FabSwingers.com forum: Do you prefer......

By *he love cats OP Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

A social first

Straight down to business?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to actually like the person first and meet for a coffee/drinks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer to actually like the person first and meet for a coffee/drinks. "
agreed but not always possible

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social first

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

We prefer a social first, although history shows otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually straight down to business and chat after

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer to actually like the person first and meet for a coffee/drinks. agreed but not always possible "

Why not??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social first although I did break my own rule once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer to actually like the person first and meet for a coffee/drinks. agreed but not always possible

Why not??"

Distance usually

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By *ecret-64Couple
over a year ago

Wrexham

A SEXY social. Dressed sexy, a small amount of touching, kissing and of course some very naughty chat. X

Obviously depending on if you like what you see on arrival. X

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Social always. No exceptions. Ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer to actually like the person first and meet for a coffee/drinks. agreed but not always possible

Why not??

Distance usually "

Oh yeah the classic, distance

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By *inkycatWoman
over a year ago

High Wycombe

Social, always - no exceptions. And that was the same while my partner was alive too, we never played without a social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to go through a few PowerPoints , check we’re on the same slide..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Straight down to business, give me that coffee

LvM

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By *leecouple101Couple
over a year ago

North East Lincolnshire

Social first although club meets can dictate otherwise x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer to actually like the person first and meet for a coffee/drinks. agreed but not always possible

Why not??

Distance usually

Oh yeah the classic, distance

If I or they travel we do meet and it’s no problem if I or they don’t want to play etc

We would have all sent pics and spoken before meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know as I have never had either

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By *ugehandsMan
over a year ago

Fife/ Newcastle

I prefer a social first, it's an opportunity to meet the real people behind the messages.. Sadly sometimes they don't seem match their profile or thier pictures

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Definitely a social ,We like to get to know a couple as we find it a lot more enjoyable .It can be quite awkward if we meet in a hotel or a house with the aim of having fun and for whatever reason we decide their not for us .

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

I prefer to have a social meet first primarily to ensure there is compatability bearing in mind my advanced age.

There has been the odd exception though.

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By *ottoncandy42Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Social first, to make sure they look like their photos and have a personality xx

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Always a social but this may start in a bar and finish up in a bed

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By *he love cats OP Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

"Don't know as I have never had either "

Well if you are ever down in Cardiff we will meet you for a social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't know as I have never had either

Well if you are ever down in Cardiff we will meet you for a social

Don't say things like that

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By *he love cats OP Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

"Don't know as I have never had either

Well if you are ever down in Cardiff we will meet you for a social

Don't say things like that "

Does that worry you.?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a social in a public place first,that way if we don't click it's easier to walk away than if you're in someones home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just go with the flow, I'm happy to social first if the lady wants one, not an issue.

I have done spontaneous meets and have all been good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually get straight to business but depends who it is.

I do like a social occasionally though..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A social first if I’m going to be stood up (again) I’d rather not be home alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social every time, there is no pressure on either party then. However if things are going well I’d be happy to progress to the bedroom

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

I am easy on either although it can be great fun if you click with someone before a meet and just enjoy chatting with someone.

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago

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Social please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn’t say as in 5 years haven’t managed either

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Always a social first

If that leads to Rumpy Pumpy after 5 mins then so be it....

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By *D of funCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Always a social

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Social of some description first.

Even if we're in a club we want to chat for a while to get a bit of connection makes for much better fun

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

Social first always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Social first always "

Well would love to arrange something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social im not as good looking in the flesh so at least I get to have cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends on both people's timings. If there is only one time yous can meet and it's unlikely times are going to match up again , you're aswell just going straight in haha

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By *cotty1376Man
over a year ago

PRESTON

Would have to be a social 1st for me

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By *cotty1376Man
over a year ago

PRESTON

"Always a social first

If that leads to Rumpy Pumpy after 5 mins then so be it....

^^^^ this

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I can't see us ever having sex with somebody we haven't socialised with first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speaking theoretically, I’d prefer to have some kind of social/pre-meet. Even if it’s just an online chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean I think some way to break the ice should be there before getting down to business

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

Depends how much time we have chatted online beforehand, ive done both and enjoyed both so can’t say I have a preference, it’s just different with different people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the gender

Woman and couples

Socials first but not apposed to skiping it if they want

Guys

Just skip all that just come bang me for a couple off hours

Leave me with a messy face

Zip up and leave

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton

As I meet in clubs this combines the two with no expectations to play if the chemistry isn’t there.

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Social first, all about personality for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends I guess sometimes distance is factor but have face time chats

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

I prefer social for few years and then decide.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

I chat by text, then have a quick cam chat, then a social then shaggy waggy times

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By *lim and louiseCouple
over a year ago

dromore

We've found a social first just adds to the build up for when we meet again for sex ,always a good turn on listening to one half a phone conversation afterwards ,what the guy is going to do etc

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

"I prefer social for few years and then decide."

Exactly this

On a serious note, the meet is planned and should start as social at least and see how it goes. Anyway if later you discover a lady has matching bra and panties it’s not you who decided it’d go further that evening

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By *angtidy42Couple
over a year ago

Redditch

We like a social first, to make sure all are happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't know as I have never had either

Well if you are ever down in Cardiff we will meet you for a social

Don't say things like that

Does that worry you.?"

No. They will all think your mad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A social first

Straight down to business?"

Always a social so I can count up their lies! Usually starting with their height

Missy x

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Always a social ,both on this profile and when I meet with my partner .

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"I usually get straight to business but depends who it is.

I do like a social occasionally though.."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always a social but this may start in a bar and finish up in a bed

Same as this. Always keep an open mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always a social but this may start in a bar and finish up in a bed

Same as this. Always keep an open mind

And manage ones expectations!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Social only

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

Social first but if all goes well not averse to playing on the first meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social! I like to build that connection, stir the sexual chemistry. Im not into open the door get down to it 'empty sex' meet

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

It depends on a lot of things. How much we've chatted before. If we seem to click from chat I might go straight for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social!! I am even happy with social only meet as I like talking with people.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Socials are great,but it depends upon at what length and depth the communication has been at.on and off the site.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Social first... I like to get to know people.

Unless it's a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just here for the free food.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

We never have any expectations, therefore, it’s always a social.

I just lock the door and don’t let them out until I’ve had my wicked way

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Social first. I wouldn't feel safe or comfortable otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dive in head first. We haven’t go time for socials.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

"We never have any expectations, therefore, it’s always a social.

I just lock the door and don’t let them out until I’ve had my wicked way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mind changes on this if its a no social it needs to be spontaneous altho tbh all but a handful of socials i ever had ended in some kind of sexual activity during or after

I do enjoy seducing women and watching them break there rules for me altho fuck its been a long time since i gave an interview

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a social sipping coffee sat on a bed naked.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I read that as a “social fist”, too much internet for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social first please. Even in a club i like a natter before any sexual activity.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Social for the connection.

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