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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is it with them ?!? Arrange a meet don't turn up arrange another meet messages an hour before to say they can't make it ....... Why ?!?!!

Asking for a friend

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

I wouldn't have agreed to the 2nd chance, you clearly are too nice!

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

Maybe their wife didn’t go out as planned

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn't have agreed to the 2nd chance, you clearly are too nice! "

I didn't but my friend sadly did

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

All manner of possible reasons.

Fantasist who just like a chat.

Not really single and OH changed their plans so no longer free.

Had a wank instead.

Got a better offer.

The list is endless and unfortunately you'll never know.

No idea how much planning went into the meet so can't comment on that but the more groundwork you do in advance then often the likelihood of being stood up diminishes.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't have agreed to the 2nd chance, you clearly are too nice!

I didn't but my friend sadly did "

Did this guy turn down a MFF?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First rule of fab - If they let you down once, they will again.

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton

For me personally this is why I meet in clubs I got tired of it.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"What is it with them ?!? Arrange a meet don't turn up arrange another meet messages an hour before to say they can't make it ....... Why ?!?!!

Asking for a friend "

--Why are you asking us? It's clearly a question for them!

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By *yourselfMan
over a year ago

Heworth

Yeah I've had that, cancelled on me just as I was heading out the door.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had this, but then by the time I arrange to meet someone I already know them pretty well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with them ?!? Arrange a meet don't turn up arrange another meet messages an hour before to say they can't make it ....... Why ?!?!!

Asking for a friend "

Same happened to me recently. I'm not as forgiving as baseball....

Coincidentally he messaged me yesterday

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Yeah I've had that, cancelled on me just as I was heading out the door. "

It can't not happen after a while. It's the law of averages. That and the multiplicity of things that can go wrong in this area! It's all about building those reliable contacts - or even unreliable ones, that you at least understand when they say sorry they can't make it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn't have agreed to the 2nd chance, you clearly are too nice!

I didn't but my friend sadly did

Did this guy turn down a MFF?"

Haha no just a mf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fickle world of fab

You can be flavour of the second, then a new treat walks in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry you’ve been let down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't have agreed to the 2nd chance, you clearly are too nice!

I didn't but my friend sadly did "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't have agreed to the 2nd chance, you clearly are too nice!

I didn't but my friend sadly did

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I’m laughing with you, not at you. *I mean your friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All manner of possible reasons.

Fantasist who just like a chat.

Not really single and OH changed their plans so no longer free.

Had a wank instead.

Got a better offer.

The list is endless and unfortunately you'll never know.

No idea how much planning went into the meet so can't comment on that but the more groundwork you do in advance then often the likelihood of being stood up diminishes.

A"

agree with this ....thing is most are very easy to spot early on and they hit the block list ...really cant rember the last time we got let down not the last 3 or 4 years .....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn't have agreed to the 2nd chance, you clearly are too nice!

I didn't but my friend sadly did

I’m laughing with you, not at you. *I mean your friend "

It really was my friend

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

It happens... It's really annoying, but what can you do?! I've had it happen with people I know well... Even more of a let down!

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