FabSwingers.com forum: Affairs

By *ungiver76 OP Man
over a year ago

chatham

What’s everyone’s opinions on this please ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s everyone’s opinions on this please ? "

Current affairs?

World affairs?

Geopolitical affairs?

The state of affairs?

Elaborate please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re talking extra-marital affairs (as I guess you are), then as don’t know the reasons or journey the individuals have been through to decide to have an affair or the completeness and happiness of their relationship on the non-sexual side otherwise etc etc, then it’s impossible to form one generic view I think.

Others will jump to a definitive conclusion: everyone who has one is a c*nt.

What I will say is take what a lot of people say on here with a very large pinch of salt, as what they say in public on Fab can be very different to how they behave in private

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s everyone’s opinions on this please ? "

What’s your opinion op?

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"What I will say is take what a lot of people say on here with a very large pinch of salt, as what they say in public on Fab can be very different to how they behave in private

Thats clique bait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you’re talking extra-marital affairs (as I guess you are), then as don’t know the reasons or journey the individuals have been through to decide to have an affair or the completeness and happiness of their relationship on the non-sexual side otherwise etc etc, then it’s impossible to form one generic view I think.

Others will jump to a definitive conclusion: everyone who has one is a c*nt.

What I will say is take what a lot of people say on here with a very large pinch of salt, as what they say in public on Fab can be very different to how they behave in private

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would my opinion matter it’s their choice and I’m my exp most have a reason why they cheat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why would my opinion matter it’s their choice and I’m my exp most have a reason why they cheat "

The irony is strong so early this morning

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk

Try keep them behind closed doors

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like afair i like to play the duck hooking game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That it's none of my business

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

My opinion is don't do it unless there's no other way and if you do, keep it quiet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't judge but anything that has an element of deceit invariably ends badly, for everyone involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last three women I have been with were married. I know one had told her husband and he knew about me and it was officially open. The other two said they were in open marriages, but honestly I have no way of knowing if that’s true. And one from a few years before that was definitely cheating but made sure I knew it was just sex and that she was otherwise happy with him.

So given that I can’t always know the details on the other end, my view is that whatever happens is staying discretely between us, and if she wants to have fun with me, that’s something we share privately. I’m not going to go and cause her trouble, and I’ll enjoy it for what it is until a time comes where other conversations need to happen if anything changes. But I’d never disrupt her home life as I know I’m the other man, and I’m not going to try to change the rules of how we got playing by changing that.

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By *tarflyLouWoman
over a year ago

Preston

My view is that these things are rarely as black and white as some people seem to think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My view is that these things are rarely as black and white as some people seem to think "

Thus is true

Don’t jump to conclusions

I don’t judge

Never will

Each to there own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is a very judgemental place.

We don't know other peoples stories. Lets keep it simple and have fun

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I judged the hell out of my friends ex partner who had an affair and left her just after her mum died because she was too sad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own

It’s their conscious- not ours to judge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s everyone’s opinions on this please ? "

We decided to have extra-marital sex together to remove the interest. I guess lots of us on here did that too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab is a very judgemental place.

We don't know other peoples stories. Lets keep it simple and have fun

This. And these same people wouldn’t want to be judged by others for being members of a swinging community lol .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s everyone’s opinions on this please ? "

Affairs aren't Swinging.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

An affair is usually with someone you care about, in my opinion. There’s feelings, romance and intimacy.

Being on here isn’t quite the same. I don’t judge and I have met many attached guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab is a very judgemental place.

We don't know other peoples stories. Lets keep it simple and have fun

This. And these same people wouldn’t want to be judged by others for being members of a swinging community lol ."

Fun,fun, despair.

Everything has a price!

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

"An affair is usually with someone you care about, in my opinion. There’s feelings, romance and intimacy.

Being on here isn’t quite the same. I don’t judge and I have met many attached guys. "

Not always, sometimes it’s just uncomplicated sex.

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