is reasonable is dictated by the couple together

Or by the woman in this case ??"

As a couple these things should be discussed together to find if you are compatible or not.

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By *andB 2020Couple
over a year ago

manchester

Sounds like my ex

18 years with her

Sex about 6 times a year and shockingly boring

No matter how much effort i put in

Luckily some other poor guy has to wake up next to her now. Im living my best life with my fiancée whos more mojo than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your expecting it that'll be the problem. Surely it is a feeling to act on when it takes over you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

26yrs, 2 kids...2 or 3 times a week for us usually.

Less often recently as my periods are haywire thanks to the perimenopause.

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By *ooking for SubmissivesMan
over a year ago

Close by

I’m curious have you ever sat down and spoken with her about the lack of sex and affection between you and how it’s making you feel?

It’s entirely possible that she may not realise it’s even a problem? Which I would say is fairly common in a lot of non kink relationships

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m curious have you ever sat down and spoken with her about the lack of sex and affection between you and how it’s making you feel?

It’s entirely possible that she may not realise it’s even a problem? Which I would say is fairly common in a lot of non kink relationships"

Well I know in mine I most certainly did have many Frank and basically pointless conversations on the subject. Turned out she was shagging anything else that moved which is also fairly common in alot of non kink relationships

Bad bitch had the same issue with her ex husband as well.

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