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"I wonder why so many threads, especially from prolific thread posters, ask questions and more importantly opinions on sensitive topics but seldom give their own opinion on the matter from the start or even later. It does sometimes feel like mischief. Just saying ." Yeah true , why do you think that is ?  | |||
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"The word you looking for is flameing Or flame post It’s basically poring petrol on something settings a match and walking off and come back Later to see the destination I see some ever now and then "  | |||
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People have agendas op, it’s not always always easy to spot. | |||
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"The word you looking for is flameing Or flame post It’s basically poring petrol on something settings a match and walking off and come back Later to see the destination I see some ever now and then " I must admit to having been guilty of that in the past, on my old profile back before I UNLOSed. I think once I posted something like “Is there a God?” turned off my phone and went and boarded a flight to California | |||
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"The ones that get me are those where the OP never follows up with additional posts "Pulls the pin, chucks the hand grenade into the room and runs. Happens a lot. Then there's the people that post on 90% of posts but never one where they'd have to give a serious, personal opinion that may offend or upset others. There's a fair few of those too. A | |||
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"The ones that get me are those where the OP never follows up with additional posts
Pulls the pin, chucks the hand grenade into the room and runs.
Happens a lot.
Then there's the people that post on 90% of posts but never one where they'd have to give a serious, personal opinion that may offend or upset others.
There's a fair few of those too.
A"Yeah but that I understand. It’s a fuck site (oh YES it is!!  ) so why risk antagonising potential sex partners?
There’s plenty of non-casual sex seeking websites out there if you want a meaty argument / debate! | |||
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"The word you looking for is flameing Or flame post It’s basically poring petrol on something settings a match and walking off and come back Later to see the destination I see some ever now and then I must admit to having been guilty of that in the past, on my old profile back before I UNLOSed. I think once I posted something like “Is there a God?” turned off my phone and went and boarded a flight to California "You probably have everyone searching for that thread now  | |||
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"The word you looking for is flameing Or flame post It’s basically poring petrol on something settings a match and walking off and come back Later to see the destination I see some ever now and then I must admit to having been guilty of that in the past, on my old profile back before I UNLOSed. I think once I posted something like “Is there a God?” turned off my phone and went and boarded a flight to California
You probably have everyone searching for that thread now "I did too! it’s still there! The top one of about 4 when you search that title!   | |||
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"The ones that get me are those where the OP never follows up with additional posts
Pulls the pin, chucks the hand grenade into the room and runs.
Happens a lot.
Then there's the people that post on 90% of posts but never one where they'd have to give a serious, personal opinion that may offend or upset others.
There's a fair few of those too.
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Yeah but that I understand. It’s a fuck site (oh YES it is!! ) so why risk antagonising potential sex partners?
There’s plenty of non-casual sex seeking websites out there if you want a meaty argument / debate!"Because less than 1% of the site use the forums. 99% will never see, let alone give a fuck, what anyone types in here. If you can't stand by an opinion on here and express yourself in a way that doesn't cause personal offence then what hope do you have of engaging in a constructive manner via message, let alone face to face, given the common claim of so many that they won't meet without a social! Have some courage of your convictions and stick up for what you believe. I might not agree with everyone on everything but I have a lot more respect for people that express a personal viewpoint well and are willing to stick their heads above the parapet. It also shows cognitive ability rather than towing the party line and trying to fit in. As you say, it's a fuck site. But would you rather fuck an arse kissing suck up or someone with some character about them? A | |||
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"The ones that get me are those where the OP never follows up with additional posts
Pulls the pin, chucks the hand grenade into the room and runs.
Happens a lot.
Then there's the people that post on 90% of posts but never one where they'd have to give a serious, personal opinion that may offend or upset others.
There's a fair few of those too.
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Yeah but that I understand. It’s a fuck site (oh YES it is!! ) so why risk antagonising potential sex partners?
There’s plenty of non-casual sex seeking websites out there if you want a meaty argument / debate!
Because less than 1% of the site use the forums.
99% will never see, let alone give a fuck, what anyone types in here.
If you can't stand by an opinion on here and express yourself in a way that doesn't cause personal offence then what hope do you have of engaging in a constructive manner via message, let alone face to face, given the common claim of so many that they won't meet without a social!
Have some courage of your convictions and stick up for what you believe.
I might not agree with everyone on everything but I have a lot more respect for people that express a personal viewpoint well and are willing to stick their heads above the parapet. It also shows cognitive ability rather than towing the party line and trying to fit in.
As you say, it's a fuck site. But would you rather fuck an arse kissing suck up or someone with some character about them?
A "I’d rather fuck the one with the nicest tits
(tee hee, I actually agree with you btw, but do understand why some prefer to hold back) | |||
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"The ones that get me are those where the OP never follows up with additional posts
Pulls the pin, chucks the hand grenade into the room and runs.
Happens a lot.
Then there's the people that post on 90% of posts but never one where they'd have to give a serious, personal opinion that may offend or upset others.
There's a fair few of those too.
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Yeah but that I understand. It’s a fuck site (oh YES it is!! ) so why risk antagonising potential sex partners?
There’s plenty of non-casual sex seeking websites out there if you want a meaty argument / debate!
Because less than 1% of the site use the forums.
99% will never see, let alone give a fuck, what anyone types in here.
If you can't stand by an opinion on here and express yourself in a way that doesn't cause personal offence then what hope do you have of engaging in a constructive manner via message, let alone face to face, given the common claim of so many that they won't meet without a social!
Have some courage of your convictions and stick up for what you believe.
