FabSwingers.com forum: Social then meet?

By *atnip make me purr OP Woman
over a year ago

Reading

If things go well on a social is there an expectation that the next time will be a meet? Or do people have a series of socials before they get intimate?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We play it by ear but we often end up meeting socially more than once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d go on a series of socials/ dates with you, OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We play it by ear but we often end up meeting socially more than once. "

This it depends every meet is different

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Also we learned early on to make it clear how we like to proceed and encourage the people we meet to do the same, expectations on both sides are realistic then

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By *eadchefski1970Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Some meets are not even social first, everyone is different and you need be happy and relaxed however you meet

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"If things go well on a social is there an expectation that the next time will be a meet? Or do people have a series of socials before they get intimate?"

If things go well at a social I get intimate during the first meet !

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Each one is tailored to the person I am meeting. With socials first it's easy to walk away if the chemistry is not there.

But on that rare occasion it overwhelms, I am very glad they have a hotel day use app

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By *eaderMan
over a year ago

Shropshire

Every meet is individual. Each meet is special. Some are social others are straight in. The thought of having intimate contact with a complete stranger is a big turn on for some - me included!

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

You could say we have had three different types of meets.

The first being that we have met another couple 3 time's had socials, which have been great fun, flirting, getting to know each other, nothing has happened yet and it's gone a bit quiet now, maybe we have got a bit too friendly with each other.

Second type we have been for a social, had a meal, drinks etc and then the next time we have met we had a few drinks in the hotel and went back to our room, these meets are great.

The third is our favourite type though, we book a hotel go into town a few drinks getting to know each other and if everyone is happy we are back to the hotel same night and if not we still have plenty of fun together.

Everyone we meet plays it differently its about making sure we are all happy at the end of the day and having no regrets afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe. I just go with the flow and vibe with the other person I guess, and I’d hope they’d do the same with me.

3 socials or more? Sure, why not as long as we’re not doing that uncomfortable silence thing every time.

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

luton

For us it’s a social first with no expectations but if we click on the social why waist time , especially after the last two years

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"For us it’s a social first with no expectations but if we click on the social why waist time , especially after the last two years "

This

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"For us it’s a social first with no expectations but if we click on the social why waist time , especially after the last two years "

We don't think of meeting socially as a waste of time though.

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

luton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t ever have expectations but if it felt right, I’d be very happy. Pressuring or forcing something to happen is a no no for me .

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

My favourite is a social with the option to take it further immediately after. Either back to my hotel room or her place

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Always a social first and if the chemistry is right will meet next time in a hotel

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We only have specific expectations if they have been made clear between us in advance. If we've already had sex then we might expect that it would happen again next time (but not because we're entitled to it). Other than that, we just take it as it comes.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I didn’t do the social thing, I met for the sex thing

a nice drink and a natter in between worked just as well for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they expect anything I won't be meeting them. Depends on many variables.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If things go well on a social is there an expectation that the next time will be a meet? Or do people have a series of socials before they get intimate?"

I don't think it's a good idea to have any expectations

Good communication and go with the flow

Missy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Various things at various times there’s nothing at all wrong with several socials before having fun. Have also had my cock sucked in the car after a nice cuppa.

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I’m series of socials kind of girl

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I think it is something you have to play by ear, but I guess it depends on how comfortable you are with each other

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Just one social is enough for me, I know pretty quickly if I want to get intimate with someone or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m series of socials kind of girl

Better like coffee then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like lots and lots of socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go by how it feels.

I've had a social and played on the next meet. I've had a social for an hour and then gone back and played.

Every situation is different

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We always have a social first.It's no more than a chat and a drink but it enables us all to decide if we want to take things further.If we do we arrange another date when we can all get naked!

M and M x

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"I’m series of socials kind of girl

Better like coffee then

My blood type is coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If things go well on a social is there an expectation that the next time will be a meet? Or do people have a series of socials before they get intimate?"

Suppose it’s different for everybody. I wouldn’t mind multiple socials if we really got on !

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

It depends really. I do quite like socials but without any expectation because it's always nice (yeah, boring word there) to talk openly with another... person who uses the site. And then see what happens. I've done everything from no social, lots of socials before sex, socials with potential for more same day/night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind altho generally speaking if we click they tend to end the first meet with a snog a blowie and a bit of a finger sesh maybe a fuck in the car or a bush somewhere anyway so the real fuck meet is almost a given but it does dunno why but lasses used to like breaking there rules for me

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I dont mind altho generally speaking if we click they tend to end the first meet with a snog a blowie and a bit of a finger sesh maybe a fuck in the car or a bush somewhere anyway so the real fuck meet is almost a given but it does dunno why but lasses used to like breaking there rules for me

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Sometimes I can't tell if you're joking or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Sometimes I can't tell if you're joking or not.

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im talking old me iv only had 1 social in the last 2 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m series of socials kind of girl

Better like coffee then

My blood type is coffee

Will charge me Costa card up then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends, social first fir safety as well as see if there I chemistry BUT saying that there's nothing better than meeting and just getting it on straight away. Each meet is different so play it by ear.

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