I might not agree with everyone on everything but I have a lot more respect for people that express a personal viewpoint well and are willing to stick their heads above the parapet. It also shows cognitive ability rather than towing the party line and trying to fit in.
As you say, it's a fuck site. But would you rather fuck an arse kissing suck up or someone with some character about them?
A "I agree with all of this ^^^^ It’s often asked by men on how to stand out on fab as they aren’t getting any meets. The best and only way is to be you and the best version of you that you can. Yes you might turn some people away from you but the ones that are attracted to you will be even more attracted. If you are bland in your opinions or never share them no one will ever get to know you and therefore less likely to meet, even for a social | |||
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"The ones that get me are those where the OP never follows up with additional posts
Pulls the pin, chucks the hand grenade into the room and runs.
Happens a lot.
Then there's the people that post on 90% of posts but never one where they'd have to give a serious, personal opinion that may offend or upset others.
There's a fair few of those too.
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Yeah but that I understand. It’s a fuck site (oh YES it is!! ) so why risk antagonising potential sex partners?
There’s plenty of non-casual sex seeking websites out there if you want a meaty argument / debate!
Because less than 1% of the site use the forums.
99% will never see, let alone give a fuck, what anyone types in here.
If you can't stand by an opinion on here and express yourself in a way that doesn't cause personal offence then what hope do you have of engaging in a constructive manner via message, let alone face to face, given the common claim of so many that they won't meet without a social!
Have some courage of your convictions and stick up for what you believe.
I might not agree with everyone on everything but I have a lot more respect for people that express a personal viewpoint well and are willing to stick their heads above the parapet. It also shows cognitive ability rather than towing the party line and trying to fit in.
As you say, it's a fuck site. But would you rather fuck an arse kissing suck up or someone with some character about them?
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I’d rather fuck the one with the nicest tits
(tee hee, I actually agree with you btw, but do understand why some prefer to hold back)"I get it too. I was probably just as guilty of it when I had a single profile. Obviously us married types have the advantage of someone at home who knows us well enough, how much of an argumentative, stubborn twat we can be....and still wants to fuck us/give us a gobby wank every now and then. The singletons have to maintain a more impartial stance of course. Can't miss out on those wazza tits. 
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"Then there's the people that post on 90% of posts but never one where they'd have to give a serious, personal opinion that may offend or upset others. ... Because less than 1% of the site use the forums. 99% will never see, let alone give a fuck, what anyone types in here. If you can't stand by an opinion on here and express yourself in a way that doesn't cause personal offence then what hope do you have of engaging in a constructive manner via message, let alone face to face, given the common claim of so many that they won't meet without a social! Have some courage of your convictions and stick up for what you believe. I might not agree with everyone on everything but I have a lot more respect for people that express a personal viewpoint well and are willing to stick their heads above the parapet. It also shows cognitive ability rather than towing the party line and trying to fit in. As you say, it's a fuck site. But would you rather fuck an arse kissing suck up or someone with some character about them? A " But it's not just about how you're viewed by potential fucks, it's also about not wanting to court grief and vitriol from those waiting in the wings to give you just that. I really don't give two fucks if a potential fuck is put off by my waffling and views on certain subjects. We're not compatible. It's about wanting to spend your energy on daft nonsense because it's lighthearted escapism and considering it's a "fuck" site, spend your time on silly threads where you can just waste a few minutes before chatting to those who want to fuck you/you them. I used to be far more outspoken in threads but I softened/realised it was pointless over the years. Plus - the debate like threads currently end up being overrun by fallacies and the Very Angry But Also Very Right About Everything and really? It's a yawn exercise. Discussion threads are few and far between right now, still on a hangover from lockdown days. I'd much rather people didn't try and have an opposing view simply for the sake of having one though (yeah, that's an aside). | |||
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"The word you looking for is flameing Or flame post It’s basically poring petrol on something settings a match and walking off and come back Later to see the destination I see some ever now and then I must admit to having been guilty of that in the past, on my old profile back before I UNLOSed. I think once I posted something like “Is there a God?” turned off my phone and went and boarded a flight to California "Ouch | |||
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"Then there's the people that post on 90% of posts but never one where they'd have to give a serious, personal opinion that may offend or upset others. ... Because less than 1% of the site use the forums. 99% will never see, let alone give a fuck, what anyone types in here. If you can't stand by an opinion on here and express yourself in a way that doesn't cause personal offence then what hope do you have of engaging in a constructive manner via message, let alone face to face, given the common claim of so many that they won't meet without a social! Have some courage of your convictions and stick up for what you believe. I might not agree with everyone on everything but I have a lot more respect for people that express a personal viewpoint well and are willing to stick their heads above the parapet. It also shows cognitive ability rather than towing the party line and trying to fit in. As you say, it's a fuck site. But would you rather fuck an arse kissing suck up or someone with some character about them? A But it's not just about how you're viewed by potential fucks, it's also about not wanting to court grief and vitriol from those waiting in the wings to give you just that. I really don't give two fucks if a potential fuck is put off by my waffling and views on certain subjects. We're not compatible. " I understand your view but find it sad that anyone should have to worry about the views of people 'waiting in the wings'. People will always have differing views. If people can't understand that and feel the need to take it offline, into PM's or even F2F at events then they need to give their heads a serious fucking wobble. Nobody should have to fear backlash from total strangers on the internet. I get that the light hearted threads are escapism and fun. Nothing wrong with that. But there's nothing wrong with a serious debate either. Both can be as enjoyable and also valuable in learning about others. A | |||
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